The New N-Word

Back in the Jim Crow days, the quickest way for a white man to put down a black man was to call him a nigger. The black man would experience an immediate emotional reaction to the term and its associated stereotypes. Images of the white man’s enslavement of his people would likely pop into his head. This word was a gift to white racists due to how quickly and easily it hurt the black man.

While the n-word still has the power of insult, it’s not as strong as in the past. Today, black men use variants of it to cordially greet each other and you can find its use in rap music and stand-up comedy. As long as a white person doesn’t it use it with the hard R, insult is not automatic.

There is a word today that women have adopted as their defacto n-word when they want to put down a man of any race. It has the immediate effect of making men feel weak and embarrassed. That word is “creepy.”

Its definition has expanded over the years, going from something representing pedophilic or deviant behavior to anything which makes a woman even slightly uncomfortable. It’s a powerful word that is successfully causing men to tread carefully around women for fear of getting the stain applied to them. It’s being used to control men and make sure they don’t question female behavior and overreach.

If you see yourself as a man who believes that feminism is hurting men, and that women have gained at the cost of men, you should never use this word. It must be banished from your vocabulary. Every time you use it, you validate its use by a woman to trash your own gender, giving it even more power.

Whenever you hear someone say “creepy,” whether a man or a woman, you must stop the speaker and question why they used it, just as if they were using the n-word. Their answer will likely come down to one of two reasons:

1. A man said a critical thing which hurt a girl’s feelings.
2. A man was being masculine.

Being critical and being masculine is my human right like it is yours. Allowing women and their enablers to get away with using this word will have the end result of emasculating men who fear being labeled it.

Women know that words are extremely powerful in causing negative emotional states, which is why they are crusading against the use of words like “slut” and “fat.” While they campaign against having their behavior restrained in any way, they are simultaneously increasing the use of words like “creepy” to restrain men. Don’t let this happen. Stop using the word creepy, and question its use every time you hear it.

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It’s often used against beta men, who desire a woman but are too afraid to make a move or talk to her, while those men who act on their desires, may be label something else, but usually aren’t called “creepy.”

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i’m mostly irish with some native american. the irish were treated way worse than africans during the 1600’s and we all know about the indians. i take pride in being ‘white’.

however, regarding the main topic, i loathe hearing a girl say the word creeper…and i esp. loathe the girls who have a habit using the term one every 10 or so sentences.

i read on a forum a few years back about flipping the script on this one. if you know a girl is using this word to shame people, it has a remarkable effect on their self-esteem if used correctly. you don’t have to wait until they do something weird, but just when they do or say something slightly odd.

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I disagree. It is very easy to disarm a girl who uses creepy. You just call her creepy first, and give her look like she is weird. In effect, you turn her own word against her. This is basic stuff. A word that is MUCH harder to disarm is gay. Guys use it all the time to insult each other, and girls have started to copy them. There really is no way to preempt it or to come back from it, when it comes from a girl you haven’t banged yet.

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Guess the “girl” don’t forgot that a man can call her “lesbian” !!!

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Tell them after meeting her you prefer gay. Then shame the bitch for being a homophobic

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I think sometimes girls use deploy “creepy” in response to bad game or obvious beta over-reach. That is, attempts at masculine behavior that are somehow guarded or accompanied by a kind of neediness and reaction-seeking body language can come across in this way. I agree that it is a weapon. But sometimes if you get it, you’ve just run bad game.

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What absolute nonsense. What you are saying here is that a man is responsible for what comes out of a woman’s mouth because his “bad game” is to be followed, as dictated in the physical law of the cosmos, by the word “creep”. You’re an enabler man. You’re trying to tell us that there is an objective level of “game” below which the word “creep” is a default and acceptable response. Naw, it’s not. You’re not helping yourself here. You’re accepting this word in that you’re trying to live up to what some woman wants you to be. You’re gonna allow that word in a situation where some random woman you want arbitrarily decides your “game” isn’t up to scratch. Fuck her standards. Live by your own.

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@ #3

if a girl says you’re gay, just say something like ‘no, only if you have a dick’.

there’s c&f response for every shit test, I believe.

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Here’s the bottom line. Guys with bad game in the past would have been called at worst dorks, nerds, or losers.

All these things are bad but they don’t imply anything criminal. Creepy by contrast is a grab-bag of everything from pedophile to awkward guy. In fact, sometimes simply not being her type or attractive enough and simultaneously engaging a girl in conversation is enough to be called creepy. It is an attempt by the feminist establishment to criminalize male behavior. It fosters a climate in which (straight) men are by default under suspect.

Gavin Madden
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Creepy is an insult to a man’s persona which is what he usually will use to pick up women, whereas fat/ugly is as insult to a girls looks, which she obviously uses to pick up men.

I believe it’s okay for a guy to describe another guy trying to game his target as a way to lower his value.

I have to agree that ‘creepy’ is the worst thing a gamer can be described as.

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I was actually watching a movie from the 50s the other day where the bad boy was AMOGing the previous beta boyfriend by insisting he was a creep. So it does seem like “creep” was appropriated by women like “gay”, proving once again that women really do have zero originality of thought, and that their intellectual ideal is thuggery.

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What about “misogyny”? That is the easiest way for anyone to demean and dismiss anything said by someone with whom they disagree. You don’t agree with federally funded birth-control? Misogynist. Do you tell women to take responsibility for their actions? Misogynist.

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Jersey shore guys had it right by referring to what they do as “creepin'”.

When you co-opt the word, you rob it of its power, right nigga?

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“Creepy” is essentially a euphemism for “probably a rapist.” It literally means a man who is trying to have sex with a woman, but can only succeed by creeping up on her with a stealthy sneak-attack.

It boils down to a man that a woman does not want to have sex with, who is still telegraphing a desire to have sex with her. That he’s sexually unattractive, but doesn’t know it.

He wants + she does not want + he mistakenly thinks he can = creepy.

Not surprisingly, that’s also what calling women “fat” boils down to — stating openly that she is sexually unattractive, but saying so further implies that she may not be aware of how repulsive she is.

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Most often “creepy” is girlcode for “bad game”.

Very few men are actually “being masculine” when they get the creep label.

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Guys keep saying “creepy” only means bad game. Nonsense. Any guy who’s with a girl in her 20’s will hear her brandish the word creepy on a regular basis at men who often times aren’t even hitting on her or doing anything awkward whatsoever.

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All men are creepy by default, as their reproductive organ resembles an hairy reptilian appendage.

Of course, they’d never call their smelly, stretched out taco holes, droopy boobs and rolls of fat anything but BBW, as evidenced by the number of them trolling on the web for “a good man”, which I guess means a neutered man without the creepy appendage.

All I have to say to that charge is, “it takes one to know one.”

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Why don’t we start using the term back at women we don’t want to fuck.

Ex: HB7-10’s fat friend is cock blocking you by trying to call you out. Say in the group: “Hey [Fat Friends Name] you ought to watch out, you’re verging on being more than a little creepy here”. Obviously, you need to use it in some context that’s not totally absurd.

Will it work. No idea, but it maybe worth a little empirical evidence.

Cheers.

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The one time I heard a woman call me this outright was on a subway train after I initiated conversation. She was in a foul mood, but still, its not necessary. If I was so “creepy” then why did the mixed group sitting behind her invite me over to converse with them? I really think women use this word without thinking of its ramifications. It’s automatic in any situation where they feel uncomfortable around a man.

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First of all, you should realize that “creepy” and “creeper” are sounds that come out of the mouth of a person (sounds somewhat similar to pee-pee). These words can’t hurt you more than any other word.

Whenever you feel strong emotions about anything verbally expressed at you, check ego issues you might have first.

That’s why only the biggest loosers of all “resort” to physical violence when provoced verbally.

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” It’s a powerful word that is successfully causing men to tread carefully around women for fear of getting the stain applied to them.”

Any “man” or rather MANGINA that is so pathetic that he is concerned what women “think of him” is a fucking pussy who would be better off dead.

Why should we even waste our time talking about such weak and pathetic mangina men?

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Creepy usually means they did something “beta”.

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Jeffrey Deutsch
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So, what do you think of that Jezebel piece?

PussyHoundontheDole
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You are absolutely right. People are always calling me creepy when I say that I am a full time welfare recipient devoting his time to practicing game on horny women. I will now tell them, “What is creepy man? Me having sex with hot girls supported by your taxes? Or you not having sex with anyone except that whale while being a taxpayer? Or both?” Right on, Roosh! Sometimes, I know not what, I would do without you.

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Wow. My 20yr old daughter (who has been diagnosed mentally ill, bipolar, schizoaffective, borderline, misc bullshit) has been calling me a “creeper” for the last year when she is mad at me. So I declared it my official family nickname. lol

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she call me a creep? i just call her a bitch or a slut LOL.

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Another phrase:

“trolling for girls”

Example: “There’s this creeper who always comes to the bar trolling for models.”

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And yet redditland continues its use; “creepy doesn’t even being to describe this man” -a guy posted;

http://www.reddit.com/tb/17zrv9

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@3 anonymous

agree & amplify. if a girl calls you gay, say something like ‘ya got me dead to rights, am i really that obvious a rugmuncher?’

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@therapsid:
Agreed. In college I heard women call men that all the time. Even players got called that. From what I can tell, women call any man who does not do exactly what they want him to do a creep, creeper, or creepy. Essentially if you do anything politically incorrect, you are creepy. If you are introverted you are creepy. If you are extroverted you are creepy. In short, creepy and its variations have multiple uses and can be used by a woman at any time, and anywhere.

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Also, it goes to show just how much society has shamed men when a single word can knock the wind out of a great deal of us. I have seen strong men fall after a barrage of passive aggressive insulting. For example, I knew a football player who started coming to church and he immediately became a player when he did so. He started fucking some of the local church sluts but in doing so made enemies out of the sluts and their manginas. He received constant criticism for his behavior and eventually broke. He is now a hard core mangina.

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I don’t disagree with the gist of the post, but There is a possible irony here which is that you’re reserving the male right to be critical, while the term “creepy” is a female form of being critical. To the extent that as the above comments suggest, creeper is fundamentally used when someone is being beta, couldn’t we consider its use by women a good thing? As it essentially polices and selects for a higher form of alpha behaviour. One could take being called a creeper as evidence that one is doing something wrong, and try to be more excellent in response, or whatever. Thoughts ?

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Although, I get called creepy even sometimes just because I tag a chick faster than her friends wanted me to. And this is considered sketchy. But that of course doesn’t bother me when people call me creepy in that context. So I guess there is some use of creepy that isn’t just pointed at beta behaviour.

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At least it’s better than rapy….

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This is completely stupid! To lump the word creepy and nigger in the same category is laughable bro. Nigger comes from our race being oppressed by white people for centuries. To lump it together with a word that makes men feel uncomfortable belittle’s the magnitude of the oppression.

And I recall you calling something “creepy” in one of your tweets…just saying lol

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Weird. I use creepy all the time, referring to myself. If I’m around more than one much younger girls, and guys, I’ll as often as not introduce myself as “Uncle Creepy.”

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Which is why Radiohead’s “Creep” is the ultimate beta anthem.

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I have had some great reactions calling girls creepy! A got called creepy a few months ago and I was annoyed so I actually started using it again.

Even before game I would call a girl who liked me and was showing interest ‘creepy fingers’.

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At least among my female friends, girls mainly call a guy creepy when he’s being needy or just really beta in general, not when he’s being rude (then he’s mean, a dick, a jerk or an asshole) or masculine.

Card carrying feminists might call any display of masculinity creepy, but most girls don’t.

Why would a hot girl call a masculine guy creepy when his masculinity is turning her on? Exactly.

Ian Ironwood
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Creepy is a direct attack on male sexuality. When overheard, it should properly be responded to with a hearty, “Why so cuntish, Cupcake?” and a grin.

When some chick accuses you of being gay as a kind of put-down, just flame out flamboyantly and say, “OhmyGOD! You mean you aren’t a dude in drag? Oh, honey, you poor thing!”

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“Their answer will likely come down to one of two reasons:
1. A man said a critical thing which hurt a girl’s feelings.
2. A man was being masculine.”

I haven’t read all the comments, but just in case nobody mentioned the third reason:
3. A man gestured some interest in a woman, who didn’t find him attractive.

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Are we gonna start taking the word back?

“What’s up my creepa!”

“Wait-to creep on her bro!”

“I was totally creeper last night!”

Can we add another word?

“That was total patriarchy, bro!”

“Dude, you’re my patriarch.” (said mid-man-hug)

“That man is pure patriarchy.”

This could be fun.

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You’re retarded.

Ben
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“The beginning of the end”

What an ironic previous title.

Clenching your anus when reading any thing about HBD (the fact that people are different) is a stupid as believing in blue pill dogma.

Very disappointed Roosh. You should look at some of the criticism they gave you on Taki’s and take it to heart.

Otherwise, big fan.

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What about awkward? That’s another N word for men. If a woman says “this is awkward” or “you’re awkward” what she is really saying is “I don’t like you and I’m going to be a bitch to you” OR she will act awkward if she doesn’t want you around instead of politely excusing herself from the situation.

It’s actually the women who are awkward because they don’t have the social tact to be able to tell men no or leave situations politely. However if the guy is just being a total clueless prick then fuck him.

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Wait, where’s our daily dose of dwarf on elf homo action?

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I don’t know. Most of the guys I’ve seen women describe as “creepy” actually are creepy.

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Agree and amplify, especially if you’re called a pervert. Just say, “If you ain’t a pervert, you ain’t shit”. That often gets a supressed smile, if not a laugh. I think I saw it on a T-shirt a long time ago.

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Excellent post.

“Creepy” is a *specially nasty* word, and it needs to fucking go.

The reaction to it should be harsh.

A man who serves the cause of anti-feminism is a hero, for “feminism” is the single worst thing that has ever befallen culture. It destroys men’s will and wastes their sense of life.

I wrote yesterday that misandry (spell checkers don’t recognize the word, of course) was an evil wilderness and that you should be one of those who helps men out of it.

I know you hear me. I think you have it in you to be a great man.–

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‘Creepy’ is one of those weak words parroted off like ‘epic’ or ‘lame’ that indicates the person is a mindless drone too lazy/stupid to think for themselves. Resorting to insults about sexual orientation follows the same lines as well IMO. If you are going to insult someone, be creative about it.

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My response is ‘whatever cunt’ as a dismissive auto-response.

I walk away because it’s just not worth hanging in there. time to find other girls.

Girls don’t like being called cunts btw.