Men And Women Are Affected Differently By Life Experience

Experience does not affect men and women the same. For one sex, experience is a stimulator of growth, a giver of value, and a path to virtue, while in the other sex, experience corrupts and creates embitterment, sadness, cat-hoarding, and decreased virtue. One sex should embrace experience to gain the strength that makes them a better human being while the other should avoid experience to preserve a more wholesome and innocent nature that makes them a worthy long-term partner capable of bearing children.

Experience to men is like lifting weights. It’s uncomfortable and causes discomfort, but once the lifting is done, the body calls upon its biological resources to heal the muscle to make it even stronger. The more a man lifts the more strength his muscles will contain, and the more able he can encounter difficult situations in the wild. When a man works difficult jobs, faces illness or poverty, struggles with a new language, or faces long bouts of sexual loneliness despite his best efforts, his muscles are being exerted. These situations are not favorable to his mind, but they turn him into steel. He becomes more capable of enduring pain and difficulty. He becomes full of wisdom, stories, and knowledge. He becomes more attractive to the opposite sex, and more knowledgeable about how to give women what they want.

Experience to a woman is like a puppy suffering abuse at the hands of its master. It rewires her brain to become cynical, jaded, distrustful, and sour. The benefits of these experiences fails to penetrate her brain, like a small stone skipping over a creek. All the experience in the world will not make her a more suitable life partner in the eyes of men, simply because her brain is not able to digest and process experiences like men.

Experience destroys a woman’s birth-given maternal and compassionate nature. It masculinizes her, morphing her into a sad excuse of a little man, void of penis. When a woman sleeps with dozens of men, receives attention from thousands more on the internet, works many comfortable office jobs, reads blogs all day, travels to Paris, London, or Barcelona, and has access to bountiful material possessions without having to work hard for them, her feminine muscles are being weakened. She loses value. Every day that she is not in the service of one man she has dedicated her life to is one that puts her farther away from ever connecting with one. Experience, it turns out, corrupts and destroys the feminine soul.

There is something admirable about a man who has done much with his life and survived, because we are given no benefit of the doubt in our pursuit of happiness. We struggle daily for basic things that women are given on a silver platter, either by the welfare state or thirsty white knights. There is no plan B for men. A man is forced to become virtuous, someone who must earn his salt every day, while a woman who has experienced the same morphs into a shrew, a calculating, un-motherly, and masculine specimen that is half-man and half-woman. She loses compassion and the ability to love one man. She becomes spoiled and ruined for the rest of her life.

Experience destroys women because their brain is not constructed to receive it. They are suitable for maintaining the hearth, for gossiping with their friends while the men risk their lives to ensure the survival of his children and his tribe. The only thing more absurd than a woman hunting zebras in ancient times is a woman today seeking out office employment to make her bread instead of serving a man in exchange for his. The only thing more absurd than a woman sleeping with every man in the tribe is a woman today needing to sexually experiment with dozens of penises as a source of entertainment or fun.

Only through experience can a man find himself, yet only through experience can a woman lose herself. The more experience she has, the more she has lost. Nature intended woman to seek protection from this cruel world behind a strong, experienced man. It’s how we’re built, and any attempt to go against this will result in misery for both sexes.

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amin
amin
6 years ago

Broooo why are u not the president? Your blog is deep in so many levels

???
???
6 years ago
Reply to  amin

The elite only allow idiots to become the president; they are easier to control.

Ian
Ian
6 years ago
Reply to  ???

Fuck the US political matrix!

Bora Bosna
Bora Bosna
5 years ago
Reply to  amin

He would be a far better President than Obama.

JackBlack23
JackBlack23
6 years ago

This is why men need rites of passage …

” … rites of passage are actually more of a sign of an advanced society. It is patriarchy that builds civilization. Patriarchy is the idea of “putting sex to work,” which is based on the ancient contract of marriage. The ancient contract of marriage is an economic contract whereby a woman “sells” her sexual reproductive abilities to a man (i.e. the children of marriage are his children, not hers) in return for the superior protection and providing abilities a man can, and will, procure once yoked to children of his own. What does this have to do with rites of passage, you ask? Well, in order for men to be attractive to women, a man must surpass the female so that he has some tangible benefit to offer the female which she either cannot do herself, or is unwilling to do herself …”

Neo
Neo
6 years ago

Very well said RooshV, Nice change from all that depressing stuff you have been writing lately.

runsonmagic
6 years ago

“without having to work hard for them”

Key phrase.

The women I know who have benefited from experience had to work for it.

Genetic trust fund kids never come out well.

Раковски
Раковски
6 years ago

This article is half baked and lacks understanding.

Women are generally more physically delicate, though this does not mean they are “weaker” or inferior in any way at all. It simply means they are not as capable of physical exertion, nor are they usually quite as interested unless they have hormone imbalances. It also means they are more vulnerable to injury, accidents, physical harm and danger when they insist on acting “just like the boys”.

While both men and women are extremely nutritionally depleted and toxic, women have the added problem that they are often pushing themselves physically far beyond what they are capable of in order to compete and keep up with the men. This is the real problem today.

Whatmekneejerk?
Whatmekneejerk?
6 years ago

If you practice the art of critical thinking, the metaphorical lines he was drawing will become quick apparent.

SonOfWhore
SonOfWhore
6 years ago

Feminists are gonna love this one.

anon
anon
6 years ago

A universal across cultures is that women want to sleep around, it is biological imperative. They are both polygamous and monogamous. In the ancient tribes, most women would get inseminated by all the tribe leaders, and the sperm would fight for impersonation inside the vagina. Since most women could not keep an alpha male to protect her and her children, they resorted to a dual mating strategy. Betas would raise the children of the alphas, and cuckoldry was the biological norm. This is why women form low intensity oxytocin bonds after 5 or so bangs. Most men did not reproduce, and since alphas and betas have the same emotions, we are repelled by female promiscuity because of the risk of raising another man’s child and not reproducing.
An exception is when the girl falls in love (pairbonding or deep conversion). This is a hormone-based obsession similar to cocaine addiction. It only happens when an alpha male shows signs that he will raise the children (emotional signs, not speaking to the womans logical brain). It makes ssense for her to obsess, as this ddoesnt happen for most women and it is the best chance of her offspring surviving.

Sluts can bond, but only if only are alpha and you provide stronger emotions than anyone before. The only diffTerence is that the bar is raised.

Conrad Stonebanks
Conrad Stonebanks
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. Doesn’t matter whether the woman in question is a virgin or a weathered slut. To a woman, an alpha male is like a Hermes handbag, while a beta male is one of those plastic things you get at the supermarket. To be used for their utility and then discarded.

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

” and the sperm would fight for impersonation inside the vagina”.

Uhhh…what the hell does that mean? And please site reference(s) for ANY of the “info” in your first paragraph. Hint: “Out of one’s own ass” doesn’t count.

Helper
Helper
6 years ago
Reply to  Smart Alex

See “Sex at Dawn”.

Ternarydemon
Ternarydemon
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

This is why an abused women ends in love with its abuser and the average women gets wet for the alpha and bored with the beta.

Such man is an alpha for her, and the level of emotion caused is higher than the one caused by other males. While a logical being would prefer a man who is loyal and dependable, pre-menopausic women are not logical and therefore gravitate towards the man who causes the greatest limbic stimulus. Nature balances this with the dual strategy of alpha sperm and beta provisioning.

To be true, a macho who slaps, insults and fucks a woman for good, causes a greater feeling at a limbic level than the beta who tries to loves her and just wants a happy life. That is why our ancestors created rules to limit the number of sexual partners of women, thereby protecting family and society.

Now, most western women grow up to be alpha widows. Add in the post-feminism culture and the welfare state, and most western women are simply not material for loving, but for fucking. Red pill men like us know this hurtful truth, and we have the option of adjusting our game to the circumstances, or going our own way.

dawn-roxanne michelle
dawn-roxanne michelle
5 years ago
Reply to  anon

men cheat at increasingly elevated rate over woman, searching for that alpha male heir. and in the first two lines, you don’t call it for what is was, which is rape.!!

seth datta
seth datta
6 years ago

I am going to propose something unheard of in these parts – that perhaps only at best, 3-4% of men are ‘responsible’/’normal’ and that THE SAME EXISTS FOR WOMEN. Sure, they have been created this way at much cost and disadvantage to men, BUT SUCH WOMEN EXIST. The problem is when you empower the other 96% of f*cktards through social policies designed to undermine a nation – since the vast majority of people lack long-term critical thinking, they will always make poor decisions that drag the 3-4% of ‘good decision makers’ down. Note that only 3-4% of people at a maximum fought the British in 1776, and that freedom for the many is always fought by the few – most people are not capable of maintaining a freedom that is hard fought for, by continuing to make responsible decisions.

Feminism from its inception was always intended to break up the family unit and the bankers would fill up this power vacuum, since no political space can be left unattended. Western women as such, by weakening their and their menfolk’s power base, have resulted in a degenerate society compared to their ancestors, where the dumbification and manginification has resulted in many wars abroad, and mass immigration at home as other groups fill the vacuum and provide the children that these corporate byproducts do not. Western women, and especially older generations, whilst not completely at fault, must hold SOME BLAME, otherwise all of us can be said to have no free will; and if we are not responsible for our actions, then we should have no prisons any more and we can watch society burn if we take this ideology to its ultimate conclusion.

The problem is – how do you fix it? Are we going to force western women, especially white women, to have the 2.1 children – they’ll just claim we’re oppressing them. Not only that, but you cannot undo the years of negative social programming and indoctrination they have – they’d make poor wives and mothers. Thus, will the white race be doomed to decline relative to others (at least in numbers) because of women’s choices? And will other groups undergo the same fate by embacing this toxic ideology, as opposed to say, adopting female positivism (which does not deny femininity and is not a banker orientated movement)?

Talk is cheap and I post a lot, yet I also take actions to improve my future, however bleak a manner I may see the world. I know that in the west, we have a lot of upcoming conflicts that are international and domestic strife coming up. I hate how everyone is so blind and ,any use cognitive dissonance to stick their head in the sand as they d*ck around whilst things get worse year on year. In some ways, its better to be a f*ckwit like the vast majority of people, who do not want to wake up and will follow each other like lemmings off the cliff – being aware is painful. Heck, there are so many idiots, that they will potentially drag us all with them off that cliff.

Finally, as with regards this article, life experience IMHO only benefits a few. Most people do not learn jack 5hit from their lives – we have a lot of older folk today who exist because of modern health care; not because they are so smart or because they have a lot of wisdom. They are in part responsible for the world we see today; though I have to wonder if our generation would have done differently – perhaps all of us are fools are human beings who are easily misled into perdition.

I figure I will stop posting/post less and shorter as no change comes around this way. Its a good way of venting and feel like you’re doing something for the world, yet nothing changes and worse, things decline. I’ve learned that society does not care for righteousness – both social institutions and people. So i will only treat women well when they are young and/or they do something for me. I will only have their back when they have had mine. And i will only support my close family and perhaps one or two friends. Its amazing how the butterfly effect of marriage being dead can lead to society being dead. I think the men and women here will face a very tough time a decade from now; and the women will quickly learn as their wages go down and as society degenerates, that the only value they have is in that wet hole between their legs, unfortunately. These idiots have destroyed everything that was once good about the west.

MystiKasT
MystiKasT
6 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

I read every word. A good post man. The older generation has f’d us. I am 25 and the future looks bleak.

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago
Reply to  MystiKasT

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
― Winston Churchill

Yes the world and society has problems but in MANY MANY ways it is improving and better than it ever has been. Don’t fall for the “woe is me” negativity bullshit (it’s like cancer to your soul)…and DON’T lay blame for your plight at the feet of others….else you are TRULY fucked for life.

The world is also an amazing place with great people to be met, adventures to be had, and fortunes to be won.

It’s your choice which one you will live in

Black French
Black French
6 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

My friend,
If any of us was part of the 3-4% elite, we would be athletes, top scientists, successful businessmen, etc and young beautiful females would be throwing themselves at us. We are just reformed betas hoping to upgrade. For now, we shoukd show some modesty.

seth datta
seth datta
6 years ago
Reply to  Black French

I can’t believe your post got 4 upvotes because you are misinformed if you believe the ‘elite’ are better than us. Apart from athletes who have genetic ability, the rest like top scientists and successful businessmen are MADE by the ‘elite’ and their economic-political system. They are not superior, just have good connections with the ‘elite’ and follow the orders they are given without question. The best people are never seen as they threaten the ‘elite’, for the best would then make humans free and not dependent upon these elite scum, so the elite actively try to keep these people down. You never hear of them as the elite run the media and just about everything else, and not just in the west, but the world.

For sure, there once was a time when the elite was the best, but they for the last few decades are only best at cheating and keeping the knowledge of this system of beating the system (because they run it) to themselves. They are also great at planning how to hand down generational wealth whilst everyone else get taxed. You can show modesty as they make you a slave, then get rid of you like some insect. I’m deciding not to follow you and go a different path.

Danny Hurst
Danny Hurst
5 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

I always say….the people who actually have the power to change things simply won’t. Why? Because why should they….the system worked for them.

The Lion King
The Lion King
6 years ago
Reply to  Black French

this whole world is a giant playground. The true elites, the true alphas of society, I don’t think you can see them.
If I was a true elite and I litterally had the world as my oyster, I would make sure everyone is pussified, degenerate, valueless and constantly distracted. So no one dares to challenge me. And those that dare to rise up against their slave masters would be severely chastised. Even better, their cellmates would chastise them.
Us former betas should get to the alpha state as fast as possible, in secrecy. You don’t want to make yourself visible to the prison guards and paid informers (white knights, feminists, manginas).
Even the top businessmen, athletes and all, are just some priviledged slaves and gladiators used up by the rulers hiding somewhere fucking the best of women through their supply chain for pleasure with a devoted wife for child bearing. Elites have useful connections, doesn’t mean they’ll share the throne though.

Whatmekneejerk?
Whatmekneejerk?
6 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

You must continue to post, as long as you are critically thinking you are making a difference. Not all people have to agree with you to justify your thought process.

Aurini
Aurini
6 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

I liked that mental image – we’re stuck in a herd heading for a cliff, trying desperately to jump out, but the herd keeps dragging us along.

Daniel Thompson
Daniel Thompson
6 years ago
Reply to  seth datta

Uggh, I always hear this alarmist nonsense about the ‘decline of the white race’.

People have to realise that there is virtually zero chance of whites becoming extinct in the near future, or even of anything more than a modest, relative decline in their numbers.

Yes, economic development has seen birth rates plummet in the western world, but such a thing is happening the world over. Already a number of Asian countries – Japan and South Korea for instance, have birth rates lower than most western countries. Xenophobia over there has also severely restricted immigration, meaning that their populations are already on the verge of shrinking. Japan could have only a third as many people as it does now by the end of the century.

Even in the rest of Africa and Asian however, birth rates are already declining. The world’s population should just about stabilize at around 10 billion people from mid-century. By 2100 there will be about 4 1/2 billion Asians, 4 billions Africans and 1 1/2 billion people in Europe, the Americas and Australia. The white portion of the global population will be 10-15%, down from 25% in the early 20th century.

It should be realized however, that this is just a return to the historical norm, before Europe’s industrialization shot it ahead of the rest of the world. In 600AD Europe made up less than 20 million of the world’s 200 million people, and as late as 1500 it was 50 million out of 400 million.

We’ve always been a minority. The last few centuries were an aberration. Deal with it.

MystiKasT
MystiKasT
6 years ago

Good stuff bro

Awesome Possum
Awesome Possum
6 years ago

This is one of your greatest posts yet, Roosh. Thanks for the insights. I will be forwarding this to female friends and ex-girlfriends. (Pearls before the swine, I know, but oh well)

spentcasings
spentcasings
6 years ago

The women who escape the bitterness are those who never join the carousel and who have jobs that are not overly demanding and taxing. Failing to join the carousel, they don’t pursue casual sex. Working at jobs that don’t leave them stressed out, they can relax more. Their experiences with these don’t leave them jaded.

Conrad Stonebanks
Conrad Stonebanks
6 years ago
Reply to  spentcasings

Today there are few women who do not ride the carousel in their twenties. They only appear to differ in the speed in which carousel turns. For some, it’s a slow ride, for others, it turns at warp speed.

anon
anon
6 years ago

so inherently, one sex becomes vurtuous and stronger through expierience while the other tends to become bitter and corrupt just because not all women stay at home anymore? if that’s not some failed ass logic, i dont know what is. every human being has different experiences. there are temptations that can lead to corruption and also good experiences that can lead to growth in both sexes. its not just men that can be virtuous. its not just women that can turn out bitter based on things in life. the fact that women go out into the world doesnt make them any more or less corrupt than anyone. its them whoring around, not taking care of themselves, and hoarding after meaningless materials that leave them corrupt and pathetic human beings, something that could happen to ANY human being, so get it straight and get off your high horse. sorry but if you want to say only women turn out bad and bitter because of life experience and never get anything good out, then you and many other guys whining about how horrible women are should look in the mirror. how many guys here are bitter towards women because they’ve had one to many whores in their life,and entitled immature gold digging bitches, (and sadly those whores are many) and as a result now think all women are whores or something to be controlled because of all those negative things, and in order to prevent them? not all experiences build virtue or other good qualities. not all experiences build bitterness. a woman can choose to take care of herself and not be a whore even though she has something in the world that she does for a living while enjoying life. (and sadly this species is nearly extinct) she just has to be open and vulneralbe with her man alongside, and its too bad that most of you here believe that that not doable because it is. because a women enjoys life doesnt make her selfish and corrupt. if shes going to hold the immature attiude of “im entitled and deserve everything with out working for it, and im going to fuck every guy i see” and have no self respect, then thats a different story. no human finds that valuable in either sex….in their right mind that is.

lumpykiwi
lumpykiwi
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

Classic case of NAWALT.

anon
anon
6 years ago
Reply to  lumpykiwi

I know alot believe that, and i expected such a response. but let me tell you people something. The man im with now is the best thing that ever happened to me. we have been together for almost 3 years. we met on a dating site. he was here in the netherlands and i was in texas. ive come althe way here to live with him just to have a life together, and hes the only guy ive had sex with and its because i want to spend my life with him..im old fasioned that way (the good waylol) ..im 24. i take care of myself and enjoy being attractive for him, and am completely loyal. no i will never want another dick inside me..the thought of another is repulsive. we have never cheated on one another. my occupation is a welder. i worled my ass off saving up to 8thousand a month just so i could come here last year and start alife with him after over a year of not being physically together after the second temporary visit. i’ve just gotten a new job and we will have our own house soon. if a girl would not be willing to fly over an ocean for you (figuratively and literally), learn a whole new language, and literally shed blood sweat and tears just to help contribute to the relationship..FUCK HER shes a ho. fine call me a troll and dont believe me, you guys dont have to. it just seems like a really painful mindset to believe that people like this dont exist anymore..and i know cus ive been there.

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

“ive come althe way here to live with him just to have a life together, and hes the only guy ive had sex with and its because i want to spend my life with him..im old fasioned that way (the good waylol) ..im 24. i take care of myself and enjoy being attractive for him, and am completely loyal. no i will never want another dick inside me..the thought of another is repulsive”

You do realize you’ve essentially validated most of the points in Roosh’e article, right? And by the way if this is true, then you’re one of the good ones because you lack experience.

anon
anon
6 years ago
Reply to  Smart Alex

if you are talking about sexual experience i concurr. i am proud that i lack exp sexually and want to be boud to one person in life. the more sexual xp someone has the more of a turnoff it is, and that is a point i’m sure i validated, not to mention agree with. my very first comment was talking about experiencing things in life in general.

Carlos
Carlos
6 years ago
Reply to  anon

Logic is the study and application of correct inferences. An inference is a both the process of reasoning and its product, nothing more. It is logically appropriate for Roosh to categorize human experience into male and female, for both sexes have distinct life experiences. There are elements that each category share, as the sum of all individual experiences, in a vaster proportion than the other. Your argument relies on the existence of outliers. Yes, some men will grow bitter from life experience. And yes, some women will be empowered. These cases are the exception, however; they are not the norm.

anon
anon
6 years ago
Reply to  Carlos

“Yes, some men will grow bitter from life experience. And yes, some women will be empowered. These cases are the exception, however; they are not the norm.”
i disagree. every man and woman i have met(or at least got the chance to know for awhile and talk to) has grown for the better or worse to some degree based on different things they have experienced in life. so based on what i have observed up till now i dont think there is an exception, although emotionally men and women can have a tendancy to react differently to situations. i believe that growing bitter or stronger through struggle depends on the persons mindset, and even whether or not they where spoiled as kids or were taught to work for what they wanted and needed. if you are given everything you ever wanted at whim as a kid you will turn out whiney and bitter as an adult if things dont go your way. male or female. those kind of muscles IMO also have to be built when young, or you will have trouble in adulthood, because its the way life is..not always YOUR way.

Omar
Omar
6 years ago

This relates to the fact that men with facial scars, or scars in general, are seen as more attractive. Women on the other hand, are less attractive with scars.

Aleenum
Aleenum
6 years ago

I have to disagree with two points :
1.That nature has intentions.
2. That tribal women were monogamous.

Anti
Anti
6 years ago

I mentioned in a previous post, your video about life dissatisfaction, that you’ve experienced too much life. Now I’m not saying you are replying directly to me. That would be too egotistical of myself to feel such.

Yet i must engage this. Cause I think it engages with my own views. Your case is that more experience means a more enriched life for a man. I completely agree. With one thing….

What is the point of an enriched life, Roosh, if there is no legacy to pass it on to? I understand you’ve written books, you are profiled on the SPLC website (not a snipe – if the SPLC says something against, I read towards), and you have legions of followers. That is passing it down in a sense. It is powerful. But it isn’t the same thing as the primal desire to see your flesh and blood live on without you. Ideas… yes, they come and go… but our genetic legacy lives on if we propagate. Crossing the two, there is a chance that our ideas will live on with our children. It will give them a guide to live right in a world that is wrong. This will only provide a bulwark against feminism and the detritus of the modern world.

Ideas that will live on not only in your genetic offspring, but also in their intellectual spirit.

Anti
Anti
6 years ago
Reply to  Anti

The more I think:

A man’s life is enriched when he has experienced to satisfaction life. HIs knowledge is accumulated within him. That information becomes valued wisdom.

An unhappy man is the one who has experienced few things, which is assumed as accomplishing nothing. Regret is the only thing he offers.

Both have their value in that they offer lessons on how to live. Neither gives anything worthwhile to the next generation of men and women if they do not have any children or wisdom to offer.. unless… they have something famous to remember them which. Men like this exist in a small minority of all the world’s offerings.

An enriched man with no genetic legacy is the same as the man with no experience but a genetic legacy. Both equal the same outcome: nothing to offer.

ray
ray
6 years ago

‘When a man works difficult jobs, faces illness or poverty, struggles with a new language, or faces long bouts of sexual loneliness despite his best efforts, his muscles are being exerted. These situations are not favorable to his mind, but they turn him into steel. He becomes more capable of enduring pain and difficulty. He becomes full of wisdom, stories, and knowledge. He becomes more attractive to the opposite sex, and more knowledgeable about how to give women what they want.’
That’s excellent advice for your youthful readership. There is NO free pass to becoming a man, nor to attracting females. These things TAKE TIME and effort, often many decades. No free pass includes Game. Game is an attempted short-cut to manhood, and short-cuts only regress men, or trap them in stasis. Artifice and pretending does not facilitate growth.
Of course we all want to hear that there’s a short-cut, including boys and young men. Half of consumer-society runs on (preys on) this weakness. It’s a fallen aspect of our collective natures. But telling guys the less-welcome truth serves them much better.
Cheers.

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago
Reply to  ray

I agree with most of your post. The exception being “Game is an attempted short-cut to manhood, and short-cuts only regress men, or trap them in stasis. Artifice and pretending does not facilitate growth” If you truly understand the principles of Game you would know that is a TOOL for growth not a shortcut…unless you believe that ALL learning from others’ experiences is a “short cut that doesnt facillitate growth”?

An Insightful Introvert
An Insightful Introvert
6 years ago

Not only is your article offensive, but I also strongly disagree with your generalizations as well. At the end of the day, you have to look at people as individuals, even though there are psychological differences between both genders. What you said about how women respond to their negative experiences can also be applied to men as well. Some men are able to get over their negative experiences, learn from it, and move on while others are not. I have personally come across men who dwell on their negative experiences and are not able to let go of them!

Netherlands
Netherlands
6 years ago

Shut the fuck up.

Carlos
Carlos
6 years ago

Even if this is the case, that the generalizations are inappropriate, the main thrust of Roosh’s article still stands. Us young men have to earn our lot, even if it is a minority of us. We have no choice. Either we earn our lot or live a marginalized life.

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago
Reply to  Carlos

Word!… motherfucker!

Smart Alex
Smart Alex
6 years ago

The men that experience difficulties in life and don’t grow from overcoming them are….well…irrelevant. Everyone will encounter challenges in life. EVERYONE. What one does at the crossroads of those challenges is what defines us. That’s the point. Roosh’s article is not so much about a generality as much as a self fulfilling maxim about character. GENERALLY speaking women who have experienced the consequences of their poor, society induced, choices fare worse…generally speaking.

Moosik85
Moosik85
6 years ago

This 100% true.

Look at before/ after photos of US soldiers that have done tours in Iraq. They leave looking like boys and come back as men.

The opposite is for women. We want an untouched gem not some hag that’s had more cocks then a Thai hooker.

Alfalfa
Alfalfa
6 years ago

I agree. I have been thinking along the same lines, though I rarely speak these thoughts out loud because of the emotional responses I will most likely invoke.

But yes – in my experience very few women grow older & wiser. Sometimes they grow more anxious over time. Usually just older.

Ain'tIAWoman?
Ain'tIAWoman?
6 years ago

You seem to be confused about history…..

Since the beginning of time women have worked to help sustain their homes. We worked in the fields, we worked in the factories, and even in the dawn of creation we went out and gathered things! The idea that woman have never worked outside the home and that her sole task is to care for kids as a stay at home mom of some sort is actually a pretty new idea (IE last 200-300 years or so) and was only possible among the wealthy. My grandmother, she worked. She could neither read nor write (so no not a feminist), but she struggled for her daily bread with her husband hundreds of miles away getting the only work he could. They were a dual income family because to do otherwise was to starve. My great grandmother she worked as a share cropper in the deep south.

Also this post kind of discredits all the matriarchal societies, and there were quite a few of those especially among the Native Americans.

BernieGoetzFan
BernieGoetzFan
6 years ago
Reply to  Ain'tIAWoman?

There has never been a matriarchal society in the history of the world. All primitive societies had the strictest of sex roles. Complete feminist nonsense.

Ain'tIAWoman?
Ain'tIAWoman?
6 years ago
Reply to  BernieGoetzFan

First off I am not a feminist. Secondarily several Native American tribes would probably disagree with that statement gender roles have not been solid across history or geography.

The Haida people of the Northwest were a true matriarchy.

The Lenape were a tribe that followed maternal not paternal lines, this made more logical sense if you think about it because pre-DNA test how on earth did you prove who fathered someone?

The Apache although not strictly matriarchal could be seen as kind of practical egalitarian they taught both men and women to cook, hunt, and fight. They knew life might sometimes call on you to have skills that might not be considered your regular task.

The idea that women, or even men have always lived the way things are is simply not he case. There was a time in which Roosh V could be hung in the public square for what he was doing, after all in the time period he seems so obsessed with a daughter was her fathers property and he would be considered stealing to have sex without that mans permission. I am sure despite his claims he doesn’t really want to go back to that time period were he actually has to purchase female contact from a father. There was a time in which it was believed not only would learning to read overheat my brain and cause possible death, but that I was 3/5ths a human and it was legal in the US to sell me. What it means to be something is largely dependent on where you are and when you live.

BernieGoetzFan
BernieGoetzFan
6 years ago
Reply to  Ain'tIAWoman?

Why were there no female chiefs or warriors in Indian societies? It is only in modern Western societies where you see some relaxation of gender roles. And that is simply due the feminism.
Read “The Inevitability of Patriarchy” by Goldberg and you will see that wild claims of primitive tribes being matriarchal are either made up or exaggerated.

Ain'tIAWoman?
Ain'tIAWoman?
6 years ago
Reply to  BernieGoetzFan

There were female Native American leaders. There was Anne of the Paunchy Tribe of Virginia in 1656 and Awashonks of the Wampanoag tribe in 1600’s. These are just two of the ones we have a written account of today. For an example even you should be familiar with even though she is French not Native American Joan De Arc lead her people in battle.

The funny thing about reality is, it exists regardless of your opinion on the matter. Yes woman work, yes women lead. They have done both throughout history.

BernieGoetzFan
BernieGoetzFan
6 years ago
Reply to  Ain'tIAWoman?

A few female leaders do not change the fact of patriarchy. Europe has had some female queens but was it not still a male dominated society throughout its history? Same with the various Indian tribes.

Stephanie Shepard
6 years ago
Reply to  Ain'tIAWoman?

I agree with you. All my maternal elders worked. My great-great grandmother worked with her husband on their farm. My great grandmother was a school teacher. My grandmother was waitress. My mother worker many odd jobs, she even once worked as a shoe shiner. Not one woman in my family was a feminist. They were too busy raising children and contributing to their households to care about what Gloria Steinem said about womanhood.

Robert What?
Robert What?
6 years ago

I think the point is that your grandmother, great grandmother, etc, worked as a way to help sustain their families. Not for “self realization”.

Stephanie Shepard
6 years ago
Reply to  Robert What?

Feminism is a rich bitch problem. Women in the middle class and lower class have not benefited. Only thing feminism did was force those women out of the home. They really did not have a choice. This seems to get left out of the debate.

Lee
Lee
6 years ago

All this gender relations talk is giving me a headache. Can you not see the bonds of all around you? The Rockefellers and Rothschilds got women into corporate wage slavery in the 60s so the system could tax two incomes and have the kids to be brainwashed at school. So you have generations of innocent children being taught about life from the system and cable tv as opposed to Mom and grandmas knee. It’s awful and shame on our forebearers for not liberating us all from this non sense.

Ain'tIAWoman?
Ain'tIAWoman?
6 years ago
Reply to  Robert What?

What do you think women are working for today? For giggles? My mother worked so she and my father could keep a roof over their children’s heads. I am working so I can get a better job so I can afford to feed the children I would like to raise. Does it suck that I have to do, this well sure. However no guy is lining up outside to marry and support me. I don’t want to die of old age waiting on him. If a guy was willing to marry me, and let me stay home and keep a house I would be happy to do that, but I have to live with the reality that I find myself in.

Ouroborosidiot
6 years ago
Reply to  Ain'tIAWoman?

Not just that… What kind of irrational person would one have to be to argue against……

“Honey, You slog for 10 hours a day and probably even over time to keep the money coming in, let me share your responsibility and help you out, instead of sitting at home with the couch glued to my ass and my eyes glued to the TV”

But again whenever a femzombie argues about the “right to work”, “being a career woman”… I toooootally cringe…… Since when exactly did the *responsibility* to work become a right to work?

I think the culprit here are the femzombies, who painted women’s traditional gender role as sitting at home doing nothing but serving the the man and popping out babies, while being completely oblivious to the changing (value of these) roles due to technology, urbanization, economy etc…

just my 2 cents…

desbest
desbest
6 years ago

Feminists will never, ever stop complaining and demanding new and more restrictive laws on men…….ever. No matter what men do, or don’t do, they just keep finding cause to cry foul, and it will never end. No amount of appeasement will satisfy them. They are addicted to crying
victim and nothing will stop t hem doing it. Each generation of women
grows weaker and weaker, and more and more intolerant and sensitive.

Feminism was supposed to be about strong women, instead what we have is a generation of women raised on victimhood who are so weak and pathetic and traumatized by every little thing that they can’t stand up in a
slight breeze. They need propping up and protecting in every way, from
every little thing. It’s going to get to the point where a woman can’t
even breath on her own.

They will literally need to live lives wrapped up in cotton wool on life support systems where everything in their environments is kept at absolute perfection or it will be totally intolerable for them.

I have some news for all you whiny women.
You become strong by having to endure, and put up with things. You
become tolerant by exposure. This is why men are stronger then women to begin with, because we had to be, because we had to do the heavy
lifting for ourselves, as well as for you, and the children. You don’t
become strong, physically, mentally, or emotionally, by having every
little thing that annoys you removed, and being protected from the
slightest inconvenience……that….is how you grow weak and pathetic.
You don’t become tolerant by being able to reject or silence, or censor
everyone else’s view and opinions to protect your delicate little
feelings…….this is how you become a narrow minded bigot who thinks
your way is the only way that should be allowed…..for anybody, not
just yourself.

This is what feminism has turned you into. A weak, pathetic, physical, mental, and emotional cripple, who needs to be protected and provided for in every way…..and can’t even stand a small annoyance without thinking the world must stop and devote it’s resources to removing that for you.

If feminism is successful in continuing this bullshit, the future for women will be a pack of basket cases who are totally dependent on men. Grown women who are like little babies who can’t do anything for themselves, and merely cry every time they perceive any sort of discomfort, be it physical or mental or emotional.

That is evolution. Whatever abilites are not needed, are disposed off. You know, you can’t get strong by sending someone else down the gym to lift weights for you…..what happens is that you get weak, and they get strong. This applies to mental and physical and emotional strength and tolerance too. You women are the equals of total couch potatoes who think you can get fit watching footy.
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/the-everyday-sexism-project-key-element-in-fourth-wave-feminism/

http://www.menshumanrightsireland.org/index.php?n=25

Do you know why it’s like that? It’s because men are the resource creators who create wealth and families (fatherless families are much more likely to go to prison or commit suicide than motherless ones), females are the resource extractors who use their sexual prowess to demand for female exclusive colleges, breast cancer research, gender biased rape laws, extract love in exchange for their vaginas (while men do real work to get sex but all a woman does is be born a female) and use feminism to destroy the family unit. This is why women are more oppressive than men in Western society. Why is feminism strongest in countries where there’s equality. It is because women do not like equality, and they prefer chivalry where men do everything they can to serve them.

R bere
R bere
6 years ago

Sometimes, when I become disheartened and think girls don’t like me, or I’m not too valuable, I think of all the things I’ve done in my life….interactions with people, and my general character. My self confidence returns.
I’ve worked in the oil fields of Texas during college..the night and day when storms raged. Slinging a sledge hammer….connecting pipes and hoses from trucks to the drill pipe. Hard hats, Mexican workers along side me, mud caked on boots and uniforms. Dust and heat in the air. Gazing across the plains of west texas as far as the eye could see.
I worked on an offshore oil rig during a summer in college. Helicopters in and out. lowered on the crane to the tug boat to help unload the food. The smell of diesel in the morning as the oil machinery pumped day and night. Rough joking and ribbing from gruff country boy oilfield types. Giving as good as I’m getting.
I got a degree in engineering from my university. I’ve passed the series 7 and am now a successful financial advisor making 6 figures. I’ve deer hunted many times….walking into the woods alone in pitch black morning darkness. Going a mile in and then climbing up a tree with my tree stand. Watching the deer and hogs run underneath me as first light illuminates the woods of Mississippi. Arrowing deer with my compound bow. Dragging them out.
I’ve seduced and loved women. I’ve been engaged, broken up with.. I’ve been married, divorced. I’ve made beautiful women moan, laugh and cry.
I’ve been called out in public by a long lost friend who remembered my value. I’ve had stitches and broken bones. A broken hand from a fight.
I’ve beat down a bully who only an hour before beat me down. Decided to pay him a return visit after an encouraging talk.
I’ve traveled all over the USA and south America. I’ve made friends laugh. I’ve prevented people from being hurt. Stopped a friend from walking into an oncoming car. While squirrel hunting, I’ve prevented another friend from accidentally shooting a father and child in the woods as he did not see them through the brush…..last minute kind of deal.
I’ve been caught in a storm in the gulf of Mexico….my friend and I in a boat too small. Pitched and tossed in 5 foot seas…waves coming overboard…lightining and heavy rain down upon us…. ….coming to the point of thinking this may very well be our death.
I’ve introduced and also been the reason that one of my friends met his current wife. As a result, they had children. Their marriages and children exist because of me.
I’ve been in car wrecks and automobile situations that should have resulted in severe injury or worse….but didn’t.
I continue to date attractive women.
I currently struggle with a chronic health condition but am making headway. I generally keep it to myself.
I’ve won contests. Came in first place. One I did three years in a row. I’ve lost close games. Football as a youth. Once a defeat so crushing I and many others on our team cried as we shook the hands of the other team after the game. Looking into my friend’s eyes from the other team…telling him only congratulations.
Much more I’m sure as there is for all of you. These are some of the things I think about when I feel down knowing I am strong, have value and wisdom and that give me character.

Zenramid
Zenramid
6 years ago
Reply to  R bere

That sounds like a life well lived, may it be so untill the end 🙂

KL
KL
6 years ago

“It’s uncomfortable and causes discomfort”

Really?

Gary
Gary
6 years ago

Damn I was in process of writing article about this.

Good article; the metaphors are excellent.

Zenramid
Zenramid
6 years ago

I’ve also noticed that.
I’ve observed how women around my age (29) no longer have ‘that light’ in them (and btw. I’m from Poland). They are more bitter, cold, calculative. The reason for that I believe is women’s memory. Women have much greater memory than men, especially for everyday details and human interaction. That’s why all the pain they’ve experienced builts up inside them and dims them inside, while men are much more capable of forgetting, letting go and moving on.

I do not, however, believe that women should try to remain ‘innocent girls’ as soon as possible. Yes, it is what we, men instinctivly want in women, we want them to be both our lovers and proteges, it is wired in our nature. But it is also a trap. It is the cause of relationships where man loves more. The protector always is the one that loves the protege more than the other way around.
As much as it corresponds to our nature, I believe it’s less than the love men deserve as human beings.

I think, that we as the manosphere have a two-step task to make. Firstly, and most importantly, we have to help men survive in the present world, and become better, successful men that can live happy, satisfactory lifes. Secondly, I think we should guide women into becoming the best as they can as human beings. After milennias of human history, the technology finally made it possible for both of our sexes to expand from our boundries and become what previously only few very lucky ones could. I think we should find a way for women to embrace all the virtues of humanity, because a path to that goal is the only one that will enable women to see men as full human beings and love them unconditionally. There is no other way to that but through wisdom and clearly an eternal cheerful child that many of men would like women to remain, is not a being that could provide a man with a love he would wish to be loved with.