Use Your Boner To Judge The Value Of Women

Imagine that you are having sex with two different girls. One is a 5 and the other is a 10. You are not using a condom. Can you objectively say for sure that the strength of your boner is different while thrusting inside them? I would like to think that when fornicating with the 10, blood flow to my genital area is stronger, but if we had a delicate instrument that could measure this, I suspect that the readings would be identical. In other words, a boner is a boner, an all or nothing event. Unless you restrict bloodflow with condoms or alcohol, your body will proceed at 100% power. If your body thinks a girl is sex worthy, it’s going to give you a standard boner.

Just because you got the boner with a 5, does that mean she is just as beautiful as the 10? Your body found her worthy of sex, so isn’t a sort of “equality” established? During the sex act, there is equality. When I’m pumping away in a dim room, with a girl’s face buried in my pillow, I don’t have conscious thought of her value. As long as the boner was achieved, all signals are go and my orgasm will be equal assuming the situations that led to sex in both cases were close to identical.

Therefore you can’t measure the objective value of a girl during sex. However, the story changes after sex. Once both girls leave my apartment, thoughts of the 10 will cause erections while I’m in the shower, when I lay in bed, when I’m reading the Bible, and so on. Thoughts of the 5 will not cause much in the way of post-coital erections, unless she was superior in bed. It is possible that porn star sex with a 5 will give me more post-coital erections than awful sex with a 10, but that doesn’t mean the 5’s value is higher as a long-term partner. Boners after sex measure more a girl’s sexual value instead of her overall value. This is a dead-end in finding an objective measurement.

When I’m on a first date with a girl, and the conversation escalates to touching, I often achieve a boner. This is before I kiss her (a kiss is a boner-creating event). I can be sitting beside a girl, innocently touching her arm, and then feel my penis growing without conscious sexual thoughts. Through experience, I have found that the strength of these pre-coital, pre-kiss boners are an accurate judge to a girl’s overall value that determines our compatibility. The reason is that the boner is not only based on her appearance, but our overall chemistry.

It’s no surprise that I have achieved stronger pre-kiss boners with girls who are less objectively attractive than others. In fact we would expect this, because the hottest girl you ever date will unlikely also be the one you are most compatible with. It turns out that the pre-kiss boner accounts not just for a static image of the girl, but her body language, her demeanor, her attitude, her gaze, her scent, the feel of her skin, and all other characteristics that could be possibly judged by a man. Pre-kiss boners are also free of the sexual bias of post-coital boners. It accounts for her overall worth to you as a emotional partner.

In other words, the best way to judge a woman’s value is to take the time you have a pre-kiss boner in her presence and divide it by the overall time you spend with her. This ratio will now serve as a metric for evaluating all the women you encounter in life.

It would be easy to do this if you had dates that were identical. If you went on a date every Monday at 8pm in the same place with the same level of horniness, you could easily compare boners from one date to the next. But this never happens. Instead, you must get a general feel of your pre-kiss boners instead. Here are three examples:

  • I insta-dated a girl to the coffee shop and quickly feel a warmth and passion coming from her. I’m getting a boner without even touching her. I should now pursue her with full vigor.
  • I’m two drinks into a night date with a girl. My boner has not made an appearance, even though the girl is quite pretty. I will put out a hail mary invite to my apartment, and if she refuses, move on without going for a second date.
  • I’m walking down the street when I see a girl pass by in the opposite direction. I let her pass and then watch her from behind. My boner develops instantly. I chase her down and approach.

Absolutely do not trust your conscious self-evaluations of a girl. They are unreliable and full of bias. Ignore all other opinions about her that are given by your friends or relatives, because they don’t understand your boner (they’ve probably never even seen it). Trust your boner instead because it won’t lie to you. Your pre-kiss boner is the most objective indicator of a woman’s value that you have, and all you need to do is be aware of any bulge that develops in your pants when engaged in conversation with a woman. Men would make far better decisions about the women in their lives if they simply respected the opinion of their boner above everything else.

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Skeet Skeet
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Mileage varies but IMO a stacked well dressed cougar has an immensely sexual vibe that’s boner inducing.

Inside UoM
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Haha, interesting terms. Scientific Roosh makes an appearance.

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I think pre-boners are not reliable for deducing a woman’s value. Especially if you haven’t fapped or been laid for awhile. Semen build-up/Testosterone can screw up the perception of women by men. Even the most ordinary woman with an average ass can appear as hot, solely because the body needs a sexual release.
After coitus boners (like the ones in the shower, doing something else) are actually the boners you should listen to, to judge a woman’s value. Not only because a woman’s value often falls after you’ve banged her (an inevitable thing which happens after you achieved your conquest), but also because of the synergy, sexual expertise/pleasure and chemistry that her body has with you. Of all the women you banged, some women will always have a better sexual chemistry with you as compared to others. It is those women whose memories will stimulate your post-coitus boners, after you’re satiated. The woman who stimulates and sustains your desire for repeated sex with her (aka post-coitus boners) is actually the one with HIGHER value, because all men get bored eventually with sex with the same woman over a period of time.

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Agreed. I would summarize that women have long-term value to men for cultural reasons not instinctive reasons, and the cultural reasons are DOA. Marriage is an institution of men with sovereign agency. What we have now is an institution of divorce roulette in disguise. Such is the power of vocabulary over fools. Marriage as an institution is by definition not yours and thus you lack agency to receive reward in a ltr.

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dumb dumbs 🙂
you are supposed to use your objective eye-not only what turns you on in the moment otherwise even an average jane in a tight top will make you perk up. Silly boy.

I judge facial symmetry first and foremost but you idiot boys think with your boner and not your brain. Anything can distract your silly pea brain because your boner is sub-par at making an accurate objective observation.

Luckily as i girl i am still indifferent to handsome men while us girls know you guys turn into horny doggies at the sight of someone attractive. You can never control that aspect of you.

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no wonder you’re single, i can smell the putrid scent of the condescending plebeian stemming from my screen

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We say animals are “in heat” when they get boners to mate. Why are humans so above such base measures of sexual attraction?

You’re right on with this boner test metric. I’ve seen it in past articles. This ads a bit more granularity to the boner barometer needle than just a binary hard or flaccid state.

What I’m discovering lately after a few years in the game is that the needle isn’t moving much at all with American women — even with stacked cougars (ala Skeet) that would had the needle bouncing up and down a few years ago. My brain, now having he experience of the crap that comes with ameri-fems overrides and blocks signals to the boner.

I’m suffering from boner block.

I know the equipment works fine and can register even slight sexual seismic vibrations. Perhaps more travel overseas will help re calibrate the equipment and bring things back to full operation.

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“I’m suffering from boner block.” Thanks for sharing that. My PUA self-training has met the same or similar catch-22. The more they want me, the less I want them, and I do little better than generating attraction if I am thinking to carry myself with win-lose primal alpha arrogance/narcissism. Then I get ‘in’ easily with women in a social sense and I think I can cruise and then I am nice back and then they stop being nice and then I realize what sickos they are and I don’t like going to the effort. Can’t let your guard down one instant or they move against you one way or the other. Fucking head game. heh You either have it made and they all want you quite easily or it is too much work, which is why self-improvement is the better answer in the long run, if you can. On average we can’t, being that the economies are shrinking and centralizing. Ready for SHTF game? Paging Mr. Whorefinder. Paging Mr. Whorefinder.

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“I’m suffering from boner block.”

Let me guess, you also reside in DC?

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Hahaha “when I’m reading the Bible” lol! Almost didn’t catch that one 🙂

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“after sex…thoughts of the 10 will cause erections…when I’m reading the Bible” lulz

And to the argument that boner sensitivity skews pre-kiss boner testing, apparently Roosh’s penis has reached Buddha-penile Zen (satori). YMMV lulz

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A post-wall dog:

http://www.examiner.com/article/senior-dog-devastated-after-owner-surrenders-him-to-get-a-new-younger-dog?cid=taboola_inbound

This dog is like the animal version of a formerly-attractive-but-now-fugly, post-wall American woman being passed over by an alpha male (or any male really) seeking a much younger and attractive woman.

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I guess things have come full circle. Let the dick lead. Over all it makes sense because it will keep a man focused on being a man and not letting social pressure effect his game.

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What a load of crap. “Alpha” women are still women and still crave alpha cock, period.

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Best comment in the comment section:

“I’m married to a beta male. I wouldn’t recommend it. The only amazing
thing to have come out of this relationship is our daughter, everything
else has just been even harder work than my career. (I know, I made this
bed…)”

Women won’t like you if you are a beta. They might put up with you for a year or two, convincing themselves it is good, but after a few years of marriage they’ll get bored and unhappy.

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I think it’s great how women are unreservedly bashing providers and other gormless “nice guys” nowadays. The goose that laid the golden egg needs a good roasting.

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FYI, this happens to women, too. There have been 3 times in my life that I felt that instant, electric, sexual connection to a man…when, during a seemingly innocent conversation, I got a flush of arousal from my head to my toes. One guy was incredibly good-looking and sexy, the other two were average. One, I broke up with after 6 months…he was a very nice guy but things just didn’t progress and I eventually stopped being attracted to him physically for no reason I could identify. Another–the incredibly good-looking one–turned out to be extremely clingy, jealous, and eventually borderline abusive and I had to end it. The other, I married…but that feeling eventually went away and was replaced by a more “mellow,” loving relationship. In every instance, I don’t think that feeling was particularly significant of anything or of the “value” of the guy. It was probably just a trick of nature….like, maybe our genes would mingle well together but that “feeling” told me very little about the overall value of any of the guys in any way, shape, or form or their potential as a partner.

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Is this serious or……

Julia Millard
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Sadly, I think it is. In the “about” section he says that women who sleep around are sluts and not marriage material evidently but yet if a woman won’t come back to his apartment right away, he dumps her. I’m sure this comment will be deleted shortly.

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You boner might depend of things like where is she in her ovulation cycle. This is scientifically proven. Fertile and ovulating young 5 can give you a crazy boner if you are simply in a proximity. That’s why “I set my standards pretty low, so I’m never disappointed”. Good luck to you and your boner, friend.

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I think the equality you’re talking about is what we call “happiness”. It’s a state of mind that you live in the present. The numbers don’t really matter anymore at this point. That’s my own humble opinion. Duff Milito

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Roosh, do you really read the Bible regularly?

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lol

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I arrive at the same conclusions to push aggressively if I get a boner from just talking to her or light touch. The boner must be trusted I fully agree. Failure to act on such will be a much larger regret than with an objectively hotter girl you have no instaboner for.

I really must try to ask the next instaboner girl, if she had a similar insta-arousal when first meeting me.

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Genitalia is the only part of a human’s body that never, ever lies.

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Be careful when you marry some hot chick under 25 that may be a 9 or 10. Many white women just do not age well. You really need to examine the woman’s mother and grandmother to ascertain how the woman will age. You may end with some lizard like this:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2607868/Kim-Novak-slams-Donald-Trumps-Oscar-night-criticism-appearance-bullying.html

The trick with plastic surgery is to have it done so it looks natural and not noticeable. Many people do not get that concept unfortunately.

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Interesting observation, I’ve noticed that girls I genuinely get boners for before sex are the closest thing to a sure thing, our chemistry is the best and some I stay with for a while. How is your ratio of success with this boner judge tool?

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the boner never lies.

anonymous
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Young, attractive American women are like Derek Zoolander: entitled because of their youth and appearance:

http://priceonomics.com/the-entitlement-of-really-really-ridiculously-good/

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Great advice. The boner test is the ultimate test. FOLLOW THE BONER. If you respect its reaction you’ll never be disappointed. Keep in mind local laws and cultural habits though, sometimes they will have to prevail. If you get a boner for a 16 yo chick and you are in a Country where the age of consent is 18 you might get a problem if you get caught. On the other hand, if you are with a chick and your boner is not reacting, just drop her no matter how hot her looks might be. If you go against your boner and you force yourself against its wish, you will surely regret it. Always trust the intelligence of your body. It is unsurpassed, much superior than your intellectual knowledge.

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I’m with a fat chick, but she gave me the strongest pre-kiss boner I’ve ever had. Chyea.

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@Chyea: Fatties typically have great BJ skills to compensate for their feminine appearance deficiency. Is that accurate from your experience with your fatty?

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Roosh, your deadpan analysis of boners is comedy GOLD!!!

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beauty has little relevance in the sack. but it is VERY relevant to how much interest I have in taking her into the sack.

brian
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What about being stoned and having a boner??????

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This advice is one of the most underrated in the whole manosphere. One truth also learned by applying this to your game is that when your boner truly desires something (some cunt), you are much more likely to get it. I want to quote the alchymist by Paolo Coehlo, “when you want something truly the whole universe will collaborate in order for you to get it” Cant recommend it enough. Also, try using less porn and only masturbate when you really need it and the combination of the articles advice will do wonders for your game.
Im so against this whole “don’t go out with a loaded gun” attitude. Have you ever seen a cat sterilized? It becomes lazy, uninterested and dopey. Have you ever jerked off in the the shower one morning before going to work after a night of even more masturbation? How do you feel? You feel relaxed, like you’ve paralyzed your urges, kept the “demons” at bay for a while. I challenge you all to stop masturbating for at least a while and let the testosterone levels roam inside you and guide your actions. You will feel more masculine, be more bold and under the guidance of your boner, your results will improve.
I love porn a lot, I really really do, but I discovered it was destroying my potential of developing as a man. By resolving to porn too often, you are actually neglecting your boner to thrive and make decicions in everyday life. I still use it, but before it was every day, now its more once a week. I have never, ever felt better. Also, Im huge fan of direct game.

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I still use porn, I was ment to have written at the end there

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Alchemist. I do not understand the logic behind your spelling of the word. Lol

I agree with you though. Don’t touch yourself and you become a better embodiment of your gender.
I just finished a three month stint in jail; now I’m like fuckin Lanny Barbie or something. Begging Dude to dominate me and let me please him to the fullest of my ability.

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The great fucks you may have had, what do you remember about them? It’s probably not the orgasm. Some broad’s forearm on your neck,
something her eyes did, there was this sound she made. Or it’s me in the… I’m telling you, I’m in bed, the next day, she brought me cafĂ© au
lait, gives me a cigarette.

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Wow, this is a really immature and juvenile article. Sex is mostly in the brain anyway. Powerful chemicals and energy exchanges between 2 people perform a symphony of physical, emotional and metaphysical reactions. If you are “just having sex” with any girl, then maybe the above might be true. Truth is if you are with a hot woman who is right for you, your body will up its game, that means dick control, in all forward gears. If your a kid or a child mentally then you will hard at the drop of a hat whenever the summer wind blows. If you ARE A REAL MAN you will have total control over your body and possibly your most sensitive emotions, and that includes your ejaculation too, I do not want to come off as bashing this article but its should have a much deeper discussion than pussy is pussy / sex is sex trust in the boner meter. Cause when you get mature enough, you will realize it ain’t !

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I sourced this article in my recent video “Red Pill Relationships”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88pN8OJbB6Y

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society requires a useful article that can add insight, hopefully this site always presents a useful article
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My god, you’re a moron.

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I’m curious, does it hurt to be this dumb?

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Just wait till robot wives become cheap and affordable.

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I think it’s utter bullcrap, because it goes by hormones, and hormones can be random. What if peanut butter sets you off?

But at the same time, I can kind of see it. The first guy I was insanely attracted to was called “a freak of nature” by my mother, and the second was the fat hairy trucker type, and he made all my friends and family wince too when I showed his picture. They were both crap partners though, so neither are in my life anymore. Working in reverse maybe?

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I’m laughing so hard right now…no pun intended but I hope this is satirical. As for the comments and people taking it seriously lmfao!!!!!!

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Interesting!