When I was in college, I would eat McDonald’s food at least three times a week. It never caused me indigestion or acute health problems. If I eat a McDonald’s meal today, fifteen years later, I feel digestive discomfort not only one hour after eating but also the following day. Maybe I’m more sensitive now, or maybe the recipes have changed, but it doesn’t go down right anymore, so I stopped eating it.

For a long time I’ve been having casual sex with women I did not emotionally care for, at least once a week. Indigestion was never a problem, but over the past couple of years, I have begun feeling negative effects after sex with women I don’t have feelings for, and it is making me want to avoid it just like I avoid McDonald’s.

Early in the summer I met a Polish girl on a weekend night. I convinced her to have a drink with me in a different bar and then two hours later I invited her back to my place. We had sex all night long. I had four orgasms with her, and each one felt immensely pleasurable, but the following day I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong. I ignored this feeling and contacted her again one week later. She returned to my apartment, and during the sex act I felt powerful bodily satisfaction. While I was laying my strokes inside her, I savored the fact that I could sleep with a girl 13 years younger than myself, but after my orgasm completed, and our bodies remained still, the same negative feeling came forth within me.

Like before, I pushed it to the back of my mind, and aimed for a second orgasm with her. She possessed the petite body I greatly desire, and so I felt even more ecstasy as I thrusted. The second orgasm came but the sour feeling returned, this time twice as strong. I looked at her body, attached to someone I didn’t care for, and she looked at mine, a man she probably didn’t care for either. I felt an urge to take a shower, as if to wash something off my body, but instead I lay next to her in silence, trying to understand where this discomfort was coming from and why it was interfering with something I’ve done so many times before, ruining the pleasure I worked hard to receive.

She had told me enough information beforehand that it was easy to put her in the appropriate box. She had traveled to Italy, Spain, and Portugal, countries that Polish females visit for sexual excitement. She didn’t “believe” in love. She wanted to focus on her law career. She became an atheist after her parents’ attempted to instill her with Catholicism. Most telling of all, she had a VIP card to the an international club in the city where foreign men can pick the easiest hanging Polish fruit from the tree, the same tree I have enthusiastically picked from in the past. She could serve no value to me besides the sexual, and the only chemistry we had was physical.

Her phone was ringing. It was still early, barely midnight. “It looks like your friend wants you to join at the club,” I said. She denied it, but twenty minutes later she was out the door, perhaps energized from the activity we had.

I sat alone on my couch for some time, thinking at how overjoyed I should be for experiencing easy orgasmic pleasure inside a body type which I liked, but instead I didn’t feel good, just like after eating at McDonald’s.

I was so sure that casual sex was the pinnacle of modern man that I moved heaven and earth to develop a lifestyle where it would be easy for me, and I have achieved that lifestyle based on being mobile, emotionally untethered, and an attractive catch to foreign women. And yet now that I have achieved this, I feel worse after each new girl I have casual sex with, as if I’m hurting my spirit in ways that I don’t understand, in ways that didn’t feel harmful in the past. I decided not to contact her again.

Two weeks passed and I was laying in bed, unable to push sex thoughts out of my mind. I thought of the Polish girl and how perfect she was at the task of making me feel pleasure. I got up and checked my phone to see if I still had her number. I was relieved to find that I did. A couple days later she was back in my apartment, and this time I was mentally prepared for the indigestion that was sure to follow. It was no longer a surprise, and I accepted this as the price I must pay until I wean myself off of women that my mind no longer wants.

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  1. HargleMyBargle September 23, 2015 at 9:15 am


  2. Aquila Aquilonis September 23, 2015 at 9:24 am

    I think you will find it was much easier to quit McDonald’s than easy sex.

    1. Yeah, really! September 24, 2015 at 12:56 am

      You say that now, but when you hit your 40’s, and by 50, it’s not hard to quit sex. Seriously. You’re in such a take-it-or-leave-it frame that for the first time it chases you (assuming you have a modicum of game). By that time, you understand you’re value is greater than any woman and even giving her a couple hours of your time, for sex or otherwise, becomes an experience in indigestion.

      1. 66Scorpio September 24, 2015 at 8:31 am

        I am pushing 50. While it is easy to chat up women the sex certainly does not come as easy as when I was 30, at least with women I find interesting/sexy.

    2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:00 pm

      Considering that young women are less attractive these days (e.g. obesity, laziness) and their numbers are lower proportionate to men (western society is male heavy); it might be a better strategy to get one with low number of lovers when she’s young and keep her/train her up.

      I’ve seen guys get easy sex from land whales and it’s not good. Worse still, even attractive girls can end up being a pain. Easy sex with a girl you like who is worthwhile having sticking around well beats tons of worthless whores and sluts who all get old/dry/fat in a few years, making finding acceptable women even harder.

  3. Kidd Cudi September 23, 2015 at 9:43 am

    lol. it’s almost like immorality has associated costs.

    1. Chris Brony September 23, 2015 at 2:36 pm

      boredom, shallowness, done it before etc etc

    2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:22 pm

      The costs are still borne by others (e.g. feminism and free sex is supported by slaves in non-western countries who provide all of our food and other needs for the most part etc). The ultimate cost will soon come home to roost in the west, as large tracts of populations lose their lives.

  4. seth datta September 23, 2015 at 10:00 am

    The tribe has socially engineered western society to the point where the western man(mainly white) is obsolete. His bitches no longer produce children, he is a cuck, and a weak faggot, and is enslaved to the moneychanger in ways he cannot imagine, having exchanged God and moral society for the princely sum of a few cheap orgasms and a collapsing society.

    Right now, the western man is like a drunk in an alley, with his pants pulled down, with ‘banksters please rape me’ written on his ass cheeks, with an arrow pointing down to his anus. I know that western white people specifically, are being race replaced by the tribe, and that feminism has poisoned any social cohesion western populations once had. They can’t protect their salaries, can’t protect their borders, can’t protect their women, and soon they will suffer and be deprived of their lives.

    Time to wake the f*ck up or face the consequences – people need to give a fuck about more than their petty narcisstic lives, get their women in check; and at least give some thought to not contributing to bankster-related misery. At the moment, pretty much all western men are winning the Darwin award for being a group of deluded degenerates who are committing mass cultural suicide/being genocided by a fifth column. Expect the economy to collapse soon and WW3 to flare up as people debate PUA and shit, because the bankers don’t need white people or entitled western populations any more – and there are no more barriers that prevent the few from killing the many and then replacing them with others.

    I already know that whilst people of all races will suffer, 10-15 years from now, most whites will be dead; and most white countries offer no future for their children. We are all being played, and the cost is quite possibly more than your life, its your soul. The question is, if you are going to acknowledge this shit and prepare for it and fight – to face it like a real man; or spend all day pissing your life away at PUA and shit, to end up having 5 immigrant cocks shoved up your accommodating asshole, all your wealth stolen by the banks, and having your friends and family all raped and killed. Google what happened to 100 million whites in the days of Communism to get an idea of what the near future has in store, as I have described n my previous graphic sentence, then google who was behind it.

    1. Zuckerberg September 23, 2015 at 3:28 pm

      Nothing to see here, goy. Hey, I heard Miley Cyrus had a new nude photo shoot! You should go check that out.

      1. Snowden September 23, 2015 at 10:07 pm

        Wank it to a teenage slut and ignore the banksters that are buying your house with fiat dollars after the bubble they deliberately created bursts.

      2. bucky September 24, 2015 at 9:25 pm



    2. Taco Idol September 23, 2015 at 4:56 pm

      You’re right, but pua is a good first step if a man was completely in the dark, as I once was. Eventually, you start to see that pua is like dancing on the Titanic and you also find things like mgtow that really get you thinking, except that mgtow is like male feminism in that the bankers would applaud it because it means less breeding, and the beginnings of male participation in the destruction of the family.
      We live in a jungle that has been camouflaged our whole lives as everything but a jungle. A tribe of wealthy men have cornered us and our tribes. The whites are targeted because we are the ones who could defeat the jewish agenda. I also believe we might have some special genetic advantages (other than prettiness, like colored eyes etc) or something, but I don’t know enough to go there, so I won’t get into that.

      1. Guest September 26, 2015 at 1:50 am

        I’ll get into that…

      2. Beavis_Bunghole September 26, 2015 at 12:56 pm

        Quite frankly I have very little respect for anyone posting on the internet about MGTOW.

        The reason is that a REAL MGTOW isn’t like internet people, but would be like the mountain men that inhabit the Alaskan wilderness, Rocky Mountains, and Canadian North, who have withdrawn from mainstream society and refuse to participate in it to any degree. A lesser MGTOW would be men like 1% bikers, militia communities, and such who exist on the fringes of society but have also carved out their own separate, distinct spaces.

        Whining on the internet about how women are all shallow bitches while jacking off to internet porn is a far cry from those true alphas I just described.

      3. BAT 21 October 5, 2015 at 9:29 pm

        Well said man, unfortunately those REAL MGTOW (the Jeremiah Johnson’s) of the world have to trickle back into society once in a while. Also sometimes these mountain men turn into the Ted Gizinskis’s of the world plotting the next Gubbermint demise!! Good points though! Sounds enticing! Now I need to find a teepee and a squaw!!

    3. Morrison September 23, 2015 at 9:02 pm

      “Time to wake the f*ck up or face the consequences”

      At the rate we’re going, im suspecting we will suffer option #2: the consequences.

    4. Morrison September 24, 2015 at 4:01 am

      Seth, would you care to share how you think the next 15 years will play out?

      1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 1:51 pm

        It doesn’t look good, especially for the west, as our food supply is mostly from asian countries, supplied to us by a just-in-time transport system controlled by banksters. The same people also control the economy and have subverted the society. We have less than 5 years for an economic collapse and 10 years or so before starvation/lack of healthcare/war severely depletes western populations in accordance with bankster wishes. We have surveillance that is worse than people know about, as well as bad social engineering and continued mass immigration with decreasing opportunities. Only the false fiat currency hides how bad the situation is. The governments of various societies will just keep lying to us, just like the mainstream and alternative media.

        A common European strategy would involve getting God back into households (Christianity worked in the past), trying to look out for others; and at worst, hunkering down by preparing for bad times with some supplies and not trusting media/building up more local connections. Beware of any cashless economic system that is offered as a solution. In the next 15 years, we will see WW3, many other upsets, and mass depopulation most likely.

      2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 1:53 pm

        Oh yeah, and beware of the Jews – the least trustworthy of peoples, sadly. Europe was founded on 2 principles:

        (1) a strong belief in God, Christianity; and in acting righteous and looking out for each other.
        (2) antisemitism (although Jews truly are not semites)

    5. jdoeford September 24, 2015 at 6:48 pm

      It pains me that this nutjob gets 9 upvotes (and counting).

      1. Veni Vidi Vici September 26, 2015 at 1:23 pm

        Agreed too many people think their imaginary friend for adults aka God is the answer. The USA prospered like no other nation inspite of and not because of religion, Under God was not in the pledge of allegiance until 1954.
        Other statements Seth is wrong about: The USA is a food exporter most of what we eat is grown and produced here. Near me are corn and soybean fields, Apple, blueberry, grape and cranberry farms and I live in New Jersey near New York City. Jew NWO conspiracy theories: If the USA collapsed today the Arab nations would destroy Israel tomorrow how does the downfall of US nation serve Jewish interests? Why would bankers or any other business support depopulation? Less consumers less need for there services. At least 90 percent of problems here are due to a corrupt bloated government overreaching it’s Constitutional authority.

    6. Cheetaiean September 28, 2015 at 3:55 pm

      Vaguely going in the right direction, but I personally don’t believe there will be a large conflict like that, at least anytime soon.

      Besides, countries like Poland and Finland are still pretty much pure white.

    7. Stack Thornehawk October 12, 2015 at 1:35 pm

      We will not go down idly brother. Morituri te salutat! Via Solaris!

  5. Koanic September 23, 2015 at 10:03 am

    I already knew most didn’t experience this indigestion, but this is the first time I’ve seen someone transition so clearly from omnivorous to picky.

    For me, PUA was primarily an exercise in digestive desensitization, that could only proceed so far before I hit a hard limit.

    1. Ben Bien September 23, 2015 at 10:55 am

      For me, the whole “PUA” system was just a tool to get more experience with women and sex. Why did I feel that I needed to get more experience with women and sex? Because girls/women don’t want a man who is inexperienced with women and sex.

      They want someone experienced and who has fucked at least 20-30 women. No woman wants to be with a male virgin, unless she is also a virgin and they’re both in high school or something like that. But for normal guys we are expected to grow our experience with banging lots of chicks, while at the same time we are villified and mocked for being “PUA” or “heartless players”.

      Summary: we men are expected to be experienced in sex and women, but the only way to do that is to be a player, but if you’re a player using PUA tactics you are hated on by women and mainstream society as somehow “scum”.

      This is part of a larger and more vicious PARADOX that I am personally writing about in my next book (if anyone is interested).

      1. Chris Brony September 23, 2015 at 2:41 pm

        where do we find your books??
        you say next book….what books have you written so far and where can i find them…

      2. noemon August 8, 2017 at 9:31 pm

        Seriously? 😀

  6. Ben Bien September 23, 2015 at 10:27 am

    You feel that way because deep down you are biologically programmed to have sex for the end purpose of making offspring. But because most women today don’t want to have kids in their prime, you are just using each other for temporary, meaningless sex.

    Because you’re just nutting in women who are on birth control, or who are not in the prime menstral cycle, or you’re nutting in a condom—your body feels like it wasted the sperm. Similar to that empty, shameful feeling one gets after beating off.

    It’s been said on Cernovich’s and Delicious Taco’s site: having sex with women just for pleasure is like using their body to masturbate with.

    Drawing the analogy to junk fast food is accurate because when you eat McDonald’s it’s the same effect: that fake food MAKES you feel full and tricks you into believing your hunger was satisfied, without providing any actual NUTRIENTS.

    Same goes for fucking around for the sake of fucking. You alleviate your horniness by banging some chick you don’t care about. But the relief is temporary and leaves you feeling empty, unfulfilled.

    1. Charles Vermont September 23, 2015 at 10:58 am

      I went through all this with the same feelings, and even the junk food analogy went through my head at the time.
      Junk food sex is for your 20’s.
      By the time you are going into your 30’s, you have a more mature perspective of the world, other people and oneself.
      Part of growing up, I suppose. The push to rid frivolities from one’s life and find more people, things and experiences of substance.

    2. bucky September 24, 2015 at 9:28 pm

      hey, glad to see someone else on here who reads DT. he is truly a prophet for our times.

      1. BenBien.com November 8, 2015 at 4:18 pm

        yes, perhaps del tacos is a prophet for the End of Times.

    3. SHAMPOO BRACELETS September 28, 2015 at 3:03 pm

      This exactly. Even using up “hot” whores for the purpose of meaningless fucking is degenerate. It isn’t a victory, or an testament to the modern Man’s greatness. It’s sad, waste of time, and waste of resources, and eventually makes you feel crappy. Not to mention the pregnancy risks and the STD risks, even if you’re using a condom and she’s allegedly on birth control.

      This ain’t player-hating or player-shaming, or me telling every fool out there to get married at 21. I’ve spent the last 4 years of my life racking up a retarded amount of useless sluts thanks to Game. Men can handle being promiscuous hookups MUCH better than women can, because testosterone.

      I’m saying stop giving sluts the attention and validation.

      I’m saying it’s dumb and degenerate that we as Men today must resort to being these high energy player cads in order to create this personality that will be entertaining and attractive enough for the modern woman. Fun as all hell at first, and you will eventually feel like shit, but it’s necessary to have a soft harem of beautiful woman. This will give you the skills and the… impenetrable frame you need to deal with today’s woman.

      So although it sometimes sucks that you have to put in all this effort and energy and money to build this small harem of beautiful women rotating just to keep a bitch in check nowadays (with zero guarantees…), you gotta make sure you become complete as a Man of high value if you ever want to be happy. Let alone happy with a girlfriend/Wife.

      Thanks feminism.

  7. GRock September 23, 2015 at 10:44 am

    Sex void of emotion is like smoking weed. Both are organic sources and enough of them tends to fill the cache, you just don’t get any higher. The cache gets low, you re-up until it’s full again. You can change strains of weed and women respectively. Repeating this cycle tends to only evolve the soul and open the mind so far, as it’s more of a goal achieved (connoisseurship), rather than a perpetual self-actualization.

    Like riding the biggest roller coaster at the amusement park first (formulaic banging via game principals for years), all the rest just aren’t as thrilling afterwards. I usually keep a girl whose a “main” who I tend to have some emotion for, but not go all in (too risky emotionally in today’s climate). All the rest are as Roosh describes. The downside is always having side-pieces (abundance) keeps me in a mindset where 1-2 noteable slip ups on the main’s behalf, and I next her, or make her a side piece too, until a more feminine, better Main target comes into view.

    The downfall of nexting girls for minor infractions is it tends to bring them back, and you’ve got a blob of options to sort through, and some broken hearts to deal with.

    It’s not to say I don’t ever focus on just my main, but rather that I’m rooting for her NOT to fuck up, and display the toxicity Westerization has befallen her. Only once do I remember legitimately having feelings for two girls I was banging at the same time, and it drove me squirrely.. and I assume that’s what women’s hamsters must feel like, burning the wheel.

    I’ll go All In, and write Junk-Food-Sex entirely, when I find a consistently valuable, healthy restaurant to dine from, that runs specials and takes coupons.

  8. BangkokSlim September 23, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Your getting old Roosh !

  9. Rondo September 23, 2015 at 11:16 am

    In your last article, you claim that you should make choices for all your female relatives because you are more capable than they are to make said choices.

    Yet from a lot of your more recent writing, it seems like you have realized you have made poor, inaccurate decisions about life that you are now regretting more and more.

    How does it work where one person who has so messed up his own life should then feel qualified to critique the lives of others?

    Also, if I remember correctly from your “Dead Bat” book, you were in love with someone special who treated you the way you wished to be treated by a woman, gave you exactly what you claimed women today do not have and you left her.

    I grow more skeptical of your work.

    1. Oznoto Ignoto September 23, 2015 at 12:50 pm

      I see a man growing, learning, improving, and eloquently sharing his insights and his errors. I grow more respectful of his work.

      1. Rondo September 23, 2015 at 2:11 pm

        Why? Because late in the game he realizes he was wrong?
        Anyone can do that.

        Its like gambling away your money and then saying afterwards “You know, I shouldn’t have gambled away my money”. WOW, BIG INSIGHT.

        If he wanted love, he had it. He tossed it aside for Junk Food Sex. He admitted that having too much personal freedom made him waste a large portion of his life chasing fleeting good feelings rather than building many meaningful lasting relationships and connections.

        He’s not stopping his lifestyle – as he admits – he is just realizing that he’s continuously fucking up, while at the same time saying he could somehow tell other people how to live their lives better than they could on their own.

      2. Oznoto Ignoto September 23, 2015 at 3:09 pm

        36 isn’t late in the game, and it’s much easier to control your sex urges at 66 than 36. I don’t blame the man for getting it while he still can. I would not be happy traveling the world doing what he does, therefore I don’t. Someday soon, he won’t either. Bet on it.

      3. Danny September 23, 2015 at 3:11 pm

        So true.

        Another thing: The idea that Roosh himself thinks he’s a rational man. Haha.
        Here’s a man who has spent 15 years dedicating his life to women. His work was about women (his books), his travels were about women (finding pussy paradise) and his hobby was about women (picking up women).
        And all this was because he couldn’t get laid when he was 20 years old.
        And some of you want ‘rational’ Roosh as leader lol!

        Besides, this whole Neo-masculinity stuff is just another way for Roosh to have an obsession, because he’s a man who needs to be obsessed by something.

      4. Libertas Victoria September 24, 2015 at 9:51 am

        If you’re a man and you have no obsession in this life, will it pass without having ever be lived.

      5. jdoeford September 23, 2015 at 2:36 pm

        I mean, kudos to Roosh for candidly admitting that he is fucking up according to his own value sytem…but then his post ends with “I’m going to keep on fucking up until some time later I’ll hopefully decide to stop fucking up.” Not something I’d normally be hard on a guy for, but Rondo’s right — this is the same guy who announces that women are so unable to control themselves that men (like Roosh?) need to control them.

    2. Roosh September 23, 2015 at 3:40 pm

      ” it seems like you have realized you have made poor, inaccurate decisions about life that you are now regretting more and more.”

      “I grow more skeptical of your work.”

      To grow skeptical of one’s work, you would actually have to read it. I describe the mistakes I made here. What I write today comes from hard lessons learned: http://www.rooshv.com/people-should-not-be-allowed-unlimited-personal-freedom

      1. 66Scorpio September 24, 2015 at 8:44 am

        I specifically like your work because it is introspective. I did not go down the road that you did but I think we are in the same province on the same journey to Xanadu or what have you.
        Don’t worry about the haters. They will hate you for being cocksure (so to speak) and they will hate you for questioning yourself.
        However, you have a serious decision to make in your life.

      2. Rondo2 September 24, 2015 at 4:18 pm

        The problem is the two articles he’s written back-to-back (and the one he links above).

        How can someone say: This sex should make all decisions for the other sex and I should make all decisions for my female relatives because I make good decisions…when he’s thrown away what he claims to want on more than one occasion and continues to make decisions that he knows are bad?

        And be serious about it?

      3. 66Scorpio September 24, 2015 at 4:52 pm

        One is small-picture and one is big-picture.

      4. jdoeford September 24, 2015 at 7:45 pm

        Could you explain that?

      5. 66Scorpio September 24, 2015 at 9:23 pm

        It is part of the idea that “game” is a coping mechanism to deal with the society that western feminism has created. The small picture is feeling upset about this coping mechanism. The big picture is embracing the true nature of gender relationships.
        Does that make sense?

      6. jdoeford September 24, 2015 at 9:43 pm

        Not really (no disrespect intended).

        There’s hypocrisy in lamenting that women are worthless whores, while simultaneously encouraging women to be worthless whores and exploiting that. (Mind you, I don’t personally view women in those terms, but that seems to be the spirit on this site.)

      7. 66Scorpio September 25, 2015 at 4:17 am

        Feminism is what has been encouraging western women to be “worthless whores”. Game is a reaction to that, not a cause. That is the spirit of the site from reading copious articles and comments over the last 9 months. How correct is that view? I don’t really know as I have been living in China for three out of the last 4 years and have only dated Chinese girls for that time.

      8. jdoeford September 25, 2015 at 8:19 am

        But there doesn’t have to be, and isn’t, one single cause. Sure, feminism is a cause…but people like Roosh who actually go out into the field and encourage women to drink, and to come home with him, and fuck him, are *also* a contributing cause.

        And I want to be very clear that I do not necessarily disapprove of women having a lot of sex, or people like Roosh encouraging women to have a lot of sex (although the way he in particular does it is often disgusting). It’s encouraging women to have a lot of sex *while calling them worthless whores” that’s hypocritical.

      9. jdoeford September 25, 2015 at 3:15 pm

        Strangely, my reply was posted and then deleted…

        I agree that feminism encourages women to be “worthless whores” (as Roosh defines it — I don’t fully agree with him on this point). But it’s not the *only* cause. The behavior of male suitors matters too.

        If Roosh really believed what he preaches, he’d encourage women to live properly. There are a lot of (conservative) men out there who do just that. Instead…he does the opposite, and contributes to the “problem” (again, as Roosh defines it). He joins in with feminists by encouraging women to have fast sex.

        It’s remarkably self-serving for Roosh or anyone else to say that *all* women are debauched *beyond repair,* so heck why not just take advantage of the situation. That’s an obviously extreme and untrue generalization, and a convenient rationalization for encouraging women to act badly, for his own pleasure.

      10. PolishKnightUSA March 17, 2016 at 3:37 pm

        Let’s be clear that feminism is a product of hyper chivalry that has nothing to do with “game”. Perhaps due to worship of the Virgin Mary (others say it’s some pagan goddess for druids), Western European men decided to adopt a military code that protected the “weak” (civilians including men, women and children) into “women and children” I recall Sir Walter Raleigh throwing his coat over mud for a British queen to walk over it. What this meant was that ALL women were elevated to queens and men to serfs.

        Brits were, and are, messed up.

        One reason why American men are obsessed with green lawns is because during feudal times the peasants and serfs were required to keep the lawns available for the royalty to foxhunt through them. Their backyards were literally a playground for the wealthy. Doing his menial work gave them contentment and they brought this over with them to the new world.

        Feminism is the notion that “equality” is about women doing what they please. “equality” means, as they define it, the ability to be a doctor, lawyer, astronaut, or housewife when it suits them. Men learn quickly that the “right” to do as you please is laughable. If I want to be an astronaut and NASA says no, it’s not due to “sexism” they said no, or unfair that I want something I don’t get it. That’s just life. But feminism is the notion that all women should be queens and princesses.

        This predates modern sexual mores by centuries.

        It kicked into high gear when modern industrialization finally allowed women to pursue high income careers that didn’t involve dangerous factory floors rather than nice A/C offices (which even then, they complain about.)

        Modern “game” or trolling for sex is a function of lower class whites in NYC having small apartments and allowing “gentlemen” callers to take the young women out for a night on the town rather than impose upon a busy family to chaperone the courtship. Middle class men and women quickly adopted these mores.

        I think they were better off mowing the lawn like peasants.

      11. Rondo2 September 24, 2015 at 4:14 pm

        I have read your work and was thinking of that article when I commented because you haven’t changed at all since you wrote it.

        I’ve actually put money in your pocket because I enjoy your writing.

        But I find the holier than thou “I should make decisions for people because I am man” stuff hilariously terrible and want to at least get you to think that maybe that’s a route you shouldn’t go down because its a poor choice that will only invalidate your good work.

        Again: You keep making the same mistakes over and over again and you write about it like you’ve gained some great insight. Except its not a great insight, its just fucking up and then saying “Hey, I keep fucking up” which anyone can do.

        And then, to write an article claiming that women should have guardians or that you are somehow qualified to make decisions for people when you can’t even make the right decisions yourself….Jesus man.

      12. Rondo2 September 24, 2015 at 4:15 pm

        Also, you blocked me because I disagree with you on a Disqus comment?

        Wow. Sensitive and SJWy.

      13. JOhn September 24, 2015 at 11:49 pm

        Hahahaha you’re a fucking joke Roosh. You’re an Arab/Turkish/Iranian man who complains about diversity, yet you contribute to it just by being there.

        You go to Eastern Europe and fuck slavic women and complain about diversity yet you as an Arab contribute to diversity and multiculturalism, the two things you despise the most by just being there. That’s pathetic.

        Keep kissing these white supremacist asses and see where that takes you.

    3. Shaenon K. Garrity September 23, 2015 at 9:37 pm

      Clearly he should have been assigned a female guardian to stop him from having bad sex and eating at McDonald’s every other day. Alas, without a rational woman to make decisions for him, he’s enslaved himself to his vices and undertaken a rampage of destruction to his body and those who want to be a meaningful part of his life

      1. Libertas Victoria September 24, 2015 at 9:54 am

        JESUS! Youre scary looking!
        Got a face like Attack On Titan…

      2. Shaenon K. Garrity September 24, 2015 at 1:22 pm

        See, that was an emotional and poorly-reasoned post. Next time you think of writing something online, ask your female guardian for permission.

        I like Attack on Titan. In fact, I work as a manga editor, so I don’t have time to provide personal guidance to young men like yourself. But best of luck to you.

    4. BrockSamson September 24, 2015 at 8:31 pm

      What other choice does an American man have then to live like Roosh? You cant emotionally invest in 95% of these women, so pump amd dump is the only option. All of us here feel empty banging shallow, boring broads over and over again but when in Rome.

    5. bucky September 24, 2015 at 9:30 pm

      IIRC, roosh has stated that he has found the love of his life three times, once in brazil, once in poland, and once in ukraine.

    6. spicynujac September 29, 2015 at 11:06 am

      Sounds like a female poster to me.. You you you I me me me.

      Bringing up arguments from the past like women love to do: “But you dated a nice girl 5 years ago”

      Making personal criticisms then extrapolating them to larger issues.

      Listen, the idea that men should oversee women doesn’t mean that men are infallible, never make mistakes, never have remorse, or second guess themselves. It just means that men, on whole, are more stable, logical, and intelligent. And men will (and have, throughout history) prevent women from making permanent life altering poor decisions.

  10. Andrian TQM September 23, 2015 at 12:06 pm

    McDonalds is the first stage. In a few years, it will feel like Turkish doner.

  11. Shamshoun September 23, 2015 at 12:07 pm

    What you felt Roosh is something woman can never understand, ‘cos this feeling is unique to man.
    Every man knows that feeling and has experienced that at least few times in his life. This deep melancholia brought up by absence of love.
    That is what will always remain a greatest gap between the sexes and why there will never be any complete understanding between a man and a woman.
    Have you ever heard any woman writing a beautiful love song or poem about man? Nope. And this is why. Women can never feel like we feel.
    That’s why they keep saying “sex is just sex”. Like what the fuck that’s supposed to mean? I never got it.
    That’s why they can keep fucking any random dude that comes their way without remorse or even understanding that it’s just wrong. You can preach about it and if you’re lucky, you can even hear them saying that it’s wrong, but deep down in their hearts they don’t FEEL that there’s never anything wrong with fucking a person they don’t even like.
    That’s why women can never really love.
    We need women only for reproducing so we can shower all that love that’s inside of us to our children who are the only ones deserving our love.
    As soon as we’ve gotten those kids what we want out of a woman, we should discard her like used condom.

    1. Rondo September 23, 2015 at 12:16 pm

      Roosh had love, had exactly what he wanted in a woman and he abandoned it. Yet he now thinks he should make decisions for all females because he is somehow more rational and logical than they are.

      Some guys are just delusional. Its no wonder you can’t find someone who loves you if you actually think that women don’t know what love is.

      Some of the people on this site are as crazy as a Jezebel writer.

      1. Snowden September 23, 2015 at 6:29 pm

        When girls tell me they love me now I just can’t help but laugh. I can’t believe the lies women will tell. A woman and love? Women love how I make them feel. They do not love me and unfortunately are incapable of this.

        It’s ok though we understand that you are incapable of love the way a man feels it. We have ample evidence of this all around us. Feminism and the internet combined have allowed us to gather much data on women and compare. We all keep finding the same things.

        Are you claiming NAWALT? How old are you? Are you fat? How many kids do you have? How’s that career going?

        Sorry girl but you’ve become a joke to us. A sick degenerate joke.

        Us men have been cataloging your actions. Not your words because as a woman you think with your tingles and your reality is rationalized into place to fit your feelings. As men we observe reality objectively and we’ve been observing you women for a long time now. So we know you are full of shit and we can only watch your actions.

        A woman’s words are worthless. They are meaningless. Everything you say I always hear, “right now I feel like”, in front of it. Because your reality is based on your feelings.

        ” I love you ” really means “right now I feel like I love you”. In a year though? In a week? Tomorrow? Hell five minutes from now after your phone lights up with another tinder like? As soon as you feel something different your reality changes to justify to your own feelings to yourself.

        You exposed yourself to us and we have seen what you actually are. You are my inferior in every way except your ability to give birth. And you have thrown that away to chase after the highest highs of vaginal tingling.

        How are we men supposed to love a modern woman? We can’t. You have turned yourselves into monsters that disgust us for anything except sex. You have turned yourselves into sex objects and, bizarrely, you’re all proud of this. It’s pretty sickening.

      2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:20 pm

        Love was a social construct for most, when marriage was the cornerstone for society. But at least women in centuries past were somewhat more loyal.

        Now amorality, divorce, abortion, materialism and predatory institutions are the cornerstones of society. So love is exposed as a sham – its not completely women’s fault. But they will pay the consequences for there will come a day when they need a man to have their back and he won’t be there. Unfortunately, feminism has destroyed gender relations between men and women, and all we have left is shit before it hits the fan.

      3. spicynujac September 29, 2015 at 11:08 am

        Everything you say I always hear, “right now I feel like”, in front of it. Because your reality is based on your feelings.

        ” I love you ” really means “right now I feel like I love you”.

        Deserves a whole article.

      4. BrockSamson September 24, 2015 at 8:39 pm

        How can you explain that throughout the history of humanity, women have contributed so little to the arts. Poetry, painting, music (instrumental), sculpture, lterature, etc. all require the ability to love. Love being defined as the ability to appreciate, understand, and admire someone or something for the beauty and value it possesses. Women are incapable of objective love. If it doesn’t benefit them in some way, it is useless to them.

      5. Snowden September 25, 2015 at 1:34 am

        A woman’s power is the control of culture. Women control culture. Hence the push to get them to abandon all cultural control and cede that power to the state.

        Our women are pathetically weak right now. They’ve lost all control of culture to “insert random theory here”. Hollywood. Incessant consumerism and the worship of idols on the TV. False idols.

        Instead women chase masculine power which they are just not suited to wield and destroys them. Destroys their feminine innocence and leaves them broken.

        You want to shiv a feminist? A hardcore radical? Run hard game on her and shiv her where it hurts. She’s just not a real woman. She’s broken.

        What can we men do about this? Our power is our individual strength. Women control culture but we are going to have to move in and fight for them. Our women are weak.

        The question then becomes should we utilize our strength in this culture war where our own women are being massacred or do we go into the culture war in place of the women who gave up their duty?

    2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:16 pm

      Modern women are engineered to be users of men.

      They are made as parasites in the image of bankers. Neither feminists or bankers would exist if they had nothing to feed off; feminism is primarily parasitism of men and especially of white men’s futures. The same men play PUA, destroying their future – no more white children or white society.

    3. Ian Henderson October 6, 2015 at 2:53 pm

      Damn, who hurt you?

  12. Oznoto Ignoto September 23, 2015 at 12:46 pm

    You are getting older, that’s all. Physical considerations give way to spiritual ones, and as death approaches, we seek answers and consolations. We appreciate the deep, and avoid the shallow waters. It is natural and good.

    I was about your age when I realized that alcohol was adversely impacting
    my sexual performance. Now in my 60’s, I never mix them.
    I was only promiscuous in my youth; as an adult it never suited me.

    I’ve been married twice, and never cheated, but one of my wives did.
    I didn’t divorce her over it, as she was dying of cancer when I learned of it.

    A distaste for junk food sex is a good sign of spiritual growth,
    but it’s also a sign of aging, like the white hairs in your beard.

    As men grow older (and I know this from experience) they tend to have more refined tastes in women, which often go unmet. As most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.

    That’s just the way it is. The strength and urgency of our sexual passions start to diminish around 50, and gradually become less important. Which, considering the depraved state of western women, is indeed fortunate.

    1. Kisse Ellis September 23, 2015 at 10:53 pm

      ‘ As most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.’


    2. Ken Bourne September 24, 2015 at 12:18 am

      Nah, I felt this way at 17 dude. The spirit needs sustenance more than the body.

    3. Morrison September 24, 2015 at 5:04 am

      “most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.”

      If you are talking about ‘young hot women’ as in swimsuit or supermodel type bitches, my experience and observations is that, even if you are a young man, good looking and fit, you still need tangible ‘resources’ to get them. Esther Vilar mentions this in her book Manipulated Man. If a hot chyck has to choose between a man who is good looking and fit but without resources, and a man who is much older who has resources, well then she will pick the older guy.

      Young hot women are motivated by resources, be it money, or status or drugs, whatever; and age is NOT a factor. It took me a long time to finally see the light.

      So the secret to getting a super hottie is no secret. Simply put: be sure you have something material that she wants.

      The only women who actually will be with a man for reasons other than the material are women who do so because they have to be – i.e. fat, old, ugly women. But the dark side to this is that the very second any chick who is old fat or ugly became young and supet attractive she would immediately hypergamize and seek another man who is the next bigger and better deal in terms of resources.

      It was not my intention to be so long winded here, but it really is worth asserting that you have to put out of your mind what really motivates chicks to be with any man.

  13. Theodore September 23, 2015 at 1:02 pm

    You will never be a complete man if you’re not a father one day, you know it. Having orgasms with random strangers is great, like a good meal you enjoy but it’s also meaningless. The spiritual man in you needs to come forward and reflect on what this all means.

    1. TyKo Steamboat September 24, 2015 at 12:09 am

      Plenty of men out there that have regretted having kids & even more that shouldn’t be allowed to “pro-create”

  14. Mark Boris September 23, 2015 at 1:02 pm

    “I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong.”


    Fornication is a sin.

    1. Chris Brony September 23, 2015 at 2:39 pm

      its the feeling where you shoot your load and immediately want them to go or leave yourself….it’s because there is nothing there but a quick fuck

      1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:13 pm

        Did men get a better deal in the past by having one woman for life – or now, with a bunch of unfaithful sluts and whores; both of whom offer no real contentment, lasting legacy in terms of children, and no social stability for any future for their society?

      2. Chris Brony September 24, 2015 at 4:42 pm

        i think its better now because there are many good girls out there…you just cant be naive about it and look after yourself…

  15. Demolition September 23, 2015 at 1:20 pm

    Eastern europe is getting to you Roosh. Get the fuck out of that hole. The woman are great but society as a whole is fucking depressing. Your posts also reflect that. Grab a nice girl (virgin, boring, good relationship with her father, etc), date her for at least one year, buy real estate in Italy, rent it out. And go live there. Get some Rooshies. And start your biggest project: Their education. Do some side hobbies.

    I would miss your posts, but would cheer for you to be happy.


    Last week I was jerking off to a Rocco porn scene with a sex slave named alisha. After it finished in the past I would feel sorry for the girl. But I didn´t. I thought about it for a while.

    The end.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:12 pm

      Where are the good girls? Even rural girls in western countries can be raging sluts, useless for long term relationships. Even asia is westernised in the larger cities where most expats would feel comfortable – there is only so far you can push your comfort zone. Let’s face it, western women are destroyed and declining commodities (they did this to themselves, following someone else’s bad ideology).

      We’re trapped in this hell to a large extent – it’s only heaven if you are incredibly naive/ ignore female behaviours etc/ like unfaithful sluts. The few faithful women left often pair up with sea men and have their own issues.

      1. spicynujac September 29, 2015 at 11:14 am

        I’ve started playing with some dating sites to try to find some more ethnic or religious girls (Asian, latina, etc.) because my area is mostly black and white. What is shocking is the Asian Americans have such a high rate of hair dying / tattoos / odd sexuality. I can’t tell you how many Asian Americans I saw that called themselves “genderqueer” or “pansexual”. Why the fuck are you even on a dating site if you don’t want to date men? I guess we need a niche site for straight people who want to date other straight people.

        But the point here is that Asians are seen as some of the most conservative and traditional (most Asians I know raised in Asia are virgins or have been with 1 boyfriend and keep it a secret). However, when exposed to American culture they quickly throw all morals out the window. Proof of the toxicity of feminism and how nothing makes it safe to live in this culture.

      2. banger December 4, 2015 at 1:27 pm

        “Why the fuck are you even on a dating site if you don’t want to date men? I guess we need a niche site for straight people who want to date other straight people.”
        — HaHa! I saw the same damn thing here (Montreal). One chick expressly wanted a guy who wouldn’t ‘mansplain’ stuff to her… Dating sites are a nightmare.

      3. bucky September 30, 2015 at 7:55 am

        i got lucky and found a great girl in central america. religious, loyal, virgin until she met me. had to wait several months for sex, but it was worth it. i’d say try the more traditional latin american countries, especially if you’re into the christian thing. still no guarantees, of course.

  16. Luís September 23, 2015 at 1:53 pm

    Dude why don’t you get a girlfriend then? It’s not as if you have trouble picking them up. I’ve seen many a skilled womanizer discard perfectly fine girls because they were easy to lay so they assume they’re unworthy sluts. That’s a limiting belief right there, if you’re good most girls that are into you will be easy lays. So next time you bed one that seems cool, beta down a bit and give here a chance.

    1. Rondo September 23, 2015 at 2:13 pm

      He has said on more than one occasion that he’s found someone like this and he threw it away for more Junk Food Sex.

      Like most men, he claims to want a certain thing – love and a “meaningful relationship” – but when he gets it, he can’t actually live the ideal. In a lot of ways, he’s just like a chick watching a romantic comedy.

      1. Luís September 23, 2015 at 2:29 pm

        Well, maybe it wasn’t the time and now it is. Or maybe he’s afraid that settling down makes him irrelevant in the manosphere. Although I bet writing about the struggles of going from the life of a die-hard player to one of developing meaningful relationships would make for a long time of compelling reads.

      2. Theodore September 23, 2015 at 2:56 pm

        buyer remorse ?

    2. jdoeford September 23, 2015 at 10:21 pm

      Yeah…Easy lay *can* mean she’s an indiscriminate slut.
      Or it can just mean that she’s really, really into you. Sometimes instant chemistry happens.

      1. spicynujac September 29, 2015 at 11:17 am

        Agreed, and I’ve had this happen with low notch count girls. But the bottom line is, they will always feel tingles from certain guys, and if they are not wired to reject a first night lay, then they are sluts and will slut it up again under the right circumstances, even if you’re only the 3rd guy they have been with.

    3. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:31 pm

      but you have to like a GF for it to work – modern women are a pain

  17. Chris Brony September 23, 2015 at 2:34 pm

    Roosh…how about trying to find someone you actually like and find interesting and sexy and attractive at the same time. Don’t have sex with her for at least the first few meetings. Then come and tell us about it.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:07 pm

      Since most women, even virgins, will put out and reward the wrong kinds of behaviour, surely waiting longer is a form of deluding yourself that the women are worth it, when you are just wanting to lie to yourself?

      The behaviour of women in western societies needs to change, only weak men stay with these amen for the long haul; hence why our amoral society is divided and conquered. Family was linked to property and social cohesion- destroy this by turning people into animals of instant gratification, and you start to ‘own’ them in a sense (the bankster philosophy).

      1. Chris Brony September 24, 2015 at 4:43 pm

        millions of men and women get married each year in the west…millions of these marriages will fail, but also millions will be happy marriages, produce children and be the best decisions these couples have ever made…

    2. bucky September 30, 2015 at 7:57 am

      there must still be some good catholic girls left in poland.

  18. A.W.E.S.O.M.-O September 23, 2015 at 3:05 pm

    I always find your articles have so much depth! Very interesting

  19. A.W.E.S.O.M.-O September 23, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    There really is nothing like sex with a meaningful girl that you have a strong bond with.

  20. splooge September 23, 2015 at 3:21 pm

    Tariq Nasheed mentioned this.
    this is end game, now you want to be afamily man, looks like youll be going back to working in the lab in western ukraine and find a good girl

  21. Bahlza Dragon September 23, 2015 at 3:49 pm

    “it doesn’t go down right anymore, so I stopped eating it.” I said that about my last girlfriend.

  22. Taco Idol September 23, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    I’m great at conversation, but I have trouble stomaching a whole conversation with women these days. They’re toxic, they know it, they know we are getting wise to it, and yet they still continue w/ the attitude. I stopped talking to a girl in my class because I realized she was using my attention and then banging the bf she never told me about. She ended up getting pissed at my silence and started spreading gossip about me behind my back to the rest of the girls in my class to blow me out of the water w/ them.
    I propse that men need to do two things in EVERY situation w/ a woman: 1) Use them as YOUR utility, even if it includes you having to be deceptive. 2) Whenever one of them can be disciplined in any professional setting (without you catching heat from it) then throw them completely under the bus without any conscience, to punish them for their unprofessional behavior.

    Spare the rod spoil the child. Women are children. Adult children. They are here to serve your interests and be disciplined without mercy whenever their ass steps out of line. There’s over 3.5 billion women on the planet. You won’t run out of female bridges to burn any time soon.

    1. Kisse Ellis September 23, 2015 at 10:55 pm

      “Spare the rod spoil the child. Women are children. Adult children. They are here to serve your interests and be disciplined without mercy whenever their ass steps out of line. ”


    2. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 1:56 pm

      This strategy, whilst understandable, will not work long-term as the genders and different people in society throw each other under the bus, undermining social cohesion. Only the self-appointed elite of society benefit. DO not forget false rape allegations or other things women can also raise against you if they fell slighted by your advice above – i.e. they discover your deception. So be careful and wise.

    3. Shaenon K. Garrity September 25, 2015 at 11:26 am

      A girl in your class wouldn’t have sex with you because she had a boyfriend? What a terrible person. If she were capable of making wise decisions, she’d cheat on her boyfriend with you, a guy who wants to beat her up. Damn this lack of logical male guardians to tell women what’s good for them!

  23. advancedatheist September 23, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    If Roosh married and had a son, what would he do if the kid lacks the ability to attract girls, and Roosh’s lessons in game don’t seem to make any difference?

    1. Enro Rebels September 24, 2015 at 6:09 pm

      Move to Siberia with an American passport.

  24. Imprevist September 23, 2015 at 5:05 pm

    We don’t appreciate things that come easily to us and are not challenging enough. Easy is fun but not very fulfilling. When you were younger this was all new to you and it had a certain aura of mystery, suspense and challenge but as you’ve grown and as the years have passed it no longer gives you that same reward or feeling… this is natural. You don’t need to have a strong emotional attachment with a woman to enjoy sex with her but there at least has to be more of a connection than just purely physical. Sharing things in common is a start but it will be rare in the current position you are in because most women you meet will not be able to identify with you based on different cultures, upbringing, mentality etc.
    Ask yourself what it is you want…by simply reading your article I would assume that it’s something more than just purely physical…maybe a relationship even or perhaps you want to fall in love. Love is scary and a huge gamble (especially these days) but it’s the elixir of growth and there’s no other feeling on earth that feels better or worth striving for. If that’s the case then it’s time to “get in where you fit in” so to speak. Start going to places where you believe there are women that will fit your newfound fancy…

  25. Genie September 23, 2015 at 5:07 pm

    What will you do if you get sick of all of this? Would you ever settle down with someone? Just curious because from what you’re writing it seems that you’re in a transition stage of some kind so what do you vision will be next for you in terms of relationships with women if you decide you no longer want to have casual sex with them?

    1. TyKo Steamboat September 23, 2015 at 11:43 pm

      He’s only 36. My model will be to try to look for a quality woman when i’m 41-43. But as we know in life, these things don’t always go according to plan.

      1. Enro Rebels September 24, 2015 at 6:07 pm

        Don’t plan on finding a wife. Keep fucking till you drop or she drops.

      2. bucky October 1, 2015 at 7:16 pm

        your planned age to get married is right where i got married. granted, i knew nothing of game before i met my current wife, but i’m tall, fit, american, and i spent most of my adult life in the former USSR and in latin america and worked hard to learn the language in both places, so i still did fine. early forties is a great time for a guy to get married IF a good girl comes along. feminine, traditional, low notch count, works out and eats healthy, at least a decade younger than you is what you should look for. i would throw in religious and not from a western country too.

      3. TyKo Steamboat October 2, 2015 at 2:00 am

        Thanks. Even with a “perfect scenario” I still wouldn’t get married probably.

  26. euneaux September 23, 2015 at 5:33 pm

    Thank you for sharing this, Brother Roosh,

    It’s comforting to see that I’m not alone in failing to find satisfaction with always sustaining the illusion of a tough masculine swagger.

    Why is the only place we men can share this depth and vulnerability under the veil of pseudonymity with strangers on the internet? Something about our atomized modern society has isolated us and made genuine deep human contact and real community hard. So it’s fora like this or paying a professional therapist $150 an hour to have a deep chat?

    For more than a decade Brother Roosh has been plumbing the depths of the nether-regions of strange women in the most exotic corners of the globe to find a glimpse of the truth and meaning to life. It sounds like he’s discovering that this journey is doomed to discovering only an unsatisfying encounter with superficial illusions.

    I hope Brother Roosh does find some satisfaction. Perhaps he’s already had a glimpse? Rather than in consuming experiences, he might be finding greater meaning in his acts of creation. At the same time he writes his essays and short stories, he has also touched so many…

    I do hope to get a chance to read some more of his fiction…


    On another issue, I wonder if an old jaded master pickup artist like Brother Roosh is capable of love, whatever that emotion might be. Our modern culture builds “Love” up into a completely unrealistic Disneyfied ideal that reality can’t help disappointing. While I’m not religious myself, I’ve heard some religious peers explain that at the heart of much of the disappointment in contemporary Western Civilization is the false idol we’ve made love into. Putting too much faith in a broken fallen mortal beast shaped by accidental evolution is a recipe for disaster. Maybe the pickup-artists are onto something…?

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:30 pm

      Being masculine isn’t about fucking tons of pussy – that’s a corporate lie designed to ‘redefine’ gender norms.

      1. Enro Rebels September 24, 2015 at 6:06 pm

        Essentially turning men into pussy beggars and placing women in a position of power. Having tons of sex very rarely enhances your life like music, art, adventures and complete autonomy. It’s desert to be had AFTER the main course.

  27. euneaux September 23, 2015 at 5:46 pm

    At least I’m confident that Roosh has fine enough taste that the young women with whom he fraternizes are lower in cholesterol and saturated fat than a Quarter Pounder with Cheese.. or the typical over nourished Yank broad for that matter.

    1. bucky October 1, 2015 at 7:19 pm

      overfed. our women are overfed, not overnourished. there’s a huge (heh) difference.

  28. NonCanadian September 23, 2015 at 5:52 pm

    You’ve got some good and valuable advices on here, Roosh. I perfectly know how you feel since I’m a bit older than you are and have experienced the stage in life you are going through right now.
    Get married, man. Get yourself some kids and enjoy a very different side of your life. May be it’s time to look around and to slow down a bit?
    Being married and having a family ain’t that bad after all.

    1. TyKo Steamboat September 23, 2015 at 11:40 pm

      I would think that if you visit this blog often & in this modern age where women quickly loose value & most kids are a surprise/accident & now knowing that a kid will cost a man a minimum of 250,000$ & lots of time & patience….the guys that read here are not trying to settle down & have a family. At least i’m not. Just what I see from what I read.
      The same guys in their late 30’s/early 40’s were Tom Leykis followers & some type of MGTOWers
      A good book: Men On Strike …. by Helen Smith Why Men are boycotting marriage, fatherhood & the American dream & why it matters.

      1. NonCanadian September 24, 2015 at 6:42 am

        I ain’t trying to limit your PERSONAL choices or to tell you what’s right or wrong. I do fully respect your thoughts and visions.
        I’ve never been a fan of a Game or having sex left and right. But I come here to follow and support Roosh in his fight against the system of the Western values as a whole!
        Game is only a tiny part of it all, whereas I’m a lot more concerned about issues like political correctness, affirmative action, mass immigration, quota hiring, feminism and multiculturalism.
        Roosh “adventures” in Canada and especially in Montreal were a perfect example of what’s wrong with the modern society and people when a bunch of politically correct morons created a “perfect media storm” while trying to stop Roosh from holding a meeting and expressing HIS OWN thoughts and opinions.
        That’s what I’m really concerned about and where I’ll put a big effort to support Roosh in all his endeavors.
        It just ain’t right when a group of politically correct freaks are petitioning the government to ban the entry to Canada for a person who DARES to have a different opinion than their own!
        And that’s again exactly what’s wrong with the modern society-way too many sheeple and way too few real leaders!

      2. Enro Rebels September 24, 2015 at 6:01 pm

        They were free to express their discontent and so they protested.

    2. spicynujac September 29, 2015 at 11:31 am

      Marriage is fine for some. History is full of stories of accomplished men who never married. I won’t go as far as to say marriage prevents you from doing great things in life, but it does require a HUGE commitment of time and energy and resources. Marriage is not for everyone. Instead of recommending marriage / procreation, it’s much more responsible to recommend trying a LTR first and see if that is rewarding.

      I for one have no desire for banging a new chick every week, but also don’t want marriage. Different strokes for different folks. I can’t see Roosh’s ideas and writing and passion being congruent with being Mr. Mom, but then again I’m my own man and wouldn’t presume to tell another guy what makes him happy.

  29. I Art Laughing September 23, 2015 at 6:43 pm

    Ecclesiastes 1: (written by a man with a higher notch count than Roosh)

    The words of the Preacher, the son of David, king in Jerusalem.

    Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.

    What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun?

    One generation passeth away, and another generation cometh: but the earth abideth for ever.

    The sun also ariseth, and the sun goeth down, and hasteth to his place where he arose.

    The wind goeth toward the south, and turneth about unto the north; it
    whirleth about continually, and the wind returneth again according to
    his circuits.

    All the rivers run into the sea; yet the sea is not full; unto the place from whence the rivers come, thither they return again.

    All things are full of labour; man cannot utter it: the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing.

    The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.

    Is there any thing whereof it may be said, See, this is new? it hath been already of old time, which was before us.

    There is no remembrance of former things; neither shall there be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that shall come after.

    I the Preacher was king over Israel in Jerusalem. And I gave my heart to seek and search out by wisdom concerning all things that are done under heaven: this sore travail hath God given to the sons of man to be exercised therewith.
    I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and, behold, all is vanity and vexation of spirit. That which is crooked cannot be made straight: and that which is wanting cannot be numbered.

    I communed with mine own heart, saying, Lo, I am come to great estate, and have gotten more wisdom than all they that have been before me in Jerusalem: yea, my heart had great experience of wisdom and knowledge. And I gave my heart to know wisdom, and to know madness and folly: I perceived that this also is vexation of spirit. For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow.

    1. Zechs Marquise September 24, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      A human sacrificed himself to save the Pokémon. I pitted them against each other, but not until they set aside their differences did I see the true power they all share deep inside. I see now that the circumstances of one’s birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are. – mewtwo pokemon the first movie

      1. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 1:11 pm

        Oh look, a troll stalker.

        Cuz you aren’t insane.

        Aren’t you neglecting a Tumblr account somewhere?

      2. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 1:18 pm

        I just find bible quotes an opening for any line of fiction of my choosing.

      3. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 1:37 pm

        Can’t wait for you to respond to the Quran in this manner (preferably in public). After that you can tell the Quran reciter that his time is past and that there are too many against him. Make sure he feels the full force of your skepticism and contempt.

        (Or is it all just easier and more “tolerant” when you do it THIS way?)

        Personally, I think you are a coward. Who will moan and cry over the treatment of women by white men and disappear the minute you face the real potential of violent opposition.

        Your lizard brain understands the difference between a religion of peace and a religion based on murder. Even if you won’t admit it to yourself.

      4. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 2:35 pm

        They’re both based around a sky fairy. I’m willing to face violence if it comes to it.

      5. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 2:36 pm

        Yeah, but it won’t because we are past and you outnumber us (in leftoid land).

      6. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 2:42 pm

        We’re on an article called junk food sex can you just admit the right is far more crazy?

      7. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 3:24 pm

        I’m indicting you for your own specific action

      8. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 3:30 pm

        Left is more crazy, hands down.

        What specific action are you indicting me for? Suggesting that gratuitous hookup culture isn’t fulfilling and that the Bible points this out?

      9. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 3:34 pm

        You are on a site that endorses that culture. Right is nothing but hatred of people that are different from you in any way.

      10. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 3:35 pm

        So are you, look in the mirror pal.

        You are certifiable.

      11. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 3:39 pm

        Nope, what is it your side says hmmm… Love the sinner, not the sin 😉 I hate hate which is all this site is.

      12. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 3:40 pm

        Do you somehow think I advocate pick-up culture? That I approve of Roosh? That he constitutes “right wing”? LOL

      13. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 4:49 pm

        You do and he does, suppressing women and minority’s is your sides specialty. Why else would you be here? It’s not to troll

      14. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 3:46 pm

        Speaking of hate:

        “The kulaks are the most brutal, callous and savage exploiters, who in the history of other countries have time and again restored the power of the landowners, tsars, priests and capitalists. The kulaks are more
        numerous than the landowners and capitalists. Nevertheless, they are a minority…

        Ruthless war on the kulaks! Death to them! Hatred and contempt for the parties which defend them-the Right Socialist-Revolutionaries, the Mensheviks, and today’s Left Socialist-Revolutionaries! The workers must
        crush the revolts of the kulaks with an iron hand, the kulaks who are forming an alliance with the foreign capitalists against the working people of their own country.”

        — Lenin, “Comrade Workers, Forward To The Last, Decisive Fight!” August 1918, in Lenin, V.I. Collected Works. Vol. 28. Moscow: 1965., pp. 53-57.

        Which lead to the Holomodor which killed off around 5 million Ukrainian’s because they were a hated minority. So much for plurality huh?

      15. Zechs Marquise September 25, 2015 at 4:47 pm

        Hmm maybe you think about that with your Muslim hate.

      16. I Art Laughing September 25, 2015 at 3:12 pm

        Want me to start with the Tumblr links?

      17. bucky October 1, 2015 at 7:22 pm

        i’d think even an atheist could appreciate ecclesiastes. it’s one of the most wise things ever written.

  30. Conservative Muslim Guy September 23, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    Roosh, the bad feelings you’re having is your conscious. After years of supression it has finally reawoken. As you have accurately pointed out, your soul is literally writhing in pain from your debauchery and years of moral degeneracy. If you ignore that feeling as an “associated cost of doing business” what will happen is that your heart will once again become hard and you will no longer feel the sting of your conscious. But that does not mean that your soul is not being mutilated.

    Look when your body writhes in pain do you ignore it? Do you say “oh well that’s the cost of doing business?” If right now you ate something that made you puke and have stomach pain for 3 days I can guarantee that you’d never eat it again. You’d listen to what your body is telling you. Why is it any different when your soul is literally screaming in pain? Listen to your heart. It’s time to find your 18 year old virgin bride.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:29 pm

      Honestly, I don’t claim to know what he is like as a man; and he may have a lot to offer. But IMHO with the numbers of women he has slept with, he cannot ‘undo’ that in his mind. He has more value, but the same mentality as a woman who has fucked lots of men. She has a jaded 1000 cock stare and he is similarly jaded and entrenched with his views abut women. It’s not a criticism, just a statement of fact.

  31. Andrea September 23, 2015 at 7:33 pm

    I wish more men and women were as open, honest and reflective because then, it would take us a lot less time to realize that we all have the same intrinsic need to love and be loved; to connect and be seeing by another. This is the only way to feed our spirit and transcend our humanity.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:26 pm

      Do many modern women need to be loved – do they not like the current status quo. You may feel a certain way, but is your experience generalisable to most women?

      1. Andrea September 24, 2015 at 3:41 pm

        People may think they’re happy consuming junk food. In reality, very few of us understand and are aware of our deepest and truest emotions and needs. It is only when we stop to reflect that we notice and feel the effects of junk.

  32. BJ September 23, 2015 at 9:36 pm

    Great article. I’m around your age Roosh, and I can definitely relate. In my experience, I can always tell whether I actually like a girl or not. If I do, I WANT them to hang around after sex. However, more often than not, I just want them out the door, or I want to get the hell out of there as soon as possible. They say the most honest moment in a man’s life is right after he blows his load, and I absolutely believe that to be true…. even when I was a horny 19 yo, I felt disgusted straight after banging a slut. As I have grown older, these feelings have intensified.
    It’s been discussed many times before, but the vast majority of modern women can bring nothing to a man’s life besides sex. It’s hard to feel a true connection with any woman who has been on the cock carousel. This is ok for a while, but eventually, as you mature, a discerning gentleman wants more than just to blow his load. Unfortunately, thanks to feminism, a woman of value that is actually worth being a wife and mother for years to come is as difficult to find as a needle in a haystack. Sex can mean nothing to men, and they are generally happy to settle down when they find the right woman, no matter how many sluts they have banged. But the more cock a woman has, the harder she finds it to bond with any one man. Call it sexist, call it whatever you want, but men and women are not the same and never will be. Sluts are the “junk food” of sex, and sadly they are also popping up more and more, on every corner, replacing healthier, more fulfilling options.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 1:53 pm

      Modern western society is a parody – I just laugh as women check me or other men out whilst with their boyfriends; most men are just cucks. Even super alpha studs have their slutty women fucking other men on the sly, as society allows for no consequences to female unrestrained behaviours. Heck, even the illegal immigrants getting welfare are getting some form ok looking women, haha.

      In an amoral and sexually unrestrained society, where transvestitism, pedophilia and hypergamy abound, it is not surprising that in order for this to have taken place, the women were already raging sluts(doing it on a whim) beforehand. Women have always been whores(doing it for security/money), so this wouldn’t be as bad, were it not for the fact that the used up whores marry weak men, making for a weaker society; but the sluts have destroyed male-female relationships altogether; hence the rise in more ‘acceptable’ forms of immorality now being pushed onto the people. But its okay to let the moneychanger replace God and morality with unrestrained sex(including faggotry and pedophila), Kim K and who knows what else, right?

      We already have pedophile MPs in the UK and the Man and Boy Love Association in the US. Expect bestiality, necrophilia, and mass immigrant gang rapes of women and MEN (happens in the UK) before this shit show ends.

      1. Uncle Cedric September 25, 2015 at 10:50 pm

        It’s the Brave New Kosher World. Pedohphilia becoming mainstream? That’s beyond loco.

    2. Enro Rebels September 24, 2015 at 5:51 pm

      So you actively contributed to the cock carousel that led to the current situation and now you’re decrying women for behaving irresponsibly?

      1. BJ September 24, 2015 at 7:29 pm

        Feminism made women become whores. I had no say in this – I’ve merely reacted to the environment around me. I don’t like sluts, but biologically I need to have sex. Although fucking a slut feels like dumpster diving to me, the lack of quality girls means that sometimes I just have to do what I have to do, whilst continuing to look for a far better option to settle down with. What I absolutely refuse to do is commit to a slut

      2. rofl September 27, 2015 at 6:54 pm

        Characters like Enro share a blind spot with feminists, blank-slate pozzers and white knighting cuckservative everywhere. (A very motley crew!)

        Namely, they deny women any agency whatsoever when it comes to making poor life-choices.

        It’s never (never!) her fault, always some dude’s… any dude… all dudes’.

        If some Polish gutter snipe chooses to get off with Roosh instead of exercising sexual restraint… It’s his fault.

        Likewise, if women vote in politicians who sabotage and ruinously permacuck their own countries… it’s, globally, his fault.

        Micro-, macro- and everywhere inbetween… his fault.

        Strangely, these folks frame such presumably one-sided, misogynist interactions in terms of violations of some sort of bizarro “equity.”


        “She’s not your equal, yet she is, and you, sir, are a scoundrel for denying her her rightful agency, the agency she is inherently incapable of exercising independently, by allowing her to make her own poor choices! Take that, hypocritical knave! (Mark my words, hirsute cad, should we meet on the morrow I shall mount my trusty charger and… blah, blah, blah…)”

        It’s ridiculous. Have these guys ever considered that, perhaps, men and women are different? That they are much happier following different life trajectories, as they have from time immemorial to the dawn of our glorious progressive postmodern era?

        If women must be shielded from consequence at all cost, perhaps they should be denied the capability of consequential decision-making?

        No! Scandalous! GET TO THE CHARGAHHHH!

        lol, stupid cucks

      3. Tom Kaye September 29, 2015 at 4:33 pm

        Although I am sympathetic to the damage women do to themselves when they do not protect the primary “product” they bring to a social order, nevertheless, women are and have always been the gatekeepers to sex.

        Now if I hold a commodity everyone wants, or 50% of society wants, it is up to ME to protect it and make sure I sell it for the highest price possible. Which, for a woman offering access to sex, ought to be monogamy, which includes sexual fidelity, children, security, and life-long provisioning by the purchaser, a man.

        Unfortunately, my generation was the first to advocate throwing this paradigm out in favor of the mess we have now. But this was only possible because the previous generation invented The Pill, eliminating the one “excuse” a girl could use that a boy could not push through with any kind of logic. Pregnancy was ALWAYS a risk and a forced wedding was always the solution. With the Pill, a girl had no LEGITIMATE excuse. NOT if she REALLY loved him.

  33. RedPillRenegade September 23, 2015 at 10:16 pm

    Roosh has a case of the “thousand cunt stare”. Time to just lay off this pick up shit and start a family. You’re going on 40.

    1. jdoeford September 23, 2015 at 10:26 pm

      “Thousand pussy stare”?

      1. RedPillRenegade September 23, 2015 at 10:28 pm


    2. Kisse Ellis September 23, 2015 at 10:58 pm

      Thousand cunt stare. ???? No such thing.

      Roosh is still a romantic. He refuses to accept deep down that there is no such thing as “the one”.

      He would do best with an Asian woman as well.

      1. Kev September 24, 2015 at 8:18 am

        Ha – you think?

      2. MaxfieldStrongshank September 25, 2015 at 3:14 pm

        Exactly. amazing how many dudes on here still harbor NAWALT Unicorn fantasy theory. The perfect wife awaits, the golden offspring awaits. Ha. The Matrix is very very difficult to escape.

        Fucking attractive women is extremely fun when one is 15, and it’s even more fun when you are 45 or 78; it’s simply harder to do and requires more resources as you get past 45.

        Strange is good shit. A wife and kids ? Pains in the ass. All having kids does is fulfills
        The biological imperative. All else is fantasy speak.

      3. bucky October 1, 2015 at 7:26 pm

        i recommend latina girls who go to church (i may have mentioned this before).

  34. advancedatheist September 23, 2015 at 11:03 pm

    I had four orgasms with her, and each one felt immensely pleasurable, but the following day I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong.

    Well, Roosh, perhaps you should leave some sex for Poland’s adult male virgins instead of taking more than your share. In a more sexually egalitarian society, which of necessity would have to revoke women’s sexual freedom, most guys would have wives and would get to bang them four times a month, instead of the emerging system where a handful of guys can have sex four times a night while more and more men like George Sodini, Elliot Rodger and that Anglo- Chinese foodie who committed suicide have to do without.

  35. Jeremy Osborne September 24, 2015 at 2:16 am

    You’ve been living the hakuna matada life for a while now. Your discomfort is Rafiki telling you to go back to Pride Rock(the U.S.) and dethrone your uncle Scar(feminism) and bring order to the lands

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:25 pm

      Wish it could be done – feminism is part of our social fabric and almost all young western women are its adherents, having been exposed to it from a young age through TV and social interactions.

      1. Jeremy Osborne September 24, 2015 at 5:54 pm

        Maybe so, but if more men had high testosterone(by natural means) they wouldn’t put up with this bitch behavior and there would be less white knighting. Feminism got this powerful because men allowed it, so if enough men start acting like men we might have a chance at reversing some of the damage. But, I could be wrong

  36. jq747 September 24, 2015 at 3:29 am

    Hm, I got that feeling of sickness after I kissed a girl for the first time. It never goes away. But the body has needs you just can’t ignore. I thought maybe I was queer.. But although I can appreciate a honed male physique, I definitely prefer quim over a smelly asshole. Ah well.

  37. Dheeraj September 24, 2015 at 4:53 am

    Roosh, have you got your T levels checked?
    sometimes there might be no symptoms but levels are low for some reason.
    You are also approaching the 40’s.

    1. Jeremy Osborne September 24, 2015 at 1:39 pm

      In a YouTube video he said his levels are fine

      1. Dheeraj September 24, 2015 at 6:31 pm

        I see a lot of men experiencing changes in their mindset and mentality because of lower T levels at that age.
        maybe a TRT cycle would help. You should try it to see if it changes the way you think.

  38. John Galt September 24, 2015 at 5:11 am

    Why isn’t there game for making women stop using contraceptives? Or is there? I’ve heard of relationship game but nothing that about getting any woman to jump through the biggest hoop of all which is wilfully getting pregnant, carrying a baby for nine months, and shitting it out.

    1. Genie September 24, 2015 at 7:04 pm

      Why should women jump through the biggest hoop of all if, according to the views of many men on this site, men shouldn’t settle down?? Why would any sane girl allow herself to get pregnant by a pick up artist??? Jesus…… Do you want to get girls pregnant and are you ready to take on that responsibility?

  39. Olivier Guy September 24, 2015 at 6:47 am

    Jacques Lacan says that the more you look for jouissance ( I’m not going to define this word as it would take too long, but let’s say that it is a mixture of pleasure and pain as when you’re having sex) the more you’re tempted to go back to a zero excitement, to an inorganic state. Cheers.

  40. Zelcorpion September 24, 2015 at 7:37 am

    There is another way to go about it. You simply find yourself a girl you really like – often you may need to do Daygame for that since many of them don’t go out to clubs and aiming younger doesn’t hurt either.

    That way you can actually build a mini-LTR with such a girl until it runs it’s course. It’s even possible that you both leave on a positive note or both your lives have been enriched – even if it has been only 3 months you have spent together. That way you exchange McDonald’s with gourmet slow food – a man has gotta eat after all.

    1. Trey Bert September 24, 2015 at 4:00 pm

      mini-ltr? hamster….

      1. Zelcorpion September 24, 2015 at 4:10 pm

        Heh – touche. Plate it is, since there is no commitment.

    2. Genie September 24, 2015 at 7:09 pm

      Or, it could turn into an actual long term relationship if there’s a real connection.

    3. Uncle Cedric September 25, 2015 at 10:44 pm

      I like daytime women better than night owls too.

  41. Remo September 24, 2015 at 8:23 am

    The ideal, what you crave, is to unleash game on a chaste woman you can love with the body type that excites you. But all of society is designed from start to finish to encourage women to whore around as much as possible while filling their heads with ideas and notions that make them poor long term mates.

    Your skills allow you to attract women which is half of the puzzle. Unfortunately your skills do *not* allow you to attract women who are worthy of love because those do not exist anymore. The devil has seen to this and with Christianity dying and no social norms to deter them even if a woman is outwardly pretty, inwardly she is uglier than the fattest most tatted up SJW lesbian avenger stereotype.

    You have all the sex you want and no one to love. You have all the food and nothing fills you up as there is nothing to it but grease, fat, and filler. Solomon compared pursuing Earthly things to chasing after the wind. You’ve gained wisdom and found out a horrible truth about living in today’s world. The 50’s which we all mocked for its puritanism is looking pretty good now. If you have game then you’d still need to impress her father and you’d get a virgin who could cook and be an actual helpmate. Now we get sex with whores who aren’t worth a damn and if you mistake it for love you get divorce rape.

    The practitioners of game who truly master the concepts will be the first to realize that women are not worthy of the effort. Perhaps that was the boon of being a beta. With societal controls in place you could be a dweeb, have a good job, and still get a pretty virginal wife who because she wasn’t stupid and didn’t want to starve, would stay married to you without constant caustic bitching. A man could pretend that there was such a thing as real romantic ‘love’. Now that illusion (and it always was an illusion) is shattered. Women are not men and are incapable of loving a man as he loves her. She loves herself first and foremost then other things. You are an exciting alpha to get her wet and/or later on a boring beta to pay her bills. That’s actually *always been the case* but the old ways allowed men to pretend otherwise. Welcome to the truth.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:35 pm

      A man was always complete when he had a firm faith in God, his fellow tribe members, and had women with low n counts for sex.

      This has all been replaced with the diametric opposites, so long-term unfulfilment develops with a collapsing society. The only way to fix it is to go back to what worked, some of which may be possible in the modern era.

  42. 66Scorpio September 24, 2015 at 8:27 am

    One way to avoid this involves the self-mind-adjustment where you take this attitude: “my next girlfriend will be my last”. That attitude might pay off for me now but overall it increased the quality of the women I fucked at the expense of literally “not giving a fuck” with a lot of might-have-beens.

  43. Clark Kent September 24, 2015 at 8:46 am

    I got no ideas to really offer here, but I respect you Roosh for your brutal honesty.

    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:04 pm

      Let’s face it, most modern western women are socially engineered to be career chasing sluts until they decide to whore themselves out to a beta provider and still cheat on the side. Love and marriage are destroyed. All we have left are deluded cum-receptacles who are hard work to spend time around oftentimes and a declining standard of living that is going to bottom out badly soon.

      1. Uncle Cedric September 25, 2015 at 10:44 pm

        Who owns the corporations the birds work for?
        Who created and pushes women’s lib/slutdom?

        The Joos!

      2. Enro Rebels September 26, 2015 at 9:51 pm

        Where do the reptilians fit in your story?

      3. Uncle Cedric September 27, 2015 at 3:12 am

        Not feeling the narrative from Boca Raton?

  44. David The Good September 24, 2015 at 9:50 am

    There is a spiritual aspect to this, Roosh. Call me crazy but I believe your soul is being drawn towards God and I will be praying for you.

  45. Bedu September 24, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    I converted to Islam when I was 18. I stayed abstinent from sex for 2 years. Avoided vacationing with my family to places like Australia and Thai Land for fear of having sex. At the age of 20 I agreed to go on vacation to a scenic and very quiet place in England with my parents. There I managed to get drunk and laid. So after that i chose not to travel until i got married. Up until the age of 26 I was successful. Due to the nature of my work and the location I lived in the city it was easy not to have contact with women. Thats not to say i didn’t think of sex a great deal. As arousal struck me I would often come up with and consider reasons not to have sex before marriage that benefit my self and society. At 26 i was on the way to being engaged to a lovely women who was a widow. She sadly died of stomach cancer before we married.

    From there things took a major down turn. I began having girlfriends but would not sleep with them. 5 years later , I am living in the UK attending university and am surrounded by plenty of young beautiful women who take interest me. I also have an abundance of income . To put it in short, I am wealthy, good looking, from an exotic background and am also living in a place packed with women from all over the world who are willing to experiment sexually.On top of that I have access to all of the ‘Game’ knowledge the internet can offer.

    Ive slept with somewhere between 70 and 100 women those 5 years. I have never been comfortable with seducing them much. If the woman was not an escort then it would be a woman who almost just told me to do it to them.

    The escorts were an option that were easier on my soul. I would not have to lead them into my bed. They knew exactly where they stood and would leave with a tangible reward. In some sense they left with more dignity then the woman who is simple riding the cock carousel.Even in their cases I found it hard to go through with. By in large i would use drugs and alcohol to drown out my conscience. I had a Burka i would sometimes put on them, occasionally i would have one dressed up in it, have them sit with me for hours and just discuss with them all i knew of men and women and society. Then i would have them leave. If i ever had sex with them the feeling was more akin to a man eating his pet because he was starving.

    I know what you mean about preparing mentally for indigestion. I would do it my self. The women are far from innocent. So from my part it was not an attack on the innocent. It certainly was an attack on the ignorant. An attack on the ones whose guardians are failing them. For me, preparing mentally either meant drowning myself in drugs up until my hornyness was the only thing that would clearly resonate with my conscience, or i just hold the women in contempt for their lack of innocence and callous devious ways. The outcomes were nothing like how i expected sex to eventually be for me during my celibacy.

    You coin what it is well as ‘Junk food sex’. Seems to be more like poison for the spirit then poison for the body.

    Walking around the streets of Engalnd, seeing all of these women that may have nice faces, curvey bodys, women that are arousing and disgusting at the same time is a confusing experience. The young fertile faces usually have the dimensions that hint towards a nurturer and care giver, the potential that is there is not entirely over shadowed by the tramp that lies within them. That is, if i chose to care and squint to see it.

    I once said to an escort that was about 7 years older then me, ” If i didnt have the
    the hope that Islam gave me i would be going mad gaming girls left right and centre’. As long as that hope is there then there is a part of me that has to die to lay those women.

    Perhaps your en-devour of Neo- Masculinity has given you hope, in turn giving you something to feel bad about. If you aspire in a direction that is good then part of you may feel bad for not encouraging others to follow you, including the women you lay.

    I suspect you have figured that much out for your self. Thank you for your work, its been a great inspiration to me. I wish you all the best.

    1. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 5:02 pm

      I understand, Betu. But please tell me. What will you do about your sin?

      In all of world history, of all the world’s religions and philosophies, only ONE man EVER claimed to be able to forgive sins.

      Think of that. It is not a matter of choosing one savior over another. There is only ONE savior. No one else has EVER made that claim. And his claim was CREDIBLE. Even Mohammed acknowledged he was a prophet. But what prophet EVER claimed to be able to FORGIVE sins? How could a mere prophet forgive sins. It is blasphemy. Unless it’s true.

      Something to consider.

      1. advancedatheist September 24, 2015 at 8:21 pm

        In all of world history, of all the world’s religions and philosophies, only ONE man EVER claimed to be able to forgive sins.

        You mean Krishna? Bhagavad Gita 18:66.

        “Abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reaction. Do not fear.”

        Christians really should do more opposition research before they just repeat talking points from ignorant apologetic propaganda.

      2. Tom Kaye September 25, 2015 at 12:02 am

        LOL!! Leave it to an atheist troll to diddle google for something that sounds just like something else but isn’t and then post it like he’s Tom Hanks and just discovered Jesus wasn’t really resurrected.

        “Now acknowledge my discovery, you religious morons! And let all the edifices of Christianity FALL before my brilliant discovery (which no one ever noticed or considered before in two thousand years of Church history)! All hail the wisdom of ME” LOL!!

        Let me explain your error to you. It’s so simple.

        If I hold up a potato and say “potato” and you hold up a carrot, but SAY “potato,” that doesn’t mean your carrot is a potato. Got it? Even though we are using the same words we are talking about two totally different things.

        Still not getting it? OK. Then let’s play a little game. Did you ever watch Sesame Street? You did? Great! So sing it with me!

        “Two of these concepts fit together.
        And two of these concepts are kinda the same.
        But one of these concepts just doesn’t belong here
        Now it’s time to play our game.
        It’s time to play our game.
        Go ahead, Grover.”

        “OK. Let’s look right here.
        In this first box we have the Christian concept of Sin, OK?
        And in this box we have the Christian concept of Forgiveness.
        In this third box we have the Hindu concept of Karma.”

        “Now can you guess which thing just doesn’t belong
        Dee dee dee dee deedeedeedee,
        By the time I finish my song
        Before I finish my song.”

        “Now one of these things just doesn’t belong here
        TELL ME! Did you guess which one
        Well if you guessed that theHinduconceptofkarma just doesn’t belong here
        You’re right!
        And now my song is done!”

        You see, Grover, in Hinduism there is no concept of god as an infinite and personal being. God is the impersonal substance from which the universe sprang and the universe runs according to eternal and immutable laws. We might think of them as Laws of Nature but they are much more.

        The most important such law in Hinduism is Karma. Karma is sometimes defined as absolute and universal justice. It is perceived as an almost scientific law; the spiritual analog to the law of cause and effect. Most important of all, the Law of Karma can NEVER be abrogated.

        Because of this, every bad thing a person does creates a “karmic debt”, which Westerners think of as Sin. This sin debt must be paid but there is only ONE WAY to pay it: by being reincarnated over and over again until finally one’s good deeds outweigh all of one’s bad deeds.

        In Hinduism there is no release from Karma except by individual, personal expatiation through good works. No one, not even Lord Krsna can release one from his Karmic debt. In Hinduism everyone must pay for their own sins. Why? Because all sins are ultimately committed against no one but oneself.

        Now over here in these two boxes we have the Christian concepts of Sin and Forgiveness. In Christianity sin is any behavior generated by a person’s free will that violates the Wisdom, Truth, and Goodness of God. Because God is the source and ground of all Wisdom, Goodness and Truth, all sins are ultimately committed against Him.

        In Christianity, Sin is Personal.

        Because of the deeply personal nature of all Sin, an offense against God Himself, God is right and just to punish everyone who sins. But because all sins are ultimately committed against Him, Forgiveness – the wiping OUT of all bad actions and their eternal consequences – is possible. God has the Right, the Authority, and the Power to Forgive the sins of all who turn to Him in repentance and faith. He has chosen to do this because of the sacrificial death of Jesus.

        So you see, Grover, although Hinduism uses words very similar to words Christianity uses, words like, forgiveness, sin, and deliverance, they are NOT the same concepts AT ALL. So the Hindu concept of Karma does not belong with the Christian concepts of Sin and Forgiveness. It doesn’t fit.

        “And now my song is done!”

        Wasn’t that a fun game! I hope you all learned something important.

        Be sure and join us next week. Same time. Same station.

  46. just a human September 24, 2015 at 12:36 pm

    I know how it feels..))). Last year (2014) i had some interaction with more than 100 girls-i mean,i didn’t sleep with all of them. Bu there was some kind of contact. With only 3 of them i felt real emotional connection. Interaction and sex with them was easy and joyful. That means-i liked not only their bodies,but allso i liked that human creation that lives in those bodies-you may call it a “soul” or “personality” or whatever-nobody really knows,what it is…

    1. just a human September 24, 2015 at 12:39 pm

      but anyway – junk food is better than no food at all 🙂

  47. Bluntobj September 24, 2015 at 12:37 pm

    I see a lot of yap yap about western civ going down the toilet, white man being replaced, etc. etc.

    What the fuck are any of you doing about it?

    Post a response here with one thing that you are actively doing in your life to rebuild white western civilization.

    I’ll start:

    I have 5 kids with the same white woman, and both sets of our parents (who are still married to each other) are living on our property. We are debt free.


    1. john mahoney September 24, 2015 at 2:24 pm

      Nothing can be done about it, as too many people are in the ‘trap’ – and you may not be as ‘free’ as you believe.

      It can’t be fixed until the thing you are trying to prevent (the demise of white western society) ha taken place – that’s the travesty. This game has years left to go before implosion and only a minority of whites and there will make it in the west – most are too far gone to be ‘saved’/useful/survive.

      1. Bluntobj September 24, 2015 at 2:48 pm

        Your premise is false.

        I did not ask “What can some government do about it”

        The question is “what are you doing about it?”

        Change happens on a per person basis. If you don’t change yourself (and I point out that I’m not preventing anything, I’m rebuilding. Words mean things…), you are in the “too far gone” class. Is that what you are declaring? That you yourself are too far gone?

    2. Rob September 25, 2015 at 8:00 pm

      good for you bluntobj…meant seriously. I’m trying to emulate something like this as well. It’s just so tough for me to find a good white woman. They flake, lie. I bang the shit out of them and they still flake or disappear after a while. Truth be told, I am in America and that has a lot to do with that. Also, I didn’t swallow the RP until I was in my 40s so, it’s a little tougher to get the young nubile ones.

      What am I doing? Continually approaching, upping my game, learning Russian and going to EE soon if not also SA. Curious..is your wife foreign or from a small town?


      1. Bluntobj September 28, 2015 at 3:53 pm

        She was a christian missionary from age 10 to 18 in a non-english country. It explains a lot.

        You actually have a decent path, Rob. I think at this point that Russia will be more free than the US in the near future.

  48. advancedatheist September 24, 2015 at 1:46 pm

    So, Roosh, do you think you’ll go Augustine on us: “Grant me chastity and continence, but not yet”?

    1. tropicalhotdognight September 25, 2015 at 3:25 am

      I also thought of Augustine. I recall he was a real wild man in his younger days, getting laid left and right. Then one day something snapped and he went all religious.
      Seems to be a not uncommon pattern. Even Neil Strauss in The Game talks about his friend the ‘natural’ who later became a religious Jew and tried to convince Strauss to forego seduction.
      Maybe something similar is happening to Roosh. Will he revert to his Muslim roots? Perhaps take a wife or three?

  49. Trey Bert September 24, 2015 at 3:58 pm

    The author was very sure of himself for 15 years. Now he has changed his mind and is once again very sure of himself. When he inevitable changes his mind one more time, will he try to convince the world that his new worldview is the correct one? If his prior belief, of which he was so sure of, is admittedly incorrect…why should anyone believe that this new world view is the one to follow.

    1. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 4:48 pm

      Believe what you want. No one is asking anyone to FOLLOW anyone.

      As a Christian, i was a virgin-by-choice when I married. At times now, after suffering some hard knocks I have “felt” like I wished I’d fucked around as a boy. But I have my objective faith to remind me that, in spite of my feelings, God believes I made the right choice and when feelings battle faith, my faith wins.

      So why am I defending a fornicator? For the same reason the shepherd seeks the lost sheep. It wondered off. Took the wrong path. But it can still be found. Redeemed. If it stops running away from the shepherd.

      I’ve benefitted in my relationships from learning what the PUAs learned and teach about the female psyche and the effects of feminism on society. Such wisdom comes with a price. I’ll let God decide if it was ultimately worth it.

      1. advancedatheist September 24, 2015 at 4:53 pm

        So how do you explain the existence of all the atheist incels out there? Just look at the neckbeards who show up at atheist gatherings and ask yourself if they have ever even kissed a girl, much less banged one. And this despite all the propaganda from both atheists and Christians about atheists’ sexual freedom and promiscuity.

      2. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 7:15 pm


        I’m not sure what my comment has to do with atheist incels. Seriously. I can’t see ANY connection. Please explain.

      3. advancedatheist September 24, 2015 at 8:32 pm

        As a Christian, i was a virgin-by-choice when I married.

        You claim you had a choice as a Christian about your adult virginity, because we have traditionally assumed that young men can get sex from regular women without having to pay for it, regardless of what they believe about god. The reality looks far different, when many young atheist men these days face incel, despite the propaganda and the stereotypes about atheists’ liberated sex lives.

      4. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 9:31 pm

        “You claim you had a choice as a Christian about your adult virginity, because we have traditionally assumed that young men can get sex from regular women without having to pay for it . ..”

        That’s correct. I had many opportunities for “sex from regular women without having to pay for it” over approximately ten years. I declined and/or resisted the temptations. That is my experience.

        The fact that aspie atheist basement dwellers can’t get laid today is SO irrelevant to what I said I marvel at how your mind works.

        Perhaps the problem is that a young male atheist is a lot less appealing to women than a young man dynamically committed to an appealing world view with an objective standard of both rightness and honor. Self-absorption is never appealing.

  50. advancedatheist September 24, 2015 at 4:08 pm

    I don’t know of any middle-aged gay man who writes about the futility of sex after having hundreds or thousands of sexual encounters with other gay men, usually strangers, in public restrooms, seedy night clubs or on sex tourism trips to shitty poor countries. Instead these gay men seem to double down on doing what they have done all along until their bodies crash.

    It makes you wonder if straight men. apparently including Roosh belatedly, have a better functioning moral and even “spiritual” capacity than gay men.

    1. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 4:37 pm

      The suicide and drug addiction statistics for gay men contradict the brave appearance. Also, look at the push for gay “marriage”! If that isn’t a cry for emotional, human connection, I don’t know what is. Remember, Roosh fucked her again because his body was demanding it and she was easy. If straight men could have sex as casually as gay men nature would drive us like it does them even without emotional satisfaction.

      My wife satisfies me, not because she’s beautiful (we’re in our 50s and both overweight), but because we love each other, trust each other, and are very comfortable with each other. PLUS she never makes me work for the Bang! Unlike my ex.

      I chose to never participate in the SMP. I looked for a woman I believed I could respect and even admire. My ex was such a woman but my lack of Game understanding and living in a fem-centric culture did not prepare me to maintain my youthful, masculine frame nor protect her from the worst aspects of the feminine tendency to self-destruct and take her family with her.

      YES, I’m saying it was the Man’s Fault! LOL.

  51. Tom Kaye September 24, 2015 at 5:04 pm

    Roosh, you will take a lot of hate for this post, as you have for others like it. But keep walking your path. It takes guts to lay open your soul like this. Props, Brother.

    1. skillet September 25, 2015 at 6:41 am

      No, Roosh is just getting older.

      I could go without sex easily forever if I wanted to. But I still need my wife. But I hope he still keeps up this site where a 20 year old pussy-chaser and a conservative religious family man can both relate to.

      That will be a sort of squaring of the circle. Not easy to pull off, but if anybody can do it, Roosh may be.

      Paul Elam has some good virtues, but he is trying to give men the benefitis of gynocentrism. Roosh is trying to lend a voice to help us be men. Under Elam’s philosophy, men are still manginas. Just equal to women under the mangina regime.

      I actually don’t have problems with the medieval chivalry pussy pass in its proper context. The “pussy pass” to be spared fighting in wars or crawling under houses wheere there are snakes and rats makes sense. That work is for dudes. But the dude who does this deserves his recognition.

      I will toil endlessly pulling weeds and preparing a path so my wife can easily step out to our kitchen garden. Two years ago, I even got a copperhead bite while weeding. But that’s my job, not hers. She cooks. (ANd she looked after me bringing me food in bed for 5 days until the swelling in my knee went down and my purple leg turned back normal.)

      That’s how things are supposed to be.

      Just do not want to submit to the decree what men should emulate women. It is when the pussy pass is brought along into the workplace or on college campus rape culture that I get pissed.

      When men are men and women are women, things are nice.

      Japan of the 90’s and America before the 60’s was pretty good.

      Women could still work and help out with extra income when needed. I sure did appreciate my wife helping pay off our mortgage while she was still working. I think back to the 90’s in Japan. I knew I had it good, but did not know how good.

      I see the shit now. Hope my 19 year old son can navigate it all. He is in Asia now, but I do not know how much it has changed, so I seldom give advice. Forward an occasional Roosh or AVFM article when appropriate.

  52. Michael September 24, 2015 at 9:42 pm

    28 years old. I have felt the same “junk food sex” effect for the last couple of years. After my last couple encounters with women I knew I needed to do something different. I’ve spent the entire year trying to find the best solution. So far I’ve decided to go celibate, removing women from my life altogether. It’s unfortunate because I’m sure there are a few unicorns out there, but it’s just too risky to roll the dice with my entire life.

    Option #1- surrogacy + nanny. Possibly attempting to bring a female into that situation afterwards so that she can’t rip it all away and make me her slave on a whim (or just focus on the kids and let the females have their independence)

    Option #2- give up on family altogether. I have this innate desire to protect and to provide, so in order to find fulfillment I’m considering finding a higher purpose and devoting my life to it. 25% of the world doesn’t even have access to clean drinking water!

    Either option will require $$$ and mobility, so currently just putting my head down, saving 50% of my paycheck, and building my Internet income. I appreciate your honesty and the sharing of your experiences Roosh. This culture is indeed toxic, and it will probably need to crumble in order to bring sanity back to the world. It’s always darkest before dawn. Either way I intend to rise above it all somehow.

  53. Keith V September 24, 2015 at 10:18 pm

    The Cunt Cavalcade is getting to you man. Sex is awesome, but for God’s sake, chill. Do some shit just for yourself.

  54. ShepardSays September 24, 2015 at 11:09 pm

    “but the following day I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong.”

    “the same negative feeling came forth within me.”

    “trying to understand where this discomfort was coming from”

    “as if I’m hurting my spirit in ways that I don’t understand”

    This is called your intuition and it’s screaming to get your attention. The dutch philosopher Baruch Spinoza (whose writings ‘Ethics’ inspired the Enlightenment movement) described three forms of knowledge:

    1. Sensory/Observation- lowest form
    2. Rational- medium form
    3. Intuition- highest form

    It will get worse if you continue to ignore it.

  55. Tom Kaye September 25, 2015 at 12:14 am


    Perhaps this is the male slut equivalent to “hitting the wall.”

  56. MaxfieldStrongshank September 25, 2015 at 3:32 pm

    Shame and guilt are interfering with your biological drive to fuck good looking bitches. These are called psychological constructs. Another matrix magnet to make you a well behaved simp. Best to get a handle on them, or you will find yourself in divorce court sending alimony and child support checks on direct deposit. But the Unicorn surely looks clear and magnificent through the Matrix lens, doesn’t it ?

    1. Roosh September 25, 2015 at 4:28 pm

      Wrong, nihilist. Psychological social constructs don’t appear after 15 years of effortlessly going against them.

      1. MaxfieldStrongshank September 25, 2015 at 4:56 pm

        If I were a true nihilist, I would not be interested in the social value of many of the articles on your websites.

        The sociological evidence is pretty strong that emotional bonding with most women is a dangerous trap; given the current state of mankind – even when presented with a woman seemingly deeply imbued with some of the most positive character traits.

  57. socal September 25, 2015 at 4:38 pm

    It seems that you have two difficult tasks ahead of you.

    The first is finding a unicorn.

    The second, and more difficult one, is finding a unicorn that will accept you as you are, given past controversies. Perhaps heartiste or tucker max are good examples of guys who remade themselves as “relationship material.”

  58. Zechs Marquise September 26, 2015 at 3:13 pm

    This is what everyone thinks of you people

  59. Крум Безстрашни September 26, 2015 at 3:50 pm

    Roosh, I’m surprised you don’t know what really is going on. With respect but you have become a sex junkies who tries to kick the habit but doesn’t understand how the drug messes up with his body and what to do about it.

    What you experience is called “post-orgasm hangover” or also known as “post-coital depression”.

    Dopamine is that chemical that you crave, that gives you hits of pleasure. When you are thinking about how great it would be to have sex with this or that girl, you are really craving a hit of dopamine, which the orgasm will give you a huge hit.

    One thing about dopamine is that it’s natural. All humans crave dopamine hits. But dopamine is also addictive. And orgasms are addictive. You are basically addicted to orgasm. And scientists have shown that when a man orgasms, the same areas of the brain are thrown into a frenzy in brain scans as when someone shoots heroin.

    Another characteristic of dopamine is that it wear off quickly. So you have this intense burst of pleasure, but then it quickly drops off.

    You’re with a new girl, it feels awesome boning her, your brain is looking forward to that huge rush of the orgasm, the huge rush of dopamine flooding your brain.

    And then you orgasm, you have the rush, and then you crash. The momentary burst of really intense pleasure and fun is suddenly over within minutes.


    1. Tom Kaye September 27, 2015 at 1:18 pm

      You are mistaken. You are conflating Effect with Cause.

      To quote CS Lewis, and who doesn’t love a CS Lewis quote? From, The Voyage of the Dawn Treader:

      “Wow! He’s a retired star,” said Edmund.

      “In our world stars are big, flaming balls of gas,” replied Eustace.

      “Even in your world,” said Ramadan. “That is not what a star is, merely what it is made of.”

      If your child dies and you go into a depression, you are not depressed BECAUSE your dopamine, oxytocin levels have fallen. Your neurotransmitters have fallen BECAUSE your child died and depression is an appropriate response to event. THEREFORE your brain chemistry changes to provide you the appropriate response to that tragedy.

      Not every man experiences post-coital depression. Only men who feel contempt for themselves or their partner and believe they have violated a personal value or tenet of behavior. In that case, PCD is an appropriate response.

      Brain chemistry RESPONDS to personality. It does NOT create it.

      1. Крум Безстрашни September 27, 2015 at 1:33 pm

        It’s a well established fact and I am not mistaken. You are.

        It does not depend on one’s personality but it depends on the number of orgasm one has had throughout life. An intensive use the neurotransmitter receptors wears them out in the same way as drug addicts need a bigger hit to achieve the same result they used to get with much smaller doses.

        In the same way women (and to a degree men too) lose their ability to bond after years and years of riding the cock-carousel as their oxytocin receptors get worn out.

        Depression can be caused by different experiences but the biochemical reaction is always driven by overreaction or deficit of certain hormones.

        During grief the pituitary gland produces a hormone called adrenocorticotrophin hormone (ACTH). This reaction is a “protective” one and in essence makes the body ready to do battle. Then ACTH travels to the adrenal gland, which causes a chemical reaction which ultimately produces cortisone.

        But as the stress is so strong and prolonged this cycle is distrurbed. The production of ACTH is continuing thus causing the adrenal gland to produce more and more cortisone. The result is an abnormally high level of cortisone circulating in the blood. High level of cortisone causes the immune system to falter.

        And thus you start feeling depressed.

      2. Tom Kaye September 27, 2015 at 3:37 pm

        Wow! Why did you react to my comment like that?

        To answer that question we need to know something about how a brain responds when it’s triggered.

        My comment was absorbed by a brain and for no personal or conscious motivation whatsoever a body’s muscles tense up. Meanwhile, inside a brain, neurotransmitter chemicals known as catecholamines were released causing a body to experience a burst of energy lasting up to several minutes. This burst of energy created a feeling unfelt by any personality which nevertheless compelled said body to take immediate, defensive action against my comment which was threatening to a brain and the body it occupies.

        At the same time a heart’s rate of beating accelerated, and the blood’s pressure rose, and a lung’s rate of breathing increased. A face may have even flushed as increased blood flow entered the limbs and extremities of a body preparing it for the physical action needed to respond whatever triggered these biological and neurological actions.

        This brain’s awareness narrowed and became locked onto me, the cause of its triggered state. It could focus on nothing else. In quick succession, additional brain neurotransmitters and hormones (among them adrenaline and noradrenaline) were released, triggering a lasting state of arousal. It was finally now ready to respond to my trigger. Fingers attached to the brain, heart and lungs pounded out a reply, explaining how Roosh’s mind, personality and values, his human personality MUST BE irrelevant to these unpleasant lays

        Now, in response to your neuro-chemical cum dump, I only have this to say: you are only saying these things because your brain is making you say them. Your words are those of a Pavlovian puppy or a Skinnerian box brat. Therefore they contain no information content necessitating a response.

        Except that it amuses me to trigger you.

      3. Крум Безстрашни September 28, 2015 at 8:29 am

        Galen said: “Every animal is sad after coitus except the human female and the rooster.”

        Are you a rooster? lol

      4. Tom Kaye September 28, 2015 at 4:59 pm

        Non sequitur. Galen was talking about a post-coital sadness, not disappointment, depression or, what Roosh was describing, which was most likely, contempt. For himself and the woman.

        Galen was talking about sadness after EVERY act of coitus, not just after 100 Bangs. Your theory of insensitive neurons doesn’t apply. Roosh was talking about this experience as something relatively new to him, so he wasn’t just describing post-coital letdown which is fairly normal even after emotionally bonded sex but by no means universal and which Dr. Brian Sapolsky describes as the drop in dopamine experienced after a goal has been reached.

        So, no help for your theory there.

        Don’t you just hate it when your machine brain doesn’t respond appropriately to the triggering stimulus by providing the most accurate answer possible? Don’t you sometimes wish there was a personality behind the machine man controlling the stimulus-response engines? But if there were a personality in the machine then we would have to concern ourselves with pesky non-concepts like morality, values, and ethics, Right and wrong, that sort of thing. What a MESS that would make! No, MERE human machines are much easier to deal with.

        You might want to read “That Hideous Strength.” if your brain chemistry will let you.

      5. Крум Безстрашни September 29, 2015 at 1:07 pm

        One’s personality is regulated by the hormones. So I don’t know what you’re trying to prove. A lack of thyroid hormone is linked to mood disorders, for example.

      6. Tom Kaye September 29, 2015 at 3:53 pm

        OK. Let me see if I can spell it out for you.

        Your reply to Roosh’s article was to equate his overall negative and depressive experience of sex with a woman he was not in any way bonded to as being “merely” the result of his neurons being worn out through overuse, or something like that. I’m on my iPod and don’t have the time or patience to cut and paste it all here.

        Anyway, my issue is that you are committing the reductionist fallacy. You are reducing human personality and experience to “merely” the interplay of the chemicals that happen to be firing in their brains when they have an experience. The problem with this fallacy, what makes it a fallacy, is that it is SELF-CONTRADICTORY. Any truth proposition that is self-contradictory CANNOT be true.

        If Roosh’s experience is “merely” the result of his brain chemistry then YOUR EVALUATION of his experience is “merely” the result of YOUR brain chemistry and nothing you said contains any information content vis-a-vis HIS disappointing sexual experiences with a woman he wasn’t bonded with.

        “What is the [politically] correct response to the proposition ‘2+2=4’?”

        “the correct response is, ‘You say that because you are a mathmatician’.”

        You would be helped in your understanding if you were to read:

        The Psychology of Self Esteem, by Dr. Nathanial Branden;
        The Pilgrim’s Regress, by CS Lewis; and
        The Abolition of Man, by CS Lewis.

        The first book had a massive effect on my own understanding of values-based psychology and each of those books will help to redeem you from a materialist philosophy. Materialism is inherently self-contradictory, ergo, materialism cannot be true.

      7. Крум Безстрашни September 30, 2015 at 12:00 pm

        This is some relativist bullshit – not interested.

      8. Tom Kaye September 30, 2015 at 1:54 pm

        LOL! There is little else you could have replied with that would have demonstrated your complete failure to grasp what I said than to accuse me of relativism!

        Nathaniel Branden was a student (and lover) of Ayn Rand and, like her, a warrior against relativism. Much of that book I mentioned is a psychological chainsaw destroying relativism.

        And CS Lewis was a Christian apologist arguing brilliantly against moral relativism.

        Also, I was using the principles of classical logic to challenge your reasoning. The LAST thing Aristotelian logic is, is relativistic. The fact that you don’t know that discredits everything you have said.

        You would have served yourself better if you had just admitted you didn’t understand a thing I said and asked for more instruction.

        Ignorance is not knowing something. Stupidity is being ignorant and defending that fact.

      9. Крум Безстрашни September 30, 2015 at 4:10 pm

        Call it whatever you want, I’m not buying … but good it works for you. You can keep it. LOL

      10. Tom Kaye September 30, 2015 at 5:36 pm

        Your reply makes no sense. Saying something is OK for me but not for you is a relativistic Tell. You are projecting onto me what you yourself are guilty of.

        How will you ever learn if you’re unwilling to admit you don’t understand what’s being discussed? I am willing to mentor you in this, beginning with the three books I listed.

        Or perhaps next time you’ll respond in your own voice instead if cutting and pasting something you read but didn’t understand.

  60. Mr. Wittgenstein September 27, 2015 at 11:58 am

    Roosh V is a sociopath and a pathological sex addict straight on track to self-destruction. He now gradually comes to understand that organizing his entire existence around cheap, fast and shallow sexual encounters has been utterly and profoundly meaningless, neither providing lasting satisfaction nor making any contribution to society. His behavior is neither “alpha” nor “masculine”, but weak, pathological and producing nothing but cynicism, hatred and alienation. His actions have left him no other option than hating women because, despite all his intelligence, he is a true slave to their sexuality. He now stares into the abyss because a man who’s essentally got nothing to give also gets nothing in return, and never will. Roosh has two ways forward in his life, and both are a real “red pill”: EITHER he can postpone his search for meaning and pretend he’s able to play game forever, and learn that after another decade of fucking around Russia pursuing the women he wants and feels entitled to requires a dramatically escalating level of emotional and physical violence (a.k.a. rape). OR he can prove his true alpha status to the world and publicly move on with his life, and work towards rebuilding respect for women, pursuing something meaningful in his life, quitting his addiction to cheap, fast and shallow sex, as well as giving, sharing, and receiving affection and even love. Essentially, Roosh is no different from a drug addict who has built his entire existence around getting a drug, writing about that drug, having to move on constantly to ensure access to the drug, building an ideology to rationalize his doing and turn wrong into right, making a living with insights on how to get the drug, and blaming the drug itself for everything bad in the universe while simultaneously being entirely dependent on it. Leaving behind that pointless life – which can really hardly be called a life at all, by universal human standards – will take years of therapy and a radical lifestyle transformation, but if he wants to extend his lifespan, become a true man and ever experience some sort of affection again, it will be the only way.

    1. Крум Безстрашни September 27, 2015 at 1:40 pm

      and work towards rebuilding respect for women

      He’s already on his way towards working for that goal by exposing the vices of modern world.

  61. GuessHandson September 28, 2015 at 7:31 am

    You have betrayed your people’s cause.

  62. Yoga Matt September 29, 2015 at 1:58 pm

    Roosh I think your past, as well as your better read present, is coming to haunt you. You pushed down and hid your religious conservative upbringing that you received from your parents in order to become a player. Now that past, along with the more pensive, philosophical literary content that you are exposing your mind to, are both rising within you to make you realize the fleeting shallowness of bodily and sex consciousness. Am I right?

  63. kelley October 6, 2015 at 11:20 am

    i’m 57, and i STILL enjoy the “thrill of the kill”………i figure when the right one comes along, i’ll let her stay….if not, i’m still happy alone

  64. Owen Gilmore October 11, 2015 at 11:28 pm

    Maybe you’re waking up to the fact that you need philosophy, not just physical pleasure

  65. Guest October 14, 2015 at 4:19 am

    IT even happens when married. My wife will try the midnight, lights off, quickie – but that’s junk sex. I want the lights on, lingerie “I’m into you” sex. Otherwise it’s just hollow and junky.

  66. Tom Arrow October 18, 2015 at 5:34 pm

    Have you considered that there is a need that you want to get met, yet try to distract yourself from it with sex?

    Not saying that the freedom to have sex whenever with whomever is bad. But it does not seem to be making you too happy. Beware the thousand cunt stare!

  67. gumbala October 20, 2015 at 4:54 am

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  68. Evolutionary1 January 19, 2016 at 10:58 pm

    Humans are programmed to reproduce

  69. Rivershield March 16, 2016 at 1:59 am

    Man, it’s time for you to get married.
    God does not created sex for this hedonistic behavior, that’s why, at some moment in your life, you will feel bad deep in your heart every time you have sex with a girl that is not your wife.

  70. T-money March 16, 2016 at 9:38 am

    The tragedy is that to nail a hot girl you need to not care about her. My numbers are no where near yours Roosh, but I’ve had a handful of prime girls, and I’ve never been able to truly enjoy them because had I enjoyed them they wouldnt have had sex with me.

  71. Paul February 14, 2017 at 3:10 pm

    For one, MacDonalds is toxic to your body. It has over 200 bad chemicals which are all constructed for taste, bad for health. The corporations don’t give a fuck about your health but to get you hooked like a drug on their product = $$$$. When you get older, your body is more sensitive hence your stomach will get upset. I started noticing this around 25 years of age where you are more prone to injury where hangovers take many more days to recover! Another 40 years and our body will be like an old car!

    When sleeping with someone you are only physically attracted too, I find with age, you become more connected with your soul where when you are young, your driven by your animal instincts (your dick/little soul awareness). These days if I eat bad food, I notice I have a guilt trip afterwards! If I sleep with someone I don’t like mentally, I give myself a guilt trip cause mentally I don’t want anything to do with a broken woman where I’ve given I’m to my dick (temptation = weakness = lose respect in myself)! For example, it’s like forcing yourself to play bball with someone you don’t like or respect but need an extra player. I also notice the same feeling if I play video games! If I’m not doing something good and constructive… I give myself a guilt trip! Life is short!

    I also know deep in my heart, I prefer a great woman to connect with than sleeping around all the time. I believe men and women are design to live together (can’t today cause Feminism has poison women). I see this quality in Eastern women still where we rarely fight and play any games, enjoying each other around just like 2 best friends having sex.

  72. XM June 17, 2017 at 9:58 am

    @Roosh_V:disqus – A similar thing happened to me some years back. Since you’re now reading Osho and meditating and other similar things.. and you are observing the world and global stuff for a lot of “truth” your energy is seeking to rise higher.

    Low level chakras will not give your the complete satisfaction and your auric/ pranic energy is in conflict with what your body can enjoy to some limitation. There is a limit to “material”. I’d love to be in your place, but to be honest it leaves me empty at times as well.

    Another thing that happens with excess sex/ sex with someone that you lose energy/ vibrational energy is exchanged. You tend to lose Ojas/ Tejas, which are inner “joy” serums in some way. Again, this is deeper subtler mind-body-spirit stuff that one can deny or look into and learn more about.

    May the Chi be with you

    1. Roosh June 17, 2017 at 12:43 pm


  73. Sri February 24, 2018 at 4:36 am

    You’ve got all the game you need, but you sound exactly like you’ve fapped too much or watched too much TV or eaten too much food.

    “Two weeks passed and I was laying in bed, unable to push sex thoughts out of my mind”

    In fact your feelings sound like addiction symptoms. You’re suffering from hangover.
    Aspects of modern culture (food overdose, sex overdose, stimulation overdose) are all not natural. Neil Strauss had a similar issue.

    The only cure for this is to use your energy for something more significant and of higher value. Go and get your ass ‘miserable’ for a while. Listen to what your body’s telling ya, it’s important.