Sleeping With Prostitutes

About half a dozen guys I’ve met since college have told me their story of sleeping with a prostitute. There was one thing in common with each guy: none of them actually paid for the prostitute, a relative or friend did. All of them made sure to stress that fact, which tells me that the shame isn’t in sleeping with prostitutes, it’s paying for it.

I’m not a fan of the “Well you are paying for sex anyway through dating” argument. Sure you spend money on food or drink with the intent of sleeping with a girl, but sex is never a sure-thing and in the end she sleeps with you because she wants to, not because she thinks she’ll get something immediately after the sex act is done. I agree that there are golddiggers who put out to keep the good times rolling, but I doubt they actually count how many more dinners they will get from one additional instance of sex.

If I’m able to sleep with attractive girls on my own, I can’t imagine a reason or situation where I would pay for one, even if I was about to jam it in. But how about if there is a girl who is incredibly hot and on a level way beyond anything I’ve experienced? If the price was right and she “looked” clean, I would give it consideration until the disease issue would most likely force me to back out. Morally and intellectually, though, I can handle it.

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Are you asking for permission? On behalf of the blogger community, I say yes. But under one condition: pictures por favor. gracias.

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does the disease issue enter your mind if the girl is willing to sleep with you the same night she meets you as well? she might not have racked up quite as many as a prostitute but i have a feeling its far from her first time.

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paying for sex > celibacy
not paying for sex > paying for sex
sex with love > everything else

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I’m not comfortable with that. If I was dating a guy and I somehow found out that he’s slept with a prostitute, I’m out.

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“If I’m able to sleep with attractive girls on my own, I can’t imagine a reason or situation where I would pay for one, even if I was about to jam it in.”

That’s just your American cultural encoding at work. In many parts of the world it’s a normal part of life for successful men.

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With my spate of unintended celibacy since moving up here (with one brief interruption), I’ve seriously considered paying for it…

…and then I realized that, even on the low end, that’s a lot of beer money.

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Isn’t the line on prostitutes that you’re not really paying for sex, but instead, “You pay them to go away.”

I once tried paying people to get out of my life, really. They got pissed. Wonder if a hooker would have just accepted the money and got the hell out. I need to keep better company.

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A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.

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Maybe you shouldn’t worry too much about the disease issue, according to this college call girl.

http://collegecallgirl.blogspot.com/2007/02/vd.html

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“does the disease issue enter your mind if the girl is willing to sleep with you the same night she meets you as well? she might not have racked up quite as many as a prostitute but i have a feeling its far from her first time.”

Good question/point.

Roosh?

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I was in the Navy for many years. No further comment required.

I fail to see, with all the girls around here whose primary goal is to land a guy who makes lots of cash, why prostitution would have a negative stigma? Is it too honest?

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Well it makes women lose a lot of power when a man can just go cheaply get some of the same thing they have between there legs minus hassle, minus worrying about child support benefit. Men need very little to survive food, shelter, and sex. That is about it.

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Roosh,
“There was one thing in common with each guy: none of them actually paid for the prostitute, a relative or friend did. All of them made sure to stress that fact, which tells me that the shame isn’t in sleeping with prostitutes, it’s paying for it.”

I always find it funny that some miserable guys are always looking for someone else to blame, even though they were the ones who did it. So basically he paid for his friend’s prostitute, and his friend then paid for his prostitute – and that’s made them proud that they were not in shame. The next thing gonna happen is he is doing drugs, and explaining it like “my friend bought this coke for me”. Silly.

Some people just need to grow up. Hiring prostitutes is not a shame. It shouldn’t be part of your employee resume, but it is not anyone’s business. I have sex with several prostitutes, and yes, I hired and paid them myself; no problem, I make a lot of money, so I can afford it. Also I think that a grown up adult should be capable to make his decisions – and take the responsibility for it instead of pointing fingers on his friends for that. What Roosh published means that his friends are a bunch of sissy boys, who only could follow someone’s decisions instead of making their own. What a shame.

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: I’m not comfortable with that. If I was dating a guy and I somehow found out that he’s slept with a prostitute, I’m out.

Sure, for some women it is not acceptable. Make sure, however, that you follow the same restrictive rules yourself. Otherwise your husband could divorce you next day after your college annivesary, when your drunk ex-roommate tells him about a threesome you had once in college.

The only thing which is worse than “lady on the street” is fake lady on the street.

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Go for it Roosh.
I haven’t done it in the US only because I think $200 is way too much. As you calculated, you can get to a CPN under $100 or so, plus you get some fun out of the chase, etc.
However, when I’m in another country (Eastern Europe) I do take advantage. It only costs $20 there. Nice girls, no drama – can’t beat that.

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HAI I AM KARTIKA LOOKING FOR SEX PARTNER IN AMERICA, INTRESTED PERSON CAN HAVE ME,I NEED AN EXPERIANCE BEFORE MY MARRAGE

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I am bisexual…if I cant get….I buy it

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My game is decent but not amazing. I bang several girls a year I would consider ‘hot’. Then i bang some sevens and sub-sevens too. I’ve always relished paying for hot dirty hookers though. Maybe its a fetish. I don’t know. When whoring is at its best you are fucking 2 stunning supermodel class Latvian hookers in stilettoes in a high-rise penthouse, whilst they scream for your cock and can’t get enough of your tongue. Done, dusted with a small ( ok in the above example not-so-small) financial transaction that takes minutes. I’ve had hooker sex that has been some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

When hooker sex is bad though its VERY bad. So yeah, make sure you are totally sold on their looks and attitude before you go for it.

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You don’t pay a girl to have sex, you pay her to go away when you are done. You don’t want the car salesman over for dinner every night or ringing your phone every twenty minutes after you buy your car do you? Pay for it and live in peace

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Okay, so you pay $250, and get to sleep IMMEDIATELY with the girl of your choice whose looks are on par with a MODEL… correct? Girls you wouldn’t have a chance with in real life. Believe me, I have slept with 5 prostitutes, used a rubber each, had great sex, got checked out, and still haven’t caught a disease. In fact I lost my virginity to a prostitute that looked amazing and I do not regret it. I tried to get with a girl several times in the past with no luck and ended up with an empty wallet.

There is no commitment and no emotional baggage. A prostitute is probably the best way to go. Really, ignore the social stigma, it was so worth it. I paid for it myself each and every time. It was purely a physical act, and I do not regret it one bit.

They are better in bed, because it is their trade, and because it is their trade, they are more likely to get checked out. It is perfect. I resorted to prostitutes because I couldn’t get a girlfriend, however, even now 7 years later I haven’t been able to get one. I am constantly told, ‘I am too nice’ or that ‘I am too ugly’.

If I had paid attention to what others said, I’d still be a virgin at 30 years old. Fuck society, let me have some elite pie. I don’t care if these girls use the money to fuel a drug habit as long as they have no diseases, and my penis is left happy.

Keep it a secret, and you wont have to face the scorn…

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MAN, I have thought about sleeping with prostitutes, however, I figured I would wait.

I am approaching the tender age of 30, however, when I get with the girl of my dreams. I think that it will be worth it and I will not be betraying her trust if I stay loyal to this ideal.

I have never had a girlfriend, however, no matter how hard I try girls also tell me that I am ugly and too nice… but I am certain that if I wait and continue to try patiently, something will eventually go well and I will meet the girl of my dreams… I really hope so.

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My first piece of nookie was a $5 prostitute in Asia long ago. So was my 2nd, 3rd….20th…lost count. Nary a disease but used condoms always and washed off carefully afterwards with a double shot of vodka I’d get from the bar first to kill any lingering friends. The girls giggled at this and several offered to do lip service to imbibe any latent vodka, LOL. We all had fun actually and I paid up front to instill confidence and put them at ease. Good stuff. Applaud a good whore any day. No I ain’t told no wife either..that’s my business.

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Hi,

Hmmm, its quite funny reading all the comments, about would one or wouldn’t one.

A prostitute is a normal person who just chose that job for whatever reason – she needed money – which is why 99% of us work. She likes sex and she needs money – a perfect match etc etc.

I mean, the reason guys pay for sex is, because they can. The reason you get someone into bed without paying for it, could be one of a number of reasons. She could be drunk, and so her moral judgement is clouded a bit. IE, its rare you meet a girl in a bar at 8pm as you arrive, and she says, hey I would LOVE to sleep with you.

You get guys who can go into bars and clubs every night and score 3 or 4 times a week. You get others who score once a month.

Either way, you are trying to get someone into bed.

Is there a difference, morally in how you do that? Chat and drinks and laughing at all her stories, or simply going to a house of pleasure, and paying for it.

Whatever turns you on.

Remember that most girls have brothers, sisters, mums and dads. So whether a girl chooses to be a prostitute, or to sleep with a guy from a bar after shes half pissed… well, that girl could be a part of your extended family somewhere.

The less guys that go to whore houses… the better for us guys who love it.

Some guys buy porn, some guys make porn, some guys just masturbate thinking about a girl they know. It’s all sex. You may like to pretend the one person is better than the other. But its all about having an orgasm, and which way you feel most comfortable doing it.

Good luck to us all. And thanks to all the girls, who put up with all our shit.

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okay, i am ready for sex pls knock me asap

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KARTIKA okay come and i am ready……………………

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Many of the Pro side of the arguments have convinced me that I made thr corect decison in sleeping with hundreds of hookers over my lifetime.

Unless they were shitty at their trade, and there were a few, many of the ones I saw on a regular basis were incredible and far better than any sex I got from a one night stand or the four times a decade GF which usually sours me on the whole relationship crap.

In fact, it’s one of the things which motivates me to acquire for wealth. Hanging out in bars, clubs, events and shit always leave me bored and unmotivated.

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all guys don’t have your skills or capacities. it takes tremendous amount of time to be good at the game, and only few do. besides, if you are involved in other passions (sport, dancing, gym..) or in your job, you just don’t have time to go clubbing 4 times a week (as you know, quantity brings quality).
also, as you grow (after 35) going to clubs it’s not anymore funny and it’s pretty much weird to stay in a line with 18yo guys.
I’m over 35 and, I gave up street pick-up and cold approach after a year of constant trying, I got 10 “dates”, actually first shots, girls vanish after. so definitly not working for me, too much cerebral I guess..; now meeting women through activities (folk dance mainly, but olso sport), of course only few of them are single and attracted..
Frankly I don’t see my self jerking off to porn like a loser, I prefer paying for a nice escort (the same) time to time. at least you stay connected to a real human being.
I don’t see any shame in that. I can’t “seduce” women, all those who was attracted on me were for a good reason that fit with their goal at the moment, anyone else with would fit. I guess this skill is beyond me, at least I tried.
for many guys who can’t have a women, prostitute are the last solution to not get crazy, and the girls take advantage of this (high price).

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I recall that a good amount of girls i managed to pick up at bars or clubs, asked for having sex WITHOUT condom the first time… i mean, wtf!? i have always managed to stay in control and use it but talk about risk!! in this scenario, im betting it was actually safer to have condom protected sex with a pro-escort which im sure a lot of them take great care of themselves with all sorts of higienic controls. The same cannot be said of ramdom girls at bars.

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Hey man, what do you think of catholic countries being more lax with prostitution? Do you think this is better for men and makes a more virtuous society?