The One Thing I Will Never Give A Woman

Getting laid is hard. Even when you get really good at it, the process from meeting an attractive girl to banging her requires several hours of time, not to mention competency in several disciplines, ranging from social ability to female psychology insight. This difficulty is made more apparent when you consider that even when a girl is very into you from the start, just two or three small mistakes will cause you to lose her for all eternity.

Anyone who tells you that getting laid is easy does not know what the average man has to face. We put a mind-boggling amount of time and energy into making it happen. We share our resources with women to show value in their eyes. We improve our status to impress them. We face countless rejection to understand them. We go on a hundred bad dates when we could have been reading history or philosophy books instead. We make huge sacrifices to penetrate their holiest of holes. If we converted the time we spend to get laid into hard labor, within five years we could create structures that make the Great Pyramids look like doll houses.

Many men argue that it’s not worth it. They argue that the value gained from a quick romp or even a basic relationship does that compensate for the expense. Maybe these men are correct, but for myself, it’s an argument that my nature does not allow me to consider. I must have sex, regardless of the cost. I will give what it takes to have the sexual rewards that give me such fleeting but glorious pleasures. However, there is one thing that I will absolutely not give.

There is one thing that, no matter how horny I am, or no matter how lonely I am, I will never give to a woman. There is one thing that I wouldn’t give even if it meant never getting laid again for the rest of my life. There is one thing that is simply not on the bargaining table, no matter how beautiful the girl is, no matter how much of a “once in a lifetime” opportunity the encounter may seem upon first glance. I will never give this to a woman, because I know that if I do, even if it helps me squeeze out this one bang, I will suffer for it in the future. I will adopt the mentality of a slave, fully accommodating to any and all whims of women. I will forget the principles that make me a man, and invite all manner of disrespect and abuse from all females whom I encounter. I will embark on the road of scarcity, a path to weakness and desperation. I will reek the scent of a beggar. I will become an unattractive man in the eyes of all women, even if in the short-term I may see a lucky dose of success. No, I will never give this to a woman, no matter what the stakes are, no matter how dry my dick is.

I will never, ever give a woman my dignity. When a woman is taking advantage of my kindness, when she is taking me for granted, when she thinks that her mere presence is enough for me, I will walk away. It doesn’t matter how close I was to getting her pussy, or how good it was if I was already accessing it, but absolutely no woman can treat me in any other way than I believe I should be treated. No matter where I am in life, no matter who I’m with, dignity will be a part of my spirit, until the very end.

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Molnár András
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If you lose the frame…You are toast.

Powerful words Roosh. It is very tempting to give in to the power of the vagina, but resisting in your own terms makes you a better men.

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Vagina…the most overrated commodity on the planet. It would be about
time for men to take back the reigns over their own sexual energy, instead of placing it at the whims and desires of women.

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We are wired as a species (the men) to seek out and work for poosey, as this is how the human race continued from one generation to the next, so it is hard to conquer the need for sex. I guess marriage was invented as a way to stablize society and use men’s energies productively. Now that the system has been dysregulated by feminism and the slut society + women seeking solipsism/the bigger better deal, we are all in for a rough ride. (Not that the women have noticed though, they’ll just extract more resources from the men until it all collapses).

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The same can be said about your employer. Additionally, macking on women also carries a lot of personal risk.

Off-topic but you are cited on Salon :

http://www.salon.com/2014/02/21/18_hilariously_terrible_sex_tips_that_all_men_should_ignore_partner/

11. “No woman in all of human history has ever looked better
with short hair than she would with a head full of healthy locks… Short
hair is a near-guarantee that a girl will be more abrasive, more
masculine, and more deranged.” (Return of Kings, pickup artist site)

To
illustrate this, he shows a picture of Jennifer Lawrence, whom everyone
knows is the most busted-ass troll ever to grace 10,000 glossy
magazines. It’s fine to have a preference, but don’t act like your penis
is the only one in the universe, Mr. Anonymous Wang-Bearer. Besides,
pathologizing women based on hair length is about as stupid as
determining someone’s sexual identity by Mountain Dew consumption, or,
well, as stupid as everything on Return of Kings.

Turns out she is a sex/dating advice expert :

http://annapulley.com/sex-and-dating-advice/

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Very nicely done. It may only appear to be a few paragraphs, but the meaning is monumental. Something we have all wrestled with at some point. A man’s dignity is priceless, women always have a finite cost.

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and welcome back, hope your time off was filled with wine women and song.

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The truth is that once a woman decides to disrespect you, she’s already placed you in a lower level in what she values in a man. If you ignore her initial disrespect, she’ll only do it more often until you get really upset and end the relationship. If you don’t end the relationship, she’ll eventually loose enough respect for you and find another guy. Only if a woman is young and inexperienced, can such behavior be tolerated to some degree, provided that she’s willing to learn and listen to your reasoning. If she’s unwilling, dump her and move on.

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Great article Roosh, looks like a Manosphere Hall of Fame article right here.

It also articulates what newbies get wrong all the time – women will shit test you till the day you die. The purpose of a shit -test is to see if you’re pussy enough to give away your dignity. The second you give it away, you lose your abundance mentality, and any chance of getting laid as much as you should in the long-run

Not to mention doing so dries up vaginae the same way grapes turn into raisins.

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Dignity is key. No man should ever compromise it, period. But try telling this to the legions of love starved men who have already long since lost their dignity and any kind of self respect,

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Thirst is one Hell of a illness.

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Maybe telling them would help.

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Welcome back

This shit happened to me a few days ago, i was dating this girl who acted exactly like you described she then said something that disrespected me and the date was over, i walked with her to the bus point not saying anything, she tried to argue with typical feminine passive aggression to frame me as butthurt, it didn’t matter what she think in that moment, my sexual desire had already faded and replaced with righteous indignation…later with my balls swollen i sat in the bed thinking of what happened, part of me was utterly dissatisfied and disappointing with going home empty handed but i knew i did the right thing, i cannot/must not gamble with my dignity

as you said ” I will forget the principles that make me a man…”

i’ts like pushing a boulder up a mountain, if you let that rock slip(by sacrificing your dignity) you will have to start all over again

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Agreed!

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Did you at least tell her what she’d done wrong? And what could a girl say that would put you off sleeping with her?

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This girl was rejecting my escalations, from that point i was already wasting my time, but i kept gaming. she was attracted to me (i didn’t have any major problems setting the date) but like most girls she’s socially retarded and entitled(and she’s 17), i guess she must have read “The rules”, bcuz she visibly takes pride in playing hard to get

in the midst of this messed up mind game she says to me in a sarcastic giggling way that i was harmless, i could only hear “harmless” so when i demanded an explanation she told me she said nothing(still smiling (my little brother stopped doing this at the age of 5) )

I told her in that moment that a forbidden boundary was crossed, the point of no return,we both know what was going on, i said the date was over, I didn’t actually felt offended, it was none of my concern this girl opinion on me , but when you cross the mutual respect line i’ts game over

And there wasn’t anything to do at that time, i can’t sincerely tell if she was expecting me to rape her right there or if it was one more mind game, her expression and body language was not of disappointment, she was genuinely challenging me, that killed my attraction anyway so i’ve withdraw-ed.

If a women must tell to a man what he must do. he failed, i failed

i know what mistakes were made , i’ve violated roissy XIII commandment of poon “Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little”, but still, i could not accept this brat daring my masculinity, she can find another man to learn her intricacies, women with too many buttons and levers are not worth my time, she has enough orbiters to do the job…

“When a woman is taking advantage of my kindness, when she is taking me for granted, when she thinks that her mere presence is enough for me, I will walk away”

i’ve learned the sacred value of building my internal game and frame, i can’t let a slip of scarcity mentality pass through, if i can’t make people respect me there’s no way i’m gonna respect myself, this undermines my willpower, strength and discipline so much more than abdicating sweet love with a barely legal teenager.

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Sounds like you both had a lucky escape.

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the fact that you walked without fking her will make her more attracted to you. She will be back… you have become a challenge now..

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Question-
How can you hit the ground running and work abroad today????

Like if I book a plane ticket, and leave now-when I arrive what could I do to teach English??? Has anyone been this bold to just leave and wing it on the ground in another COuntry??? SOunds fun.

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I’ve spent many years writing and selling my books. It wasn’t overnight. You’ll have to figure this out yourself and spend the effort to make it happen.

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Roosh-
Is that the central tenant of your philosophy of life-
You will not see results without hard work? Hard work is how an ugly guy can elevate his game…
How does one see more intelligent work from their efforts (ie maximize their results by being smarter)???

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I left North America, married an Eastern European lady and since then look back at my life in North America as one never ending nightmare I was able to escape.
Yes, you can book a plane ticket, go overseas, find yourself a place to stay in and start looking for a real woman, and NOT a North American whore!!
Your destiny is in your own hands! Your life ain’t gonna change until YOU decide to change it!

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Glad to see you back Sir.

Absolutely.

In addition to Uncle Elmer’s words, preserving dignity to everyone and everything in your life. If something threatens your dignity, you flee from it, or attack it, whichever is more suitable to the situation.

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Glad to have you back.

This is paramount for a man to adopt for his own life.

The moment you allow yourself to be a doormat for a particular piece of pussy, you will be absolute totally fucked. She may not dump you immediately, but it will happen down the road.

This also goes for male friendship too. If a friend disrespects you, than they’re not a true friend.

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i completely agree. good to see you back roosh

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Can I hear an Amen to that brothers?

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One of the most valuable game lessons I’ve learned is knowing when a girl is wasting your time and dropping her. Not that long ago I’d waste a lot of time on individual women, coming up with complex rationalizations for why I should keep pursuing because of some illusionary, glimmer of hope. That was undignified. Like you said, dignity is too valuable to sacrifice.

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Jesus. Dramatic much nerd?

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The cost of one lay is: *now this formula is for 50/50 and getting another lay from the girl is about another 50/50 so you can see your odds after even 1 week worth of hard work only gives you a 1 in 4 chance of success. If you lift, are a MINIMUM of 6” in height, have a good income, and good game*

Amount of humiliation x Time= 25% chance after 100-150 hours
for each inch of height under 6’2 add another 6-10 hours
(get elevator shoes if you aren’t 6” for bar game, or don’t bother wasting your time)If you do not lift, or lift but do not show it off in your dressing add another 6-10 hours
for eachkey that your voice is not manly, add another 6-10 hours
for no beard add another 6-10 hours
for shitty dressing, add another 6-10 hours
for shitty income add 10-15 hours (If in america add 50 hours*)
for bad social poise, add 6-10 hours *Now if you follow this formula you see that you have already lost your dignity because of the initial effort and commitment to getting laid

ejaculation = 4-8 seconds. Yep, seems like a good investment.

Getting laid will come down to something very superficial, think about this. getting laid is not dignifying, in order to get laid you need game and you need any advantage you can get. Knowledge is power. How can you do all this work than claim you want dignity? If i realize that even in perfect conditions, getting laid, for me, is too much work as i enjoy other hobbies which do not require minimum 100 SOLID hours for 8 seconds of pleasure, i free myself from spending hours in the gym like the other men who are suckers to have arms that are a couple of inches bigger, hours learning game, hours being humiliated, spending money going out, ETC. I’m empowered from the man who actually believed that women are interested in good men and love sex. What a load of shit! You have to evolve like the Japanese, they are smarter than us, hence realized the whole gig is a complete nightmare and a joke to all men. I think feminists promoted the idea of getting laid in order to way lay mankind and humiliate males. Folks, The only way you’re getting laid is if it’s gonna cost you big time, HOURS and MONEY, and your whole lifestyle will have to evolve around a vagina, yes a smelly yeasty,bloody, hole 2 inches from a fart box. Attached to a manipulative, entitled, almost borderline sociopathic and destructive-to-you-creature, whom if you can;t tolerate will have an island of 10,00000 sausages waiting in line . As i always say, the truth is bitter, but bitterness is medicine!

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LOL u ejact in 4 secs? Jesus.

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I think he means the length of time of his ejaculation.

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Relate upon the Japanese as to why they are smarter and have better ways about dealing with women.

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Apparently Japanese men have pulled out of the dating game en masse and it’s causing a lot of concern, so much so the government has stepped in to kickstart real (as opposed to virtual) intimacy.

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You can hardly blame those Japanese men. Their women are close to going full retard with their hypergamy.

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You might find this interesting if you haven’t already seen it: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b03fh0bg

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haha, like goverment can do ANYTHING right.

They just mess things up even more.

If in the future I will be forced to marry a warpig by the goverment, I shoot my brain out.

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I can’t agree with you at all. You sound too defeatist, and my own life experience can’t let me believe what you type. Getting laid is a numbers game. Some girls will make you jump through hoops, others will fuck you within a few hours without making you buy even a cheeseburger to make up for the calories she’ll burn riding your cock.

I met a girl in my apartment building. We had maybe a total of 20 minutes of total conversation, before she came over my apartment drank a few shots of tequilla, and then dropped her panties. I didn’t spend 80 or 100 or however many hours “gaming” her. I opened her, she was attracted to me. I loosened her up with alcohol, and that was that.

It’s a numbers game. Develop your own internal time limit on getting laid. If you are reaching that time limit on one girl, abort and move on. I can’t imagine just giving up on getting pussy completely.

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I don’t care about women anymore. After having put effort and time into it, I just realized no woman it’s worth all this. Exactly all the things you mentioned. I get horny too but even with the sex, to me it’s just not worth it. I am instead putting that time into things that will stay with me for life. Because now I truly understand how women really are, I dislike women. Even though I would never break the law, I realized I just don’t like them. I would not do shit for them. I feel like me and them have virtually nothing in common, beside the fact that we are both human. So I just stopped giving a shit. They are too crazy, shallow, stupid and arrogant, and you can never fully trust a woman, no matter how cute, patient, and nice she seems. I unload my balls by myself and then get to do what I am REALLY passionate about. Still, I thank you, Roosh, for everything you wrote, in your blogs and in your books. I learned a lot in the process, even though I had only short term success and some sex, but it’s not worth my time anymore. This is because I believe I now really understand how hopeless women really are, and to me a little sex isn’t enough to bust my ass around. If I were still 16, I would not mind to do that for a few months. Hell, I can pay about 35 bucks and have some sex anyways, with very attractive girls. Saves lots of goddamn work and time, that I can use for my REAL passion and mission in life, which, unlike women, I do trust and give me tangible rewards (and no, it’s not religion and I am not a priest, ah ah). But still, I learned a shitload of stuff from you, and I can’t thank you enough, regardless of my results (which obviously have nothing to do with you or anybody else, and still, I know I could have achieved more with all this women stuff, but a point came when the price to pay seemed way, way too high compared to the ‘reward’, i.e. some sex with a wasted bitch for a night or 3 weeks or whatever.).

And YES, I thought of the word ‘dignity’ after 3 seconds of starting to read your article. The reality is, most of this stuff I learned from you. I never stop saying good things about you to anyone who wants to give a shot to all this. I really think I have learned all there was to learn about women. Fuck them. To me, it’s just not worth it, but I am only speaking for myself. Even so, it’s important to learn to approach women and fuck them, just so that one realizes that as pretty as she might look, in reality it’s a hopeless, crazy, pathetic and strange being that’s just not worth even thinking about.

What’s seriously worrying, is that I see even fat, ugly and old women talking like they were attractive. God, they are just such dumbasses. No matter what the reality is, they always try to fool themselves. Oh well. Ah ah.

I thank you for always giving me the story ‘straight,’ without American new age stupid bullshit, as all these other worthless ‘gurus’ do. You just documented real experiences and feelings and always tried to give something of value to people like me who wanted to understand why the hell certain things work in certain ways. None of these other ‘gurus’ can hold a candle to you, and I think I checked out most of them. I wish you all the best. JD

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JD, I feel what you’re saying. That’s why my business has ALWAYS come first. However, no man is an island so my next step is moving abroad. It’s hard applying/evolving successful traits in life while having to deal with modern western women, it’s like ‘chalk n cheese’ it doesn’t seem to fit together. Still, while there are beautiful foreign women longing to meet great men out there, I will seek to find them. If unsuccessful, only then do I earn the right to give up on women as I have earned the right to give up on them where I live. Either way, good luck.

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Not worth it? I spent the last six years learning game, spending thousands of dollars of time and money on bootcamps, books, personal trainers, travel etc. I enjoyed every minute of my journey, and I am a different person from it. Learning game not only helps to get laid, it helps in every aspect of your life. Now I have a little baby boy with a beautiful, hot girl who is fifteen years younger than me. Spending time with my girlfriend, who lives with me, and holding my baby boy as he smiles at me is worth absolutely all the effort of a lifetime.

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Yes, hence my point, you spent 6 years which is 24 x 365 x 6 = 52,560 Hours. You speak like you spent 6 years than it paid off somehow, thing is, it’s continuous, there is no finish line with a woman, you have to base your entire existence around them for as long as you want them in your life. Than maybe they stay. Women initiate the end of a relationship 75% of the time. The moment you start slacking and turning into another man than the “good one” you figured out how to present yourself as with all that “bootcamp training”, is the beggining of the end, so i do hope that your “evolution” was authentic. Every. Single. Relationship. Starts out dreamy and good.

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Paid it off somehow? Finish line? The only finish line in life is when you die. Life is just a compilation of experiences, good ones and bad ones. You must enjoy the journey without an end goal. I enjoyed all those hours, that you added up, learning game and dating various women all over the world as much as I enjoy playing with my baby boy now.

Base my entire existence on a woman? My girlfriend does what I want, when I want. She understands that I lead the family. I never buy her any gifts for birthdays, holidays or contrived commercial celebrations like Valentine’s day. If she initiates the end of the relationship, then so what? I was dating a nineteen year old before I met her. I wasn’t stupid enough to get married in this legal environment, and common law marriage is difficult to prove in my state. She can keep my little son as well. My life will not be better or worse, just different. I am comfortable in being with a girl or without. You have a mentality of fear and desperation, and that is why you are not willing to try with women. You make all these seemingly logical calculations, but you don’t understand my core mentality. Sadly, you never will.

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The process of basing your life around the woman is subconscious and happens gradually, over months, depending on your degree of beta-ness. But mostly, depending on your options. This is the part you have to be careful about because when it comes to an end, all the humiliation becomes conscious and it stings. Perhaps such a man deserves to feel awful, that is the cost of trusting a woman.

“You must enjoy the journey without an end goal”

In zen the symbol is a circle. Because wherever you stand on a circle IS the end. A dragon chasing it’s tail. The ouroboros.

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“all the humiliation becomes conscious and it stings.” You are worried about what people think? Or losing a woman after you trusted her? Again, you will never understand my mentality. Perhaps you may understand with this video.

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Hey Roosh can you write a little about your thoughts on the situation in Ukraine? It’s violent there now and I don’t understand the politics of the situation. It would be interesting to hear your thoughts on it as an American. Did you feel something like this was brewing while you were there or was it completely unexpected? There’s even a video on reddit of a girl going on live TV and talking about her friends being killed. The studio set looks similar to the one you were on when you went on Ukrainian TV. http://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/1ymas7/ukrainian_protester_tells_on_live_program_what/ . Thanks Roosh

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What would you like to know about Ukraine?:) That country is heavily manipulated by USA and European Union. All the riots are sponsored by the West including financial and diplomatic support.
What would you like to know?

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A bit of historical context if it helps

http://huntgatherwrite.com/2014/02/21/soviet-ghosts/

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The Manosphere is backfiring, males are not discovering that with game it is easy to get laid with some wise guy pickup formula, but instead are becoming shocked at how stupid woman are when they go out to apply the “getting laid” tactics they came up with no matter how clever and logical, even after doing everything right,etc. All they are to us in this age is hateful job market competitors who love to humiliate men for sadistic pleasure almost like a hobby, they have proven they have ZERO value to add to your existence and demand EVERYTHING from you ! All part of the Illuminati plan to destroy society and impoverish males by making them a bunch of betas. Don’t be bitter about it, think about the other suckers who haven’t actually figured it out yet.

*And then, something happened. I let go. Lost in oblivion. Dark and silent and complete. I found freedom. Losing all hope was freedom. -tyler durden

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“Someone with dignity carries himself well. If you lose an election, and you say nasty things about your opponent and try to undermine him, you are acting without dignity. But if you graciously congratulate him and accept the results, then you are behaving in a dignified manner.” – vocabulary.com

….yeah..someone who has dignity…sounds like you

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I intentionally waited to read this. Had feeling it would be a wake-upper. I’m 39, been reading Roosh for 2+ years. Game is not about just fucking a girl hard just to keep her on the hook. It’s about commanding the value you want out of women in a borderline civil way. A real man, IMO, is truly confident spending the rest of his life alone because he can confide in the fascination of his own mental, pyhsical, and spiritual dwellings, woman or no woman, if need be.

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That right there is insightful. I’m going to have to write that down.

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There’s a MGTOW vid on Tesla that explains how he was able to achieve all of his amazing inventions – he learned to mentally subjugate the sexual urge so he could focus on advancing technology instead.

The world is better off for his doing this.

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Yeah, but for every celibate Tesla, there were far, far more other brilliant scientists who were happy and hardworking with a traditional helpmeet who had great sex with them, raised their kids and kept house for them. There’s a new mini-series coming out on cable about the distaff side of the Manhattan Project. It was a standing joke that General Groves was furious on how much taxpayer dough had to be spent on domestic arrangements because his eggheads were breeding like bunnies.

There were those who married women who were just as brilliant. Sometimes it worked out. Sometimes it didn’t.

Hero of the Titanic, Bob Ballard admitted in his autobiography he threw over his first wife because he outgrew her (“outgrowing your wife” is apparently a Mad Men era phrase that was once used quite often) and found her embarrassing to be with in company.

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Getting laid is difficult? Nah, making good amount of money is more difficult.

It’s better be a virgin with dignity rather than a womanizer who gets laid by being girls’ subordinate.
Luckily tho, girls are not attracted to guys who put themselves in subordinate position and girls are more attracted to guys who have dignity and principle.

Also, I observe that, the more feminine a girl is, the less tolerant she’s to mistakes (by mistakes I mean when you’re acting non-masculine aka beta).

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It seems this is where everyone leaves shorthand essay papers, and hashtags so I’ll join the fold with hopefully a novel perspective that’ll provoke a reaction. As derivative, extreme opinions are boring. Ie. “Roosh, you rock”, or “Roosh, you suck”.

At first, I found Roosh’s use of the words “feministic brainwashing” to be hyperbolic. Then I noticed the pattern. Everything from entertainment, music, films, to television really capsize feminism’s second wave (especially “Girls”.) Even my own personal experiences, and objective conversations with young chicks (18-25.) Even tracing back my own experiences…how married women threw themselves at me (without any effort on my part, not self-lauding), how I was treated by aggressive women, and finally the self-delusion of unattractive, overweight women. Finally, I unraveled why young dudes self-identify as “feminists”.

It’s a symptom of post-9/11, politically-correct brainwashing. And it is textbook brainwashing. When you find yourself parroting sociological attitudes without a rationalisation aside from “it’s intellectual” — that is a crystalline recipe for 21st Century feminism. Ask any self-identified feminist “why?”, and see if they speak beyond two layers of questions.

Like any entity, neo-feminism has its good, and bad sides.

On the good sides — women are easier to have one night stands with. Women are more academically successful, procure better jobs, and have more overall leverage than ever before. Women are becoming the breadwinners over men. Rock on, sisters.

On the bad side — well, say good-bye to all the important stuff. Marriage institutions, family structure, antiquated femininity (read: “sexism” in today’s world). All three of which encourage a better family foundation. This perspective would be labeled “conservatism”. Which is tied to the Republican Party. A dirty word implying toothless Southerners, bigotry, homophobia, racism, and all things uneducated.

Unfortunately, this dialogue of critical self-awareness to Western men, and women gets thrown out in favor the age-old, playground bar-b-que of boys versus girls. What I propose isn’t that we all agree. I implore sincere, impartial discussion. Real discussion, so we can figure out together as a society what this era will entail. As the first round of feminism (’60s) had a purpose. This round feels somehow destructive, and if women become the true leaders of American society (how it looks right now) — what will that mean for the family structure? The point of realising adult humanity is to think beyond one’s appetites. To become part of something larger. Instead, modern secularism encourages me-me-me. Which, if a couple of folks do — cool. But if most of society does? Look at Japan.

This weird era of dudes, and chicks swapping gender roles, and playing socially dysfunctional house implies men, and women shouldn’t aspire to create families. They should live alone, hook-up online, dry hump random partners well into their 50s, and when they’re finally tired of empty sex — get married under a strikingly unbalanced patriarchal legal system where in the event of divorce — someone is losing everything (and the legal system prospers.)

In closing, this site’s message attracts little academia, and more anonymous outrage than anything else. Sexually-frustrated men cannot be objective. Neither can defensive, insecure women. I hope this perspective bypasses the stupid field, and breaches something real. As opposed to this modern day Chutes And Ladders of femi-nazi sluts, and small penis dudes.

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Nice post, reminds me of when I was watching the real world san fran and this little blonde fat bitch was literally screaming at the top of her lungs in some buff ripped dudes face and he was sitting their taking the fucking like a pussy. She totally berated him and he just took it.

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The One Thing Roosh V Will Never Give A Woman:

Respect.

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poetry

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Your dignity is long gone, RV. You don’t have any to give in the first place.

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I actually stood my ground and left/quit a crazy after just one night when she said something the next morning, and I have regretted it ever since. She even pursued for a week after and I worked hard to stay away. Now I honestly wish I played the game and tapped that a few more times.. it was the mythical ‘dream girl’ in every way.. I should have played the part, been an actor in my own game, and kept doing her. I thought I was standing my ground. What I should have done was known inside my head that this shit was going nowhere, and just led her on to get my kicks because that girl was epic. We should be like car salesman. You may think hes selling his soul doing his day job, when deep down he is aware he is giving you a fake smile and handshake, while extracting a $750 commission.

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I’ve been reading this blog for several months now. There are a lot of things I’ve experienced and agree with, there are things that I don’t agree with. But what keeps me coming back is probably for a post like this one here. You absolutely NAILED IT in that last paragraph, and captured what I’ve always had inside of me…DIGNITY! Even with the prettiest face staring at me, and a banging body within reach to have, my very nature will NOT allow me to sacrifice my dignity.

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no one’s obligated to sleep with you, assholes.

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I knew it would be dignity before I clicked the link.

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Needs more examples of ‘giving dignity’…

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I needed this.

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Guys the problem with us is that the drive to have sex [no matter the cost] is powerful when you are young. From age 16 to 30 it is a major force in what you do, and what you will put up with.. Even the biggest alpha is kidding himself if he denies his sexual urges dont play a part in his game. Once you get past 30,….. 40, you may start to take stock in who you are and what you want/are out of life. By age 40 if you are in a bad relationship [and most of us are in some form or another] and have let your woman treat you shitty or get used to putting up old leftovers, eg: get fat, dress down, dirty home, lazy around the house, doing the bare minimum, etc…You may start to have what many refer to as a mid life crisis, I think that phrase is bullshit. I call it a “mid life enlightenment”. Basically its when your bullshit meter is pegged and you have had enough. Many long term relationships go through a transformation or end when a man starts to hit his late 30’s early 40’s. Remember 40% of domestic violence is against men, those of you in that group may have had enough violence visited on you to say enough and grow a set and leave the relationship……We learn that life is finite and that how we are being treated is not how we want to live our life. But behold gentlemen, once you no longer make women and the power of their “purse” a priority, once you start to forge out and make your hopes and dreams reality minus the daily hen pecking, badgering & shit testing. You will say no to the pussy trap. Sure you will hook up with women but the relationship part of the equation becomes something that you dont really care about. To live alone, to do what you want when you want, to enjoy some peace and quiet. These are things that as a single guy looking for a LTR, you will forgo, you will put up with any amount of torture and bad behavior….. but given enough time she will wear out her charms on you and then the calling of who you were meant to be will surface and you will no longer keep yourself down. Of course there are exceptions to the rules, and children with a significant other may put a crimp in setting sail towards a new destination. Either way you need to maintain frame and set limits and boundaries early or you will have one hell of a time, read:painful-drama, filled existence whence you have had enough and want to change the program. Most won’t go along willingly.

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This happened to me once. My new girlfriend – who I just started dating – wanted me to reserve a hotel to have sex later in the night. I was busy with work and couldn’t get to it for some time. She started acting pissed that I didn’t do it on time. She started shouting at me through text. I just replied – stop Shouting at me. She immediately said sorry and we fucked later that night.