Night Game Energy Levels

When it comes to running game in a club, I have found it’s best to find a girl whose energy level is slightly lower than yours. Otherwise, in such a loud and flashy atmosphere that feeds the ADD of even the smartest of women, she will get bored and not entertain your seduction. Clubs are therefore best suited for guys who have high amounts of energy and prefer to dance or chat continuously.

On a scale of 1-5, a high energy guy is a 5 and a stoic introvert, who prefers standing in silence, is a 1. You should aim for a girl who is either equal to you in energy or one point lower. In other words, men who have a 4 or 5 energy rating will have the largest pool of women in clubs who will be receptive to their game.

Imagine a pretty girl who has a 2 energy rating. She doesn’t go to clubs often and so she only knows two of the eight Rihanna songs that the DJ played during his set. She has little interest in trying to talk loud. Her dancing is more like swaying. If a 5 energy guy approaches her, he will bomb. She will see his energy as fake or unnatural. “Why is he acting like this,” she’ll think. “This club isn’t that fun. I should have stayed home to finish reading Tolstoy.”

Now imagine a 5 energy girl, pumping her fist, singing along with her favorite songs. A 3 guy approaches her with a desire to talk more than dance (if forced to dance, he can only put on a subpar performance). She will see him as boring or lame. “He doesn’t know how to party,” she’ll think. “Where are all the fun guys at?”

In my early 20’s, I was a 4 energy guy. I danced a lot and thus most of my pickups were on girls who liked dancing for extended periods of time. If a girl was low energy in the club, I wouldn’t get far because my escalation steps required her to expend a lot of energy on the dance floor so I could touch or grind my penis on her rear. Over the years, my energy has slipped to a 2. I can stand immobile for hours, and now I dance like a skyscraper moves during an earthquake. This has greatly reduced my club target pool because I have to look for girls with energy that is a 2 or lower. Therefore one of my club strategies is now to find the pretty girl who is obviously not having fun, because I know she’ll appreciate the fact that I’m also not excited about the venue. The type of girl I’d receive rejections from at 24 is one who I can now easily lay at 34, while the party girl I used to lay is now getting out of my reach.

Some guys create artificial states to raise their energy for the club, which can help propel them to a one-night stand, but if dating is required, the girl may be disappointed that you’re acting differently outside of the club atmosphere. This can happen the other way around when a girl you take out has far less energy than when she was dancing on tables showing her vagina to any man who chose to have a discreet peek up her skirt.

It’s a fantasy to believe that any girl in the club is a valid target. Unless you like churning through a dozen or two approaches a night, you have to be mindful about your target having equal or lower energy than you, within a narrow range. If you are a high energy guy, a club is the best place to find your counterpart. But if you’re low energy like me, you’ll waste a lot of time in venues where your match can be more easily be found in a supermarket or coffee shop.

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Charles Pipkins
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Quality girls are rarely found in clubs. Harder for her to assess you and you her.

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Also, street game after the clubs close. Good opportunities there if you’re low energy since most girls are tired and not in the high energy state as they were back in the club.

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I think it depends what kind of music you like compared to what the club is playing. If I go to a commercial pop-trash club I will be bored and my game reflects this. Conversely if I am in some dingy club blasting some filthy deep house my energy will be similar to that of a rabbit on coke.

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mr pipkins is either a keyboard jockey or lives in cleveland. plenty of great, fun, sexy girls in clubs.

speak for yourself, brah

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Clubs are sausage fests in America.

[Roosh: Not in Europe though]

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Well when u see the quiet girl at the club. You can reduce ur energy then approach then increase after with the other girls

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Match? :shudder: I think you are conflicted, Roosh. You want a relationship, sorta?, and you know the risks. Patriarchs practice husbandry. Virgins are the best bet, if you want to gamble. Don’t make the state your primary marriage or parenting partner if you can. I saw a video about Divorce Bank from a commenter at D&P. New family model, IMHO: Low-count mother lives two doors down, separate property with intervening property, no diamond cartel ring. She uses the state to fuck you, you’re out of her life. Can’t pass on our values to youngsters if the state intervenes. Might have to hope for receptiveness in young adulthood. But we get ahead of ourselves. Gotta get someone preggies first and husband/farm for the long haul. 2B or not 2B? Or you could become more political a la neoreactionary. You are bored with notches and flags.

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Roosh- “The clubs in Europe are not sausage fests”.

????????????????????
Which cities in Europe are the best for good clubs and a flag mission with light eyed, white skinned, big tit women??????

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I appreciate this post about nightclub game I can imagine a post of great significance that dealt with beach game its tough but well worth delving into had a great time in ft. lauderdale/miami using game on tourist girls there is an airplane every 60 seconds !

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You’ll get over it.

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Heh.
Awewww, your poor hairy (yet White supremecist) pick up monkey.
I just banged some international thang. From SriLanka.
I’m the most lilly white mfrr ever.
Sux

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Roosh,
I have no trouble approaching now but I run out of
Mid game things to say.’i wish you would
Write a future blog entry or reccomended a product that would help
In mid game and closing for newbies.

Also, have you ever considered adding NLP or other conversational strategies to your game writing. Richard Bandler is the father of NLp and Ross Jeffries has taught it- google Ross Jeffries pattern language.

Ps- I think East coast US women are uptight and don’t respond as well to Nlp as West coast girls (who live that shit especially in Nor Cal). I think you should game in Chicago, California, and some college towns before you conclusively say all American women suck. In all the approaches I’ve done I get the best vibes and energy from West coast and mid west girls. Atlantic sea board women are pit is and Southern girls are like South Americas indigeonous locales. I know he South the best and highly
Reccomended you game Charleston SC (boatloads of 10s on Market Street) and Atlanta (mid town-middle of the road from sports bars to mega clubs little 5 points- Bohemia Buckhead-more upscaleWith your Soprano vibe you could do well in Miami but Cuban women are conservative with high bit h shields and a propensity to breeds with heir own like the Jews.

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Ps- as an example as to why I hate East coast chicks last night my best approach out of 5 was with a Michigan girl.’the Southern hub as wouldn’t even communicate- what a shock right ??? They’re known for their dynamic and creative propensity in the Bubba belt.

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Personally, I’d like to think I can tailor my energy levels accordingly to the girl I’m talking about. In general it’s obviously beneficial in a club atmosphere to have a high energy level – the ability to dance (+ escalation) and ramble are arguably the cornerstones of effective club game. However I like to tone it down when it comes to the ‘I don’t really like clubbing too much’ girl – but it should be noted that this type of girl is very much an outlier in a Western setting.

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@ JJ, have you read Bang? Covers everything you need to know about game right there buddy. Fork out some cash and pay for this man’s material.

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jj:”Oi Roosh…show us ya TIPS”..

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I find that the least I dance in the club, the more time I have to focus on game and zoning in on a hottie. Some guys just strictly dance and the night ends and not even a convo accrued.

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Noget kunne undre mig. Du skulle forestilles at være en form for PUA’er, og du skulle velsagtens have styr på dit “game”. Alligevel formoder du at skrive dårligt om Danmarks piger? Pigerne i Danmark er slet ikke som du har beskrevet. Mandige, fladrøvede, tykke kvinder? Hvor fanden boede du? Måske ved siden af MC Donalds? Det sjove er at i Amerika hvor du selv kommer fra, er kvinderne i gennemsnit tykkere end her. Desuden er kvinderne i mit samfund ikke mandlige eller fladrøvet. Vi går op i træning, motion og sund mad. OG at du ikke kunne score en dansk kvinde, er tydeligvis pga at du IKKE har styr på dit game. Kvinderne her er blot ikke små ludere som du har fundet i de andre lande. Kunne nærmest ikke forestille mig andet end at det er ludere du har smulet op fra gaden igennem din bil.

Og så siger du at vi ikke kan tåle en udfordring fra mændene? Nu må jeg le. Tydeligvis dig der ikke kan tåle en udfordring fra en kvinde. Du vil bare have en perfekt husmor er holder kæft, ved mindre hun stønner dit navn.

Vi derimod har bare lidt intelligent, og lidt klasse, vi hopper ikke lige i hovedet på en eller anden klam blogger fra Amerika 😉
Vi er bare på vej frem , i stedet for at leve et primitivt liv. Så den dag du kan klare en rigtig udfordring, så synes jeg du skal prøve at komme til Danmark og ordne dit game så du kan score en pige uden at betale hende for det 😉 Taber.