There are a few guys on the forum who are either living the dream or close to it: independently mobile while banging foreign beauties. This week I’ll share interviews with two of those men (in the future I’ll be putting up more).
Today’s interview is with Naughty Nomad (a guy who raw dogged an HIV-infected African girl). Even though he’s in his early 20s, he has collected more flags than most men will get in their lifetimes. Without further ado…
1. Can you give us a little background on your age and the type of environment you grew up in? What are some things that influenced you earlier in life that put you into the position you are in now?
I’m coming on 24 years old and just finished university (in stereotypical Irish fashion the family business is in pubs). I was fortunate enough to have a liberal upbringing as my parents are entrepreneurial hippies who love to travel and smoke weed. Since I was a little kid I always dreamed about exploring the world and simply refuse to accept alternative conventions. Luckily, I have friends and family of a similar mindset. I now work my life around travel.
2. Talk about your ideal girl. What does she look like? Where is she from? What’s her personality like?
I’ve thought a lot about this. She wouldn’t be Irish that’s for sure! You got to diversify the gene pool.
With looks I’m very particular. She would have to be very exotic, the kind of women who enters a room and renders other men dumb; jaws on the floor hot. I prefer sallow skin, jet black hair, very slim, a low upper arm circumference, good hip-to-waist ratio, a strong jaw line and big eyes—I told you I was particular. Certain ethnic groups fit the bill – Arabic, Eastern Slavic (preferably Ukrainian), Amharic (Ethiopian), Indian, Armenian & Latin girls.
With personality I guess the main thing is she can mingle with friends and family effortlessly. That requires a girl who’s relaxed and confident with a good sense of humour. This needs to be balanced with someone who is passionate, sensual and affectionate. Who best fits the bill in this regard? In my experience I would say Filipinas. There’s a reason they’re rumoured to make the best wives.
So to answer your question, my ideal women would have the personality of a Filipina and be mixed race Ukrainian/Ethiopian. That’s why they call them ideals right? Why stop there? I could become a Muslim and get four wives – a Malaysian, a Saudi, an Ethiopian and a Slavic Azerbaijani—now that’s ideal.
In reality, I’ll probably fuck half the planet trying to my “ideal women,” reach 50, give up and marry a Balinese beauty queen in her 20s. Sigh.
3. What type of game do you run? How does your typical bang go down? How do you change your game when you’re abroad versus in your home country? How do foreign girls and Western girls differ?
I peacock quite a bit and it works wonders—sombreros, jaunty summer hats and berets often make up my attire. I get approached quite a fair bit as a result. I’m also quite direct, but without being needy; kind of take it or leave it approach. Consequently, 90% of the women I sleep with is within 7 hours of knowing them. I have the same pick-up line for every girl I meet… “Where are you from?” Generally, I’ll have been to their country or can speak a few words of their language. This really gets the ball rolling. I DHV [demonstrate higher value] with a few travel stories, make a few jokes and try to get them jealous by talking to other girls. Generally, if I manage to kiss, there is a high probability of a fuck. I like to use some NLP stuff to get girls horny as hell soon in the interaction and then I back off, ignoring them for ages—it’s great fun! My mid and end game is solid, provided the logistics are favourable.
My game plan changes massively depending on the region. In Eastern Europe I run a lot of internet game and arrange dates before I go over. I’ve hooked up with quite a few girls this way, even banged a model or two. In Asia, I use day game and give out my number in shopping centers. In Africa, I just show up! Haha. Western girls are different, as direct game isn’t as effective and a lot of BS is required. Outside my country, the Irish card works wonders, especially with Americans. In Ireland, I generally get lazy, save my cash and just find an Asian or African fuckbuddy for a few weeks at a time.
4. Describe your travel experiences and strategy. What kind of lodgings do you stay in? How do you approach integrating yourself into a new culture with regard to food, language, local customs, etc.? What do you fill your days with? Do you have a basic strategy for meeting women while you travel?
I have a serious hard-on for dangerous places. I’ve been to over 50 countries, including Antarctica and a few self proclaimed republics. I try to travel 3 months in the summer and 1 month in the winter, with a few side trips in between. I generally stay in cheap places as I usually travel for long periods of time. I’ve couch surfed a few times—it’s a fantastic way to meet new friends and get into local social circles. I love mingling with natives as much as possible and usually take a language course before I travel. I’d like to think I’m pretty adaptable—I’ll eat, drink and wear pretty much anything.
My strategy for meeting women is documented above but I would add that having a local SIM card is crucial, as well as knowing a good place to take a girl on a date and a potential sex location afterwards. I spend my days doing the usual tourist stuff, but usually stoned. In some places, I just go nuts and can have up to three dates a day, that keeps me pretty busy!
5. How do you make a living? How did you get into it? What are some skills you had to learn?
I own a small printing and web/graphic design company with an office in my hometown. It’s a simple set-up, but it makes money. On weekends, I’m a DJ and a freelance croupier. I’m also in a band and have a small recording studio that sporadically gets business. My income is irregular but is flexible enough to allow me to travel. I’m by no means rich, but when you’re your own boss you can do whatever the fuck you want, when you want.
6. What are your future goals? How do you see your life playing out in the next 10-20 years?
By 35-40, I want to have visited every single country in the world! I’m currently training for my microlight (ultra-light aircraft) license and plan to circumnavigate the globe by the same time frame. I’m also investigating opening a few hostels abroad in the near future; a great way to finance living abroad, meet women and gain fluency in a language. We shall see.. for now the world is my oyster! I would also like to see the blog becoming more popular, it’s very enjoyable sharing one’s experiences and getting into the whole blogger buzz. It’s only a few months up and things are going great.
7. What’s the most important thing you’ve learned so far in life?
There are no absolutes and life is fucking short. Everything is relative, especially with women. As soon as you step outside your own country and start sniffing round, you come to realise the grass is definitely greener; beautiful women are very curious to meet foreign men and are in abundance. Who are we not to indulge?