Warning Signs A Girl Isn’t Worth A Relationship

In the past I’ve shared warning signs when a girl will “disappoint” you in some way. I’ve discovered some other more serious infractions based on the way she interacts with you.

In the movie A Bronx’s Tale, a mafia don teaches a young man that after a girl gets in his car, she should lean over and unlock his door to be considered a keeper. Here’s the scene:

While my warning signs aren’t tests, they say a lot about the worthiness of a girl for long-term relationships. If a girl does any of these, dump her.

1. Changing your music without first asking for permission. The first thing I do when get a girl over to my shack is put on some music. Depending on the mood I’m trying to set, I’ll go with something like Passion Pit, The Weeknd, or Vanessa da Mata. As I’m making drinks, if she goes to the laptop, cuts off my music, then pulls up some whack-ass shit on YouTube, she’s only getting fucked that night and never again. Even though she wants to play “this one song,” I cut her crap off and put mine back on. I say, “If you wanted to listen to your music you should’ve invited me to your place.”

2. Giving you unsolicited advice. I don’t care if I have the most obvious problem in the world that can be solved with baking soda, but if I don’t ask you for help or at least show I’m open to receiving help, then shut the fuck up. You’re not my mom and you’re not someone who has more life experience than me, so spare me your harebrained ideas for solving a man’s real problems.

3. Saying “you should.” There is absolutely no reason for a girl to tell a man “you should…” ever. It insinuates that not only are you currently doing something wrong, but that she knows more than you, which is extremely unlikely. She is free to say, “Have you thought of…” or “What do you think about…” but the moment she brings out the word “should,” a synonym of “must,” I know she’s a arrogant cunt who thinks she knows more than she really does. The only things I should or must do are pay my taxes and die.

4. Not apologizing when she texts or takes a call in your presence. If I’m on a first or second date with a girl, and she starts reading texts, sending texts, or actually taking a call without excusing herself first, she will never see me again. Even the most conceited bitches will let off an “Excuse me I have to take this real quick.” Otherwise she doesn’t deserve another meeting with you, even if she puts out and turns out to be okay in bed. You let a girl disrespect you like this and you might as well hand her your balls.

5. Asking you to postpone your orgasm so she can gain more pleasure. If you’re about to bust your nut and a girl does tells you “No” or “Wait,” she’s an inconsiderate slut who is now causing you direct harm. A man’s nut is sacred, and for her to impede that should be criminal. I’m serious. One time a girl postponed my nut and then I lost it completely. I couldn’t get it back and I was left with minor groin pain. I never contacted her again.

6. Not urging you to continue pumping even if it’s starting to hurt her. I’ll tell you what love is: when a girl begs you to keep going even though you know she already came, even though she’s drying up, and even though you know it’s causing her pain. If she tells you to stop the millisecond after she gets her nut, without you getting yours, I want you to tell her that the point of having sex with women is so a man doesn’t have to use his hand, and that she has performed below the hand. That’s why we do all this shit to fuck women—to get our nut. If she can’t do that for us, then she’s useless as a living being.

Let go of girls who show arrogance, disrespect, or selfishness. Depending on the severity of her offense she may still be worth one fuck, but other than that you’re a chump if continue seeing girls who display these anti-feminine traits. The sad truth is that most of this list was developed in Scandinavia, where my hand was much more enjoyable than most of the girls I ended up in bed with.

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outlaw josey wales
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I need to see this movie.

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The movie is not good. But that scene is spot on. It’s the one scene in the whole movie I remember. It has stuck with me. Save yourself the agony of the entire film. Just take the best part and leave the rest behind.

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In my opinion, leaning over to the man’s side (driver seat) to lock the door is too aggressive, if it’s the first or second date ( barely know the man). It means I don’t respect his spaces too.
But I come from different continent with different cultures.

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The movie isn’t that bad. Watch it Mr 5yrs ago

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Texting while in my presence is a deal breaker. This may sound petty and trivial to most but it lets you know the girl feels that some bs text is more important to her than keeping you happy. I once dated a 21 year old who did this constantly, she would even go out of her way to take her phone to the bathroom with her. I broke up with her via text.

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HAHAHAHAHAHA that’s brilliant!

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hahahahaaha thats awsome

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Classic Leykis 101

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This goes for platonic friendships (same sex incl) they show disrespect. Phone freaks I have no time for, they even text in church and talk in Dr’s offices which is not allowed. Phone freaks have low intelligence/morons. Which is why I don’t attend any type meetings or civic affairs. hubby and I remain social recluses as retirees.

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I can directly attest to #5 being a deal breaker since they are more like men.

I almost never have had a woman ask me to delay but the ones that do ask should be dumped immediately.

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Why would you even try to nut before making her cum? Sex should be fun for everyone involved. Especially when youre not in an ltr.

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Want to know what a real double standard is?

Women ridiculing men for rolling to the side and falling sleeping while the woman is unsatisfied.

But most of them do this to me! They don’t even have the courtesy to finnish me with a decent blowjob.

Or selfish women on their period. “Does your mouth bleed too b***h?”

Any woman like that is undatable and should be thrown to the curb.

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You sound whiny.

Beta bitch.

George
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I agree with you. Most women know how to give a good blowjob or they at least try to anyways. You have to communicate with them. Not fucking hard. Only hard for beta bitches.

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You sound like the faggot here that would let her get away with not finishing and satisfying you.

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Hahaha. You sound gay as fuck

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If your woman if on her period, she can get a strap on and give you the good fuck you deserve.

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oh wicked wicked person.

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LOLOLOL

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Classic material once again homie

Especially # 2 and # 3…

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why dont you just lock them in a cage with a gag and let them out to bang? Seems easier?

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In that case you might as well tie her hands and ankles to the bedpost and have your way with her

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Yes, yes, yes. All of those, especially the first four are deal breakers. Do the other two ever actually happen. Most women I’ve dealt with take it as a blow to their ego if they don’t get you off, and only care about orgasming if they’re right on the edge. Maybe I’ve just been lucky witht he chicks I’ve been dealing with.

Also, I’ve always interpreted the first four as signs that she’s just not into me, though I think numbers 2 and 3 should be taken as outright insults and dealt with as such. Psssh…Bitch tryin’ to tell me what to do…

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Love this movie,a true classic.
I hate to say it but most broads today would fail all these listed.But it is a reminder to test women.
Because women run shit tests on us guys all the time.
its funny because Ive had it happen backwards with a chick.She presented herself as wild and skanky party girl,when I first met her several months ago at a bar I go to.I just didnt like her at first and it made her want to try harder to impress me.now she is trying to be more “respectable” by not drinking as much when we run into eachother. like thats gona make me think”oh,shit.you really changed into a fine women now.Your so my future wife.
A little liquor in her system (more than her usual last week at the bar),brought her old TRUE shitty demonic personality for display for everyone to see and was runnin all kinds of mouth+ ended up fist fighting her roomate that night for some stupid shit,the night ended with cops shortly after.Man,she so failed!!
Like I said before “you cant polish a turd”
Good girls are hard to find.

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LOL what do you expect if you look for them at bars and parties?

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You are such a peanut.. no wonder women are taking the stances they are taking these days… such stupidity and arrogance spewed forth from males makes me ashamed to be one..
Good guys are soooo much harder to find than good girls.. Pedo’s, murderers, rapists – majority men, hooray for us, hooray for the world.. You disgust me you weak turd a.k.a anonymous.!!

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You are a fucking faggot. You are ashamed to be a man? GO be a fucking tranny you sack of shit. SO all men are sexual deviants? What you are really saying is YOU have tendancies to let your fucked up mind go to places it shouldnt…you fucking pedo..you fucking murderer..You are a soon to be rapist.. Go Fuck Yourself. Pussy.

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I totally agree. Seems like the girl I am with never has time for me. She says she loves me but all she does is basically act like a roommate. As for sex it only happens when she wants it. She always complains about being tired. I sometimes want to cheat on her ass! What have I got myself into? If it wasn’t that I would be homeless I would have already been gone!

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All of these are just signs of inflexibility. Flexible girls are the best girls.

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The video clip is fantastic, btw.

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#4 alone makes 95% of 18-23 year olds in the US unfit for relationships (which they are anyhow). The younger Gen Y girls can’t stop texting and don’t consider it bad manners. Since they are young, I would rather use this as a chance to test them by correcting their SMS manners one time and see if they change. If a Gen Y girl fixes her phone manners for you, you’ve got a keeper!

The good thing is these girls can be banged with SMS game followed by brief in-person meetings, making the whole courtship much more time efficient!

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does everyone here talk like a cowboy

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Nice baking soda reference wink

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hahahahahah i see somebody made a connection hahahahaah

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i once had a girl (total nut – father left when she was 7) who every time we got in the car she’d put her fucking ipod earphones in. she had trouble comprehending that it was rude when i told her. needless to say, she told me – thankfully – early on that she’d cheated on her last boyfriend more than once.

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girls with a f**ked up child hood are amazing in bed…such freaks but completely mentally unstable and should be avoided at all costs for a serious relationship. They will ruin your emotions and play you like a fiddle.

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actually, another daddy-left-when-she-was-7-or-8 girl a few years back would bring CDs specifically to play at my house. that didn’t last long.

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I had a chick in Manila once (who I met online) start texting with the first 1 minute of meeting me at starbucks.

I picked up my drink and, without saying a word, walked out.

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Good man! The woman in manila tend to be more rude than the others in Philippines. Ive been enjoying their specimens as of late LOL

Cebu and the visayas have a nicer culture and more well mannered girls.

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@11
so true.and dont get me started on Millanials(GenY)
Im Gen X and I feel these girls today are ALOT easier than when I was growing up.
My problem is I expect too much out of these diluted girls today.Because Im trying to compare them to way the girls were in my day.
They dont build them like they used to.
However today I feel like a kid in a candy store with just using “light” Game.

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@ Roosh – Why not just use a sedative that lasts 4 hours at a time? Then you dont really even have to feed them and they are passed out so they cannot interrupt during the banging..

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Whenever my wife calls me on the phone, the first words she says are “Can you speak now?”

Of course I’m always happy to take her call. But the fact that she checks to see if she’s interrupting anything is beyond respectful. It’s the complete opposite of a woman taking a call or text mid-conversation without saying “pardon me for this.”

Probably because she’s not American.

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hhahahahaahahah GREAT POINT!!! American woman, well there are good ones, you just have to dig for them. hahaaha

some southern girls are raise right, but on the coasts in more liberal areas they are wild and untamed. Complete sluts in college. Yuck

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Based on experience with arrogant women, I look for the inability to say “I’m sorry” as a huge red flag and major reason for dumpage. Whatever happened to humility in women?

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“Whatever happened to humility in people?”
There, corrected it for you.

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“What ever happened to humility in people”… there, corrected it for you.

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Of course

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I agree with outlaw about the movie

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… I look for the inability to say “I’m sorry” as a huge red flag…

absolutely. this is a common vice.

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Good list. Real life situations I have actually left women who did 2,3,4 and 6. Number 4 is especially common.

Another warning signis being late for dates. After learning game I myself always arrive 5-10 minutes later then arranged and if she is not already there I don’t wait and leave immediatly. My time is the most valuable thing to me and if she makes me to wait than she is a useless drag to me. Another useless girls are those who suddenly sway from our route to enter shops upon seeing something they like to try on et cetera. I try to never wait on a woman.

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OH man this list is so true, Haven’t laughed this hard in a minute. Also the dude in the movie I’m sure got arrested for something or another. But still gotta have a test, gotta

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Agreed on all points. The text/calling thing drives me absolutely insane.

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There’s too many disqualifiers permanently embedded in today’s Princess.

It’s easier to make the short list of what makes her a keeper.

Expect a failure rate of 89% minimum.

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I had one woman pull the “I’m on my period so you’re out of luck” bit on me, and we didn’t last very long after that. It all made sense because she was manipulative and conniving in other ways too. I’ve had plenty of women fuck when they were on their period (and even give me the heads up so I don’t lick or finger it), so it was unacceptable that she wouldn’t suck my dick, or even offer a hand-job.

#’s 2 and 3 are major pet peeves. I find women chatter too much PERIOD, but when they also offer their two cents in matters they know nothing about, it’s even worse. Women whine about problems – men solve them. They should just sit back and learn, not offer solutions.

I don’t think there’s ONE man that hasn’t encountered #4. This shit is rampant in the cellphone age, and there’s no such thing now as cellphone etiquette. Bitches are never NOT on their phones. You see it when you’re out at a bar or club – the steady glow of phones on constantly. The purpose of being out is to interact with other people, but with these chicks there’s no call or text that can wait. And it isn’t completely generational either. At my last job, there was cell reception everywhere in the building, including the elevators. There will be 3 bitches in that tight space, all having phone conversations, and shooting daggers at each other because each one is having trouble hearing who they’re talking to. Ridiculous. They can’t wait until they’re outside to make or take a call.

I’ve been lucky in the sense that no woman has ever denied me my nut. Even some of my weaker lovers, who didn’t suck or play with the dick first, made sure I busted. I’ve always approached sex from the attitude that I would always get mine, so it is a point of pride that she got hers too (not necessarily FIRST, but I’d keep working if I nutted). I don’t know WHAT I’d do if a woman stopped me before I squirted!

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In my female experience, I know about as many men who whine about their problems as women. It is unattractive.

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And, for the record, I’m talking about conventionally successful men too.

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Nobody cares.

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Straight up I have some problems with this. I agree with the period thing, but you must find a girl that is not on her phone. If a girl is on her phone that means shes not into you and she doesnt respect you as a person (especially in the beginning of dating), unless you initiate the cell phone using. However in the US bitches are having the feminist shit going on, and i can see your frustration. If you get a bad bitch (not “bad” in a good way lol) then just fuck them and never call them back. You place them into categories. Bitches = hit it and quit it Girls = date but not much potential for much more then Wifey = those are the ones that have everything like respectful, cook clean, smart, have money, everything goldmine. Treat the wifey good, then the bitches like shit, then f*ck them so hard. ahahahah

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Tell the truth Roosh, the girl that denied you the nut was from a Nordic country wasn’t she? lol. Only time it happened to me.

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Hi!

The Scandinavian cunt maffia is gonna be put down soon! At least what Finland goes…

The state has a deficit that is about to grow to be a huge. So far we have had it somehow under control.

So what happened. The True Finns nationalist party won the election. I am not a True finn, but let me tell you something. It was a good thing, since after the election they took socialists to negotiate about forming a government together with the biggest conservative party that also wan seats.

Now yesterday, the socialists were kicked out from the government negotiations. It is obviously so that the most important decision makers see that the policy of funding feminism with debt money is no longer sustainable. So it is the end. Now socialists are out, and we can start changing our model here, for good, to resemble more of that in Germany, where feminism and care jobs are not subvented like hell, as they are here in Scandinavia! Money is not taken away from men who earn it with their work and give to unthankful feminists who start to PERSECUTE the last men left in health care and education sector.

The holy cow of feminism will hopefully be slain!

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Precious men have already too much money, influence in the world, and have VERY little to offer. If you do not count insults, rape, and hindrance, you could say *nothing*.

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Roosh,
I posted about this clip and test on the forum a few weeks ago…is that where you got the idea? I was disappointed that the thread didn’t blow up on the forum but maybe this post will spark it. Great post though

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I suppose too, that when a girl doesn’t want to give her digits to you, she’s not worth a follow-up either.

I feel bad for Willy Wonka – got cockteased by a Colombian chick. Giving a girl your attention and being denied any progress to me = time wasted.

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none of those things would happen if you gamed them properly.

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Asking you to postpone your orgasm so she can gain more pleasure. If you’re about to bust your nut and a girl does tells you “No” or “Wait,” she’s an inconsiderate slut who is now causing you direct harm. A man’s nut is sacred, and for her to impede that should be criminal. I’m serious. One time a girl postponed my nut and then I lost it completely. I couldn’t get it back and I was left with minor groin pain.

How bizarre. You’re totally overreacting. If you lose your nut every now and then it’s no big deal at all.

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This blog got me laid last night.

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this blog gets me laid every hour on the hour

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OT but I really look forward to Roosh getting into a live-in LTR and sharing his insights for keeping things humming on the home front. That would be great. Will it ever happen?

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Totally concur with this post. Unfortunately my car has electronic locking doors.

Question: what if your woman does not take your last name if the topic of marriage arises? Kick her to the curb?

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What do you think about girls not offering to pay on a date? This may be U.S. specific, but I’ve found girls who don’t even bother with the whole “reach for the purse” shtick once the check comes (for a drink or two) don’t pan out to be viable human beings.

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“What do you think about girls not offering to pay on a date? This may be U.S. specific, but I’ve found girls who don’t even bother with the whole “reach for the purse” shtick once the check comes (for a drink or two) don’t pan out to be viable human beings.”

I’d rather a woman be honest about not intending to pay. I hate the test/game they play where they offer to pay, but if you accept the offer they won’t see you again.

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That’s why i have a very specific policy… I never pay for the grand total on at least the first 3-4 dates. I insist we each pay our own separate balances!

That way i am able to eliminate women looking for a freebie and women who are not that serious, and if they try to refuse i simply place my portion on the table and walk away!

Maybe a bit harsh but it does clear away the freeloaders, any man who pays on the first date is potentially looking at disaster… and an empty checkbook! Especially if you have 4-5 dates a month, not saying i do but there are guys that can accomplish that.

Again to certain women this may make me sound cheap but in all actuality it makes me smart!

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Is a girl by being a virgin at 27 wife material?

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…I married a woman that only had sex once before I met her (…counting me- 2 sex partners by age 30). This should of been a huge ‘red flag’…huge as in what what was I thinking?!!! Huge life altering mistake. Marry a 27 yo virgin? Hell…I wouldn’t even take her out for lunch!!

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@40
no,most likely by modern standards either “Fugly” or on some religious kick with messages in her head that sex is a bad thing.Imagine all the “training”your gona have to do on her to get her up to par with a college 22 year american girl who most likely has done everything under the sun sexually 3 time over.
I aint getting any younger for all that work,but to each as own if you feel that she may be a prize of some kind.

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ALL depends on how hot the girl is. For easily replaceable chicks, yeah why not make things as painless as possible.

But if a girl is a 9/10 and texts a friend during dinner and asks me not to orgasm, you think I ain’t calling her again?

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This is pretty much what alot of us guys have to pick from in the USA.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRbgRffXvHk&feature=related

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Dude #6 happened to me in Sweden recently… WTF… I can’t even remember the last time a chick did that to me

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Re: 3 – get used to it. Only post-modern narcissistic Americans have this crazy idea that “should” or “should not” should not be used. That’ because in your culture anything goes and I’m ok/you’re ok and there is not supposed to be any “judgement”.

The rest of the world knows better so if you are going to be travelling, get used to it.

Re: 5 and 6 – You’re basically revealing that you’ve never given a woman an orgasm, forget about multiples, and have zero clue as to how a woman’s body works or how to get her to call out your name in 7 different languages and beg you for more.

You may not care if you’re a dud in the sack, but most men, including your readers, would rather know what it takes to be considered an awesome lover and have women lining up down the street and banging down their doors for more.

They long to hear a woman scream, “Don’t stop! Keep going!”

Perhaps you “should” learn how to make this happen in your own life and THEN blog advice to men.

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so you have sex… in order to give women orgasms?

you’re gonna get replaced by a Rabbit dildo, you moron

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Actually he’s dead on it’s the dud’s that CAN’T give a girl an orgasm that are easily replaced by vibrators personally I would take a guy who can get me off over a toy any day. Thankfully I married a man who makes sure I get off several times before he does needless to say we spend A LOT of time in the bedroom… or living room…or kitchen it gets rather loud in our house too soooo much fun 6 years together and one kiss and wherever we are in the house and we are at it, a few times we’ve had to go park in the woods before or after a shopping trip we just couldn’t wait till we got home

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@ 37 Absolutely. She doesn’t see you both as a unit but rather as two individuals. That always leads to divorce.

@ 40 I would say yes if she is beautiful. It tells of her good character. But you must investigate why is she a virgin. And you must sleep with her before marriage any way or she will have the hand in your relationships.

@41 You are wrong about religious girls, most (not all trough) of them do not percieve sex as a bad thing in marriage, they just dream about preserving this great thing after marriage and most aren’t even successful in that. The time it takes to teach her to sex is worth it. A faithful wife is more valuable, you just have to make sure she doesn’t use religion to control or shame you.

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Most of these have not happened to me down here, apart from using the phone in my presence. Which REALLY annoys the shit out of me.

If she pulls that crap when we’re on a date and I havent slept with her, a snide ‘So how’s your friend doing’ remark will follow. Often they still don’t get the message.

If I have slept with her and she continues to use her phone, I usually get quite angry and tell her that if she wants to talk to her friend, perhaps she should leave and go see her instead.

For one she won’t do it again, and on top of that the dominance and expandability guarantees some good loving afterwards wink

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I’m glad I watched that embedded video right to the end. I like a happy ending.

For a while, I thought the kid was going to shoot the girl in the face or something.

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Thesis Statement:

The reason Scandinavian women behave like this is that in Scandinavia as nowhere else in the world, individual men have been replaced by the welfare state. Why should a woman defer to and respect a man’s loyalty, fidelity, and ability to provide and protect when all that stuff is already taken care of by the beta male collective? When men have no leverage, they are treated as such.

Discuss.

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You’r probably right, and as a Scandinavian man, that’s great! If Roosh had actual game and not just his made up stuff he would realize how much of an advantage that is. The fact that the girls are independent also means that they will have sex for the fun of it, and not to gain anything. And as a guy who also enjoys having sex for fun it’s win-win. I dont want to have to be a provider, loyal or any of that if I’m in it for the sex, and the girl wont expect it.

Roosh couldn’t pick up girls here in Denmark because his game is unflexible and he thinks that his idea of the world is the only viable one.

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“The fact that the girls are independent also means that they will have sex for the fun of it, and not to gain anything. ”

Is this a joke? Seriously. They do indeed wan’t to gain something. Status for starters.

I have seen this argument before and I really don’t understand it. Because girls are “independent” does not mean that they are going to have fun sex with the average guy. If anything, the trend is in the opposite direction, which usually occurs when an individual becomes spoiled with an over inflated sense of themselves. When you have orbiters trying to get that “fun sex” constantly from even 4’s an 5’s cows, what happens to the milk?

It gets spoiled.

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“Is a girl by being a virgin at 27 wife material?”

I would say not necessarily. Just because she hasn’t fucked yet doesn’t mean she would be compatible with you in other areas. I’ve always found that withholding sex until the wedding night (or withholding for ANY reason) is the ultimate act of manipulation and using sex as a weapon, or leverage of some kind. I think only the extremely religious would still be a virgin at 27 in this day and age, and since I’m not religious at all, I’d leave this chick alone. You’d need to spend some real quality time with her to see who she really is, like living with her. If she won’t fuck until she’s married, she probably wouldn’t “live in sin” with you either.

“Question: what if your woman does not take your last name if the topic of marriage arises? Kick her to the curb?”

This is a tough one. It depends on her reasons for wanting to keep her name. In some instances, a woman is an only child, or there are only sisters in her family, and she wants to preserve her father’s name. In some countries, it’s standard for a woman not to take her husband’s name after marriage officially (I have a friend from Spain who kept her father’s name). Friends may recognize her by her husband’s name and she may be introduced as such, but never officially adopts the name. If her reason is feminism-motivated, in that she’s trying to make a statement about her independence, it could be problematic. I suppose hyphenating is a reasonable compromise, as long as his name is last. Many woman only take his name because they don’t want their children’s last name to be different from hers, and others may not recognize her as the mother of her children without her having to constantly explain. I heard of weak motherfuckers actually attaching their WIFE’S name to theirs, so they have the exact same hyphenated name. This is an unreasonable compromise.