Older Women

After interacting with dozens of young girls on this trip from many countries, I’ve come to the realization that I’m not as into them as I thought. The motivation to pursue is very low because they are either annoying / boring or have no clue how to turn on a man, especially girls around the 18-year-old range. Maybe they are great if you want to be a teacher, who knows, but it seems like a girl doesn’t start being sexually aware and interesting until she approaches her mid 20’s. You need to catch them at the sweet spot where she looks good and knows how to please you but is not yet corrupted by many relationship failures. That sweet spot is a window of varying length depending on what country the girl is from (American girls do not have the biggest window).

My beliefs are being challenged here. I have met very cool women in their late 20’s and early 30’s who have taken such good care of themselves (or are blessed with good genetics) that you can’t really say their looks have peaked. What applies to women in the United States does not apply to women in the rest of the world.

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suicide_blond
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OMG..you must have the malaria!!..;-) lol…
i agree..girls of any age…are not as sexy as women of various ages…
xoxo

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While I truly think a womens body/ass peaks early(18-21 range), I agree that a women’s face can maintain hotness well into the thirties. You may be onto something here.

Im also starting to see the major pitfalls of dating younger women. Either extremely flaky, or extremely clingy…

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Are you seeing the maturity level differ over there? In america it seems like the majority of the 20 something girls you meet around at night have the maturity level of a 14 year old and there isn’t much past one night of drunken sex, the conversations the next morning suck.

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dude… we’re on the same wavelength. i wrote about older women today.

anyhow, i agree with what you say even though i give the nascent cougars a hard time. 18yos are annoying, and a 30yo who works out can look good. but really the average woman’s peak physical years are between 15 and 25. hot 30yos are the exception to the rule, at least in the US.

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So true! Women do not automatically turn into dried-out old scags on their 30th birthdays. No matter what Keyboard Lotharios like Roi – oh, let’s not use names – seem to think.

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Women do not automatically turn into dried-out old scags on their 30th birthdays.

it’s not automatic, it’s a general and persistent decline that can only be delayed at best with good genetics and a commitment to routine exercise. but the body of a fit 18 year old will always beat a fit 30 year old in look and feel.

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Let us not forget that it is not only members of the squat-to-tinkle gender whose bodies deterioriate with age.

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true, we are all doomed in the end to the squalor of old age. but for women, this doom arrives earlier and with more vigor — they do not age as well as men and their looks are their primary coin of the realm. once that goes, they are shit out of luck.

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Women lose muscle at a faster rate than men once they pass the age of 30. This in turn makes their metabolisms slower and their muscle tone drop precipitously. Men retain muscle better so our looks don’t decline as drastically. There are plenty of ways for women to reverse or slow down this deterioration, but most women are too into fad exercises and trendy diets to do it right. You have to eat a lot of protein and lift weights to put on muscle. Instead women starve themselves and aerobicize themselves hard and avoid weights, which just cannibalizes more muscle, increases your body fat ratio even as you lose weight, and just makes you look worse, hence the wrinkled cougar look. I know a woman that actually educated herself right about how to exercise and her body in her 30s is better than most 20 year olds I know.

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but for women, this doom arrives earlier and with more vigor — they do not age as well as men and their looks are their primary coin of the realm

Depends on what you mean by “do not age as well.” Men have this pesky habit of dying at ridiculously young ages. Many women at age, say, 60 have that grandmotherly look (though by no means all). The thing is, many men at age 60 are stinking up a coffin.

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Send me all the 19 year olds you guys don’t want…

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Wow… is it April 1st already?

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:HUMP

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women abroad care about themselves more in little ways…not just die hard diet and exersise that leaves most american women looking actually ‘infaminine’.

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women from abroad have better sex lives… it’s not as taboo as in the US and people tend to be more open about it, check out how guys in brazil, both young and old, act towards women and then compare that with the shy/glazed over/uninterested stare of american men! too true…

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Also women from abroad have better sex lives… check out how guys in brazil, both young and old, act towards women and then compare that with the shy/glazed over/uninterested stare of american men! too true…

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I think it’s funny that men think they age well. Perhaps it’s just that women are more tolerant of the way men age than men are of the way women age.

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Totally agree on the older woman thing. Especially in larger cities, they tend to look better than in flyover states (workout, moderate eating, etc).

In addition to many looking damn good and being more sexually aware, they are also much easier to sleep with. They don’t see sex as some sort of magical barrier to cross.

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For the most part, American women let themselves go. I see it in VERY young women – in their teens. Their asses and thighs exploding earlier and earlier. Part of it is regional though. In warm weather states, where people are out and about in warm weather clothing, there’s more pressure on women to keep themselves tight. At the more popular nightspots, you don’t see too many sloppy or busted honeys because they know they can’t compete. As for the rest of the country, it’s ridiculous.

I tend to date in the older range – late 30s to mid 40s. I know plenty of women that make it a point to be active and take care of themselves – you would never know some of them have kids. Many women will try some fad diet to lose weight, but with most of those diets they can’t stick to them. They’ll lose some initial fluid, then get discouraged when they don’t lose more (because they don’t pair it with exercise) and go back to their former eating habits. If you notice, most diets don’t mention anything about exercising, but also promise you can eat Pizza, burgers, etc. and still lose. Everyone wants a short-cut, and in defiance of common sense people buy the sales pitch because they don’t want to put in the work. I know it can be difficult to lose weight. The body is CRUEL. It gains quickly, but grudgingly gives up the pounds and inches. Most aren’t up to the work.

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Hay baby

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Hi cuttie

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mid 20′s ftw

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“For women, this doom arrives earlier and with more vigor — they do not age as well as men”

Roissy the god-like alpha male who only lays tens

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“For women, this doom arrives earlier and with more vigor — they do not age as well as men”

delusion /de·lu·sion/ (dĕ-loo´zhun) an idiosyncratic false belief that is firmly maintained in spite of incontrovertible and obvious proof or evidence to the contrary.

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Female prime is 18-30 (in Scandinavia)

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Best woman I ever slept with was my ex she was 21.