The longest cold streak I’ve ever had since studying game was in 2003 when I didn’t get laid in six months. During that spell I remember only getting a decent blowjob from a chubby card-carrying feminist on her period (I tried to fuck her anyway but she wouldn’t let me). Looking back I think, “How the hell did I not get laid for six months?” I had my own place, my own car, and plenty of disposable income. I definitely wasn’t ill with any debilitating diseases.
Back then my game was much weaker. I focused exclusively on clubs and settled for phone numbers, a recipe for incessant flaking. My one-night stand game was based on luck and hope instead of strategy. I didn’t have a killer instinct where a bang was more important than the process of kissing or dating. I had a style that didn’t match my look or personality. It took quite a while to correct all these issues.
Since then my tolerance for not getting laid has become extremely low. For the first two weeks after a new bang I show some symptoms of golden cock syndrome (“Whatever, I just got laid with this new chick—I’m staying in tonight”), but by the third week I feel like I’m definitely in the throes of a cold streak. I start approaching during the day to bulk up my prospect pipeline and add one more drinking night during the week if need be. By the fourth week it feels like I haven’t gotten laid in forever. I may even say “I got to get laid” to friends. And shortly thereafter it happens almost like magic—my dick penetrates a fresh vagina.
While a lot of keyboard jockeys like to say that it’s better to be an asexual being who doesn’t desire sex because it would be “desperate” or some other nonsense, the real world is quite different. If you want to fuck a lot of girls, you have to want to fuck a lot of girls. Otherwise you’ll get only the occasional foolsmate bang that will be the envy of no one.
“Roosh if only you could have this week four mentality every single week, you’d bang tons more girls a year!”
Every guy has a danger zone time where lack of pussy forces him out the door to hunt like a rabid wolf. It used to be several months for me, but now it’s a few weeks. For some guys it’s a whole year. It’s different for every guy based on the sex frequency they’ve become accustomed to. This is a reason why guys who always got laid continue to always get laid. They simply can’t get used to not getting ass, so their inner beast motivates them to find ways to keep the poon supply coming.
Sometimes I read emails or blog posts by guys who whine about how hard it is to go out alone, or how uncomfortable it is to approach during the day. Their danger zone time is so large that there is no urgency for them. They can go several more months of sitting on their hands, or even fuck a prostitute to restart the clock. If they were used to getting laid frequently with non-prostitutes they wouldn’t be chickening out on things that guys like me do all the time.
Once you attain an active sex life, it’d be too painful to go back. While a lot of veteran gamesmen settle down and get a girlfriend, I’ve never seen one regress to not getting laid. If you want to go sexless after getting it regularly for an extended period of time then you might as well get married so you at least have someone to clean the house and cook for you. Sure I get laid more now because my game is tighter, but a big part of it is that I can’t stand not getting laid. I’m almost always hungry, which creates the desire to approach with the necessary number of attempts until sex happens. When you want it bad enough and you have the tools that made it happen so many times before, it keeps happening. For some men, failure becomes impossible.