The Two Biggest Motivators For Men

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  1. Anonymous September 1, 2013 at 1:04 pm

    Very well said roosh. Journey not the destination

  2. Anonymous September 1, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    “money hoes n clothes, all a nigga knows”

  3. Anonymous September 1, 2013 at 1:28 pm

    Yup…exactly what has been said before. “It’s the journey which creates the drive, not the destination.”

    You’ll see this a lot in the game of golf. I guy whens a huge tournament and then he just falls off the face of the earth from a performance stand point. That’s because he has been working on his game his entire life and then he reaches his goal and a short term sense of fulfillment takes over and he loses the hunger and the drive.

  4. Anonymous September 1, 2013 at 1:56 pm

    What about health and training? This category should be included too.

  5. mike September 1, 2013 at 2:00 pm

    Roosh you should take up golf as a hobby.

    There is a no feeling like driving a long straight ball and then walking (or driving your cart) toward it.

    Lot of frustration while learning and very rewarding when learned kinda like game.

  6. Brian September 1, 2013 at 3:04 pm

    Given that humans are biologically driven by natural selection to procreate, it makes sense that pussy will always be the thing we want most (and money as an instrument for getting it).

    I watched a video with a talk from a woman called Helen Fisher recently that made an interesting point, namely, that “We didn’t evolve to be happy, we evolved to reproduce.”

  7. Scandibro September 1, 2013 at 3:54 pm

    Yeah, good stuff.

    I know this myself from the money standpoint. Enough is never going to be enough. Setting a numerical goal is not going to cut it. Been there done that, then you just want more or you get lazy. What usually happens is that standards rise and then a 4 star hotel is not good enough anymore. Maybe it is not quite the same but similar.

    The WORST is getting complacement and taking a couple of months of vacation. Whether that is business or game or sports, you drop of FAST. Stay in the game and take days off not months. Take a weekend off, then go hard to work next week.

  8. Joe Dick September 1, 2013 at 3:57 pm

    my main purpose will never be girls, it’s too futile as an achievement, because no matter how many I’d fuck, I just feel nothing about them, which for me is too ’empty’.

    As for happiness, I don’t know what’s with that dumb belief about ‘happiness’. Only idiots can ever be happy. The point of achieving goals isn’t fucking happiness, it’s being better off than you were before, it’s as simple as that. HAPPINESS DOES NOT FUCKING EXISTS, unless you are an idiot, and I seriously doubt ANY of us, here, is an idiot. If we were, we would not be here, we would be doing something idiotic, such as playing a videogame for hours or just being lazy idiots with a stupid empty smile on our face.

  9. Joe Dick September 1, 2013 at 3:58 pm

    PS. the above wasn’t directed at Roosh, I meant in general

  10. Joe Dick September 1, 2013 at 4:00 pm

    There’s only one other type of individual who can be happy: an insane person. If you aren’t happy, and you still try to make something of yourself, I believe you are actually doing something fucking right.

  11. Joe Dick September 1, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    isn’t it a good insight? Think about it. Happiness does not exists, just as ‘love’ does not exists. It’s all bullshit that only the insane or idiotic, believes in. Or the hopeless romantic. I stopped being one a while ago.

  12. Indian_hotguy_Bholu September 1, 2013 at 4:18 pm

    I want to do rituals to attract girls suggest me some rituals which i can do

  13. Awesome Possum September 1, 2013 at 5:49 pm


    If you haven’t yet read it, I highly recommend the book “Go For No!” by Richard Fenton. It’s a short read (I got through it in less than 2 hours) but the principles are dead on to what you’re talking about in the video. I think it might give you some extra inspiration on achieving your goals.

  14. Jj September 2, 2013 at 1:42 am

    I respect how direct you are and the willing des to share your struggles. I think more people need to realize that many of us have similar problems and they are not all alone.

    For me playing guitar and learning cool stuff like Iron Maiden is what gets me high. But your right man the process of growing is really more fun than getting there. Once you arrive it’s not that big of a deal. But for me playing metal guitar is like one of my favorite things although I have a bluesy bohemian vibe with my metal playing.

    I hope one day to be like that with women. Did 5 approaches and got shot down but in to the point where my egos not crushed I’m feel about like if I flicked a light switch on and off 5xs. I feel nothing- no ego sorrow fear- nothing: I think the feminists are doing a great job for their Illuminati masters in destroying relationships between the sexes and thus people he selves by reducing the future growth of the population itself via gender propaganda and a shit economy. But it does feel good to no longer have your ego in it you become cold and uninhibited. Like my friend looks way better but he had to drink to get he nerve up to approach a duo of 8smme I just didn’t give a flip what a girl thinks. Haha.

  15. shomoona September 2, 2013 at 7:01 am

    Do you even lift?

  16. Joe Dick September 2, 2013 at 2:03 pm

    12 Indian_hotguy_Bholu,

    here’s the ritual: attach a rope to the dick, and strap a dumbell. Then close your eyes and imagine a beautiful woman with a piece of juicy, succulent pussy. Just repeat ‘Abracadabra’ exactly 170 times. Do that every morning for 170 days. You’ll be surprised at what will happen.

  17. Roger September 3, 2013 at 1:08 pm

    My two biggest motivators are learning, my professional life, helping others and have a good social life. That includes getting laid from time to time, but not 50% of my motivation…

    Just my two cents.

  18. Anonymous September 3, 2013 at 4:57 pm

    Roosh looks like a Sasquatch in that still shot from the video.

  19. victoria September 11, 2013 at 1:53 pm

    Feel sorry for you.

    1. Yahman September 25, 2013 at 5:11 am

      Explain. In a rational, logical way.