Upon Closer Inspection

I was out writing when a guy and girl sat near me. The girl was a Brazilian bombshell, maybe 18 years old with a curvy thin body and wavy hair. With her was a black guy, maybe as young as 16, who had a generic urban style topped off with a skullcap.

Her personality was fun—she was laughing at him and teasing and cursing. I like girls full of life with a little bit of drama and she had all the exaggerated looks and movements. I made the assumption that he was banging her after she started touching his hands and calling him baby.

Most average guys would immediately hate on the guy—or attribute his ability to get her on things other than his game—but other than those very obvious cases where the girl is after some guy for money or status, the answer is game when she’s hot and he’s not.

So I observed them. He had an iPod headphone in one ear and was listening to her with the other. He would space out and look elsewhere when she was talking to him where she would have to say “Over here!” She was initiating all the conversation and doing more than 70% of the talking. He was sitting back, relaxing, and letting her do all the work. She complained to him about many things, such as his “disgusting” smoking habit and his attention span problems. At the end they got in a mini fight and she made a dramatic body turn away from him. Then he just pushed her head with his hand and said, “Come on let’s go.” And off they went.

I’m sure guys treat this girl like a princess, but here you have an average guy who treats her average and she is all over him. Guys only hurt themselves when they hate on another guy because there is always one thing he does which you don’t do, or don’t do enough of. Observe and watch before you go negative. This particular gentleman had access to her, took advantage of an opportunity, and served the right game that works well. And that I respect.

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snugglebutt
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But it’s so much more fun to hate. Some guys do get lucky though… either because they were in the right time at the right place or they caught her at a desperate moment (on the rebound, lonely, etc).

LaPay
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She’s only 18. Give her a couple years to wise up.

Roissy
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Treat women you really like the same way you treat women you don’t much like. A beautiful woman’s self-conception can be shaken by a man’s stronger reality. Find a way to be unaffected by her beauty and you will have the keys to the kingdom.

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I feel it is an endocrinatic issue.

Antelope4
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Matt has changed to Antelope4 under the new system.

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Roissy has it nailed. Treat beautiful women no different than you do ugly ones. While you desperately want to bang the former as much as you don’t want to bang the latter, not caring whether she stays or leaves is the key. Emotional control in the face of her attempts to evoke drama in the relationship is the way to create a balance from which both of you can take pleasure.

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Yeah, sometimes it’s fun to fight for a guy’s attention. When he acts aloof, it makes you feel like it’s hard for other girls to win his heart (which makes it extra special when you win him over).

The caveat is that most girls won’t stick around if there are no clear signals that the guy’s into her. Anyway, the public facade might not be indicative of that couple’s private life. He could be really affectionate when they’re not at the coffee shop or whatever.

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He must own a nice car. Wome are petty like that

The Dude
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Opt Prime:
Maybe he is a nice car that turns into a robot that looks like a man?

Cokewell
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High School Game is unique to HS.

Is it a coincidence my default password for wordpress contained the letters a f c all in succession?

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She’s 18, though.

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Easy explanation for this. She wasn’t 18. She was probably 13. That’s the downside of South American women. When they’re 13, they look 18. When they’re 18, they look 25. When they’re 25, they look 40. The rare ones that stay young in the face tend to have their asses explode in size. It happens.

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In my experience black guys just don’t have a lot to say or contribute to a conversation, period. This is probably due to low IQ, but it comes off as ‘confident’ indifference when it comes to girls. Be wary of people who don’t talk that much, they frequently have low IQ’s.

T. AKA Ricky Raw
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In my experience black guys just don’t have a lot to say or contribute to a conversation, period. This is probably due to low IQ, but it comes off as ‘confident’ indifference when it comes to girls. Be wary of people who don’t talk that much, they frequently have low IQ’s.

Yeah, because nerds have SO much more interesting conversation. They really do a good job getting the ladies moist with that high IQ talk. Women totally know who has high IQ and who doesn’t, so your point about warning signs of low IQ are irrelevant. They aren’t avoiding high IQ guys because they are unable to tell who has low IQ and who doesn’t. They choose who they choose because most high IQ guys talk alot but the conversation is totally boring, they have a horribly whiny and entitled mindset (“look at my IQ! look at my IQ! please! low median IQ! waaah!”) and tend to have low testosterone, are easy to walk all over and are horribly passive-aggressive because they hate direct confrontation, except on the internet where everyone is free to be a tough guy. No matter how bitter you guys get about it and try to preach the gospel of high IQ, just face facts, the rest of the world just wants you to fix their computers and shut up while they fuck exciting guys who treat them like shit. It’s just the state of the world, stop whining about it.

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