Putting Women On A Pedestal

I remember when the act of getting laid used to be a big deal. I’d bang a girl and pat myself on the back like I just accomplished something special. My friends did the same thing. But then we got older and the more sex we got the less of a big deal it became. While I’m sure there are a lot of reasons why getting laid isn’t a problem for us now, it’s not a coincidence the more I put pussy on a pedestal, the less I got. Problem is it’s hard to fake not caring about pussy. You still have to want it (you won’t get something you don’t want), but you must barely care if you don’t get it.

I do think you have to go through that awkward stage where you care and try hard to get laid enough until it’s not a big deal. Then, in a slow process, you start getting more with much less effort. So part of the secret is time, something you can’t really teach or bypass. The rest is just hard work.

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Nabs
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“Then, in a slow process, you start getting more with much less effort. So part of the secret is time, something you can’t really teach or bypass. The rest is just hard work.”

That applies to most things in life.

mike says
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great post, back to the roots

The Dude
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Mike: +1

roissy
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You still have to want it (you won’t get something you don’t want), but you must barely care if you don’t get it.

this is the big picture part of game that trips up most guys. how do you want a woman and not want her at the same time? it’s the paradox of pussy hounding, resolved by expressing your desire forcefully but inwardly while maintaining an outward aloofness.

roissy’s last blog post: Cat On A Leash.

Jack Goes Forth
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I remember in college being like a little kid in a candy store the day after getting laid… The world was beautiful and I couldn’t help but smile….

Now I usually just feel kind of dirty and unexcited the day after… Unless its a girl I’m really in to. Which as most people would agree, is quite rare.

Jack Goes Forth’s last blog post: Blog-Blocked!!!!.

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kind of weird, but its comparable to buying a car. if you’re willing to walk away you get the best deal.

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Seduction Chronicles
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I remember really caring about it. I still do. However, now I know what I must do and having plenty of it around because of the life I’ve built, which means that there’s a difference that women can intuitively perceive.

Seduction Chronicles’s last blog post: Social Secrets On Being “Friends” With Women… (Stephen Nash Column).

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So you may be getting a lot of pussy now versus before, but what kind of pussy are you getting? Back when you put it on a pedestal you were hoping to get the girls that you had wet dreams about. Now that you got rid of the pedestal you are more likely to take the route of least resistance. So you went from bragging to your friends about which girl you banged, to bragging about how many notches are on my belt. Or do you still get the quality in your quantity?

Agree with the part about not caring though, same goes for girls on grabbing “quality” guys.

mike says
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solid question, has an increase (or even consistency) in quality coincided with the increase in quantity?

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I put women on a pedestal – then I look up their dress – Steve Martin

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So let’s say you’re at a point in your life where you want to “raise standards”. This demands caring and working hard at it, or am I missing something?

Angelo De La Vega
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I’ve always believed that, given the correct approach, I can learn from any interaction and develop from every encounter – even those spanning one brief evening. I started with the bar low and I haven’t raised it much. All those women, all those nights; I have no regrets, each pussy can continue to rest comfortably on the pedestal I’ve constructed for it.

Angelo De La Vega’s last blog post: Stalking Mia Jacob.

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i think in general, the more girls you get, the less you start caring….about everything. for example most older men/women i know, or anyone who has had a lot of sexual experiences could care less about using condoms or any type of protection/birth control

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my friend’s advice for taking women off the pedestal is:

Remember that they take shits just like you..

The hottest girls in the world take shits everyday!!!

Bobby Rio’s last blog post: George Clooney’s Girlfriend Sara Larson is Sorority Girl Goodness.

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Ok Roosh … so have you been in any “long term” relationships? Say ,lasting more then three months?

The “Pick-up” game and the “Relationship” game can be quite different beasts and need to be handled differently to work.

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cool… hehehe… it happens to the best of us! cheers!

daily misogynist
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you lose respect for women the more you bang them, but I think its because it drops to a more realistic level of respect.

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