When I was in college, I would eat McDonald’s food at least three times a week. It never caused me indigestion or acute health problems. If I eat a McDonald’s meal today, fifteen years later, I feel digestive discomfort not only one hour after eating but also the following day. Maybe I’m more sensitive now, or maybe the recipes have changed, but it doesn’t go down right anymore, so I stopped eating it.

For a long time I’ve been having casual sex with women I did not emotionally care for, at least once a week. Indigestion was never a problem, but over the past couple of years, I have begun feeling negative effects after sex with women I don’t have feelings for, and it is making me want to avoid it just like I avoid McDonald’s.

Early in the summer I met a Polish girl on a weekend night. I convinced her to have a drink with me in a different bar and then two hours later I invited her back to my place. We had sex all night long. I had four orgasms with her, and each one felt immensely pleasurable, but the following day I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong. I ignored this feeling and contacted her again one week later. She returned to my apartment, and during the sex act I felt powerful bodily satisfaction. While I was laying my strokes inside her, I savored the fact that I could sleep with a girl 13 years younger than myself, but after my orgasm completed, and our bodies remained still, the same negative feeling came forth within me.

Like before, I pushed it to the back of my mind, and aimed for a second orgasm with her. She possessed the petite body I greatly desire, and so I felt even more ecstasy as I thrusted. The second orgasm came but the sour feeling returned, this time twice as strong. I looked at her body, attached to someone I didn’t care for, and she looked at mine, a man she probably didn’t care for either. I felt an urge to take a shower, as if to wash something off my body, but instead I lay next to her in silence, trying to understand where this discomfort was coming from and why it was interfering with something I’ve done so many times before, ruining the pleasure I worked hard to receive.

She had told me enough information beforehand that it was easy to put her in the appropriate box. She had traveled to Italy, Spain, and Portugal, countries that Polish females visit for sexual excitement. She didn’t “believe” in love. She wanted to focus on her law career. She became an atheist after her parents’ attempted to instill her with Catholicism. Most telling of all, she had a VIP card to the an international club in the city where foreign men can pick the easiest hanging Polish fruit from the tree, the same tree I have enthusiastically picked from in the past. She could serve no value to me besides the sexual, and the only chemistry we had was physical.

Her phone was ringing. It was still early, barely midnight. “It looks like your friend wants you to join at the club,” I said. She denied it, but twenty minutes later she was out the door, perhaps energized from the activity we had.

I sat alone on my couch for some time, thinking at how overjoyed I should be for experiencing easy orgasmic pleasure inside a body type which I liked, but instead I didn’t feel good, just like after eating at McDonald’s.

I was so sure that casual sex was the pinnacle of modern man that I moved heaven and earth to develop a lifestyle where it would be easy for me, and I have achieved that lifestyle based on being mobile, emotionally untethered, and an attractive catch to foreign women. And yet now that I have achieved this, I feel worse after each new girl I have casual sex with, as if I’m hurting my spirit in ways that I don’t understand, in ways that didn’t feel harmful in the past. I decided not to contact her again.

Two weeks passed and I was laying in bed, unable to push sex thoughts out of my mind. I thought of the Polish girl and how perfect she was at the task of making me feel pleasure. I got up and checked my phone to see if I still had her number. I was relieved to find that I did. A couple days later she was back in my apartment, and this time I was mentally prepared for the indigestion that was sure to follow. It was no longer a surprise, and I accepted this as the price I must pay until I wean myself off of women that my mind no longer wants.

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HargleMyBargle
HargleMyBargle
4 years ago

First

Aquila Aquilonis
Aquila Aquilonis
4 years ago

I think you will find it was much easier to quit McDonald’s than easy sex.

Yeah, really!
Yeah, really!
4 years ago

You say that now, but when you hit your 40’s, and by 50, it’s not hard to quit sex. Seriously. You’re in such a take-it-or-leave-it frame that for the first time it chases you (assuming you have a modicum of game). By that time, you understand you’re value is greater than any woman and even giving her a couple hours of your time, for sex or otherwise, becomes an experience in indigestion.

66Scorpio
66Scorpio
4 years ago
Reply to  Yeah, really!

I am pushing 50. While it is easy to chat up women the sex certainly does not come as easy as when I was 30, at least with women I find interesting/sexy.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago

Considering that young women are less attractive these days (e.g. obesity, laziness) and their numbers are lower proportionate to men (western society is male heavy); it might be a better strategy to get one with low number of lovers when she’s young and keep her/train her up.

I’ve seen guys get easy sex from land whales and it’s not good. Worse still, even attractive girls can end up being a pain. Easy sex with a girl you like who is worthwhile having sticking around well beats tons of worthless whores and sluts who all get old/dry/fat in a few years, making finding acceptable women even harder.

Kidd Cudi
Kidd Cudi
4 years ago

lol. it’s almost like immorality has associated costs.

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago
Reply to  Kidd Cudi

boredom, shallowness, done it before etc etc

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Kidd Cudi

The costs are still borne by others (e.g. feminism and free sex is supported by slaves in non-western countries who provide all of our food and other needs for the most part etc). The ultimate cost will soon come home to roost in the west, as large tracts of populations lose their lives.

seth datta
seth datta
4 years ago

The tribe has socially engineered western society to the point where the western man(mainly white) is obsolete. His bitches no longer produce children, he is a cuck, and a weak faggot, and is enslaved to the moneychanger in ways he cannot imagine, having exchanged God and moral society for the princely sum of a few cheap orgasms and a collapsing society.

Right now, the western man is like a drunk in an alley, with his pants pulled down, with ‘banksters please rape me’ written on his ass cheeks, with an arrow pointing down to his anus. I know that western white people specifically, are being race replaced by the tribe, and that feminism has poisoned any social cohesion western populations once had. They can’t protect their salaries, can’t protect their borders, can’t protect their women, and soon they will suffer and be deprived of their lives.

Time to wake the f*ck up or face the consequences – people need to give a fuck about more than their petty narcisstic lives, get their women in check; and at least give some thought to not contributing to bankster-related misery. At the moment, pretty much all western men are winning the Darwin award for being a group of deluded degenerates who are committing mass cultural suicide/being genocided by a fifth column. Expect the economy to collapse soon and WW3 to flare up as people debate PUA and shit, because the bankers don’t need white people or entitled western populations any more – and there are no more barriers that prevent the few from killing the many and then replacing them with others.

I already know that whilst people of all races will suffer, 10-15 years from now, most whites will be dead; and most white countries offer no future for their children. We are all being played, and the cost is quite possibly more than your life, its your soul. The question is, if you are going to acknowledge this shit and prepare for it and fight – to face it like a real man; or spend all day pissing your life away at PUA and shit, to end up having 5 immigrant cocks shoved up your accommodating asshole, all your wealth stolen by the banks, and having your friends and family all raped and killed. Google what happened to 100 million whites in the days of Communism to get an idea of what the near future has in store, as I have described n my previous graphic sentence, then google who was behind it.

Zuckerberg
Zuckerberg
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

Nothing to see here, goy. Hey, I heard Miley Cyrus had a new nude photo shoot! You should go check that out.

Snowden
Snowden
4 years ago
Reply to  Zuckerberg

Wank it to a teenage slut and ignore the banksters that are buying your house with fiat dollars after the bubble they deliberately created bursts.

bucky
bucky
4 years ago
Reply to  Zuckerberg

link???

heh.

Taco Idol
Taco Idol
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

You’re right, but pua is a good first step if a man was completely in the dark, as I once was. Eventually, you start to see that pua is like dancing on the Titanic and you also find things like mgtow that really get you thinking, except that mgtow is like male feminism in that the bankers would applaud it because it means less breeding, and the beginnings of male participation in the destruction of the family.
We live in a jungle that has been camouflaged our whole lives as everything but a jungle. A tribe of wealthy men have cornered us and our tribes. The whites are targeted because we are the ones who could defeat the jewish agenda. I also believe we might have some special genetic advantages (other than prettiness, like colored eyes etc) or something, but I don’t know enough to go there, so I won’t get into that.

Guest
Guest
4 years ago
Reply to  Taco Idol

I’ll get into that…

Beavis_Bunghole
Beavis_Bunghole
4 years ago
Reply to  Taco Idol

Quite frankly I have very little respect for anyone posting on the internet about MGTOW.

The reason is that a REAL MGTOW isn’t like internet people, but would be like the mountain men that inhabit the Alaskan wilderness, Rocky Mountains, and Canadian North, who have withdrawn from mainstream society and refuse to participate in it to any degree. A lesser MGTOW would be men like 1% bikers, militia communities, and such who exist on the fringes of society but have also carved out their own separate, distinct spaces.

Whining on the internet about how women are all shallow bitches while jacking off to internet porn is a far cry from those true alphas I just described.

BAT 21
BAT 21
4 years ago

Well said man, unfortunately those REAL MGTOW (the Jeremiah Johnson’s) of the world have to trickle back into society once in a while. Also sometimes these mountain men turn into the Ted Gizinskis’s of the world plotting the next Gubbermint demise!! Good points though! Sounds enticing! Now I need to find a teepee and a squaw!!

Morrison
Morrison
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

“Time to wake the f*ck up or face the consequences”

At the rate we’re going, im suspecting we will suffer option #2: the consequences.

Morrison
Morrison
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

Seth, would you care to share how you think the next 15 years will play out?

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Morrison

It doesn’t look good, especially for the west, as our food supply is mostly from asian countries, supplied to us by a just-in-time transport system controlled by banksters. The same people also control the economy and have subverted the society. We have less than 5 years for an economic collapse and 10 years or so before starvation/lack of healthcare/war severely depletes western populations in accordance with bankster wishes. We have surveillance that is worse than people know about, as well as bad social engineering and continued mass immigration with decreasing opportunities. Only the false fiat currency hides how bad the situation is. The governments of various societies will just keep lying to us, just like the mainstream and alternative media.

A common European strategy would involve getting God back into households (Christianity worked in the past), trying to look out for others; and at worst, hunkering down by preparing for bad times with some supplies and not trusting media/building up more local connections. Beware of any cashless economic system that is offered as a solution. In the next 15 years, we will see WW3, many other upsets, and mass depopulation most likely.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  john mahoney

Oh yeah, and beware of the Jews – the least trustworthy of peoples, sadly. Europe was founded on 2 principles:

(1) a strong belief in God, Christianity; and in acting righteous and looking out for each other.
(2) antisemitism (although Jews truly are not semites)

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

It pains me that this nutjob gets 9 upvotes (and counting).

Veni Vidi Vici
Veni Vidi Vici
4 years ago
Reply to  jdoeford

Agreed too many people think their imaginary friend for adults aka God is the answer. The USA prospered like no other nation inspite of and not because of religion, Under God was not in the pledge of allegiance until 1954.
Other statements Seth is wrong about: The USA is a food exporter most of what we eat is grown and produced here. Near me are corn and soybean fields, Apple, blueberry, grape and cranberry farms and I live in New Jersey near New York City. Jew NWO conspiracy theories: If the USA collapsed today the Arab nations would destroy Israel tomorrow how does the downfall of US nation serve Jewish interests? Why would bankers or any other business support depopulation? Less consumers less need for there services. At least 90 percent of problems here are due to a corrupt bloated government overreaching it’s Constitutional authority.

Cheetaiean
Cheetaiean
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

Vaguely going in the right direction, but I personally don’t believe there will be a large conflict like that, at least anytime soon.

Besides, countries like Poland and Finland are still pretty much pure white.

Stack Thornehawk
Stack Thornehawk
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

We will not go down idly brother. Morituri te salutat! Via Solaris!

Rel_2013
Rel_2013
4 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

Pretty soon they won’t even need human soldiers. The machines that run the economy will become so efficient as to render the human population expendable.

http://scitechdaily.com/images/boston-dynamics-darpa-cheetah-concept.jpg

Koanic
Koanic
4 years ago

I already knew most didn’t experience this indigestion, but this is the first time I’ve seen someone transition so clearly from omnivorous to picky.

For me, PUA was primarily an exercise in digestive desensitization, that could only proceed so far before I hit a hard limit.

Ben Bien
4 years ago
Reply to  Koanic

For me, the whole “PUA” system was just a tool to get more experience with women and sex. Why did I feel that I needed to get more experience with women and sex? Because girls/women don’t want a man who is inexperienced with women and sex.

They want someone experienced and who has fucked at least 20-30 women. No woman wants to be with a male virgin, unless she is also a virgin and they’re both in high school or something like that. But for normal guys we are expected to grow our experience with banging lots of chicks, while at the same time we are villified and mocked for being “PUA” or “heartless players”.

Summary: we men are expected to be experienced in sex and women, but the only way to do that is to be a player, but if you’re a player using PUA tactics you are hated on by women and mainstream society as somehow “scum”.

This is part of a larger and more vicious PARADOX that I am personally writing about in my next book (if anyone is interested).

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago
Reply to  Ben Bien

where do we find your books??
you say next book….what books have you written so far and where can i find them…

noemon
noemon
3 years ago
Reply to  Chris Brony

Seriously? 😀

Ben Bien
4 years ago

You feel that way because deep down you are biologically programmed to have sex for the end purpose of making offspring. But because most women today don’t want to have kids in their prime, you are just using each other for temporary, meaningless sex.

Because you’re just nutting in women who are on birth control, or who are not in the prime menstral cycle, or you’re nutting in a condom—your body feels like it wasted the sperm. Similar to that empty, shameful feeling one gets after beating off.

It’s been said on Cernovich’s and Delicious Taco’s site: having sex with women just for pleasure is like using their body to masturbate with.

Drawing the analogy to junk fast food is accurate because when you eat McDonald’s it’s the same effect: that fake food MAKES you feel full and tricks you into believing your hunger was satisfied, without providing any actual NUTRIENTS.

Same goes for fucking around for the sake of fucking. You alleviate your horniness by banging some chick you don’t care about. But the relief is temporary and leaves you feeling empty, unfulfilled.

Charles Vermont
Charles Vermont
4 years ago
Reply to  Ben Bien

I went through all this with the same feelings, and even the junk food analogy went through my head at the time.
Junk food sex is for your 20’s.
By the time you are going into your 30’s, you have a more mature perspective of the world, other people and oneself.
Part of growing up, I suppose. The push to rid frivolities from one’s life and find more people, things and experiences of substance.

bucky
bucky
4 years ago
Reply to  Ben Bien

hey, glad to see someone else on here who reads DT. he is truly a prophet for our times.

BenBien.com
4 years ago
Reply to  bucky

yes, perhaps del tacos is a prophet for the End of Times.

SHAMPOO BRACELETS
SHAMPOO BRACELETS
4 years ago
Reply to  Ben Bien

This exactly. Even using up “hot” whores for the purpose of meaningless fucking is degenerate. It isn’t a victory, or an testament to the modern Man’s greatness. It’s sad, waste of time, and waste of resources, and eventually makes you feel crappy. Not to mention the pregnancy risks and the STD risks, even if you’re using a condom and she’s allegedly on birth control.

This ain’t player-hating or player-shaming, or me telling every fool out there to get married at 21. I’ve spent the last 4 years of my life racking up a retarded amount of useless sluts thanks to Game. Men can handle being promiscuous hookups MUCH better than women can, because testosterone.

I’m saying stop giving sluts the attention and validation.

I’m saying it’s dumb and degenerate that we as Men today must resort to being these high energy player cads in order to create this personality that will be entertaining and attractive enough for the modern woman. Fun as all hell at first, and you will eventually feel like shit, but it’s necessary to have a soft harem of beautiful woman. This will give you the skills and the… impenetrable frame you need to deal with today’s woman.

So although it sometimes sucks that you have to put in all this effort and energy and money to build this small harem of beautiful women rotating just to keep a bitch in check nowadays (with zero guarantees…), you gotta make sure you become complete as a Man of high value if you ever want to be happy. Let alone happy with a girlfriend/Wife.

Thanks feminism.

GRock
GRock
4 years ago

Sex void of emotion is like smoking weed. Both are organic sources and enough of them tends to fill the cache, you just don’t get any higher. The cache gets low, you re-up until it’s full again. You can change strains of weed and women respectively. Repeating this cycle tends to only evolve the soul and open the mind so far, as it’s more of a goal achieved (connoisseurship), rather than a perpetual self-actualization.

Like riding the biggest roller coaster at the amusement park first (formulaic banging via game principals for years), all the rest just aren’t as thrilling afterwards. I usually keep a girl whose a “main” who I tend to have some emotion for, but not go all in (too risky emotionally in today’s climate). All the rest are as Roosh describes. The downside is always having side-pieces (abundance) keeps me in a mindset where 1-2 noteable slip ups on the main’s behalf, and I next her, or make her a side piece too, until a more feminine, better Main target comes into view.

The downfall of nexting girls for minor infractions is it tends to bring them back, and you’ve got a blob of options to sort through, and some broken hearts to deal with.

It’s not to say I don’t ever focus on just my main, but rather that I’m rooting for her NOT to fuck up, and display the toxicity Westerization has befallen her. Only once do I remember legitimately having feelings for two girls I was banging at the same time, and it drove me squirrely.. and I assume that’s what women’s hamsters must feel like, burning the wheel.

I’ll go All In, and write Junk-Food-Sex entirely, when I find a consistently valuable, healthy restaurant to dine from, that runs specials and takes coupons.

BangkokSlim
BangkokSlim
4 years ago

Your getting old Roosh !

Rondo
Rondo
4 years ago

In your last article, you claim that you should make choices for all your female relatives because you are more capable than they are to make said choices.

Yet from a lot of your more recent writing, it seems like you have realized you have made poor, inaccurate decisions about life that you are now regretting more and more.

How does it work where one person who has so messed up his own life should then feel qualified to critique the lives of others?

Also, if I remember correctly from your “Dead Bat” book, you were in love with someone special who treated you the way you wished to be treated by a woman, gave you exactly what you claimed women today do not have and you left her.

I grow more skeptical of your work.

Oznoto Ignoto
Oznoto Ignoto
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

I see a man growing, learning, improving, and eloquently sharing his insights and his errors. I grow more respectful of his work.

Rondo
Rondo
4 years ago
Reply to  Oznoto Ignoto

Why? Because late in the game he realizes he was wrong?
Anyone can do that.

Its like gambling away your money and then saying afterwards “You know, I shouldn’t have gambled away my money”. WOW, BIG INSIGHT.

If he wanted love, he had it. He tossed it aside for Junk Food Sex. He admitted that having too much personal freedom made him waste a large portion of his life chasing fleeting good feelings rather than building many meaningful lasting relationships and connections.

He’s not stopping his lifestyle – as he admits – he is just realizing that he’s continuously fucking up, while at the same time saying he could somehow tell other people how to live their lives better than they could on their own.

Oznoto Ignoto
Oznoto Ignoto
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

36 isn’t late in the game, and it’s much easier to control your sex urges at 66 than 36. I don’t blame the man for getting it while he still can. I would not be happy traveling the world doing what he does, therefore I don’t. Someday soon, he won’t either. Bet on it.

Danny
Danny
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

So true.

Another thing: The idea that Roosh himself thinks he’s a rational man. Haha.
Here’s a man who has spent 15 years dedicating his life to women. His work was about women (his books), his travels were about women (finding pussy paradise) and his hobby was about women (picking up women).
And all this was because he couldn’t get laid when he was 20 years old.
And some of you want ‘rational’ Roosh as leader lol!

Besides, this whole Neo-masculinity stuff is just another way for Roosh to have an obsession, because he’s a man who needs to be obsessed by something.

Libertas Victoria
Libertas Victoria
4 years ago
Reply to  Danny

If you’re a man and you have no obsession in this life, will it pass without having ever be lived.

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  Oznoto Ignoto

I mean, kudos to Roosh for candidly admitting that he is fucking up according to his own value sytem…but then his post ends with “I’m going to keep on fucking up until some time later I’ll hopefully decide to stop fucking up.” Not something I’d normally be hard on a guy for, but Rondo’s right — this is the same guy who announces that women are so unable to control themselves that men (like Roosh?) need to control them.

Roosh
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

” it seems like you have realized you have made poor, inaccurate decisions about life that you are now regretting more and more.”

“I grow more skeptical of your work.”

To grow skeptical of one’s work, you would actually have to read it. I describe the mistakes I made here. What I write today comes from hard lessons learned: http://www.rooshv.com/people-should-not-be-allowed-unlimited-personal-freedom

66Scorpio
66Scorpio
4 years ago
Reply to  Roosh

I specifically like your work because it is introspective. I did not go down the road that you did but I think we are in the same province on the same journey to Xanadu or what have you.
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Don’t worry about the haters. They will hate you for being cocksure (so to speak) and they will hate you for questioning yourself.
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However, you have a serious decision to make in your life.

Rondo2
Rondo2
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

The problem is the two articles he’s written back-to-back (and the one he links above).

How can someone say: This sex should make all decisions for the other sex and I should make all decisions for my female relatives because I make good decisions…when he’s thrown away what he claims to want on more than one occasion and continues to make decisions that he knows are bad?

And be serious about it?

66Scorpio
66Scorpio
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo2

One is small-picture and one is big-picture.

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

Could you explain that?

66Scorpio
66Scorpio
4 years ago
Reply to  jdoeford

It is part of the idea that “game” is a coping mechanism to deal with the society that western feminism has created. The small picture is feeling upset about this coping mechanism. The big picture is embracing the true nature of gender relationships.
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Does that make sense?

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

Not really (no disrespect intended).

There’s hypocrisy in lamenting that women are worthless whores, while simultaneously encouraging women to be worthless whores and exploiting that. (Mind you, I don’t personally view women in those terms, but that seems to be the spirit on this site.)

66Scorpio
66Scorpio
4 years ago
Reply to  jdoeford

Feminism is what has been encouraging western women to be “worthless whores”. Game is a reaction to that, not a cause. That is the spirit of the site from reading copious articles and comments over the last 9 months. How correct is that view? I don’t really know as I have been living in China for three out of the last 4 years and have only dated Chinese girls for that time.

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

But there doesn’t have to be, and isn’t, one single cause. Sure, feminism is a cause…but people like Roosh who actually go out into the field and encourage women to drink, and to come home with him, and fuck him, are *also* a contributing cause.

And I want to be very clear that I do not necessarily disapprove of women having a lot of sex, or people like Roosh encouraging women to have a lot of sex (although the way he in particular does it is often disgusting). It’s encouraging women to have a lot of sex *while calling them worthless whores” that’s hypocritical.

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

Strangely, my reply was posted and then deleted…

I agree that feminism encourages women to be “worthless whores” (as Roosh defines it — I don’t fully agree with him on this point). But it’s not the *only* cause. The behavior of male suitors matters too.

If Roosh really believed what he preaches, he’d encourage women to live properly. There are a lot of (conservative) men out there who do just that. Instead…he does the opposite, and contributes to the “problem” (again, as Roosh defines it). He joins in with feminists by encouraging women to have fast sex.

It’s remarkably self-serving for Roosh or anyone else to say that *all* women are debauched *beyond repair,* so heck why not just take advantage of the situation. That’s an obviously extreme and untrue generalization, and a convenient rationalization for encouraging women to act badly, for his own pleasure.

PolishKnightUSA
PolishKnightUSA
4 years ago
Reply to  66Scorpio

Let’s be clear that feminism is a product of hyper chivalry that has nothing to do with “game”. Perhaps due to worship of the Virgin Mary (others say it’s some pagan goddess for druids), Western European men decided to adopt a military code that protected the “weak” (civilians including men, women and children) into “women and children” I recall Sir Walter Raleigh throwing his coat over mud for a British queen to walk over it. What this meant was that ALL women were elevated to queens and men to serfs.

Brits were, and are, messed up.

One reason why American men are obsessed with green lawns is because during feudal times the peasants and serfs were required to keep the lawns available for the royalty to foxhunt through them. Their backyards were literally a playground for the wealthy. Doing his menial work gave them contentment and they brought this over with them to the new world.

Feminism is the notion that “equality” is about women doing what they please. “equality” means, as they define it, the ability to be a doctor, lawyer, astronaut, or housewife when it suits them. Men learn quickly that the “right” to do as you please is laughable. If I want to be an astronaut and NASA says no, it’s not due to “sexism” they said no, or unfair that I want something I don’t get it. That’s just life. But feminism is the notion that all women should be queens and princesses.

This predates modern sexual mores by centuries.

It kicked into high gear when modern industrialization finally allowed women to pursue high income careers that didn’t involve dangerous factory floors rather than nice A/C offices (which even then, they complain about.)

Modern “game” or trolling for sex is a function of lower class whites in NYC having small apartments and allowing “gentlemen” callers to take the young women out for a night on the town rather than impose upon a busy family to chaperone the courtship. Middle class men and women quickly adopted these mores.

I think they were better off mowing the lawn like peasants.

Rondo2
Rondo2
4 years ago
Reply to  Roosh

I have read your work and was thinking of that article when I commented because you haven’t changed at all since you wrote it.

I’ve actually put money in your pocket because I enjoy your writing.

But I find the holier than thou “I should make decisions for people because I am man” stuff hilariously terrible and want to at least get you to think that maybe that’s a route you shouldn’t go down because its a poor choice that will only invalidate your good work.

Again: You keep making the same mistakes over and over again and you write about it like you’ve gained some great insight. Except its not a great insight, its just fucking up and then saying “Hey, I keep fucking up” which anyone can do.

And then, to write an article claiming that women should have guardians or that you are somehow qualified to make decisions for people when you can’t even make the right decisions yourself….Jesus man.

Rondo2
Rondo2
4 years ago
Reply to  Roosh

Also, you blocked me because I disagree with you on a Disqus comment?

Wow. Sensitive and SJWy.

JOhn
JOhn
4 years ago
Reply to  Roosh

Hahahaha you’re a fucking joke Roosh. You’re an Arab/Turkish/Iranian man who complains about diversity, yet you contribute to it just by being there.

You go to Eastern Europe and fuck slavic women and complain about diversity yet you as an Arab contribute to diversity and multiculturalism, the two things you despise the most by just being there. That’s pathetic.

Keep kissing these white supremacist asses and see where that takes you.

Shaenon K. Garrity
Shaenon K. Garrity
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

Clearly he should have been assigned a female guardian to stop him from having bad sex and eating at McDonald’s every other day. Alas, without a rational woman to make decisions for him, he’s enslaved himself to his vices and undertaken a rampage of destruction to his body and those who want to be a meaningful part of his life

Libertas Victoria
Libertas Victoria
4 years ago

JESUS! Youre scary looking!
Got a face like Attack On Titan…

Shaenon K. Garrity
Shaenon K. Garrity
4 years ago

See, that was an emotional and poorly-reasoned post. Next time you think of writing something online, ask your female guardian for permission.

I like Attack on Titan. In fact, I work as a manga editor, so I don’t have time to provide personal guidance to young men like yourself. But best of luck to you.

BrockSamson
BrockSamson
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

What other choice does an American man have then to live like Roosh? You cant emotionally invest in 95% of these women, so pump amd dump is the only option. All of us here feel empty banging shallow, boring broads over and over again but when in Rome.

bucky
bucky
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

IIRC, roosh has stated that he has found the love of his life three times, once in brazil, once in poland, and once in ukraine.

spicynujac
spicynujac
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

Sounds like a female poster to me.. You you you I me me me.

Bringing up arguments from the past like women love to do: “But you dated a nice girl 5 years ago”

Making personal criticisms then extrapolating them to larger issues.

Listen, the idea that men should oversee women doesn’t mean that men are infallible, never make mistakes, never have remorse, or second guess themselves. It just means that men, on whole, are more stable, logical, and intelligent. And men will (and have, throughout history) prevent women from making permanent life altering poor decisions.

Andrian TQM
4 years ago

McDonalds is the first stage. In a few years, it will feel like Turkish doner.

Shamshoun
Shamshoun
4 years ago

What you felt Roosh is something woman can never understand, ‘cos this feeling is unique to man.
Every man knows that feeling and has experienced that at least few times in his life. This deep melancholia brought up by absence of love.
That is what will always remain a greatest gap between the sexes and why there will never be any complete understanding between a man and a woman.
Have you ever heard any woman writing a beautiful love song or poem about man? Nope. And this is why. Women can never feel like we feel.
That’s why they keep saying “sex is just sex”. Like what the fuck that’s supposed to mean? I never got it.
That’s why they can keep fucking any random dude that comes their way without remorse or even understanding that it’s just wrong. You can preach about it and if you’re lucky, you can even hear them saying that it’s wrong, but deep down in their hearts they don’t FEEL that there’s never anything wrong with fucking a person they don’t even like.
That’s why women can never really love.
We need women only for reproducing so we can shower all that love that’s inside of us to our children who are the only ones deserving our love.
As soon as we’ve gotten those kids what we want out of a woman, we should discard her like used condom.

Rondo
Rondo
4 years ago
Reply to  Shamshoun

Roosh had love, had exactly what he wanted in a woman and he abandoned it. Yet he now thinks he should make decisions for all females because he is somehow more rational and logical than they are.

Some guys are just delusional. Its no wonder you can’t find someone who loves you if you actually think that women don’t know what love is.

Some of the people on this site are as crazy as a Jezebel writer.

Snowden
Snowden
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

When girls tell me they love me now I just can’t help but laugh. I can’t believe the lies women will tell. A woman and love? Women love how I make them feel. They do not love me and unfortunately are incapable of this.

It’s ok though we understand that you are incapable of love the way a man feels it. We have ample evidence of this all around us. Feminism and the internet combined have allowed us to gather much data on women and compare. We all keep finding the same things.

Are you claiming NAWALT? How old are you? Are you fat? How many kids do you have? How’s that career going?

Sorry girl but you’ve become a joke to us. A sick degenerate joke.

Us men have been cataloging your actions. Not your words because as a woman you think with your tingles and your reality is rationalized into place to fit your feelings. As men we observe reality objectively and we’ve been observing you women for a long time now. So we know you are full of shit and we can only watch your actions.

A woman’s words are worthless. They are meaningless. Everything you say I always hear, “right now I feel like”, in front of it. Because your reality is based on your feelings.

” I love you ” really means “right now I feel like I love you”. In a year though? In a week? Tomorrow? Hell five minutes from now after your phone lights up with another tinder like? As soon as you feel something different your reality changes to justify to your own feelings to yourself.

You exposed yourself to us and we have seen what you actually are. You are my inferior in every way except your ability to give birth. And you have thrown that away to chase after the highest highs of vaginal tingling.

How are we men supposed to love a modern woman? We can’t. You have turned yourselves into monsters that disgust us for anything except sex. You have turned yourselves into sex objects and, bizarrely, you’re all proud of this. It’s pretty sickening.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Snowden

Love was a social construct for most, when marriage was the cornerstone for society. But at least women in centuries past were somewhat more loyal.

Now amorality, divorce, abortion, materialism and predatory institutions are the cornerstones of society. So love is exposed as a sham – its not completely women’s fault. But they will pay the consequences for there will come a day when they need a man to have their back and he won’t be there. Unfortunately, feminism has destroyed gender relations between men and women, and all we have left is shit before it hits the fan.

spicynujac
spicynujac
4 years ago
Reply to  Snowden

Everything you say I always hear, “right now I feel like”, in front of it. Because your reality is based on your feelings.

” I love you ” really means “right now I feel like I love you”.

Deserves a whole article.

BrockSamson
BrockSamson
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

How can you explain that throughout the history of humanity, women have contributed so little to the arts. Poetry, painting, music (instrumental), sculpture, lterature, etc. all require the ability to love. Love being defined as the ability to appreciate, understand, and admire someone or something for the beauty and value it possesses. Women are incapable of objective love. If it doesn’t benefit them in some way, it is useless to them.

Snowden
Snowden
4 years ago
Reply to  BrockSamson

A woman’s power is the control of culture. Women control culture. Hence the push to get them to abandon all cultural control and cede that power to the state.

Our women are pathetically weak right now. They’ve lost all control of culture to “insert random theory here”. Hollywood. Incessant consumerism and the worship of idols on the TV. False idols.

Instead women chase masculine power which they are just not suited to wield and destroys them. Destroys their feminine innocence and leaves them broken.

You want to shiv a feminist? A hardcore radical? Run hard game on her and shiv her where it hurts. She’s just not a real woman. She’s broken.

What can we men do about this? Our power is our individual strength. Women control culture but we are going to have to move in and fight for them. Our women are weak.

The question then becomes should we utilize our strength in this culture war where our own women are being massacred or do we go into the culture war in place of the women who gave up their duty?

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Shamshoun

Modern women are engineered to be users of men.

They are made as parasites in the image of bankers. Neither feminists or bankers would exist if they had nothing to feed off; feminism is primarily parasitism of men and especially of white men’s futures. The same men play PUA, destroying their future – no more white children or white society.

Ian Henderson
Ian Henderson
4 years ago
Reply to  Shamshoun

Damn, who hurt you?

Oznoto Ignoto
Oznoto Ignoto
4 years ago

You are getting older, that’s all. Physical considerations give way to spiritual ones, and as death approaches, we seek answers and consolations. We appreciate the deep, and avoid the shallow waters. It is natural and good.

I was about your age when I realized that alcohol was adversely impacting
my sexual performance. Now in my 60’s, I never mix them.
I was only promiscuous in my youth; as an adult it never suited me.

I’ve been married twice, and never cheated, but one of my wives did.
I didn’t divorce her over it, as she was dying of cancer when I learned of it.

A distaste for junk food sex is a good sign of spiritual growth,
but it’s also a sign of aging, like the white hairs in your beard.

As men grow older (and I know this from experience) they tend to have more refined tastes in women, which often go unmet. As most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.

That’s just the way it is. The strength and urgency of our sexual passions start to diminish around 50, and gradually become less important. Which, considering the depraved state of western women, is indeed fortunate.

Kisse Ellis
Kisse Ellis
4 years ago
Reply to  Oznoto Ignoto

‘ As most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.’

…nonsense.

Ken Bourne
Ken Bourne
4 years ago
Reply to  Oznoto Ignoto

Nah, I felt this way at 17 dude. The spirit needs sustenance more than the body.

Morrison
Morrison
4 years ago
Reply to  Oznoto Ignoto

“most young hot women don’t want an older man even if he’s strong, fit, and doesn’t need viagra, unless of course, there’s money involved.”

If you are talking about ‘young hot women’ as in swimsuit or supermodel type bitches, my experience and observations is that, even if you are a young man, good looking and fit, you still need tangible ‘resources’ to get them. Esther Vilar mentions this in her book Manipulated Man. If a hot chyck has to choose between a man who is good looking and fit but without resources, and a man who is much older who has resources, well then she will pick the older guy.

Young hot women are motivated by resources, be it money, or status or drugs, whatever; and age is NOT a factor. It took me a long time to finally see the light.

So the secret to getting a super hottie is no secret. Simply put: be sure you have something material that she wants.

The only women who actually will be with a man for reasons other than the material are women who do so because they have to be – i.e. fat, old, ugly women. But the dark side to this is that the very second any chick who is old fat or ugly became young and supet attractive she would immediately hypergamize and seek another man who is the next bigger and better deal in terms of resources.

It was not my intention to be so long winded here, but it really is worth asserting that you have to put out of your mind what really motivates chicks to be with any man.

Theodore
Theodore
4 years ago

You will never be a complete man if you’re not a father one day, you know it. Having orgasms with random strangers is great, like a good meal you enjoy but it’s also meaningless. The spiritual man in you needs to come forward and reflect on what this all means.

TyKo Steamboat
TyKo Steamboat
4 years ago
Reply to  Theodore

Plenty of men out there that have regretted having kids & even more that shouldn’t be allowed to “pro-create”

Mark Boris
Mark Boris
4 years ago

“I had a weird feeling, almost as if I did something wrong.”

Lol.

Fornication is a sin.

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago
Reply to  Mark Boris

its the feeling where you shoot your load and immediately want them to go or leave yourself….it’s because there is nothing there but a quick fuck

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Chris Brony

Did men get a better deal in the past by having one woman for life – or now, with a bunch of unfaithful sluts and whores; both of whom offer no real contentment, lasting legacy in terms of children, and no social stability for any future for their society?

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago
Reply to  john mahoney

i think its better now because there are many good girls out there…you just cant be naive about it and look after yourself…

Demolition
Demolition
4 years ago

Eastern europe is getting to you Roosh. Get the fuck out of that hole. The woman are great but society as a whole is fucking depressing. Your posts also reflect that. Grab a nice girl (virgin, boring, good relationship with her father, etc), date her for at least one year, buy real estate in Italy, rent it out. And go live there. Get some Rooshies. And start your biggest project: Their education. Do some side hobbies.

I would miss your posts, but would cheer for you to be happy.

Anyway

Last week I was jerking off to a Rocco porn scene with a sex slave named alisha. After it finished in the past I would feel sorry for the girl. But I didn´t. I thought about it for a while.

The end.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Demolition

Where are the good girls? Even rural girls in western countries can be raging sluts, useless for long term relationships. Even asia is westernised in the larger cities where most expats would feel comfortable – there is only so far you can push your comfort zone. Let’s face it, western women are destroyed and declining commodities (they did this to themselves, following someone else’s bad ideology).

We’re trapped in this hell to a large extent – it’s only heaven if you are incredibly naive/ ignore female behaviours etc/ like unfaithful sluts. The few faithful women left often pair up with sea men and have their own issues.

spicynujac
spicynujac
4 years ago
Reply to  john mahoney

I’ve started playing with some dating sites to try to find some more ethnic or religious girls (Asian, latina, etc.) because my area is mostly black and white. What is shocking is the Asian Americans have such a high rate of hair dying / tattoos / odd sexuality. I can’t tell you how many Asian Americans I saw that called themselves “genderqueer” or “pansexual”. Why the fuck are you even on a dating site if you don’t want to date men? I guess we need a niche site for straight people who want to date other straight people.

But the point here is that Asians are seen as some of the most conservative and traditional (most Asians I know raised in Asia are virgins or have been with 1 boyfriend and keep it a secret). However, when exposed to American culture they quickly throw all morals out the window. Proof of the toxicity of feminism and how nothing makes it safe to live in this culture.

banger
banger
4 years ago
Reply to  spicynujac

“Why the fuck are you even on a dating site if you don’t want to date men? I guess we need a niche site for straight people who want to date other straight people.”
— HaHa! I saw the same damn thing here (Montreal). One chick expressly wanted a guy who wouldn’t ‘mansplain’ stuff to her… Dating sites are a nightmare.

bucky
bucky
4 years ago
Reply to  john mahoney

i got lucky and found a great girl in central america. religious, loyal, virgin until she met me. had to wait several months for sex, but it was worth it. i’d say try the more traditional latin american countries, especially if you’re into the christian thing. still no guarantees, of course.

Os
Os
4 years ago

Hey Roosh,

Here’s a link to a book that you might consider adding to your reading list:

Libido Dominandi: Sexual Liberation & Political Control

http://www.amazon.com/Libido-Dominandi-Liberation-Political-Control/dp/1587314657/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top?ie=UTF8

Cheers

Luís
Luís
4 years ago

Dude why don’t you get a girlfriend then? It’s not as if you have trouble picking them up. I’ve seen many a skilled womanizer discard perfectly fine girls because they were easy to lay so they assume they’re unworthy sluts. That’s a limiting belief right there, if you’re good most girls that are into you will be easy lays. So next time you bed one that seems cool, beta down a bit and give here a chance.

Rondo
Rondo
4 years ago
Reply to  Luís

He has said on more than one occasion that he’s found someone like this and he threw it away for more Junk Food Sex.

Like most men, he claims to want a certain thing – love and a “meaningful relationship” – but when he gets it, he can’t actually live the ideal. In a lot of ways, he’s just like a chick watching a romantic comedy.

Luís
Luís
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

Well, maybe it wasn’t the time and now it is. Or maybe he’s afraid that settling down makes him irrelevant in the manosphere. Although I bet writing about the struggles of going from the life of a die-hard player to one of developing meaningful relationships would make for a long time of compelling reads.

Theodore
Theodore
4 years ago
Reply to  Rondo

buyer remorse ?

jdoeford
jdoeford
4 years ago
Reply to  Luís

Yeah…Easy lay *can* mean she’s an indiscriminate slut.
Or it can just mean that she’s really, really into you. Sometimes instant chemistry happens.

spicynujac
spicynujac
4 years ago
Reply to  jdoeford

Agreed, and I’ve had this happen with low notch count girls. But the bottom line is, they will always feel tingles from certain guys, and if they are not wired to reject a first night lay, then they are sluts and will slut it up again under the right circumstances, even if you’re only the 3rd guy they have been with.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Luís

but you have to like a GF for it to work – modern women are a pain

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago

Roosh…how about trying to find someone you actually like and find interesting and sexy and attractive at the same time. Don’t have sex with her for at least the first few meetings. Then come and tell us about it.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Chris Brony

Since most women, even virgins, will put out and reward the wrong kinds of behaviour, surely waiting longer is a form of deluding yourself that the women are worth it, when you are just wanting to lie to yourself?

The behaviour of women in western societies needs to change, only weak men stay with these amen for the long haul; hence why our amoral society is divided and conquered. Family was linked to property and social cohesion- destroy this by turning people into animals of instant gratification, and you start to ‘own’ them in a sense (the bankster philosophy).

Chris Brony
Chris Brony
4 years ago
Reply to  john mahoney

millions of men and women get married each year in the west…millions of these marriages will fail, but also millions will be happy marriages, produce children and be the best decisions these couples have ever made…

bucky
bucky
4 years ago
Reply to  Chris Brony

there must still be some good catholic girls left in poland.

A.W.E.S.O.M.-O
A.W.E.S.O.M.-O
4 years ago

I always find your articles have so much depth! Very interesting

A.W.E.S.O.M.-O
A.W.E.S.O.M.-O
4 years ago

There really is nothing like sex with a meaningful girl that you have a strong bond with.

splooge
splooge
4 years ago

Tariq Nasheed mentioned this.
this is end game, now you want to be afamily man, looks like youll be going back to working in the lab in western ukraine and find a good girl

Bahlza Dragon
Bahlza Dragon
4 years ago

“it doesn’t go down right anymore, so I stopped eating it.” I said that about my last girlfriend.

Taco Idol
Taco Idol
4 years ago

I’m great at conversation, but I have trouble stomaching a whole conversation with women these days. They’re toxic, they know it, they know we are getting wise to it, and yet they still continue w/ the attitude. I stopped talking to a girl in my class because I realized she was using my attention and then banging the bf she never told me about. She ended up getting pissed at my silence and started spreading gossip about me behind my back to the rest of the girls in my class to blow me out of the water w/ them.
I propse that men need to do two things in EVERY situation w/ a woman: 1) Use them as YOUR utility, even if it includes you having to be deceptive. 2) Whenever one of them can be disciplined in any professional setting (without you catching heat from it) then throw them completely under the bus without any conscience, to punish them for their unprofessional behavior.

Spare the rod spoil the child. Women are children. Adult children. They are here to serve your interests and be disciplined without mercy whenever their ass steps out of line. There’s over 3.5 billion women on the planet. You won’t run out of female bridges to burn any time soon.

Kisse Ellis
Kisse Ellis
4 years ago
Reply to  Taco Idol

“Spare the rod spoil the child. Women are children. Adult children. They are here to serve your interests and be disciplined without mercy whenever their ass steps out of line. ”

Yes.

john mahoney
john mahoney
4 years ago
Reply to  Taco Idol

This strategy, whilst understandable, will not work long-term as the genders and different people in society throw each other under the bus, undermining social cohesion. Only the self-appointed elite of society benefit. DO not forget false rape allegations or other things women can also raise against you if they fell slighted by your advice above – i.e. they discover your deception. So be careful and wise.

Shaenon K. Garrity
Shaenon K. Garrity
4 years ago
Reply to  Taco Idol

A girl in your class wouldn’t have sex with you because she had a boyfriend? What a terrible person. If she were capable of making wise decisions, she’d cheat on her boyfriend with you, a guy who wants to beat her up. Damn this lack of logical male guardians to tell women what’s good for them!

advancedatheist
advancedatheist
4 years ago

If Roosh married and had a son, what would he do if the kid lacks the ability to attract girls, and Roosh’s lessons in game don’t seem to make any difference?

Enro Rebels
Enro Rebels
4 years ago

Move to Siberia with an American passport.

Imprevist
Imprevist
4 years ago

We don’t appreciate things that come easily to us and are not challenging enough. Easy is fun but not very fulfilling. When you were younger this was all new to you and it had a certain aura of mystery, suspense and challenge but as you’ve grown and as the years have passed it no longer gives you that same reward or feeling… this is natural. You don’t need to have a strong emotional attachment with a woman to enjoy sex with her but there at least has to be more of a connection than just purely physical. Sharing things in common is a start but it will be rare in the current position you are in because most women you meet will not be able to identify with you based on different cultures, upbringing, mentality etc.
Ask yourself what it is you want…by simply reading your article I would assume that it’s something more than just purely physical…maybe a relationship even or perhaps you want to fall in love. Love is scary and a huge gamble (especially these days) but it’s the elixir of growth and there’s no other feeling on earth that feels better or worth striving for. If that’s the case then it’s time to “get in where you fit in” so to speak. Start going to places where you believe there are women that will fit your newfound fancy…