Touching

I get a lot of feedback from girls about things guys do that they don’t like. It’s usually something awkward, needy, or weird, or some sort of combination.

A common complaint is touching. Either guys don’t do it or they skip a lot of steps that make the touch a big deal and something way too noticeable. The best way to touch a girl is same way you’d boil a frog—do it gradually so she doesn’t even notice. Your hands are playing with her breasts and she doesn’t know or care how it got to that point. The mistake is touching aggressively before you laid the groundwork. Toss the frog in boiling water and it will immediately jump out.

So how did I figure that out? From girls of course. When a girl likes you she will usually touch your arm, shoulder, or top of your hand when you say something funny or interesting. As time goes on, she will touch you more frequently and for slightly longer, up to a second—a second!—or so in length. It’s hard to realize what she’s doing unless you really pay attention, and that’s how it should be—things flows naturally as you get to know each other. You can begin this natural progression by touching very soon when first meeting a girl. If you touch too late after you’ve had several opportunities, it will feel “weird” to her and I will hear about it.

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Nullpointer
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Someone stole my copy of bang at work.

I’m going to Vegas today and so all I have with me is The Game.

Oh yeah and I’m surrounded by people with secret and top secret clearances.

Guess sex > national security.

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taking a “game” book to vegas = reading the Glock manual before shooting fish in a barrel.

just go unload.

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mike..

nullpointer won’t understand what you mean by that. Let me correct your statement:

taking a “game” book to vegas == reading the Glock manual before shooting fish in a barrel.

He’ll now understand wink

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haha boc i was gonna make a similar joke but you beat me to it, dont mention anything about null pointers or use pickup lines like “How about we go home and you handle my exception?” to them and youll be fine.

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what about guys who virtually refuse to touch us at all during the courtship. sheesh. girls want some too.

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yeah, let me guess… you are dating guys from Pat Robertson’s Regent University… or something like that.

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Look guys, the problem you’re all having is that you fit in to one of two categories. You’re either hoping for an easy spoon-feed able answer, or you’ve been rejected and now you’re trying to make yourself a victim.

There is no ‘how to’ manual when it comes to winning a woman’s attention or affection. The human brain will actually judge and size up potential mates in 3 seconds or less for comparability. If she says no? Move on.

Also, having an attitude of ‘women are pieces of meat / sex toys’ won’t help you. They are like sharks, they can smell that blood in the water. They also have self esteem and won’t tolerate being belittled by you unless they’re in to that kind of thing. You can’t ‘change’ or ‘fix’ them by trying to act smug, that’ll just get you rejected faster. Weather or not you want to believe it, women are people and humans too.