It Doesn’t Matter If She Orgasms Or Not

I used to try to last as long as possible in bed. I wanted to make sure the girl got hers before I got mine, and the reason I did that was because I thought she would be attracted to me more and want to see me again.

My former brand of condom made it very hard for me to ejaculate. I’d be pumping away for more than twenty minutes until she just got tired and then I would lay in bed with a heavy set of balls. Sometimes she’d finish me off with her mouth but sometimes not, and I remember times I had to go home and jerk off after having sex. It was humiliating.

Eventually I found out about thin condoms and blasting was no longer a problem, but I had to think of baseball or organic chemistry so I could at least hit the respectable 12 minute mark. I knew how to hold my orgasm by squeezing my pelvic muscles and would do that if I thought I didn’t go long enough, even though it would eventually result in a pitiful orgasm.

Gradually I just stopped caring, and soon everything I did in bed was for my pleasure only. The only reason I’d delay orgasm is to make mine better, and I pretended I don’t hear her the first time she told me to drill slower or not to go so deep. I did whatever I wanted because I came to value my orgasm as sacred, and her pleasure as second to mine.

Do you want to guess what happened?

Nothing. Nothing happened. Girls didn’t want to fuck me more, they didn’t want to fuck me less. Not caring about their sexual pleasure had no effect on repeat calls and repeat sex.

For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process. As long as she gets into it and can say, “I’m getting fucked good and this feels great,” then you’ve done your job. Sure if you make her orgasm on demand you’ll definitely hear from her again, but it’s not necessary and just too complicated to worry about. Keep in mind some girls barely know how to make themselves orgasm!

Every now and then I get a feeling that I gave a girl an orgasm, but I can never be sure because I don’t ask.

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I’ve noticed that I cum quickly when I fuck ugly Chicks 5-6 and can hold of a good 10-20 minutes longer when I’m I to the chick. I’m beginning to wonder if my dick has a mind of its own. With the ugly girl he’s trying to get this shit over and done with, but with the attractive girl that’s fun to be around and good in bed he wants it to last much longer.

That said, what was your former brand of condoms? Can’t always fuck 7-9s right.

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And you must be a less than 4… ahahaha! Disgustingly hairy and flabby like most American males, right?

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You will probably never read this reply, but in case someone else comes by, then they should see this.

Let’s assume you are correct. That he is less than a 4. That he is “disgustingly hairy and flabby” and on top of that, he isn’t even unique, he is a bland and ordinary “like most American males”.

Well, then obviously his looks don’t get him laid, but his personality alone does it.

I don’t know about you, but I would have a lot more respect for that kind of man than the kind who gets it on looks or money.

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Lol get his ass hahahahahaha I was about to comment on his ad hominem but u got him first lol

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I fully agree with you about not lasting with ugly chicks! It is an odd situation and probably makes the ugly duckling think she’s more attractive, perhaps as attractive as her mis-leading selfies on OKCupid!

Also- take note of SUPRA you can always fuck 7+ bitches. I fuck the occasional 5 because I’m drunk or the 5 offers it on a plate. But if Im approaching, it’s 7 and up only

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I think this is something every guy (read: non-beta) learns eventually. I feel this idea of putting your own pleasure ahead of others can be extrapolated to many other facets of life as well. You’ll find yourself the most successful and happy, by whatever standards you set, when you put your pleasure above others people’s.

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Condoms usually make me go limp…but if the girl has a beautiful body and smells good AND has a SEXY MOAn..I can probably pull up a nut or two with a condom. If not, I have to cheat and pull the condom down a little so I can trick myself into thinking I’m going raw, then when my balls tense up and I feel the rumble of a nut coming on, I pull the condom off and glaze her.

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I bet she really appreciates that

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“Every now and then I get a feeling that I gave a girl an orgasm…”

If you don’t know, she didn’t. It always shocks me when guys ask. Dude, you would know. Not that this concerns you, but…

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I’ve found that getting her almost there and not letting her get it has a powerful effect on the female phyche that can best be described as a mix of confusion, anger, and love. I’d highly recommend it because of its entertainment value.

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Totally agree. If a girl can’t sort herself out then she’s got some issues. If she wants to bring herself off she can pin me down and ride me like a pony all the way to alabama if shes wants – otherwise she’s getting done my way grin

SUPRA luca
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…most women don’t cum with intercourse alone.

anne_sprinkler
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it’s not like they care.

Jill Kirkwood
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Wow, well done. That’s the most intelligent comment on this entire site.

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I don’t believe that

virgle kent
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what happens if you pass out on top of her because the room starts spinning? So you don’t remember if she got one or not…. wait what?

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VK, that “wait what?” thing gets funnier every time you do it. You should consider ending every sentence you mean to be funny that way, so we know we’re supposed to laugh.

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If I want to keep her in my orbit I will shoot for the orgasm. It ain’t that hard to tell if she’s had one.

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If you can’t tell if she’s had an orgasm, you’re obviously not very talented, and I doubt you’re able to give a woman one anyway!

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one guaranteed way to tell if she came… her love juice shoots out 3 feet!

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Virgle, your problem is, you need to stop having sex in the back of a van.

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So Roosh – what’s the fabulous brand of condoms you’re using now? I must give them a try…

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I doubt that not asking if a woman orgasms is a fantastic move.

Many chicks aren’t as concerned about orgasms as their partners, as you said, but if you ask, it’s a little thing that usually impresses girls. I know that when a guy asks me if I have, it makes me feel a lot of attraction towards him… just the idea that he is thinking about me and wants to sexually satisfy me makes me feel very warm and receptive to him.

If not, yeah, I might call back, it depends. But the odds are in your favor if you act like you care (even if you don’t).

And you will meet girls who don’t enjoy sex unless they orgasm…but 9 times out of 10 she won’t tell you about it, so there’s no way of knowing. If you don’t ask, she’s not going to come out and say it — most of us don’t want to embarrass you or make things awkward.

Sex that makes me come running back for more is about wanting to please each other, in addition to yourself — I’ll be more likely to try out something kinky that I might not enjoy so much if a guy is genuinely interested in hitting all the right buttons instead of getting off and rolling over.

I’m not trying to call anyone out, but it’s just something to think about… something that a girl might not tell you in person.

Lizzie Darting
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I just want to reply to this….. I’ve been engaged to a guy for six months…. and sex use to be great…. He would ALWAYS make me cum…. but now he just never does…. Sometimes I wonder if he even thinks I’m sexually attractive anymore or if he even cares about making me cum….. It’s very stressful really because everytime he goes to bed, I sneak to the bathroom and watch porn just to cum…..A lot of the times, I’ll finish him off, and he’ll get tired and tell me he’ll do it “tomorrow” but when tomorrow comes, he never does…… Women are just slaves. It’s all about the man. It’s all it’s ever been. All it ever will be. They don’t care about our sexual pleasure. I mean, why should they? Not like we’re important…. we’re just sex toys and reproducers. Unless youre me, and can’t even have kids. I’m literally a sad excuse for a woman. So, yeah, all I’m good for is sex…

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Don’t feel that way….you can use a sex toy right in front of him……dont hide in the bathroom to orgasm…. and women need to stop letting men fool them to suck them off….have men do oral sex on you….before iintercourse….bottom line…..

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And men might not know when a woman orgasm the vagina will become even more tightened and make him orgasm like never before….

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Thumbs up to yall men that know pussy chemistry…you will always keep a woman…and she will always treat you like a KING… and cater to you…thats for damn sure!

Sauron666
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It’s true, you can feel it clench a few times. Similar to how a cock does it but different of course

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The best condoms from I hear and read are Japanese condoms. I heard that the Okamoto Crowns are the closest you can get to having nothing on without having nothing on. I recently ordered a box, so I can’t wait to try for myself.

As for the topic at hand, I absolutely love giving women orgasms. Why wouldn’t I? I get off hearing them scream, hyperventilate, claw and the feeling of their wet vagina’s squeezing tight around your rod as they climax. What’s not to love? I’d give her 10 orgasms an hour if I could. I can only imagine what a female orgasm feels like because I know I don’t do any of that crazy stuff when it’s my moment to pop.

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For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process.

After reading this sentence and the rest of the paragraph, I somehow became light-headed and was unable to think. Curse women and their useless sex drive. As far as I’m concerned, the process is a pointless waste of energy and time, and the orgasm should be everything.

Another win for jerking-off…

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I had to think of baseball or organic chemistry so I could at least hit the respectable 12 minute mark

Hey, it’s better than thinking about your grandmother naked or something.

Young Adventures
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Right on. I used to worry that I wasn’t giving girls orgasms, but as I’ve hooked up with a few girls since then that get themselves off just riding dick I’ve realized

a) i’m going to make sure I get myself off, you can too
b) it’s hard to tell, and i sure don’t care enough to ask
c) it doesn’t matter anyway

gotta look into the condom thing

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Thanks for the condom suggestions Roosh and skadanks. Has anyone tried the Crown Skinless Skin condoms? They sound like good times from condomdepot’s site, though some said they were slightly snug. Since I am big like a pringles can, I might have to go with Roosh’s XL condom suggestion. Hmmmmmm….

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Big like a pringle can? I WOULDN’T. BE FUCKING YOU! I AIN’T TEARING UP MY INSIDES! it’s one thing to have a big dick but pringle can… bitch must not have no walls to want to fuck you! Thats just how it goes

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(re: the last comment)– why not just use a Pringles can? wait what

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Peter: Hey, it’s better than thinking about your grandmother naked or something.

Yeah… she probably has a glorious natural pelt.

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re: re: Can you guys tell me why it’s so hard to just be friends? (ori — Wed Jul 26 — (dumsy)
email: [email protected]

You said only 3 out of 10 women cum when having sex. You forgot to mention 0 out of 10 men give a shit.

SUPRA luca
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That is true, most men don’t care about female pleasure and actually hope their moms got pregnant by a rapist.

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All of us are rapists

mother nature is a rapist

SUPRA luca
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Nah, I’m actually not a rapist, and proud of it!
Now most of you guys, yeah, I wouldn’t be surprised…

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I think this is very true (girls having orgasms and all), especially with “common every day 9 to 5 girl”.

Real sexually liberated girls, and girls with big mouths (so to speak) you better regulate.

– MPM

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Making sure she’s getting off only matters in long term relationships (like being married) because you live and hear about that shit.

And…

Chloe, I care. Let’s do it.

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“But now I’m a Trustex man. Extra Large. I buy it off http://www.condomdepot.com in packs of 100, a two month supply.”

Wow. Someone sounds beta.

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I hate condoms. She hates condoms. Luckily you can tell if a girl is clean by her zodiac sign.

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wow- these poor girls you speak of must be desperate. coming from a woman, seriously, hang it up bro.

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z.g.
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Orgasms are in the woman’s head.

and we know what a mess that is.

Possibly, barring your passion for cumming in seven seconds, everything else you do for your pleasure, she will like too, even if it is just due to you showing dominance.

Some idiots disguised as females take a man trying to please them as a sign of weakness, that is another issue.

SUPRA luca
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No, it is really in the body. The whole body. But of course you would never know and never experienced woman reaching orgasm next to you.

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yes, you right though! the most you care only about yourself, the better I feel

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“Orgasms are in the woman’s head.”

my clitoris might beg to differ.

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1. I believe there is nothing wrong with asking whether she came. It shows that you want her to feel the pleasure you did, plus it’s a great confidence booster if she says “Yes, I did”. It is not a big deal if she says “No, I did not” either; most girls can still experience great sex without having an orgasm and besides, the female orgasm is much more psychologically driven than the male orgasm.

2. It’s really a wonderful thing if you’ve got her heels over your shoulders, hitting the good old G-Spot and she actually starts crying in orgasm. There was no pain involved, I made very sure of that, she was just completely overwhelmed by emotion/pleasure.

3. I have always been called a very considerate lover. I try to stay in tune with her and “listen” to what her body says it wants me to do; this always makes for great sex and the rewards are plentiful. As a last thought, if she gets involuntary muscle spasms and if her nipples go soft right afterwards the chances are very good that she came; very difficult for a woman to fake that.

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Really? Do you guys really believe that all that matters to us women is “the journey”? Haha, fuck no. I want to get off just as bad as men do.

Those girls saying that “it’s the journey that matters” have probably never had an orgasm and just gave up without even trying.

It’s not hard at all to get a girl off, jesus christ. JUST ASK HER. If she isn’t retarded or doesn’t have a nonexistent libido, she will most likely know how to get an orgasm.

I know exactly how to get pleasure from my body, and I make sure that my man does too. Oh, and if he doesn’t give a crap about me in bed? Dumpsville it is.

Interesting how some women actually put up with this “alpha male” crap I see everywhere. Way to fool men into thinking being a jerk is cool and manly.

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“Way to fool men into thinking being a jerk is cool and manly.”

When the guy is getting laid regularly, how is that being fooled?
Again, many MANY women say one thing and do the opposite.

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You say “Many,” I say “all”

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You say potato, I say poe-tah-toe, potato, poe-tah-toe, tomato, toe-mah-toe, let’s call the whole thing off!

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I guess if what makes you believe a guy is cool and manly is by how many women will sleep with him and then move on because he is terrible at it, then yeah, I guess your man Roosh is extraordinarily manly. And then when the women leave him, he can blame it on their foul female nature! What a pile of bologna this crap is.

But I’ll tell you what. I almost admire this Roosh guy because he knows that he has a salivating audience here chomping at the bit to buy his bullshit.

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You may be getting laid regularly but you sure are missing out on a lot of experiences you can’t imagine that happen when you have a deeper connection. It’s not putting others’ needs before yours that causes problems… it just has to be done by both people at the same time. But in an age when everybody’s been burned and expects the next person to burn them, what are the chances, right?

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How can you say it’s not hard to get a girl off? Since when are we all the same? Since when are our bodies all THE SAME?? I have NEVER gotten off from sex and I am 30 years old but I can get off with my vibrator in about 30 seconds. I WISH I found a guy who didn’t care much about getting me off because then maybe I wouldn’t constantly get dumped for not being able to orgasm which there is nothing I can do about. it makes me feel like crap that guys have such an ego that they will dump me over something I can’t change.

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You have a problem. Your orgasms get blocked when you’re in contact with another human being. I hope you are an exception in your country, but I have read about so many American women with the same problem that maybe your problem is unfortunately not that rare…
Most women will orgasm stimulating their clitoris, most men will orgasm stimulating their penises. Yes, all bodies are different, but the wiring is basically exactly the same.
And that sucks about the guys, hope you can find one that will understand your situation on day.

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Yea I hope so too because the main problem with me not getting off lies with the fact that the GUY has a problem with it in most cases…I don’t really mind. Sex for me is more about intimacy and kissing and fun. We definitely don’t all have the same wiring though. The things that get women off vary so widely both mentally and physically. 75% of women have trouble orgasming during sex and some can’t without a vibrator and some can’t at all like one of my friends. She is 30 and has never had an orgasm. Thanks for the kind words though I’m sure I’ll find an understanding guy one day!

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Its not that women dont care if we dont orgasm. Of course we love it. But for women, we love sex for the intimacy. We love the feeling of having having our man inside of us. We just love the closeness. Now, if you are in a long term relationship and are not making your girl orgasm, that may be a problem in the long run.

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we dont absolutely HAVE to get off the way you guys do to enjoy sex. like I said, we just enjoy the intimacy. but if you wanna make a girl cum, you gotta press our buttons. lick our nipples, rub our clits while you fuck us as hard as you can. tell us we are just absolute godesses. yep… thats the way to do it.

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“tell us we are just absolute godesses. ”

no.

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Why not? Too vanilla for roleplaying, little boy?

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Wrong, it’s more that so few of you could ever deserve to hear me say that

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I don’t exactly believe “deserving” anything from you could be that much a honor. People who believe most peeple are beyond them? Nah, you people who think like that are the actual scum.
And you say so few of me (us)? Do you fuck dudes, too? I would prefer being called a god, tbh. And once again, that is just fucking roleplay, not the reality. Stupid vanilla idiots too stuck on their real feelings when having sex.

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I’m not going to fuck a self centered guy. I’ll get him off but he better be prepared to show me a good time back. Otherwise its not gonna happen.

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But by your chronology, it sounds like it would ALREADY have happened!

That’s my girl!

grin

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It’s not like you’re going to show the girl a good time once you’ve gotten off. Myself, I almost always fall asleep in a few seconds. I know that’s bad but I’m just saying … if you want the guy to do something, have him do it first

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Haha i could give a rats ass what anyone thinks, its just not as fun if i can’t make her squeal like a piggy and shake like a leaf mmmmm but sometimes its a more gruelling task than i signed up for. but in the end as long as no ones dead… its aaaaaalright.

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I disagree completely with this Roosh. Beckster once said to me that he found the best way to get a girl obsessed with you is to give a girl orgasms.

So many can’t experience them with a guy, and when you give it to them, it’s like crack – they’ll need to keep coming back for more.

Hearing a girl breathless and gasping “the things you do to me” or “where the hell did you learn that” is one of the most gratifying things in the world.

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Giving a woman an orgasm is incredibly easy. Apparently you suck at sex as much as you do at life.

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“For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process.”

Umm… Roosh is undoubted genius but this is plain wrong. Maybe for SOME guys. To me, the process is the most important thing.

(don’t ask me what’s that thing in the end)

:pika:

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I’m the same.

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I find it very easy to give my girlfriend an orgasm every time we have sex. And I don’t even have a dick.

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not caring about her orgasm changed absolutely nothing? Wow, as for me a self absorbed lover is boring. My boyfriend is about to lose me permanently because he makes zero effort to satisfy me. Juxtapose, my last boyfriend could actually cum while going down on me which made me stay for 4 years despite his personality issues.

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Obviously the reason it didn’t make a difference is because he’s such a bad lover in the first place.

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right on, Roosh. Who gives a shit if she orgasms, or not. What matters is that YOU had fun. I started doing this a while ago. This is one of the best things I have learned. It has even happened that I had a dead fish, because I wasn’t turned on, even though the girl was attractive. But I didn’t give the slightest fuck. It’s not that I said or thought ‘fuck her, I don’t care’. It’s like it didn’t even register at all. Come to think of it, no woman deserves that level of thoughtfulness about lasting longer, etc. A woman deserves just to be fucked, not loved, or ‘cared for’. I am not being hateful, I truly don’t care. Isn’t it written anywhere that a man has to last 10 minutes, 20, 30, etc, it’s just bullshit that women themselves want us to believe. Just empty your balls and smile, brother.

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Nah, just leave women for other women, then. Lesbians KNOW women deserve their big Os.
I hope every woman you get (if you ever get one) pulls you out and leaves before you empty your balls, ahahaha! Or better yet, does not even engage in intercourse – just ask for you to give her head and that is all. In fact, if you give her head for over 5 minutes and she didn’t cum, that is because you suck too hard. You should just start sucking dick now. wink
American idiots, everywhere…

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You might hope all that, but none of it will happen.

We’ll just keep plowing and not caring.

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Go ahead believing it. I am not the one who will try to change your mind.

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Lol…..

Ms.Edge
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Well i am a woman and if you was my man ill make you suck me and after I cum……tell you to get the fuck on…….

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’46 Anonymous’

”which made me stay for 4 years despite his personality issues”

there goes another silly bitch who’s not responsible enough to say ‘ -I- stayed because (I was attracted to him/ wanted to take it up my ass/etc).

Of course, it’s HIS fault why SHE stays. What, does he ties you up with a ball and chain and fucks you in the basement?

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Eh. She SAID she stayed because he fucked her right, idiot.

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Well, I think it’s obvious you are a bad lover. It does matter to a girl if she orgasms or not. It matters a lot. Girls who say it doesn’t matter just love their man who sucks at sex. I’ve been there too, really in love with a guy who was a nice guy but selfish in bed. I kept saying orgasms don’t matter because I loved him. But after that I met a guy (without much experience) who was a really devoted lover, he was everything but selfish in bed and cared about my pleasure. He was a really nice guy too. Well, after having sex with him and experiencing great orgasms and mind-blowing sex every time, I now know for sure orgasms do matter. But many men are selfish in bed (the same men complain that American women don’t want to sleep with them and that some girls are not easy enough for them) and will never get this great sex. I really don’t get it – you go to many countries with better women (according to your words), feel happy that women treat you better (your subjective opinion) but treat those same women like shit.
I can always tell if a guy is good at sex or not. I’m pretty sure Roosh is a boring lover.
So that’s a sex tourist. He goes to different countries to sleep with women and leave them without even giving them pleasure. Please, please, don’t come to Eastern Europe. There are enough selfish Eastern European guys (of course, many nice guys as well, like everywhere), we don’t need the worst Western men trying to get laid with us. I think more Eastern European women should see this web page, it will be an eye opener (no, Eastern European girls will not feel flattered).
Girls, no matter where you are from – learn how to recognize selfish guys who only care to add you as number 77 in their book. Don’t waste a second of your life with such guys. If you want casual sex, casual relationships, committed relationships – that’s all fine. But be sure to choose the right guy (and the right guy is not a sex tourist). If you will have nothing but sex with a guy no matter for how long, be sure that the sex will be good before you engage in it. No woman deserves bad sex). And it’s very easy to tell which guy is good and which guy sucks. The guy who is considerate, who puts in effort in you, who looks at you with admiration in his eyes is the one who can give you the time of your life in bed. Doesn’t matter if it’s for a night or for a lifetime. Don’t choose douchebags. The good guy will make you feel like a woman, will make you feel desirable and adored. Don’t help guys like Roosh increase their success rate with women.

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“I can always tell if a guy is good at sex or not. ”

That says everything about you.

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Yes it shows she knows what a bad/lazy lover someone can be.

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Thumbs up to SomeOne!!! She’s got the right idea there. It’s a personal choice whether or not somebody wants casual flings or a committed relationship. Sex is supposed to be about sharing good feelings with somebody. Heck, sometimes getting off by myself is even better than doing it with somebody else. It’s all about quality, not quantity.

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Why does it matter? Orgasming in women has no reproductive function. It’s like streamers on the handlebars of a kids’ bike — totally nonessential. This just seems like the umpteenth feminist argument. I don’t care if my gf gets off, nor does she; but she certainly cares if I do. I am super considerate and I do admire her. She most certainly, definitely does feel like a woman. And I’m not a douchebag. I just really don’t care if she has orgasms.

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But if you have a condom on then your orgasm doesnt matter either? Do you not have sex unless you want children? If you do have protected sex than you’re a hypocrite, because the sperm in the condom doesnt have “reproductive function” since its not going to her womb, so its “nonessential”.

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I don’t ever use condoms. If she’s anywhere near the middle of her cycle, it’s going in her face/eyes/mouth

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I wonder if you still think this way. This post just goes to show, more now that I’m older than ever, that you had (maybe still have) no idea what good sex is. It’s pretty sad.