This Is My City

I’ve lived outside of America for a little over four years now (52 months to be exact), with no real purpose except to have sex with women and enjoy life. As my travels progressed, I became more confused instead of less on what type of city I eventually want to settle in. Only lately has the picture become clearer to me, and this happened not only by living in different types of cities and trying different languages, but by putting myself in different situations, just to see how my organism would react. Finally, at the age of 34, I have a firm grasp of the city I want. It should contain these seven qualities:

1. Medium-sized with a dense urban core and a population between 0.75 – 1.5 million people.

It should be walkable enough that I should rarely have to take a taxi or public transportation, but large enough to have a variety of cafe, nightlife, and female options.

2. A majority population that is conversational in English.

I have been the first to learn a country’s language, and while I appreciate the intellectual rewards from it, I prefer it as a side hobby than a daily requirement. I want to primarily speak in English with the women I fornicate with.

3. A comfortable apartment.

I don’t want rugged lodgings. I must have a desk, comfortable work chair, couch, coffee table, and television with an HDMI connection to my laptop for movie viewing. I spend a lot time at home so it it must be a place I look forward to relaxing in.

4. Nightlife with at least one ladies night a week.

Nightlife is becoming less important to me, but at least once a week I want to enter a club where the ratio is at least three girls for every guy. Anything less and I can’t be bothered unless ravenously horny.

5. Ability to get a one-night stand once every four times going out.

I don’t mind dating, but there has to be a good chance of the ONS. If I wake up horny as hell, I want to know I can get laid that night from a fresh prospect who had no idea she was about to get railed by a hirsute man.

6. Presence of possible wingmen.

I have a better time in cities where I hang out with other Westerners, not just to hunt women but to have philosophical discussions about life. I have found it close to impossible to make European friends due to huge ideological and cultural differences, so the city should have a handful of Western expats that I can connect with.

7. White girls with big butts.

While I don’t mind dating Latinas, my preference is for girls who have skin equal or lighter in color than mine. For whatever reason, my boner responds strongly to them.

There are two factors which are decreasing in importance for me:

1. Easiness right out of the box.

I don’t need for girls to approach me or think I’m the ideal man. It’s okay if it takes me some time to get the oven pre-heated and find a decent girl or two that I can spend time with.

2. Potential for deep connection.

For the longest time I thought that my journeys were training me to find “the one,” a girl who I would keep forever, but I stumbled upon her two (maybe three) times and let them all go. I’ve had to accept that I’m an anomaly in not wanting a serious relationship with a great girl. Instead, I want mini-relationships of two months in length with feminine women. They are to be given back to the dating pool if I become bored. Therefore, I don’t need perfect emotional compatibility or women who are trained to be excellent wives and homemakers. I want them to merely look nice, laugh at my jokes, and pleasure me in bed.

There are four countries I’ve been to which would please me most: Poland, Ukraine, Croatia, and Lithuania. I experienced great pleasures in South America and Estonia, but besides some brief future travel in random places of the world, I think I know where I will eventually settle.

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HansDampf
HansDampf
6 years ago

“Nightlife is becoming less important to me, but at least once a week I
want to enter a club where the ratio is at least three girls for every
guy.”

Are you serious? Where in hell have you seen a venue like that? Best I’ve seen (in different countries in Europe, east and west) were clubs that could hold a 50/50 ratio for the first two hours of the night (then rapid decline)…. not to mention bars

Roosh_V
Roosh_V
6 years ago
Reply to  HansDampf

I’ve experienced such ratios in Poland, Estonia, Ukraine, and Lithuania. You usually have to find the “ladies night” specials. It’s not for the entire night, mind you, but for an hour or two stretch.

bojangles
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

those are great, i enjoyed them in Poland, maybe Wroclaw?

Roosh_V
Roosh_V
6 years ago
Reply to  bojangles

Wroclaw doesn’t have a ladies night. Unfortunately I am not satisfied with the nightlife ratio. I’ll have more to say about this in the future.

Romeo_is_real
Romeo_is_real
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

I’m heading to Wroclaw Friday night. I really like that place. Poznan fits the bill then?

Roosh_V
Roosh_V
6 years ago
Reply to  Romeo_is_real

Wroclaw and Poznan balances each other pretty well. You’ll have to try both then decide.

Romeo_is_real
Romeo_is_real
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

I’ll have to dust down your city guides before I go then.
Dzieki – for all your good work Roosh.

Pluto Endo Slow Roll
Pluto Endo Slow Roll
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

Roosh-
Is flying out of JFK to Berlin and then going Euro rail or bus the cheapest way to insert deeply into Eastern Europe?

xhamster
xhamster
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

Only one city fits the bill: Montreal

Leruex
Leruex
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

Hey player-
What about Budapest, Prague, Brno, Pecs, etc? If you look at all the hot
Models
From cz and Hungary those places seem well up there for being poon wonderland? Do you like CZ or Hungary for game?

jjj
jjj
6 years ago
Reply to  Leruex

hahhy you meant porn stars not models

Leroy Wu Bubba Hednandez
Leroy Wu Bubba Hednandez
6 years ago
Reply to  jjj

Lol
Either way- what group of females has more
Natural, raw sex appeal than Czechs or Hungarians. I live Polish too- the ones I’ve met are the girl next door with a sexy accent you want to run some stiff rebar through.

An Ozzie in London
An Ozzie in London
6 years ago
Reply to  Roosh_V

Iranians are not ‘white’ you look like a Kurdish/Lebanese Kebab shop guy. Where I’m from you would not be classed as white. Stop deluding yourself.

Daniel
Daniel
6 years ago
Reply to  HansDampf

In many clubs in eastern Europe, mostly on week-days (forget the weekends) you have an even better ratio (can be 5 to 1) in a window that normally goes, more or less, from 11pm to 12.30am.

playmuc
playmuc
6 years ago

Hamburg. 😉

Teedub
6 years ago
Reply to  playmuc

I love Hamburg, but it blatantly doesn’t compare with cities in countries further East.

tripleg
tripleg
6 years ago
Reply to  Teedub

Roosh, it’s funny you mentioned “1. Medium-sized with a dense urban core and a population between 0.75 – 1.5 million people.” as that would automatically exclude Lithuania and Croatia since they don’t have cities that large, unless you are talking about the whole metro area of say Vilnius or Zagreb.

BB753
BB753
6 years ago

Yeah, 3 girls for every guy is a war-time ratio, maybe attained during WWII in NY City.

Yeah, really!
Yeah, really!
5 years ago
Reply to  BB753

So, perhaps WWIII would be a good thing?

Ryan
Ryan
6 years ago

I agree wholeheartedly with these points. I would add the condition that the city must be relatively cheap to live in though (compared to US / EU standards). Very important, because it is not merely an economical factor; cheaper places usually also come with more character, and women in these places are (again, usually) not very spoiled. I agree on Poland, Lithuania, Ukraine and Croatia; and besides that, I consider especially these cities perfect for this kind of vocation (in Eastern Europe): Kharkiv, Lviv in Ukraine (heard good stories on Dnjepropretrovsk as well); Chisinau in Moldova, Bucharest and maybe even Cluj in Romania, Skopje in Macedonia, Novi Sad (small student town) & of course Belgrade in Serbia. I would avoid Sofia (although it is easy pickup, I find Bulgarians awkwardly depressing), Budapest (beautiful, but overcrowded with internationals), Sarajevo (same) and most of the coastal places, as they are dead in winter, and too touristy in summer.

thecaptainpower
6 years ago

I like a town that has a major college….

awakened
awakened
6 years ago

How much would it cost is to live in a non-eu eastern european city like Belgrade, Sofia, Kiev?

I’m just talking apartment, utilities, food, i.e. the basics? I have read $1000/month USD is sufficient.

Ryan
Ryan
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

If you would live there longer than one or two months as an expat, I’d say 800 euro’s p/m is enough ($1000 indeed). €250-350 for rent leaves you with about €15, 20$ per day. You can live very decently on that in Eastern Europe (it’s 2-3 times as much as the locals earn). However, If you are anywhere in the €1500 range, it’d get much better because you will be able to afford nearly anything you want.

awakened
awakened
6 years ago
Reply to  Ryan

Thanks. My pension is not going to pay crap by American standards but it looks like I can live very well in eastern Europe. I’m not just trying to stretch money. I despise the current culture in America and for that reason alone I am exploring my options. Being able to live well on my meager pension is a bonus.

Deandre Ray Jed Lu Sanchez
Deandre Ray Jed Lu Sanchez
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

Very cool way to retire. Chasing Slavic dolls and sleeping in every day- that’s living!

anonymoud
anonymoud
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

Be sure to look at the RooshVForum website. People have started threads in the Travel section for individual cities, and discuss how to get the most value for your money

MikeT
MikeT
6 years ago
Reply to  awakened

I’ve been living in Sofia since March this year (Bulgaria is an EU country by the way, but the cheapest and poorest).
I pay €350 for my furnished apartment (not in the center, but you don’t necessarily have to pay more in the center). With a little luck you may be able to find something as low as €250 with modern furniture and appliances.

Utilities are very cheap compared to where I came from (the, on this blog, very popular Denmark ;)). On average I’ve paid around €15 for electricity per month, less for water.
I’m paying €20 for 50 Mbit Internet (stable as a rock) and 150+ TV channels.

Food and drink – both in supermarkets and restaurants – is very cheap here compared to Denmark, and I think much of Western Europe in general. But I don’t know how it compares to the US where a lot of things a cheaper than in Europe. I think you’ll find things like electronics for instance (pretty much the exact same prices here in Bulgaria as in Western Europe) will be rather overpriced compared to the US.

dj
dj
6 years ago

Roosh,

Southern Brazil, Argentina and Eastern Europe have plenty of white girls with big butts. My preference as well.

PM Siesta
PM Siesta
6 years ago

Great list, Roosh. I value very similar qualities, right down to the white girls with big butts. I recommend Vienna…

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago

“I want to enter a club where the ratio is at least three girls for every guy. Anything less and I can’t be bothered

Come to Copenhagen again, the Worlds Sausage Party Capitol.

TRr
TRr
6 years ago
Reply to  Tom Dane

Id trade you Copenhagen for toronto any day of the week

Tom Dane
Tom Dane
6 years ago
Reply to  TRr

Really ? didnt hear many favorable things about TO…must be bad.

Eman
Eman
6 years ago
Reply to  Tom Dane

One of the baddest bitches I ever saw in my life was
Danish- red hair, c cups, dainty, pale, you g,fresh. Imagine a prettier Lindsay Loha. From her movie Mean Girls with a porn star build. That’s what I call a 10!

Web
Web
6 years ago

Two humble suggestions: Munich (great standard, very expensive) and Prague (beautiful city, nice girls, variety of clubs)

Romeo_is_real
Romeo_is_real
6 years ago
Reply to  Web

I echo Munich, Great city, ultra-safe, very friendly helpful people. Women very open to foreigners. And don’t forget Augustiner Beer. Just don’t go at Octoberfest time – serious sausagefest with loud & annoying Aussies everywhere.

Kim du Toit
Kim du Toit
6 years ago
Reply to  Romeo_is_real

“serious sausagefest with loud & annoying Aussies everywhere.”
The “loud and annoying” part is redundant.

Joe
Joe
6 years ago
Reply to  Web

I agree. German girls
are incredible. I don’t know why Roosh doesn’t try Munich or Hamburg. Many German girls are really thin and petite the 5′-10 built like a draft horse Scandinavian is not as attractive to me. I like blonde but only like 5’3-5’8 and petite or small. Am I the only one who can’t get into super tall girls?

anonymous
anonymous
6 years ago
Reply to  Joe

Based on what Roosh has said before, he probably finds German women to be too westernized, masculine, and uncaring. Also, life there is probably far too expensive, and Americans are not a novelty that draws local attention.

EL_VERGAMAX
EL_VERGAMAX
6 years ago

Belgrade, Serbia has every item on this post except for the English speaking thing.

mocha
mocha
6 years ago

“my preference is for girls who have skin equal or lighter in color than mine. For whatever reason, my boner responds strongly to them.”

you and I both. Thats apparently an evolutionary thing for men to perfer lighter skin in the fairer sex.(and women I assume wank darker)

redman
redman
6 years ago

what does Romania lack?

Amigo bro
Amigo bro
6 years ago

Warsaw in the summer, Barcelona in the winter. Hard to beat that combo. Well, if you have cash$ and superstrong game NYC-Miami is probably better.

Fuckchicks
Fuckchicks
6 years ago

I would like to work as a bartender or any job, live in some room and fuck nice girls

fadsjio
fadsjio
6 years ago

That mostly sounds like montreal to me then.

slamthevaj
slamthevaj
6 years ago

Dublin

MeHole
MeHole
6 years ago
Reply to  slamthevaj

Worst city to choose. Urban sprawl, no decent transport links, women are terrible, full of heroin addicts and uncultured locals.

Teedub
6 years ago

“I have found it close to impossible to make European friends due to huge ideological and cultural differences, so the city should have a handful of Western expats that I can connect with.” – Do you mean only Americans, as Brits are Europeans too?

Roosh_V
Roosh_V
6 years ago
Reply to  Teedub

Brits and Ozzies are cool.

conaisseur
conaisseur
6 years ago

If a city has to “enough that someone should rarely have to take a taxi or public trasportation, but large enough to have a variety of cafe, nightlife, and female options” I think you are rather talking about a city of 500 000 – 750 000 people.

Ronin
Ronin
6 years ago

I don’t think any million+ sized city is walkable

anonymous
anonymous
6 years ago
Reply to  Ronin

You can certainly have select neighborhoods of a large, 1MM population city that are walkable

Pregunta para Senior Vorek
Pregunta para Senior Vorek
6 years ago

1- what’s the difference between girls in Eastern and Western Poland?

I like white, pale
Featured, petite, dainty girls
With perky tits, and tight cute asses- where in EasternmEurope is best para mi?
Tambien-
What are some websites the Bang bloggers can pre pipeline in Eastern Europe that don’t suck ass?

Joesters
Joesters
6 years ago

How do you plan to live in any of these countries when you’re an illegal alien now on the Interpol list of Schegen stay violators, and every police department in every country you mentioned has been notified?

Koshernostra Owns It All and U
Koshernostra Owns It All and U
6 years ago
Reply to  Joesters

Look its Mr. Narc.

Remember boys and girls always trust the system they do all these nice pretty things only for your good because they love and care for you. Who needs family, community, Church, civi organizations, or other traditions that have served Western man for Cenuries? I like a good screwing from socialist social engineer Zionist khazars like all the pretty people in the west. A reeducation camp or forced labor camp is the Apple pie
Dream my
Children.

anonymous
anonymous
6 years ago
Reply to  Joesters

Oooh is the poor wittle White Nationalist concerned about Roosh barebacking his darling little blonde Ukrainian princesses?

BrisbaneGirl
BrisbaneGirl
6 years ago

Brisbane, Australia!

Lerondelljabari Muhameedraybo
Lerondelljabari Muhameedraybo
6 years ago

Do you want to expat or will you bounce back and forth to ConUS to retain Amuricastan citizenship?
Pps- you should game San Diego or Orange County. Like G Manifesto I say in America SoCal and Miami have the flyest hos. Although I’ve met several native Californians in my
Travels who all say NorCal Chico State is the bomb for party’s and fly girl next door types. Dainty, pasty, with style- that’s a box that fits for me.

Commander_Chico
Commander_Chico
6 years ago

If you’re a US citizen, you don’t have to “bounce back and forth” to retain US citizenship.

SD
SD
6 years ago

San Diego, full of college girls and tourists, can go white or brown, english or spanish

zphyer6
zphyer6
6 years ago
Reply to  SD

Also full of military guys. There’s a reason it’s nicknamed Man Diego.

anonymous
anonymous
6 years ago
Reply to  zphyer6

…Which is a nickname ripped-off from “Man Jose” (San Jose), where the ratio is truly bad.

San Diego does have some neighborhoods that are full of Jarheads and sailors, but generally the ratio is okay, even in Gaslamp and Pacific Beach