The True Nature Of Women

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

Even though I’ve long been aware of the corrupting influence of Western culture, I believed the properties of water were in part tied to its location, that water from the East could mimic by only a small degree water from the West, but never be just like it. I was less experienced when I had this belief, for now I know better. Water that has been boiled into steam still has the molecular properties of water, and once the atoms cool down, it will readily take up its more familiar form.

Both of my eyes opened after my first month in Poland. The women astonished me with their sweetness, femininity, and reliability. It’s true that the ones who had spent time in the West were less sweet and less feminine, but they were still miles ahead of girls who grew up there. The influence of the West, I figured, was self-limiting, and that girls with sweet natures were sweet from birth.

Two years later I went back to Poland, but this time in Warsaw. It’s the capital city with expensive clubs, heightened competition from a strong need to prove oneself, and lots of guys. I saw ratios worse than Washington DC. Polish girls, who I believed had genetic sweetness, were asking me to buy them drinks with not a care about getting to know me. “Are both of your parents Polish?” I would ask. And their parents as well. Girls danced with their phones in their hands, checking Facebook every minute. They gave me their number with no intention to hang out. This was not the Poland I remembered.

The problem was easy for me to diagnose: the vibe of the capital city and the unfavorable demographics created the Toronto of Eastern Europe. It’s no big deal, really, because these macro factors can be ignored by going to a different city. I went three hours east by bus and soon received the Polish sexual pleasure that I originally came back for.

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

Usually I would go to a country and stay in the city I land in for two months, but this has led to some unpleasant stays so I tried a new strategy in Romania—one week in several cities to reconnoiter before reaching a decision on where to stay for two months or longer. After three weeks of travel, I concluded that Bucharest was the baseline, Cluj in the northwest was below, and Iasi, for a man who lives for the second-tier, was above.

No girl in Cluj asked me to buy her a drink, but two girls yelled at me. One because I didn’t move from her “spot” in the bar and another for a trivial reason that I forgot as soon as her neck cocked back and forth while yelling at me like she was a black American girl. What caused them to get so angry at me when no girl in Bucharest or Iasi have even given me a sneer? It’s the same country—are they not raised from the same stock? Or was it simply that the local conditions of Cluj, which had a surplus of men from all over Europe, allowed girls to behave in such a way but still get what they wanted? Would a girl display a single negative trait if it prevented her from finding a good man or living a comfortable life?

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

I appeared on four separate Romanian TV channels, soaking in local fame, trying to get easy lays. I was recognized more times in the ensuing two months than I ever have in Washington DC. When a girl stared at me, I wasn’t sure why she was looking, but I hoped it was because she knew of me, and it would help get into her pants as in the fashion of American celebrity culture. Very early on I get a big surprise—girls who knew of me and my writing played some of the hardest, most lethal game I’ve seen in my life. One girl stood me up. Another was testing me to the point of frustration, as kind as I was to her. Another tried to put words in my mouth, serving up challenges when I wasn’t doing the same. And then I would meet a girl who did not know me, often in the same venue, and she would be the nicest girl in the world, not unlike my first experience in Poland. I have no doubt that the girls who acted bitchy to me would be sweet to the next guy that came along afterwards, suggesting there was a sort of switch that women could flick depending on the circumstance they found themselves in and the man they were meeting.

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

Women are not born wearing heels. They are not born with the knowledge to take care of long hair or how to put on makeup. They are not born ready to honor their commitments. Such women are made, but even after that making, both macro environments and micro triggers will release what you do not want to be released, because within every woman on this planet, regardless of her education or background, is a bitch, a cunt, a slut, a golddigger, a flake, a cheater, a backstabber, a narcissist, and an attention whore that is dying to get out and that, if certain conditions arise and she is placed in a certain container at a certain temperature, will thrust her worst upon you, and this, I’m afraid, is the true nature of women. This is the true nature that will come forth if society doesn’t put constraints or limitations on a woman’s behavior and choice.

There is no other conclusion that I can arrive at when I’ve witnessed how easily women degrade into this negative condition, and—more importantly—how much they love it. How with just a little bit of practice, women love being a bitch, love attention whoring, and love exerting any bit of power they have over men to validate themselves and feed their starving self-esteem, to see men not as men but items in a supermarket that they can shop through at their leisure. If they happen to be in a sour mood, they wouldn’t hesitate to abandon a full cart of groceries and walk out, letting the stock boy put everything back on the shelves, not at all concerned about the increased headache she created for him.

Free from the shackles of acting within traditional sex roles, all women of the world would much rather act like a lazy sailor than a prim and proper lady as long as male attention continues to flow—even women who have been a lady for most of their lives, because acting like a lady is hard work that involves effort, while failing to examine the mirror before stepping out of the house or failing to exert control over an f-bomb filter does not. If a newborn baby girl is placed in the wrong container from birth, she will never get out, or even have the knowledge of what it takes to be a lady. In a modern world where even the most repulsive woman still gets affection from men, inertia causes her to remain in this deplorable condition while she has no desire to change and no thought in her mind to act with class or character.

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

A girl who has known only one container her whole life—a good container—can instantly change containers upon meeting me if my reputation happened to precede me, and give me the worst of who she is in instant time. I have seen this too many times to discount, and I didn’t have to be a scientist for six years to conclude that if men can not keep women in the right container at the right temperature by force, through application of law or shaming, and if men can’t manage the environment in their favor, but instead allow women to have unbridled freedom and choice, their women will fall so fast that they will notice the change not in years but in months.

This change is not a metamorphosis that brings upon a new state never known, like a caterpillar turning into a butterfly, but a reversion to the woman’s natural, primordial state, the true order of her being. American men can tell you of this reversion with much detail, and how because of it they have given up on enjoying their leisure time with the opposite sex, resigned to watching Youtube videos on the internet instead of trying to mate. In the near future more men of the world will be able to describe it in colors as vivid as I see it today. As the women of this era find their basic needs being increasingly met, and the direction of societies moves towards one of automatic reverence to women instead of bemused skepticism of their childlike decision-making and behavior, reversions will occur across all economically rising countries of the world, much to the shock of those local men who can’t imagine women acting in any other state than feminine and kind.

Water takes the shape of the container it fills.

When the true nature of women became clear in my mind, I was deeply pained, because I realized that no matter where I go and what apparent girl I fall in love with, a certain environment or trigger will uncover the excrement hiding within my angel and she will then give me her worst without a second of hesitation or moral doubt. I came to understand that a woman’s true nature, regardless of how strong the curtain is that shields her darkness, will erupt like a volcano that everyone thought was dormant and incapable of harm, and that I must accept the natural order that I did not create, with no choice but to use my knowledge and experience to find a girl who is currently in the right container at the right temperature, and enjoy her while she is temporarily in that state, and not lament when those conditions change and she happily and eagerly fills the container that she truly desires to be in.

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Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago

Instead of indulging in yet another mental masturbation get into a relationships with an eastern european girl.I understand that your level of game does not really allow you,but at least try to make a woman want to hang around you more than once or twice.Date an eastern european for 1/2-1 year and than write.there going to be buckets of hate here,a massive “anti eastern european women” front.
Meanwhile it’s all just another unsupported theoritizing.

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Not its not if if comes from personal experience.

Tampa
Tampa
7 years ago

This is something i have been struggling recently myself. It has put me in a weird position that I have no desire to chase women right now. I’m not sure if that is just testorone levels or just my internal compass coming to grips with what you are writing here. Very sad.

Konstantin Zaytsev
Konstantin Zaytsev
5 years ago
Reply to  Tampa

If you’re over 30 probably T-level. Has been happening to me then I took some T and it came back to “norm”

Manuel
5 years ago

Did you take something natural or the actual hormone prescribed by a doctor?

Tony Rozakis
Tony Rozakis
5 years ago
Reply to  Manuel

if its not depression it could very well be low t. when a guy stops thinking sex and he has not been damaged and hurt buy a recent break up or lose of a loved one or some kind of tradgedy even loss of job. he should be always feeling some slight aggressiveness to wanting to have sex not even necessarily being horny. low t affects all your desires and drives. thats why its so important. it is the survival hormone. notice what happens when you castrate a dog? it doesnt even want to fight or play nearly as much. tonghat ali or longjack is the closest natural plant derived supplement that is closest to raising natural test levels outside of synthetic testosterone which requires prescription in u.s. in places like greece you can buy test at a pharmacy without prescription. i am 56 and i will always stay on trt. cause i feel sexually and physically like i did at 30 in good shape

Manuel
5 years ago
Reply to  Tony Rozakis

I am super hesitant to mess around with hormones like testosterone injections. What is your opinion about those natural supplements though? Every heard anything about or experimented with tribulus?

Tony Rozakis
Tony Rozakis
5 years ago
Reply to  Manuel

ive tried them all the best one is tonghat ali, or longjack , but you must search for purity, i was getting it directly from malaysia, but since the tsunami hit them i dont know what happened. since i am on test injections i dont use . do research on it. it works, raises natural test 400 % . you actually have to cycle it. but no side affects that are bad. quality is also important so dont just get any you find on the vitamin store shelf .

Richard0292
Richard0292
4 years ago
Reply to  Manuel

Look up the testosterone series on the iron and tweed blog. Its very in depth, including other supplementory drugs to take along with T. There is also a good danger and play podcast and article out there on it which talks about how to monitor your subsequent blood values whilst taking.

Konstantin Zaytsev
Konstantin Zaytsev
5 years ago
Reply to  Manuel

In Russia it’s freely available at the chemist’s. You can start with Sustanon if you want. It’s very safe. You will keep injecting for a month or so, do some exercise and then get back to physiological levels in about a month. No prescription))) No doctor will give one a prescription unless you are seriouly below 15nm

Lal Wynstrom
Lal Wynstrom
5 years ago
Reply to  Tampa

It also is a self-preservation technique. When this kind of knowledge hits you full square on the nose, the rational male mind begins to divorce itself from biological urges and instincts and ask the question, “Is the juice worth the squeeze?” Most rationally minded males answer that question negatively and thus choose to pursue alternate means of relating to the feminine sex, if they choose to continue doing so in any practical way other than that which is essential for their own needs and desires.

Alan
Alan
2 years ago
Reply to  Tampa

MGTOW is simply too logical to keep fighting it

roo
roo
7 years ago

your conclusions do not make for pleasant thoughts.

when i was reading your article, the thought that went through my head was, ‘surely there are exceptions to the rule’.

at the end of your article, i thought ‘i want there to be exceptions to the rule’. otherwise, i don’t think i can keep on going on.

its a very nihilistic way of thinking that is presented here. its very harsh and brutal. and almost too overwhelming.

a lot for me to reflect on. for a monday night.

Julia
Julia
6 years ago
Reply to  roo

If it’s any consolation, roo, this article is a pile of bologna.

Rick
Rick
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Another and maybe the most dangerous trait is deceit, lies and duplicity of women.

Julia
Julia
5 years ago
Reply to  Rick

I wasn’t lying, this article is really a pile of bologna. Scout’s honor.

JC
JC
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Classic feminist response. There’s no discussion of facts; it’s simply all wrong because the six year old in a woman’s body says so and we should accept it as Canon because of an appeal to… of all things… the girl scouts. There are numerous points on which to challenge the article; instead, we have both fallacy of premise and fallacy of logic, or worse yet, sheer laziness with respect to conveying an argument. This the key reason few women rise to leadship positions in the business world (only instead to nonprofit govt politics), as opposed to male oppression. (Taps foot patiently, awaiting a name calling, histrionic outburst)

Julia
Julia
5 years ago
Reply to  JC

Classic frustrated male response to a female employing humor. There’s no acknowledgment of context, in fact it appears the subject hasn’t taken the time to read what the feminist was responding to when she made her “scout’s honor” statement. The gross exaggeration about how the feminist expects readers to take her words as “canon,” and the yarning on about fallacies and logic and laziness and most egregiously, this all being proof of women being unable to run businesses exemplifies in spades the reasons why men such as the ones following these blogs will run into trouble in their interpersonal relationships with women. These males seem to have one track minds, imagining the world in black and white terms and when anyone offers a deviance, witticism or worse yet- doesn’t take the male seriously and displays it by employing sarcasm- they take this as proof of the inferiority of the offending party who is almost always, a woman. They then retreat and wait for the ultimate validation of their point, histrionics and hysterics from the subject of their ire. Fascinating.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

with feminism comes a tremendous lack of self awareness in my opinion. if one considers herself a feminist, she either 1.) does not really know the history of the movement and/or 2.) is so obsessed with her own victimhood status that she can’t stop to consider how it is that her behavior affects men. and you know? she doesn’t care. because she doesn’t have to. everything is handed to her simply because she’s a woman. all it takes is endless bitching, manipulation of language, and employing enough simple-minded men to get whatever she wants. personally, i think a huge swatch of certain kinds of women are like the way the author describes. at least in the environments that he’s meeting these women anyway. bars, clubs, etc. are places for girls to go be with their gaggle and behave however they want because they know their vaginas are treated like gold (in those environments). this is partly why i don’t frequent such places. that being said, women are not independent creatures. they certainly think they are. but very few of them are. most of them are living off the good will and hard work of men…and/or depending on the government in some way. be it fathers, child support, alimony, generous boyfriends, etc. women can find hand outs very easily. they know it, and they take full advantage. i’m hesitant to say all of any kind of anything can be one set way. but truthfully, that women refuse as a form of knee jerk response to this article’s at least partial validity shows a desire to defend women at all costs. i’d bet if there was an article damning men that julia would be silent. and if men stepped in to say ‘this article is bs. scout’s honor.’ that she’d find some way to find blame in the man rather than looking at herself and taking personal responsibility for how men act towards her.

Julia
Julia
5 years ago
Reply to  Mandar Sane

So I’ll just point out for everyone following along, or to the next person who comments, that the “scout’s honor” thing was not my way of validating that the article is a load of shit. If you go back and read the thread, I replied to someone who found the conclusion of the article to be wholly depressing with a flippant, humorous-but-serious declaration that the article was bologna. Then “Rick” came in and said in reply, seemingly out of left field “Another and maybe the most dangerous trait is deceit, lies and duplicity of women.” Which I’m assuming means I was lying? Or just that women can’t be trusted in general? Who knows. I didn’t. So I just said the “scout’s honor” thing because hey, I wasn’t lying. I really believe this article is a load of shit. So. To review, I never said “Roosh is wrong, I am right and you must trust me because I’m invoking the spirit of Juliette Gordon Low.” I said it because Rick said some creepy ass shit about women being dangerous duplicitious liars, so I thought a funny about how I wasn’t lying was appropriate. Because really, there is no argument for something that ridiculous, a declared statement, women ARE bad bad bad. Get it?

Jessy Girard
Jessy Girard
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

First i can read,i do not need you to walk me trought the conversations,i know how to scroll up and down.Second you are one mixed up girl.You try to sound smart but you don’t come accross as smart.Why would you even hang around here.This is a place for males.So just the fact that you hang around here shows in my opinion your lack of jugement.Me and probably a bunch of guys here do not care for your insights.Lets just assume for a second that we are all a bunch of ugly frustrated loosers with small penises looking to bash women.Lets assume that we are all useless pieces of shit that deserve death.Lets just assume te worst about all of us men present in this room.What are you doing here if not to get attention?What makes you think that anything you might say here as any resonance here,that we actually give a #%~? about what goes thrue(an obsolete way to write through) that brain of yours.Any lady with a heart,a functioning brain and class and above all self respect,you would stay away from here and let us be.I do not need your guidance,i do not care for it and i feel safe saying that this is most probably the case for the most majority of guys here.If your looking for a gang bang,there are special houses for that.If you feel the need to be insulted in order to reach an orgasm just say so.Otherwise please,FUCK OFF!

Julia
Julia
4 years ago
Reply to  Jessy Girard

um.

Entr0p13
Entr0p13
3 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Hi there. I’ve been reading a number of these threads over the last few days and I have been hesitant to comment, but I wanted to respectfully share some thoughts:

– I find the desire to be the best version of oneself mentally and physically to be honorable and good

– I find the desire to be valued for being strong and balanced to also be good

– I find the generalization that all of a population is awful because of observations of bad behavior to be a bit illogical– but I am not the OP and cannot speak to his experience.

– in my existence, as that is what I can speak to, I have always striven to be the best self I can be. I was raised in a traditional household and also was raised to study hard and to be respectful and kind to all people. I was also raised knowing that a woman can offer more to society than just reproducing and household management. Today’s world sees both men and women needing to partner to succeed in many facets of society.

– I do not believe it is duplicitous or wrong for a man to see a woman as a partner and equal and I do not see it as duplicitous and wrong for a woman to be strong, intelligent and capable as a leader— I don’t abide cheating or taking things for granted or disrespect on either side of the coin

– the idea of Game is, by its very nature, duplicitous. You are encouraging the very disrespect and denigration in men that you find morally reprehensible in women

This seems incongruous with intelligence, strength and natural leadership.

Logic?
Logic?
5 years ago
Reply to  Mandar Sane

It seems like you continually ask those with a dissenting opinion to present you with logical evidence in support of their argument. However, it would appear that you also fail to provide hard, indisputable, scientifically-backed proof in support of your own arguments. Sure, you give opinions, theories, and philosophies that you have almost certainly developed yourself through personal experience (it seems as though many of the men here have been hurt by women in their lives). But nowhere on this page have I seen numbers, statistics, or chemical evidence (beyond personal anecdote) which proves beyond any dispute that women are less logical, more short-sighted, more selfish, or less self-aware than men. Please provide real data, brain scans, chemical studies, anything to prove that such comparisons are accurate and legitimate.

Jack Hammer
Jack Hammer
4 years ago
Reply to  Logic?

so you think human nature can be measured scientifically? you fail

Jason
Jason
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Good response. I agree that there is a cultural idiocy that is attempting successfully to emasculate the modern male, but to pigeon hole all women as simple reactive creatures incapable of lasting substance is disgusting, jaded, and extremely short sighted.

sasha
sasha
5 years ago
Reply to  Jason

he probably thinks the same about men, cause that is how he is himself.

sorodo
sorodo
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

OHHH YOU GO GIRL !!!!
YOU GET YOURS!!!

Gabrichidze Nick
Gabrichidze Nick
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

“why men such as the ones following these blogs will run into trouble in their interpersonal relationships with women.” May be you are right. But what makes YOU follow “these blogs”?

PK
PK
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

And never has any woman faced any problems with another woman. Not a mother with her teenage daughter or mother with daughter in law.

Sequoia M.
5 years ago
Reply to  JC

“Scout’s honor” refers to boy scouts not girl scouts.

Anyway the article *is* trash. “Why aren’t girls[sic] being Sweet and Feminine to me, despite my best Gentlemanly efforts to stick my dick in them ASAP before discarding them like a used condom? All I want is to use them sexually to prop up my shaky ego and get content for another great ‘Article’– why aren’t they accommodating me? It must be society!!!”

idk. Could it be that you radiate an repuslive aura of selfishness & narcissism? Perhaps the women have a whit of sense & that’s why they stay away from you.

DeepBlue
DeepBlue
5 years ago
Reply to  Sequoia M.

“Oh! He wants sex without giving me his soul and his money and without being my slave for life ?!! How selfish of him !”.
As DMX said in one of his songs, “You pleased me, I pleased you, WTF do you want from me bitch ?”
Women want to castrate men and enslave them. An alpha male will never fall for that. Anyone with enough brain cells and enough balls will see that clearly.

Alex
Alex
3 years ago
Reply to  Sequoia M.

Precisely.

I would say I’m surprised that they can’t see the blatant hypocrisy, but really who can blame them? The author and most of his followers are just so stupid. They demand the respectful behavior from women that they themselves never intended to reciprocate, and then bitch and whine when they don’t get it.

News flash: Compared to the feminists that you so despise, YOU are the entitled ones.

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Alex

Lies yoy dont add in reality to your logic do you.
1 men have less women to choose from so even tho women try to say we’re all one way its impossible. In you women brains youre only thinking of the men you find valuable so youre not adding in all the guys you consider ugly boring lame nerdy etc. The only reason why men congratulate each other for sleeping with women is because its hard to get one to sleep with you in the 1st place all a women has to do is ask for sex and you girls can start a business. The real hypocrisy is women just have to ask for sex men have to jump thru hoops spend money and time just to be considered for sex. You women still dont see how easy you have it.

Alex
Alex
3 years ago
Reply to  Def

Okay, first of all, I’m not a woman.

And let’s not pretend that guys aren’t selective too. If you don’t find a woman attractive enough for your standards, you won’t approach her. You correctly state that women don’t count the guys that they don’t find valuable: “ugly boring lame nerdy”, but do you find all women attractive? There’s a lot of talk here about women that are ugly or fat (even when the woman is only slightly overweight or dares to be above a size 4). I’m sure you don’t count those women you don’t find attractive enough for whatever reason, and no one faults you for having your standards and preferences. Besides, biologically, women have to be sexually selective. If pregnancy happens accidentally, the burden of the pregnancy falls on her. And she has only a limited fertile period, so she needs to, at least subconsciously, select someone that would be a suitable partner. Now, it’s true that some women select poorly, but the innate tendency of women to be more selective is natural and makes sense.

Also, you fail to realize that easy sex is not the goal for a lot of women. Women value sex within the context of a relationship, so being able to just “ask for sex” as you phrased it, in order to get sex, is not really valuable to women as it is to men. Its nice when I can get casual sex from a girl, but a lot of girls usually want more than just sex. Also, I usually don’t respect girls that allow me to have sex with them too early or easily. It’s fun, but I lose respect and interest easily.

Women are the gatekeepers to sex, and men are the gatekeepers to commitment. We ‘congratulate’ ourselves when we get the girl we like to have sex with us, while women ‘congratulate’ themselves when they get the guy they like to become their boyfriends. Men and women have to do different things in order to get the things they want; sex or relationship. It’s as simple as that.

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Alex

1 you didn’t disprove anything i just said you just made excuses for why women using men is natural which is a lie. The world is free so naturally the hoops we jump thru today arent the same as they were in the past we arent gathering and hunting now are we. So this idea of what’s natural for human behavior would only apply if humans were in theyre natural settings against the same challenges they faced in the past. What we call society today is nothing more then the domestication of a once wild animal. Women face no challenges today so the need to find a mate isnt needed at all and just like other natural abilities we had in the wild it should be gone . Also the idea that its natural for a women is bullshit because if this was tru they would go for the smartest ppl on earth the shy animals the animals that hide not the loud mouth dumb jock your idea of a womans natural selection process is a lie because whats natural for humans isnt natural for other animals in the animal kingdom so to say women go for the dominant male because its nature this is only true if this rule applies to every animal which it doesn’t hyena females are the alfas in theyre group so case in point . So using other animals behavior to explain our own behavior is stupid and it cant tell you shit abu a humans . You cant tell a human to act like a dog the same way you cant tell a dog to act like a human its that simple ,why because you dont understand a dog or his behavior or the reason for his behavior you dont even know the state of mind of the dog because youre not the same creature. So saying its biological is bullshit.

Alex
Alex
3 years ago
Reply to  Def

Honestly, your comment really just seems like you want to argue that its not natural for women to be selective mainly because you don’t like it, it obviously doesn’t favor men and you have to work harder to be one of the selected ones by the females. You’ve made no opposition to the fact that women value relationships/marriage over easy sex, which is true, or the fact that a woman generally has to work to show that she’s girlfriend material. You’re annoyed at the fact that you have to work so hard to get sex, while it comes easy to women, but you make no comment about a woman having to work hard to get that man to be her boyfriend or husband. The former doesn’t favor you, but the latter does, so you attack the validity of the former and gleefully accept the latter because you don’t want to have to work. Listen, it doesn’t matter whether we are no longer doing the same activities that we were doing in centuries past, our biological imperatives never change. Nature doesn’t give two fucks about technology or economical advancements. The things that came biologically natural to our hunting and gathering ancestors years ago, still come naturally to us now, and will come naturally to future generations. That’s the way it’s always going to be. Because this natural way of things, generally ensures, at least its supposed to ensure that we reproduce successfully and the fittest survive.

Its really funny to see you use the hyena example. This is usually a crazy third-wave feminist argument when I point out to them that females generally seek the most confident, maybe not necessarily dominant, but still the most confident males. In a last resort, just like you’re doing here, they point out the fact that the female hyenas are alphas. They hold on to the one exception in the animal kingdom, while ignoring the behaviors of the majority of other animals and the obvious behaviors of women all around them in real life. An exception doesn’t negate the rule; it only brings it more to light. If I say, “men like physically attractive and in-shape women” as a general rule, is this true? Of course it is. Now, if you or I point out one or a few men that happen to like or have a thing for fat women, does that mean that the rule is disproven? Does that mean that the vast majority of men no longer prefer or like physically attractive women? Of course not. The existence of a few exceptions, don’t negate rules. Besides, I never said anything about comparing human behavior to animal behavior. There are a lot of things that are natural for humans that aren’t for most animals. Speech, for example. But for whatever reason you brought up animal behavior, presumably in a weak straw man attempt, and then proceeded to attack your own argument.

You have a choice: you can either see how what I’m saying about the interaction and the biological tendencies of the different genders, is a naturally occurring phenomenon or you can bury your head in the sand and conclude that I’m making excuses for female behavior. But regardless of what you choose or how desperately you wish it should be, nature will carry on as intended. And you can either play your part, try to get your own slice of the pie by working hard, or have your genetic line cut off with no contribution to the propagation of the human species. Your choice.

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Alex

Youre lying abu everything. Biological imperatives never changes lies all lies. Bro you have no clue how simple it is but you keep trying to make it complex. Its like you keep saying its instincts which is everything you said in one word but its not. Your just giving me what youre told. But you denied my facts that males and females roles in the animal kingdom change depending on the species so how can you say its biological?? Youre lying a youre not using common sense to see that also women get approached by men all the time and you saying females dont want just sex well tell that to the bitches iv fucked while they were in relationships

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Sequoia M.

Lies if you chicks kept you legs closed for more then a year guys wouldn’t be running of so quick.

Lauren Zwerling
Lauren Zwerling
3 years ago
Reply to  JC

Lol scouts honor is boy scouts

PK
PK
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Will y o u go out with me?

Rick
Rick
5 years ago
Reply to  roo

Don’t meant to preach but God by far exceeds Women!

Sam Cru
Sam Cru
5 years ago
Reply to  Rick

God isn’t real.

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  Sam Cru

What abu the god gene And the conscious energy if all energy in universe came from the same place then all the energy in the universe was in one place and conscious aka god fucking moron. How can you believe youre intelligent if you dont have common sense. Common sense should tell you creatures who don’t live in space cant be authority on the subject its like have part of a house youve never been in is stupid to assume you will no whats inside.

vixen
vixen
4 years ago
Reply to  roo

there are exceptions to the rule, don’t go buy this “mamas boy” doesn’t know the first thing about women, AND HE LIVES IN his mothers BASMENT

Def
Def
3 years ago
Reply to  vixen

You are the perfect example of women he’s talking abu. This is a hurt man and you dont care a thing abu his feelings all you care abu is that he’s talking abu the women he’s met in his life in a way you dont agree with. Not to mention how inconsiderate youre being youre actually bashing him. YouTube and the Internet etc i filled with thousands more videos of women bashing men so much that the majority of females believe all me are the same but you dont see men filling them up bashing women for being abused. But you find women bashing men

A "Nihilist"
A "Nihilist"
3 years ago
Reply to  roo

The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off

John
John
7 years ago

This reminds me of a mock negotiation I had in one of my classes recently.

It was a negotiation of a divorce dispute and settlement agreement, with me playing the husband and my partner (a girl) playing my lawyer. Her role was to be a hard-nosed power lawyer like you see on TV. In real life she was an extremely sweet girl. I don’t think I’d ever see her get angry or bitchy at anyone or anything. She was like an innocent farm girl you might see in movies or books like Little House on the Prairie. Even before the negotiation she told me she wasn’t sure if she could play the role well because “I’m just not that kind of person!”

Once the negotiation began, however, she transformed into the Hulk. She was snarky, she constantly interrupted the other mock-attorney, she interrupted me (her “client”) whenever I spoke, and she raised her voice three times of what she normally talked at. It was like an amalgamation of the Jezebel writing staff condensed into one person. She even threw in some solipsistic statements like “This isn’t just about you, it’s about MY reputation as a (mock) lawyer!”

Eventually the mock negotiation ended, and after the class she transformed back into Bruce Banner. She was shy and sweet again, and her voice was barely audible compared to the outside hustle and bustle of the city. I told her I was surprised about how she played her role. She giggled a bit and looked away coyly.

After that I believed that women really could change their attitude and behavior at the drop of a dime. I also realized that I’ll never find a girl who’s sweet 100% of the time.

Julia
Julia
6 years ago
Reply to  John

Are you for fucking real? She was able to act, to play a part. She was capable. She was good. She did what she came to do. And this is now a comment on the shape-shifting, slippery tendency of women as a whole? And proof that you’ll never find a girl who is 100% sweet all the time? Listen, I hate to tell you this, but NO ONE is 100% sweet all the time. Get a dog.

AG
AG
6 years ago
Reply to  Julia

I could fuck with this chick. Human beings r fucked up, So it makes me laugh when fucked up men bitch about fucked up women. Like Roosh later post about the most attractive women in… Ukraine, it easier to settle on our strengths n bitch about y no one like us instead of refining ourselves into what we know as complete. This chick calls it like it is which means at the very least, she can take it like she gives it

derpentine
derpentine
6 years ago
Reply to  Julia

fuck you

Julia
Julia
6 years ago
Reply to  derpentine

I bet that felt good. Derp, really the level of not caring you are showing towards me is kinda hurtful. I can’t believe you’d be so aloof.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

you contracdict yourself. the beginning of your post starts by implying that his partner in fact IS sweet all the time. and that she was just acting. and that he needs to get over it. you ended with a more qualified statement, though. that noone is sweet all the time. it kind of seems to me like your goal is defend women at all costs. it doesn’t really matter what they do. you will defend them. i’d also venture a guess, from speaking with literally thousands of feminist women at this point, that you have basically been training to find no fault in yourself and all fault in others. especially when those others are men. maybe YOU should get a dog. if you can’t ever admit you’re wrong or see how tremendously privileged women are in so many areas of life, it shows you are not a sensible down-to-earth person with a broad worldview. and what man would want to listen to such a person in any serious capacity? i certainly don’t.

Julia
Julia
5 years ago
Reply to  Mandar Sane

All I want to know is, what are literally thousands of feminists doing chatting with a person like you?

Réda Sfisef
Réda Sfisef
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Shut your pussy up, it smells shrimp as much as what you says smells shit..

Just Tim
Just Tim
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

According to your logic, you then expect no one to “catch a grenade for you, a la Bruno Mars, yet you expect men to “do the same.”

Bruno Mars – Grenade [OFFICIAL VIDEO]: https://youtu.be/SR6iYWJxHqs

Dougie Howser
Dougie Howser
4 years ago
Reply to  Julia

Why are you at a Men’s website reading men’s opinions. Would you not be better served by staying in the feminist camp and being in agreement with them pleasantly, or be here and speak from a feminist point of view and be disliked. We will never change a feminists mind just as they will surely never change ours. As extremist feminism gets more extreme our numbers grow. We need to band together to deal with the absolute insanity coming from feminism these days. It has been a long time since feminism was about equality.

Susan McAuley
Susan McAuley
3 years ago
Reply to  John

I mean no offence, but I think you are mistaken as to her personality. She was probably just shy and generally polite, which doesn’t mean she is ‘nice’, people are diverse and 3 dimensional, with different traits. She probably cared a lot for her education and, like she said, didn’t want her reputation tarnished, which caused her to try and take lead of the situation. A man could also be this way.
Men can also change their behaviour at a drop of a dime. This is all silly, you do not have a problem with women, you simply have a problem with humankind and because you have a penis between your legs and not a vagina, you can say ‘They are different to us.’ and categorise women as manipulative liars, which is exactly what these misinformed feminists are doing in reverse. Believing men are all inherently evil and they are good. Neither of which is correct, we are all people, we are all equal and we all have a capacity for good, evil and somewhere in between.

Gavin Madden
7 years ago

Adapt, Roosh, adapt. You will spend your whole life trying to change the way women are, but the only way to truly win is to adapt.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Gavin Madden

not a chance in hell of this applying to women if the shoe were on the other foot. women adapt to changes in men. but thanks to feminism, they expect us to cater to however it is they choose to behave. in my view, i see no need to adapt as a man. i am perfectly happy the way i am. i’m not going to cow tow to women unless there is something in it for me. and it has to be equal. or as equal as it can get. otherwise, why bother? i like myself. i’m not going to become some other person because women demand it. it’s entirely self UNaware to change in some way and not expect a reaction from the opposite sex. so if you can like a bitch, if you demand things be paid for, etc etc. eventually the other party is going to get fed up. and if you can’t see their side of things or understand why they are upset, you’re kind of a shitty inconsiderate person. a decent person examines how the other party is behaving and then asks themselves if they did something to cause it. it’s a honest self critique. someone who can’t do that will never be selfless in a relationship. period.

Big Jim
Big Jim
7 years ago

I think you meant “resigned to watching YOUPORN videos on the internet instead of trying to mate.”

WallStreetPlayboys
7 years ago

Reason number 73573794 why we should not get married, technology will continue to advance, speeds of information exchange will be rapid.

All those girls in sdcond tier cities will eventually have an instant validator in their hand 24/7 365.

Long-term relationships are unnatural.

Inside UoM
7 years ago

Its very true what you write. I meet women that have spent time in the US, who in their home countries are wholesome girls you wish to spend time around but go to the US and get insane amounts of attention from desperate men and then rack up a fair few notches in their short time there. After this the corruption which they have been exposed to leaves them in state that is only a small fragment of their former feminine selves. I’ve seen it happen so many times. Western culture is poison for women.

Therapsid
Therapsid
7 years ago

This is interesting, but why did the Romanian women who recognized you act bitchier than the ones who didn’t?

An old school game take is that they were shit-testing you for congruence to see if you matched up with the media personality you had portrayed.

But would the same girls have been more willing to sleep with you if they didn’t have any preconceptions to test you against?

Or would these women have been inaccessible otherwise, and the fact that they recognized you from television gave you a chance you would not have had otherwise? The latter would imply they would have possibly rejected you and rebuffed your advances straightaway had you been anonymous.

It reminds me of when with good social proof I game highly attractive girls who then proceed to swing from hot to cold, and from flirty to bitchy, as a way of testing congruence. Being on Romanian TV is like social proof on steroids.

I think the final and most cynical explanation may be that by being on a TV show you set off the girl’s worst tendency to act in accordance with Westernized norms of female behavior. At some subconscious level the internal dialogue is: “Oh you’re from a talk show? Then I’ll go ahead and act like a reality TV whore myself.”

just sayin'
just sayin'
7 years ago

would you not adopt those same negative qualities of a woman if you were treated as they are by all types of different chicks? say, if they started chasing you all over instead of you chasing them. i temporarily reside in spain (i guess you know what i’m talking about :)) and my hatred of men has gone over the top. i’m sick of all that attention and completely ignore everyone that makes an attempt at making contact with me. i guess i’d be actively bitchy as well, if that was in my nature but i chose to retreat. i almost stopped going out and i started to avoid leaving home. anxiety is a bitch 🙂

Bat21
Bat21
7 years ago

Most insightful post I’ve yet read on this blog. Keep it up Roosh. The genie is out of the bottle and it probably wont be going back in during our lifetime. I agree with Gavin – we must Adapt. The question is, what form does that adaption take?

World Unweary
World Unweary
7 years ago

The bitter truth of the nature of woman is rock-hard wall that every single enlightened man who has ever walked the planet has had to face, and had to surmount.

It seems to take seeing this up-close in all its ugliness, in order to truly understand it.

Or it takes seeing it repeated in almost clone-like fashion in woman after woman. It twists the stomach.

Now you’ve discovered the deeper level of horror—the speed at which woman turns into this creature.

Such a thin veneer is civilization. Rejoice in what we have of it.

Julia
Julia
6 years ago
Reply to  World Unweary

You guys are all pieces of work. This material is so good, I want to make a documentary about you all.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Julia

and yet you have no logical retorts. only name calling and manipulation of language. can you critique the article with some semblance of logic and/or reason, please? your name calling and nonsensical attempts to pass blame onto men for womens’ behavior isn’t going to work here. you need to do better than that, sweety.

Julia
Julia
5 years ago
Reply to  Mandar Sane

Sorry honey.

Dangerfield
Dangerfield
5 years ago
Reply to  Mandar Sane

“within every woman on this planet, regardless of her education or background, is a bitch, a cunt, a slut, a golddigger, a flake, a cheater, a backstabber, a narcissist, and an attention whore that is dying to get out and that, if certain conditions arise and she is placed in a certain container at a certain temperature, will thrust her worst upon you”

There is no critique of garbage like this.

That Rashti Girl
That Rashti Girl
7 years ago

Not a lot of mirrors in your world, I take it.

Alex
Alex
3 years ago

Hahaha!

turbopickupguide
7 years ago

What did I tell you after I first saw you on TV?
That you’ve made a mistake by appearing on TV and having Iasi women know you just want to get laid. Unknowingly you have shot yourself in the foot.
And I also told you Iasi is hard in some ways. You meet 3 types of girls: upfront bitches (a minority), girls that are seemingly nice but at some point show their rotten side and the very few hot girls that are genuinely nice persons. After extensive searching I was fortunate enough to have LTRs with women that were both gorgeous and genuinely nice but there probably aren’t more than 5 such young nice available hot women in the entire 300k city population at a given time.
Sure the majority of girls are friendly when you first meet them but sooner or later you run into their severe personality flaws and mastery of game plus they all have many techniques to keep you away from pussy and try to squeeze more dates out of you. That’s why to get pussy here you need to have good game, cause the chicks definitely do.
As you can see on the street, they don’t even much dress like sluts, let alone act like sluts. Babe paradise Iasi may be, but pussy paradise no, it’s a much too conservative city. In Bucharest you’ll have more disinhibited women but also more bitches. Keep in mind that the few Romanian porn stars of a few years back have been constantly slutshamed until giving up on their porn careers, this is no USA.
There isn’t an official feminist movement but most hot babes are high SE and undeclared feminists that actually hate players.

Mage
Mage
7 years ago

The truth is all human beings are selfish, both men and women, but women are more selfish then men for reasons explained below.

The only thing that teaches humans to raise above selfishness is the need to be a part of society for purposes of survival, procreation and well being. To receive benefits provided by a civilized society a human can and must work hard to overcome his egoism and become a useful member by staying truthful to his/hers social role

The moment you give humans benefits for free without requiring them to keep themselves together they lose their hard maintained form and structure like a liquid that selfishly spills itself over the floor.

Only very farseeing people who understand this sytem well, can remain truthful to their social roles in times of free welfare corruption knowing that unrestrained selfishness will punch back. But women tend to be much much more short -sighted then men with a smaller understanding about consequences of different causes therefore they are also more selfish and sometimes just buying them a free drink or flowers might be enough for them to lose their control over self and spill the floor instantly like a baloon filled with water that pops up suddenly and loudly.

Logic?
Logic?
5 years ago
Reply to  Mage

Please support your argument on the short-term sighted nature of women (as opposed to men) with hard proof. Preferably information taken from unbiased, controlled, and repeated scientific settings, rather than from personal anecdotes.

Jordan
Jordan
7 years ago

GREAT POST!!

Milk of Love
Milk of Love
7 years ago

Maybe they acted bitch towards you just to test your skills and tell to their friends they “survived” a professional player (yes, call me a fool, but I still believe this is NOT the true nature of women).

Although I don’t agree with the conclusion, it’s a great post, by the way.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Milk of Love

you’re a fool.

Anon
Anon
7 years ago

Took you long enough to figure this out. But it goes the same for men, they become inner city thugs without any social pressure to elevate them to something better.

Mandar Sane
Mandar Sane
5 years ago
Reply to  Anon

i wasn’t shamed and incarcerated before i became a decent human being that respects women, men, children, families, other peoples’ cultures, etc. there is something to be said for decency in a person being inborn, i think. i think it’s true that everybody has their good and bad sides to them. but one prevails over the other. and a lot of times the bad side of people is used as a defense mechanism. i’d say at least some women are bitches towards men out of fear. they aren’t just being mean to be mean. they’re trying to protect themselves in some capacity. in the same way men might shout at women when they nag. because they want it to stop. because they are trying to protect their self esteem from some womens’ natures.

Agorist
Agorist
7 years ago

Are those things the true nature of women? Or is their true nature just to conform and follow a man they feel is dominant or a social group around them that they feels dominant? Could those negative behaviors just be the result of them being led to them in some way rather than them being released?

Anon
Anon
7 years ago

You can’t both have poosy paradise and “prim and proper lady” paradise. But I guess its the old desire for the perfect woman: French in the bedroom, English outside it.

French_da-bestq
French_da-bestq
6 years ago
Reply to  Anon

Or, you know, just Actually French girls. The perfect girls for me, in my medium-level experience…

the passenger
the passenger
7 years ago

Lets get serious, Roosh. You make a living selling yourself as a sex/dating tourist. Now, which girl with remotely sane mind, normal sexual preferences would want a serious LTR with you?

You’ve chosen such lifestyle with all its pros and cons. You may travel round the world multiple times only to discover that you internally are the master of your fate, relationships and all experiences.

I had and still have similar kind of issues going in my head: “which country would be the best for me? which type of girl? which type of relationship?” We all decide for ourselves.
Sometimes, we like the journey without a goal, no final destination. Perhaps you just enjoy to explore the world, the societies, all kinds of women.

Why do you feel the need to settle with one girl?
Maybe its not your cup of tea?

Someone wise said:
Women. They are, what they are.
Men. We are, what we do.

Be.Mccoy
Be.Mccoy
6 years ago
Reply to  the passenger

So we don’t hold them accountable? Got it.

Nomad77
Nomad77
7 years ago

This is not the true nature of women. It’s the true nature of people. We are shaped more by our environment than anything else. As a biologist you should be aware of this.

Student001
Student001
7 years ago

Depressing, Roosh.

I’d still rather know the truth, but it does still feel like Neo waking up from the Matrix and looking out over the wasteland of the real world.

This also gives the lie to various sci-fi scenarios where resource scarcity problems have been solved and everyone lives in a utopia. In that world, all women would behave to 99% of men in the same manner as the Romanian women behaved who recognised you.

Roosh, in many ways you fit the archetype of a secular prophet. Someone who has left Plato’s Cave and is trying to tell everyone about what is outside – but they usually prefer not to know.

I am grateful to you for opening my eyes to reality, but it is a gratefulness tinged with sadness for the illusion I have lost.

Sam Spade
7 years ago

Fame is a terrific way to raise status. However if your fame is based on your naked ambition to score, you will invite some serious shit tests, neutralizing the potential action you’d get from simply being famous.

go banana
go banana
7 years ago

It’s a nice post but the central message isn’t very insightful.

‘Water taking the shape of its container’ isn’t so much a female problem as it is a human one. People, not just women, change when they acquire money, status, and options. They also change when they experience loss, shame, and failure. The attitudes and behavior of a 19-year old girl drunk on the power of her beauty and a 50-year old woman who’s ship has sailed are worlds apart. Likewise a similar dynamic exits between successful men on the rise and their financially ruined counterparts with minimal prospects of regaining what was lost.

Anyways, you write well on the notion of bravely accepting the pain, reducing expectations and resigning oneself to the reality of the situation without spite or bitterness. Enjoy what you have while you have it but realize that it’s fragile and contingent.