Open Letter To The Parents Of American Daughters

Dear American Parent,

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. Because of your awful parenting, average men just like myself are racking up notch counts that even Casanova himself would be jealous of, all from learning a handful of game tricks.

I have performed the job that you have not. When my sister was about 16, I sat her down for “the talk.” I went over human sexual anatomy and contraception, but most importantly I talked about the meaning of sex. Here’s what I told her:

All men are pigs. Yes, even I am a pig. All we want is to have sex with the least amount of effort. We will say anything you want to hear in order to get it. Understand that before sex, you have all the power, but afterwards you have very little. A guy who was jumping over himself to hang out with you will be more nonchalant after sex, like he doesn’t even care.

The only way a man will value you is if you made him put in a lot of investment before sex. The more work he puts in, the less he can rationalize that you were meaningless to him, and the more likely he will continue to pursue because he considers you above the rest. Each man you have sex with that doesn’t call you back will kill a part of your soul, and it’s your job to guard against that. Only have sex with men who earn it.

One last thing. A guy will use every trick in the book not to use a condom. If he tries, he has probably done that on god knows how many women, and those women have done the same on god knows how many men. Don’t turn your body into a petri dish.

You’re probably thinking, “Oh she must really hate men now! She’s probably a lesbian!” And you would be wrong. She is 25-years-old and has had two multi-year relationships with men who have treated her well (her most recent boyfriend took her to a concert of her favorite singer for Valentine’s Day—how sweet). Her relationships have been comfortable, balanced, and based on the mutual sharing of experiences. She’s not out at the bar fucking random guys or getting drunk. She doesn’t lead guys on just to receive text messages. She didn’t flirt with other guys on Facebook behind her boyfriends’ backs. Bottom line is she doesn’t put out like your dirty little whore.

She is absolutely repulsed by the stories I tell her of quickly taking a girl to bed (or car). Her response is along the lines of, “How can they do that? Ewww.” My brainwashing has worked on her, and the truth is she appreciates my lessons. She’s happy not to be like other girls her age, drowning in a shallow life of liquor and anonymous cocks. In fact, I don’t think she’s had sex with more than four or five guys in her life. For a 25-year-old American girl that is an astonishing feat. I will never ask for her count because that would be crossing our brother-sister relationship, but right now I’m reminded of 21-year-old I fucked a few months ago. She couldn’t help but tell me she has already slept with “over 10” guys, essentially bragging about it. I was probably number 18 or 19, and believe me when I say I didn’t feel at all privileged about fucking her.

By the time that slut is 24 it will be impossible for her not have experienced 30 cocks, but she’s empowered and independent, right? This is what you’ve brought into the world. Needless to say but I didn’t ask her out again. Why should I when I can just text her as I get horny from the bar at 2am? Why would I put in a scrap of work when she rewards me with putting in none?

I didn’t just have one speech with my sister, I hammered things into her brain over several years. I said…

Right now you are in your physical prime. All humans start to degrade after 25, but for women it’s more dramatic since us guys mostly care about looks. We are more shallow than you can possibly imagine. Therefore if you want to get married, you should start thinking about it when you’re 24. It takes a couple years to find a guy and then a couple years more to make sure he’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. It’s okay if you don’t want to get married, but if you do, don’t wait until you’re 30. By then it will be too late because you’ll have to compete with younger girls who are still in their prime, and it won’t matter how smart you are if you’re not as pretty as them. After 30 you’ll be forced to settle with a man you wouldn’t even have considered just a couple years prior. And that’s if you’re lucky.

Her last relationship lasted three years. Sucks it didn’t work out, but she has the right idea.

I’ve had a direct influence over her even though I wasn’t her father. I simply told her the facts of life, how things really are, and what she has to do to land a man for a relationship. I told her that while she will see many girls pretending to enjoy fucking guys who don’t give a shit about them, they are not happy. Her time is better spent on making one man happy instead of letting many men use her for short-term sexual pleasure.

If you were a boy instead of a girl, I would tell you something very different. Understand that guys have some sort of “conquest gene.” Sure, sex with someone we love make us generally happy, but conquering a continuous stream of new lands and female bodies really makes us happy. This is why business and statecraft is mostly in the realm of men, who are natural born hunters. We’ve perfected those things. When our little half-brother grows up, the talks I have with him will be very different.

And they have. I’m bringing him out of his shell to be a charming devil that slays pussy left and right. I’d be destroying his life if I told him to seek relationships that end up in marriage, but for my sister marriage is an okay venture to get into, especially in America where family law tilts things in her favor.

I’m wondering why you didn’t teach your daughter these things. Why didn’t you tell her not to fuck a cocky dude that treats her poorly after just a couple hours? Why didn’t you tell her to wrap it up with the random men she goes to bed with? I’m not entirely sure, but I want to sincerely offer my gratitude. You’ve helped create a system where sex is meaningless, and one that I take advantage of every week.

As much as I love going to the sex clinic after an awesome hot streak, I know this isn’t sustainable. I know that I’m living a special time that takes advantage of perverse cultural loopholes, and that nations without a solid family unit will find the chickens coming home to roost sooner than later. Nonetheless, I will jam my dick in your girl and others like her, to enjoy this ride as long as I can.

Thanks again,

Roosh

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Damn. Does your sister know about your professional career?

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I am sure your sister would not tell you anything anyway. Love your madonnna/whore complex. This is really odd to me that you set your goal to get laid, figure out what works and then have such angst towards the ones you are “gaming”. It is almost like me going hunting in the woods and hating the deer for being a dumbass and getting caught in my trap.

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If I had a sister I would tell her the same thing.

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Who catches deer in traps? female troll.

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You should write a post about when/how to go about explaining game to a younger brother or son.

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How long do you guys think this age of easy sex will last? Past our lifetimes?

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#5 it was an analogy and I am nota female troll. You hate legitimate questions

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Wow. So by definition you automatically disrespect and are repulsed by the very kind of women you seek out. Dude, no offense… but that’s effed up : P

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Roosh said….”I know that I’m living a special time that takes advantage of perverse cultural loopholes” -I agree, yes game helps, but the greatest advantage in having easy sex, is living in a sick society, the best pick up artists would not be scoring so high in 1950 america or 1930 or 1880. america and the west are peaking or have already peaked in terms of debauchery and soul sickness, i predict massive change is coming, it wont be gradual, we will see a revolution on many fronts in the west, and sexual mores may become more stringent then in saudi arabia. The degenerate change agents pushed too far, the pendulum must now swing to the other side.

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@3

Of course it’s a hunt. That’s part of the thrill of conquest/success.

@9

That’s the way of the world (at least here in America). These women don’t deserve our respect when they, as the gatekeepers to sex, give it up so freely. We’re just here to capitalize on this.

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Me ^

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You have a point about deluded sluts who give up sex with no challenge yet expect relationships. But that speech you gave your sister has a bunch of whole other issues wrapped up in it. I’ve known girls who got those types of speeches. Those are the ones with the worst sense of entitlement, magic pussy syndrome: the delusion that they are good people and bring something major to the table just by having a vagina that isn’t worn out.

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Czekamy na Ciebie w Polska

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“Czekamy na Ciebie w Polska”

That should be “w Polsce”, dumbass.

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“The only way a man will value you is if you made him put in a lot of investment before sex.”

Dude, you sound like the Rules.

For a man worth his salt, for a man who’s not desperate, in the long term, his pre-sex investment is irrelevant. If the girl is not quality, he’s not going to stick around. It’s not a god damn annuity.

There are other reasons to make him wait – if they’re a great match, then he should have no problem waiting a month or more. But only quality’s worth the wait.

The real trouble with waiting is that American girls are so slutty and attention hungry they crush on a new guy every week. And once your week’s over, you’re done. So waiting is an exercise in self-immolation.

Honestly, if a woman is to maintain a healthy respect and appreciation for men, she has to avoid venues where attention whoring is the order of the day – most bars, clubs, Twitter, “having only guy friends” etc.

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@ 11 – pretty nieve to think this way in my opinion. I mean y the disgust and disrespect? I understand not pining after them like a hopeless romantic or giving them a high ranking. But whats with the hatred? If I take the logic your presenting it is like you owuld rather they not give it up. I mean if you go and eat mcdonalds you dont turn around and bitch at mcdonalds for serving food that is sub-par….

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I almost miss the days of injecting my contempt into women through my dick. Almost.

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Yes, a quality man will only stick around if he really likes the girl and thinks she is worth putting in the time with. He will only invest in the first place if he thinks he is getting quality in return. However, if you put out early it also tends to signal that you aren’t a quality girl and aren’t worth investing further in. Either way putting out early means a girl is more likely to be treated as expendable.

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Why the disgust and disrespect? Because these women have no self control or respect for themselves and give up their bodies every week to a new guy. I enjoy smashing new pussy, but that doesn’t mean I’ll respect her for being easy.

As the gatekeepers to poon, the burden of self-control is on the women… not men.

Again, I’m not complaining because I’ll continue taking advantage of this system until my dick falls off.

-Gmac

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However, if you put out early it also tends to signal that you aren’t a quality girl and aren’t worth investing further in.

I think this is way too broad a generalization, personally. I don’t think a girl giving it up to you quickly indicates low quality any more than a girl giving it up to you only after making you wait a long time indicates high quality.I think you’ve got to take a lot of other information into account before making that conclusion.

For example I’ve knew a girl who make some guys wait, because they’ve been slotted in the beta provider category, but meanwhile behind their backs WHILE these guys were still waiting and congratulating themselves for finding “special” and “good” girls, these same chicks met my friends and had one-night stands with them. In fact, part of the reason they could wait so long with the beta providers is because they were secretly getting sex from alphas on the side. Guys have such big egos they always assume a chick who’s making them wait is just sitting home twiddling her thumbs and reading scripture or something.

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@20 makes sense. I just got this vibe that you and roosh act mean toward them and couldnt figure that part out. I guess if they are giving it away most will take it. but I wouldnt really consider “game” having anything to do with getting a slut in bed. I mean a slut is a slut and will take whatever – like you said no challenge. Now if you apply game to girls that are a challenge and get your way then that gets my respect in my opinion.

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That’s kind of backwards though. Sluts do fuck a LOT of guys but not one of them has no game. All of the guys hat she fucks have game, they absolutely WILL NOT give it away to anybody. Why mess up a quality girl ?

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I think most men would’ve rather had a life where they had their pick of pretty, feminine, wifely girls a couple years younger to choose from and marry when they were in their early twenties. Most men would gladly grow old with a woman as long as he got her when she was young, pretty, and had very little, if any, cock.

Feminism and marriage 2.0 turned all that on its ass. Today’s men see these women who would’ve been their brides, obsessed with carouseling and SATCing. They are offered the damaged leftovers when the carousel begins groaning to a halt.

In light of this climate, Roosh’s position is sound. I would advise the same thing to my sister or brother.

Women today just don’t seem to get that every single cock they have lowers their value tremendously, and that they should only give it up in relationships. While men should be advised the opposite because otherwise they won’t have the experience to be the leader in their relationship. Yeah, it’s a dichotomy, unfair, yada yada…it is nature. Deal with it.

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“I told her that while she will see many girls pretending to enjoy fucking guys who don’t give a shit about them, they are not happy. ”

I think we all who have some human in us left, would like to think so, but how could we be sure? At least in my country Finland the chicks seem to have pussies made of steel. I am sorry to be born in this shit place…

Except as far as the hockey WC goes:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRK07el6rf0

We beated the shit out of “Tre Tutar”.
Enjoy!

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That’s actually called the Canada cup.

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@3

Most of what you write is true (except maybe the first line – which is irrelevant). The thing is that your too hung up in your own dogma to be able to see that what you posit isn’t a bad thing. I wouldn’t use the term “madonna” (which infers too much about the judgment of men), but yes, there are better behaved women and there are whores. That distinction means a lot to a man when it comes down to the future relationship (sex, ltr, etc) that he will have with her. That’s because there is specific female psychology inherent to each condition. Delineating between the two isn’t actually a “complex”. Its just common sense and self preservation for the man.

And I wouldn’t call it hate under any circumstance (a strange choice of words), but yes, your last analogy is true as well. Its more the feeling hat comes when you realize that you know a woman 80% before you have any right to know her. Its mildly disappointed amusement with an upside. But again, its not bad, It just is.

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Yes, they bring something major to the table by virtue of not having a vagina that is worn out. That has been a value that has been a part of every society since the dawn of civilization. There are reasons for that.

Someone is deluded, but I’m sure its human civilization and not you.

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T,

I’ve seen girls say this on the internet in random places, like Texts From Last Night and elsewhere. The sentiment is “If I really like him, I’ll make him wait. It’s the assholes I sleep with soon.”

I agree, giving it up quick, all else equal, isn’t a disqualifier. My best relationship started with sex on the first date. The girl who’s been on the carousel too many times may make you wait just the same, because she’s lost her heart and is now just in damage control mode.

American girls think there’s nothing sluttier than sex on the first date, yet a one night stand is the mark of a strong woman.

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Hey Roosh.just wondering if you plan or care on Gaming Ukraine?it looks to be a hop and a skip from Poland.

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“All men are pigs.”

That’s an old feminist slogan. And there is nothing wrong with pigs. They are friendly, gracious creatures whose tasty meat contributes more to the well being of society than those marxist-feminists’ zealotry.

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Excellent post, Roosh. You are a humanitarian.

For all those noobs and spergs who continually ask “Why the hate?” I will telRoosh wouldn’t continue to post things like this if he didn’t love women on some level. I think what he hates is the fact that the SMP is so dysfunctional, that game and the rake lifestyle has become a necessity, unless you’re one of the lucky few guys to actually get with a girl like Roosh’s sister-and women like her, as another commenter pointed out, has its own set of entitlement issues which still necessitates game of a different sort. Nonetheless, in the modern post-industrial sociosexual milieu in which we live, men MUST learn the concepts of human evolutionary biological behaviorism, a.k.a how to be charismatic for fun and profit, a.k.a game.

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Second sentence above should begin “I will tell you Roosh…”

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@3

Also, your perspective is fine as long as no one expects anything further out of it than sex. I completely agree with that perspective of ‘not caring about the sex life of women that I sleep with’. There’s no issue with that on the mans side (usually) when its just sex. As a matter of fact, men would be advised to be non-judgmental if their goal is sex. They will get more of it if they are so.

Ironically, its the woman that wants to be able to act like a whore, not be judged for it, but still have high quality LTR options. She wants it all. It doesn’t work that way in the real world. Being adult is about making sacrifices in what we want out of life. Women that want to be promiscuous, not be judged for it, and then settle down with 2.5 kids and a winner of a husband (a man with a lot of options and who knows female psychology well) are deluded children. But if women dont want that, then more power to them and I say let them do whatever they want to do.

However, its usually when promiscuous women try and make it happen with men that they actually like as LTR partners that they start blaming men for having “madonna/whore” complexes. All of a sudden its the mans fault because she has made herself an undesirable market option.

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Does this only apply to American girls? The impression you gave of Scandinavia would make it look like this letter would apply to them as well.

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Why do you describe your own desires as shallow? That’s fucking retarded.

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Because he’s honest with himself. It is actually the exact opposite position that someone who is retarded would take.

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@23

Girls are not giving it up to all men. About 20% of men are banging the majority of the girls out there, whereas there are girls give it up a lot more evenly across the board (in America).

“but I wouldnt really consider “game” having anything to do with getting a slut in bed. I mean a slut is a slut and will take whatever – like you said no challenge. Now if you apply game to girls that are a challenge and get your way then that gets my respect in my opinion.”

If it weren’t game, more guys would be getting action from these “sluts.” I never said it wasn’t a challenge, I said I don’t have respect for a girl who gives it up so quickly (to me, not every guy on the street).

Roosh pretty much sums it up in #22.

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@22(Roosh) – It seems like your gripe has to do with something lacking in most yankee chicks and NOT about when or how much sex they have.

That I can dig. My own experience says the same.

But thinking that felines are somehow “worthless” because they need sex just as much as us “pigs” do is silly.

On a side note – I’ve never lost respect for a chick after I banged if I respected her in the first place. But maybe that’s just me.

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When do you ever respect someone you just met 2-4 hours before (or that amount combined)?

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T.:

Agreed that making a guy wait isn’t even close to a foolproof sign that someone is a quality girl, for all the reasons you have listed.

However, if she does give it up quickly that is a fairly good sign that she isn’t a quality girl.

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“right now I’m reminded of 21-year-old I fucked a few months ago. She couldn’t help but tell me she has already slept with “over 10″ guys, essentially bragging about it. I was probably number 18 or 19, and believe me when I say I didn’t feel at all privileged about fucking her.

By the time that slut is 24 it will be impossible for her not have experienced 30 cocks, but she’s empowered and independent, right? This is what you’ve brought into the world. Needless to say but I didn’t ask her out again.”

vs.

“I’ve fucked foreign girls very quickly as well, but they have so much more to offer that I do stick around, and don’t resent them at all for it.”

What was the nationality of this 21 year old you fucked a few months ago? A few months ago, you were in Iceland, right? Was she American?

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Nice comment by hydrogonian. Women want their cake and eat it too. Roosh’s lesson to his sister was to wake her up at an early age. Too many girls are putting off marriage to have fun in their 20’s without realizing what consequences there will be. Well, that is becoming apparent as time goes on and men wise up.

As for someone’s comment about Scandinavia. I’ve personally heard several swedish women remark how their men are “weak”. I even learned that many men have been taught that it’s “rude” to approach women aggressively. That region has become very feminized.

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Roosh, I love your stuff, but your sympathy for the left isn’t my cup of tea. I’m not going to be the commetator who’s dumb enough to tell you what you can put on your website, but I do have a question for you:

-per your tweets, you’re upset that Obama isn’t the lftists redistributionalist anti-war guy he promised to be, and that he’s beholden to “big business.” Can you name a government in history where rich people and groups didn’t have the majority of power?

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@hydrogonian

dude, the truest thing i’ve read in a long time
i tried explaining this to a european ex of mine a few years back, but like you said, she threw the blame back on me, my insecurities and judgementalness
i suspect she has not mentioned to her current long term bf about her long service history and for her sake, i hope she doesn’t

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Sure do hope your sister is better looking than you — if she isn’t — I pity the poor girl. Can’t stand hypocrites — uglies wanting pretty girls or duds thinking they are entitled to sex — but the chick they **cked is a “whore.” Everyone should raise their standards — men and women.

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Straight up gospel, Roosh. Every word is on point.

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you’re seeing sex the wrong way. Ir’s not men using women. It is both enjoying mutual pleasure. also your post smacks of hypocrisy. I imagine you’re not happy either. Some facts

1. Marriage as defined is primarily for an agricultural society. We need a new system for bringing up kids. We will figure it out if the givernment just gets out of the way. But they don’t.
2. women no longer are property of men or of the tribe. They earn as much as any of us and are free to have bodily gratification

3. Sure there are consequences. There always are. And you can tell them about it.

Also I can’t imagine how a guy with your sort of mindset get’s laid. I guess you got this mindset after becoming good with women. If you had this mindset while starting out, you would have been celibate.

To all you newbs in the game following Roosh. His techniques are good, but his mindset sucks. With this mindset, you will NOT get laid. He’s reached the critical mass where he will get laid no matter what. But for you guys trying to get momentum on your side, this mindset is fatal. In order to get laid, you have to treat sex like a great gift from God to make a tough life a little bit easier on this earth. That’s the only way you will be fun to hang out with and convince women to get down naked with you. Read this guy often enough and you will become a bitter, angry, funless loser who scares or depresses women.

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“All men are pigs. Yes, even I am a pig. All we want is to have sex with the least amount of effort.”

All women eventually realize this. The magic is that they still need men in spite of the fact.

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@46

I just vomited.

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ROOSH… you got me thinking… if you meet a girl who’s been educated like your sister, what do you do? (assuming you’re attracted)

A) Let her go

B) Try and break her resolve down (how?)

C) Try and stick with her for a relationship

What do y’all think?

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@48
Must be looking at Roosh V’s picture. He looks like a Neaderthal — the jutting forehead, the ape like hair, no doubt yellow teeth and stinking breath — excuse me, I just hurled all over my computer keyboard.