The first thing a guy asks when his buddy meets a new girl is:
“Does she have cute friends?”
I used to be that guy. I used to plead with my friends to hook me up with the friend before he even had a chance to bang his girl. But after many years of begging I must conclude getting with the friend simply doesn’t occur. I have never banged a girl that was the friend of a girl my buddy dated. I think I know why…
Her friends will not be cute. If 2% of all girls are cute then chances the friend will be cute might as well be zero.
Second, there is the compatibility issue. The odds that a random girl plucked from the city will match me at the slightest is very low, which is why approaching on any night takes a few attempts until I find a seed worth being watered (assuming the girls are interested, of course).
Third, I believe girls are hesitant to go full steam ahead with a guy who is close buddies with a guy her girlfriend started dating. Even though it may spur drama and jealousy, things girls are very much into, don’t underestimate a girls desire to have quick sex with someone not already plugged into her social circle.
There is a fourth reason that is the fault of men. When we know our boy’s girl has a friend, we figure we have an “in” and can throw away a lot of the early game that builds attraction. We think we just have to stick out our hand and her mere exposure to our company will be sufficient. Unless she is into our look, that doesn’t work.
In conclusion, counting on your friends for poon is a waste of energy.
Next Month: When you’re friend says his date has “a lot” of cute friends, it’s a 100% guarantee they will be the ugliest you have ever seen in your life.