Shamefully Sloppy

My game is usually clean but I got sloppy and I think it cost me. It’s pretty pointless looking back and trying to figure out where things went wrong with a girl because you can never be sure about what it really was, but I’m pretty sure on this one.

I met up with a project I’ve been working on for ages and her friends at a bar. We’re drinking and having a laugh (Spanish only) when the girl asks me if I brought my camera to take some pictures.

Flashback: She wanted to hang out two nights before on Saturday but I told her I’m staying in when I actually went out. Going out was good and I took many pictures.

I told her not to look back at the photos thinking she would listen to me but some time later I wasn’t paying attention and saw her with my camera stuck on this rather innocent photo. There were others with the same girl, suggesting more than just a random photo op but less than a hookup. The sequence of photos made it obvious they happened recently, as in Saturday.

She called me a liar but with a slight smile, making me think I was fine. I mean if she was from the U.S. then it’s likely she wouldn’t care too much and maybe be even more into me because of the jealousy factor, but the girls here have a lot more pride.

We planned to meet a couple days later. Didn’t happen. Taking forever to reply to my text messages, if at all. Suddenly busy. Completely dead.

If you lie to a chick, don’t bring evidence of your lie with you when you see her.

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Tampa
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She will be back. They always come back. Women never forget the men who ignored them. Its the ego that moves them.

As long as she was some what interested from the beginning — she will be back.

JG
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Yeah telling her not to look back was not a good move, it gave her a reason to suspect something.

Laura
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If she was a project you’d been working on for ages, why wouldn’t you go out with her on Saturday? That’s silly.

Gannon
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Sorry Roosh, Argentinas and most Latinas are just much more selective than your average US slut. If you keep trying with other girls, I’m sure you willl succeeed sooner or later, but you aren’t in the US anymore.

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yeah, the lie is what cost you, not the evidence of you hanging out with another cute girl. in fact, the pics of you and that chick would’ve worked in your favor.

why didn’t you just tell her last saturday that you were going to hang out with your gringo friends?

terps
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Agreed with roissy. never lie, and had you done what roissy said, the pic might have worked in your favor.

eugenius
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everyone here is wrong, in those situations always lie, just dont be bad at it……and keep in mind of the evidence that can crush you……and to take it one step further, be quick in playing it off if you do get caught (meaning think of a lie that is your safety net in case you get caught)…….if that makes any sense. Either way with years of practice it becomes second nature and you rarely get burned.

-years of practice

Shoeless Joe
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is this your excuse for not getting ass?

Grace13
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“Argentinas and most Latinas are just much more selective than your average US slut”

wow. well we do try not to classify ourselves as sluts. the way we see it, it just… happens. but doesnt make us bad people. wink

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Tampa, she’s South American and (most likely) gorgeous, if she had any interest in the beginning and then felt disrespected, she won’t be back.

Women there have much more pride than women in the US, like Roosh said, but pride in a different sense. Ego won’t make them pursue the man who ignored them to prove to themselves that they can get any man they want (that’s what they do over here and that just shows desperate needs of approval and appreciation), Ego will make them stay away from and treat very coldly the man who dared to pass his opportunity with them.

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For a who wrote a book about pickup, you sure don’t seem to be getting much ass.

And I’m not seeing the stunning beauty of the Argentinians. The pictures have shown exactly one girl over a 7 — the brunette from the group shot. I guess the real secret to seduction is to lower your standards.

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“If you lie to a chick, don’t bring evidence of your lie with you when you see her.”

In the words of Jay-Z, “pardon me, I had to laugh at that”

irina
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When I first started reading this blog, I thought that you and all of your commenters believed that how women in DC act is how all women act. I am happy that you now know (or at least write about) otherwise. Maybe you have more respect for the fairer sex now, or maybe less?

smile

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Quite dissapointing story for the BANG writer. Anyway, she won’t be back. Uruguayan, argentinian and middle high class paraguayans are very proud. You have to be much better at the playing than the locals, better looks, also and I just don’t see you succeeding in those departments, sorry. Argentinian guys are model-like, and very good players.