For the sake of your sex life, I hope that your mother didn’t love you when you were a child. I hope your father abused you. I hope you had several dark periods while going through puberty which lead to ideations of hurting animals or other people. I hope that you currently suffer from depression and rage. I hope all these things because you’ll have a far easier time meeting women and getting laid than a man who is emotionally balanced with a clear head on his shoulders. Your natural game, a result of legitimate abuse you may have faced, will be perfectly suited to attract the modern woman.

If you’ve been studying game, you would have noticed that a big chunk of it is learning to be apathetic, uncaring, and aloof. You’re taught not to put pussy on the pedestal, not to be overly affectionate and complimentary, and not to give clear signs that you like a girl more than she likes you. The reason you’re taught this is because it’s the most reliable way to attract and keep a Westernized woman who seeks exciting men instead of providers. Even a married man who got a woman to legally agree to be with him for life must remain ever so emotionally distant from his bride so that she doesn’t get bored and fuck a guy much hotter than him after only a 15 minute session on Tinder.

I had to learn all this training from scratch when diving into game at 22 years of age. Before that, I had a mother who would incessantly say she loved me and that I was her special boy. I had a father who, while much less affectionate than her, made sure all my needs were attended to. Even though they divorced when I was 8 years old, I spent every weekend with my father and was never short of parental love. Neither of them abused me or left me with any damage I can identify, and when I compare my upbringing to that of my peers, I’m downright lucky to have my parents. Any flaw you see in me is undoubtedly due to my peculiar genetic construction instead of purposeful harm levied by them.

I came out on the other side educated, personable, empathetic, and strongly wanting a loving relationship with an attractive girl. It took a year of game training in order to land her, but because I was too nice, and because she was too pretty, I lost her before I had her. I learned quickly that being nice was not a quality that women wanted, so I began to play the clown just to secure intimacy with desirable women. I definitely overshot the mark with my quest to accumulate sex without meaning, but my subconscious made that decision because it was more logical to pump and dump for fun than to try to get into a relationship with a woman who didn’t value family or monogamy.

I want you to now feel sympathy for me that my parents helped raise a man with low marks on the dark triad scale. I want you to feel sorry for me that I have to pretend I’m not interested in a girl even if I actually am, that I must take my time responding to a girl’s text message when I’m eager to talk to her, and that I’m forbidden to compliment her during the most intimate moments we experience in bed. All of that goes against my natural instinct.

If you want to be sexually successful, you have to simulate the behavior of men who were emotionally abused as a child, who have stunted development and who fail to properly connect and relate to human beings compared to those with normal upbringings. You have to take on sociopathic traits, put girls on an emotional roller coaster of abuse, and ensure that you view females with great disdain. It’s no secret that they prefer the dark triad man over a nice guy who would fail to get even a second glance from a psychiatrist.

If you are a nice guy who refuses to learn game or put on the clown mask, I have some great news for you: once a girl is done fucking a dozen or two bad boys in her prime, once her vagina is properly stretched out and primed to secrete maximum lubrication to only bad boy cock, and once the container of her eggs becomes nearly empty, she will gladly accept you into her life for biological reproduction, not because you were her first choice, but because those bad boys could not see her as anything more than a wet gash. Your best option is to be Plan Z after twenty five other men. During your happy marriage she’ll often be “tired” to have sex with you when not a few years prior she eagerly begged men who saw her as disposable to gape her anus.

I’ve been on both sides of the coin. I’ve been the nice guy who couldn’t secure the attention of girls and I’ve been the bad boy actor for over a decade, securing sex for as long as I can wear the mask. The problem with pretending to be the bad boy when you’re nice at heart is that it’s impossible to respect the girl as someone you could have a relationship with since you know she has spread her legs for so many guys before who play-acted just like you. You lament that she has lost her reproductive imperative and sees men as nothing more than sources of entertainment to improve her soulless existence of having to attain a meaningless education to labor in an insignificant office job, and that because of her rejection of the feminine nature given to her at birth, you are even more qualified to take care of children than she is. Her mind and body has been utterly ruined for anything but a fuck buddy relationship.

How I pity the normal man. He’s either doomed to a life of no sex or sex with women who are not suitable for more than a few lively pumps. Some men may get lucky and find the unicorn who wants to have a family before the age of 25, but for the most of you, your best option is to tattoo the bad boy mask on your face to at least have some semblance of a normal sex life. The toxicity of the West is spreading at such a rate around the world that being the emotionally damaged man, or at least simulating his behavior, is the best option for having any intimacy with women at all, no matter how deficient they are as compared to the days of our grandfathers. I guess you can say that this is not a good time for normal men to be living in.

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295 Comments

  1. Go_Fuck_Yourself_Cunt April 6, 2015 at 9:17 am

    “If you want to be sexually successful, you have to simulate the behavior of men who were emotionally abused as a child, who have stunted development and who fail to properly connect and relate to human beings compared to those with normal upbringings. You have to take on sociopathic traits, put girls on an emotional roller coaster of abuse, and ensure that you view females with great disdain.”

    Did just that. And it works unfortunately.

    “compared to the days of our grandfathers. I guess you can say that this is not a good time for normal men to be living in.”

    Society is no longer normal. Everything across the board including the world economy has been turned upside down.

    1. Hieronymus April 19, 2015 at 10:11 am

      yes. You are correct.

  2. Conrad Stonebanks April 6, 2015 at 9:38 am

    This article belongs in the Roosh hall-of-fame. Excellent piece of writing. The truth is brutal. Expect a lot more cases in the (near) future of guys who simply can’t take their sexless and utterly disenfranchised existence anymore, and go on a rampage. You have to wonder how much longer a sexual market place this skewed and this diseased can be sustained.

    1. bv April 7, 2015 at 3:17 am

      It’s a damn pity that we have to go through these games. Maybe the old ways are the best ways.

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    2. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:33 am

      Nature intends for the “sexual market” to be skewed anyways. Many, sometimes even most males, shouldn’t get to procreate (and that means having sex). That’s for the best of all species, including the human. Only a smaller portion of (youthful and beautiful/strong) males have desirable/viable sperm that should be used for procreation, and females of all species know how to choose them like nothing else.
      A diseased sexual market, evolutionary speaking, would be one where most males, including the less desirable, get to impregnate (have sex with) females, and where females have multiple children from only one male. Not even “monogamous” females do that – they will “cheat” on their partners to get younger, stronger males’ sperm, even when they are already older females themselves, which doesn’t matter as much as females are the ones who choose.
      Monogamy is man made and does no good for the strength, healthy and evolution of the specie – genes ARE important, extremely important.

      1. WhiteSecessionist June 17, 2015 at 12:59 am

        If these women really do know how to choose the most suitable partners then why do they often end up as single moms?

        Doesn’t seem like a smart choice to me, that is in the Darwinian context you’re arguing.

      2. Coach June 17, 2015 at 10:52 am

        The problem is that you’re seeing the process of procreation as just mating. Rather the act of raising a child is much much more influential than his genes, generally speaking that is. So the concept of monogamy is based on the maintenance of the nuclear family… something that very much gives one child an edge over another in terms of survival of the fittest. That’s why ultimately it’s in society’s best interest (as it has been in the past) to institute social controls and regulations that essentially regulate the sexual market and keep it from being a free for all. That used to be called evolution. I’m all for an embracing of man’s animal nature… I think we deny ourselves that way too often today. But embracing it so we can maneuver it so that it functions in humanity’s best long term interests. I’d argue monogamy is in man’s best long term interest… and the current sexual market we have now is not.

        The real challenge there… is that as a man we have sexual needs. Those needs don’t go away or stop rearing their head because the marketplace and society has changed. For a man to fulfill those needs today he has 3 choices… 1) find a virtuous wife and begin a monogamous relationship (the ideal and what most of us want… also the most unicorn of the 3)… 2) find an unvirtuous woman and have a monogamous relationship (the classic wifed up beta… the worst outcome possible)… or 3) pump and dump. 1 is almost impossible to achieve anymore… 2 is not something any self respecting real man would tolerate… he would rather die alone than submit to that… 3 then is what most men who can today default to.

        When I find myself engaging in the pump and dump routine… it’s not out of choice. It’s not because monogamy is “not natural” and I want to live like a hairless ape. It’s because if I want even the chance of getting laid… there’s really no way to get it done.

      3. MRKLjinjang . August 23, 2016 at 4:24 am

        NO WRONG, we are HUMANS not a bunch of ass scratching apes.

      4. Windy Wilson September 10, 2016 at 10:28 pm

        So far this is true, despite Leftists’ best efforts to create a society of ass-scratching apes with smartphones.

      5. MRKLjinjang . September 27, 2016 at 11:57 pm

        True Dat

      6. obot October 30, 2016 at 3:55 am

        For humans, having two parents is extremely important in order for a civilization to survive. Even prior to civilization, a man fucking and leaving would ensure the death of his offspring because welfare did not exist

    3. feigsc September 23, 2015 at 12:26 am

      i guess i can say the best thing is – if you have money to travel – go to regions that are easier to get laid, as some articles of Roosh say… :/

  3. elmer April 6, 2015 at 9:50 am

    That photo is just weird. It looks like my brother, who has informed me that I am the spittin image of Christian Bale. My son even gave me an axe as a gag Christmas gift because of that scene in the American Psycho movie. He roars with laughter when watching a Christian Bale movie because it’s like watching his dad. In previous decades people compared me to Remington Steele and other Hollywood personas.

    So I am damn handsome, so handsome that I never developed any “game” because women have approached me throughout my life instead of the other way around. And I just as quickly dried up their twats with my easy-going beta attitudes and watched them walk away with some other clown. Or worse, the number of married or committed women who have tried to initiate affairs with me. Of course they are going to go for a pretty boy to validate their beauty. It’s enough to make one weep.

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 9:59 am

      Why cry about it?

      Be a man of action and pragmatism like Roosh or 20 Nation and vote with your feet. That’s my goal. Putin and the boys have got it right over there that’s why there’s American influencers trying to destroy EE right now in the Ukraine which will make their women Christian Grey reading, Frappucino sipping, carousel riding corporate cubicle drones as well as opposed to traditional, sweet, and reasonable human beings who are focused on producing and raising future generations of decent people. You see Wall Street and Tel Aviv need more slaves for the big plastic globalist machine of tyranny. I hope Putin kicks their asses bunch of Khazar Marxist fiat money usurer scum.

      1. elmer April 6, 2015 at 10:03 am

        A gal in my high school invited me to her house and I declined. She ended up in a “Hustler” magazine centerfold. Am I not entitled to lay awake at night drowning in angst over what might have been? I am only human.

        PS I have a ForeignBride, as seen in “A Man Wants a Wife, Not a Co-Worker”.

      2. As seen on screen April 6, 2015 at 1:38 pm

        Americans “trying to destroy”Ukraine?Are you f mad?
        The Ukraine is being destroyed,quite literally,by Russians.By russian tanks,russian artillery and russian soldiers masquerading as “militia”.And with regards to carousel riding and capuccino sipping you obviously don’t know russian city girls.

      3. Petar April 6, 2015 at 2:38 pm

        It’s okay Ruslan, calm down, you have successfully convinced that you have, quite literally, sucked all the neoliberal propaganda that is there to be sucked. You may proceed in peace now. Amin.

      4. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 4:38 pm

        You obviously believe what you see on the billionaire glow list news. Check out Gordon Duff of Veterans Today.com

      5. Guest April 13, 2015 at 6:22 pm

        +1 to this.

      6. Gilad Atzmon September 19, 2015 at 8:50 am

        VeteransToday is great. As is GermarRudolf.com. And RedIceCreations.com

      7. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 4:39 pm

        Globalist news and the sites veterans today.com infowars.com and rense.com are two others to look at. Man I don’t trust the mans version.

      8. Gilad Atzmon September 19, 2015 at 8:51 am

        Infowars and Rense are controlled opposition designed to obscure Jewish hegemony. They are cover up artist shills. As is Chomsky.

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      10. Shmalkandik April 6, 2016 at 4:50 pm

        I deplore the censorship propagating in the Great White North. Freedom of thought is impossible without freedom of speech. Hosers like Irving and Zundle have an absolute right to speak their minds, whatever it is that is in them. Then, we can tell them to get lost, eh?
        And don’t forget your beer nog!

      11. Vegard Johansen April 6, 2015 at 5:04 pm

        Russia diden`t do anything until the EU tried to force the Crimeans into beeing part of it`s hopelessly indebted and failing union. Which they visely reject.

      12. As seen on screen April 6, 2015 at 5:18 pm

        jesus what a mess in your head. Crimeans?You mean ukrainians and tatars living in Crimea?EU forced? Ukraine joining EU is not even a point of discussionIt is unlikely to ever happen.The only thing Ukraine did was to sign a FTA with EU,like Marocco,Tunisia or even Chile did.
        Putin started this war because he wants to control Ukraine and the puppet government ruling Ukraine previously brought Ukraine to a political and economic collapse thus causing riots and disintegrating shamefully.

        Meanwhile Putin neglects russia and russian people.Here are the photos of a center of a largee industrial russian city (Ufa).Enjoy: http://zyalt.livejournal.com/1316723.html

      13. Vegard Johansen April 6, 2015 at 5:42 pm

        Why do you show me pictures of a city ravished by many decades of Marxist rule. It makes no sense what so ever.
        Russia has gradually taken steps in the right direction, but you have to remember that the country was left in ruins by what I just mentioned.
        I agree that it might not happen that the Ukraine joins the EU, because the EU member nations are mostly broke, and the union will fail eventually, but that is most certainly what the Western block is pushing for.
        You seem like an average mass-media consuming socialist zombie, busy blaming all the failings of Socialism on the free-market. Life is to short to debate people who can`t think.

      14. Bahlza Dragon April 14, 2015 at 2:13 am

        You honestly think the US gives a rat’s ass about Ukraine? They have an annual GDP that’s less than two weeks of ours. Adding you to our economic wagon would be like putting a lawn mower wheel on a Lamborghini; if anything, Ukraine would be the poor relative who comes over for the holidays with his hand out. What do we get out of that? A raided pantry and seat cushions that smell like pickled herring.

      15. Vegard Johansen April 14, 2015 at 4:45 am

        You are severely deluded if you think the US economy is a Lamborghini. As I pointed out in another post, the national debt included Government unfunded liabilities is totally out of control, and can never be paid back in an honest fashion.

        This is about influence and power, not economic exploitation. And its mainly the EU in this case as I said. But the western nations act more like single unit now a days. A single Marxist/feminist unit that is.

      16. Bahlza Dragon April 14, 2015 at 10:06 am

        You’re deluded if you think that any economy anywhere else is better. Our debt is less than 1 year’s GDP; it could be paid off in 10 years. We were on our way in the late 90s, but for the idiocy of the Republicans. Anyway, the point is Ukraine is not that important.

      17. Vegard Johansen April 14, 2015 at 1:51 pm

        Were not talking about everywhere else, but Russia vs the US. I agree that Europe for example is for the most part as bad. Russia/China however is in a very different position.
        The US is not in any position to pay of any debt at all.
        In fact even the slightest increase in interest would destroy the US economy. With Yellen in charge you will see low interest rates and money printing ad infinitum. Eventually you will experience very high or even hyperinflation in the US. The dollar will lose it status as a reserve currency, replaced by the Yuan, Ruble, other Asian currencies as well as precious metals.
        Republicans and Democrats have the exact same policy.
        Only a true Libertarian candidate could turn this around.
        But that will never happen so….

      18. Bahlza Dragon April 14, 2015 at 4:42 pm

        Same shit talk every year. Russia’s prosperity is pegged to oil (good luck with that) and China is quickly shifting to a consumer-based economy, but it can’t feed itself. Good luck with that, too.

        So, whom does that leave? You claim that the US economy is on a shaky foundation, but the rest of the world is dependent upon that foundation and neither China nor Russia could supplant the US in that position. The EU? Are you fucking kidding? The “economic miracle” of Argentina? If you suggest that, I will recommend you go to detox for whatever you’re sniffing.

      19. Vegard Johansen April 14, 2015 at 6:04 pm

        You sure jump from subject to subject without any depth or understanding at all. If you want to find some truth you must isolate.
        “The EU? Are you fucking kidding? The “economic miracle” of Argentina?”
        Don`t know what your talking about here at all.
        Both examples of big Government gone awry, as I said in my previous posts.
        Russia has oil which is good, as well as many other resources, and little debt.
        The US practically lives of the Chinese worker, but China has an enormous domestic market, an will let its currency float eventually. They will enjoy the fruits of there labour and leave the US in the shit.
        If you respond, please concentrate on one thing man.
        Thanks

      20. Bahlza Dragon April 14, 2015 at 10:52 pm

        Yeah, I’m sure you’re a real economist. Anyway, you go off and beat your erasers. I’ve given this more attention than it–or you–deserve.

      21. Vegard Johansen April 15, 2015 at 11:21 am

        Hard to deal with facts.
        Better to live in an illusion.

      22. BobTrent May 28, 2015 at 3:55 pm

        OK, a lawnmower wheel on an old Ford pickup.

      23. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:28 pm

        They all lie. I think the bankers/Illuminati/Masons/ and Vatican? Are all behind this corrupt global political culture aka NWO.

      24. Johnn April 6, 2015 at 7:31 pm

        “Putin started this war because he wants to control Ukraine”. Of course! And he wants to conquer Canada and Mexico too like NATO that has been progressively encircling Russia in order to destroy and dominate it for the last decades…
        Troll clown…

      25. Всевелод April 7, 2015 at 12:28 am

        Nope. Actually, he is a great leader, which is why we like him. Putin is standing up to the West, and sadly, Ukraine is currently ruled by a NATO puppet regime. Do not worry, the Ukrainian rebels will liberate you though.

      26. As seen on screen April 7, 2015 at 6:16 pm

        Ukraine is not ruled by a NATO puppet regime.The president of Ukraine,as the ruling parties, has been voted in by a democratic election.You cant deny this.NATO cant even get its act together and start supplying weapons to Ukraine. I am a russian speaker from Eastern Ukraine,just 150 km from Donbass and I am increasingly worried that russians will be moving further and will turn my city into the shithole they made from Donetsk (Transnistria,Abkhasia etc..everything russians touch turns into a shit). No amount of heroism can stop russian troops when weapons are old.Yet,neither NATO nor USA show any interest in suppliying weapons (while they do this to camel shaggers in the middle east).
        Putin does not “stand up”to the west.Putin stands up to the rule of law.Mainly because putin is a thief of gigantic prioportions, a russian mugabe, who has lost any touch with reality.Simple.Russia is a sad,poor,boring place where men hardly live beyond 60 and where sopme places dont have electricity yet.Tell this consipracy crap to those people.

      27. Всевелод April 8, 2015 at 1:38 pm

        Actually, US diplomatic cables provided by WikiLeaks show Poroshenko has been working for the US since the mid 2000s. Also, he is simply doing their bidding, as he has proven. Everything NATO touches turns to shit (Middle East, some of Africa, Ukraine, etc). Russia is a great place, unlike Ukraine, which needs Russian oversight in order to not destroy itself like it is now. This is further evidence that Russian cause is a righteous one. Tell your propaganda bullshit to someone else, no one buys that shit here.

      28. OrthodoxChristian April 10, 2015 at 1:05 am

        “Ukraine is not ruled by a NATO puppet regime.The president of Ukraine,as the ruling parties, has been voted in by a democratic election.”

        Once you violently oust the democratically elected leader of a country with Nazis, any “elections” held thereafter, with the Nazis counting the votes, aren’t valid.

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWkfpGCAAuw

        “I am a russian speaker from Eastern Ukraine”

        Then you’re a traitor. Hell, you’d be a traitor even if you didn’t speak Russian and lived in Banderstan. Enjoy your failed state.

      29. Guest April 13, 2015 at 6:23 pm

        Dude, are you Jewish?

      30. As seen on screen April 16, 2015 at 1:31 pm

        I am a russian speaking ukrainian.Not a gram of J blood

      31. TyskKille April 7, 2015 at 2:41 am

        Nice try, Russian propaganda troll. Just to clarify, I am not angry with you. I understand you must make some money in poor Russia to survive.

      32. Vegard Johansen April 7, 2015 at 10:04 am

        Its not a question on feelings, but of facts.
        Russia did not all of sudden invade that part of the country. They are in fact protecting the segment of the population that identify as Russian rather than European or Western. Had the “world community” not pushed it, there would be no conflict in the first place. Like in Syria, like in Iraq, like in Afghanistan….
        Germany is not that well of by the way, if you factor in debt and vast unfunded liabilities of the Government.
        Russia has little debt.

      33. bv April 7, 2015 at 3:29 am

        You don’t get it, do you?

      34. Alonzo April 10, 2015 at 12:25 pm

        Yes this is true but the Ukraine’s military is being run by the US and it has allowed Nazi militants into there ranks. Which are raping and killing impure Ukrainians.

      35. As seen on screen April 16, 2015 at 1:33 pm

        Name at least one please

      36. Guest April 13, 2015 at 6:21 pm

        Lolz no it’s being destroyed by KHAZARIANS (ashkenazi jews) like Poroshenko and Nuland, you dumb ass. They want their “country” back.

      37. As seen on screen April 16, 2015 at 1:32 pm

        All russian oligarchs and Putin’s friends are jews.

      38. BobTrent May 28, 2015 at 3:51 pm

        Russia’s actions toward Littlle Russia (Ukraine) are quite similar to those of the United State toward the Confederate States. Way back in the 1950s when Ukraine was a part of the Soviet Union, Khruschchev granted Ukraine a degree of local semi-autonomy that most Soviet republics (provinces) did not have. But with the breakup of the USSR, Ukraine seceded and became an independent country, which it never had been before.
        The Russian empire began with Kyiv (Kiev), the capital of Kievan Rus. It was much later that St Petersburg, and then Moscow, became the Imperial capitals.
        Tsar Vladimir IV Putin wants to restore the old Russian Empire. Ukraine is resource rich, and is the “breadbasket” of Russia. It is on the Black Sea, an icefree coast. We way over here find it difficult to imagine the importance of Ukrainia to Russia.
        Further, if Russia can obtain hegemony over the countries bordering the Black Sea, it can be made a Russian lake and other navies kept out. This would be an immensely valuable coup for Russia. All shipping to and from Black Sea ports would be under the control of the Kremlin, as would fishing and undersea petroleum reservoirs throughout the seabottom.
        The Kremlin would feel better if Turkey would wirhdraw from NATO. The Turks are very Westernized, with a “Protestant” brand of Islam predominating. This makes Russia nervous. Imagine Canada and Mexico allied with Russia to give you some idea of Russia’s uneasiness.

      39. Gilad Atzmon September 19, 2015 at 8:49 am

        The Ukraine was taken over in an illegal coup d’etat by Zionist JEWISH banksters and their lackeys bolstered by the global media stranglehold they have to determine the consensus reality. The Russians are not the problem, it’s Jewish American Zionists and Rothschild Zionism.

        See JimStoneFreelance.com and his analysis of the plane being shot down by the Ukrainians.

      40. bv April 7, 2015 at 3:27 am

        That sums it up nicely but you forgot to mention that slime George Soros.

      41. Dangerfield August 15, 2015 at 11:53 pm

        “Putin and the boys have got it right over there”

        How did I not know this was a satirical website>?

      42. Shmalkandik April 6, 2016 at 4:46 pm

        Whatever is wrong with the US isn’t anything imitating Putin will fix. However bad our country is, it is paradise compared to the imploding Russia. Outside of oil and arms, they have no economy. Their population is imploding, vodka fueled or not. The ruble has dropped half its value in six months. This is not a model to follow.

    2. Mark Kimmel April 8, 2015 at 12:51 am

      This is not the place for self-pity.

    3. Guest April 13, 2015 at 6:19 pm

      I was also deemed as being unusually attractive growing up, and this can be worse than being ugly if you have no game at all.

      If you’re ugly you don’t get teased or your hopes up or your time wasted.

  4. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 9:51 am

    Roosh
    As I was reading I think there are a few more things that should be discussed/discovered by you in future works-
    All the ways modern Western women have betrayed/rejected/compromised their feminine natures.

    A book or article on 87 ways spoiled young American women would get all the leftoid idiots fuming like Don’t Bang Denmark did.

    A book on ways women fail themselves/ their children Or future children and husbands/ the history of women/ and society due to the elites brainwashing would be brilliant. Expose the mans lies and show ways to correct it.

    Porn is a creation of the elites because full sperm count young guys are blasting big loads to airbrushed models instead of up a chicks poosy- this is unnatural and population control method like corporate jobs, public schools k-Ph.D., and Ziomedia brainwashing like Sex In The City or 50 Shades of Grey- all toxic bullshjt to destroy a healthy civilization.

    One of your works of fiction that illustrates the inner thoughts/mindset of the bad boy/clown/sociopath and how this person really views himself inside and how he perceives the reality of the nature of women and what this guys thinking while he’s talking to a girl.

    The psychology of why prime fertile women choose clowns/sociopaths during their reproductive prime.

    A breakdown of how the elites game the masses into rejecting traditional values, convince women to ride the carousel and work for their corporations as opposed to procreating and having a family etc with ideas on how individuals can stand up to elites and resist their toxic lies and social control.

    1. elmer April 6, 2015 at 10:08 am

      I agree about porn as a tool for population control. Recently received a book on my mom’s Utah Mormon genealogy. Some of the photos are astounding, a man surrounded by his 14 children. I am tempted to post one in the manosphere with the title : “This is what happens to men with no access to porn.” My mom had 11 siblings. Explains why she was so livid over my having any access to porn magazines back in the day.

  5. YosarriansRight April 6, 2015 at 10:04 am

    “I guess you can say that this is not a good time for normal men to be living in.”
    -Roosh V.

    “In an insane world a sane man must appear insane.”
    – C. William King

    In baseball parlance, you hit that one out of the park Roosh!

    1. Mark Kimmel April 7, 2015 at 10:40 pm

      “We were decent men in an indecent time.”

  6. Petar April 6, 2015 at 10:22 am

    I have been saying since my early teens I was born in the wrong place and era. The discovery of this side of the internet just confirms it.

    This is one of the most beautifully written articles by Roosh. Not only do you have intelligent content, but some exquisite word choice as well.

    Live long and prosper.

    1. gizzard of oz April 8, 2015 at 8:54 pm

      You may have been born in many places and in many eras.

  7. Zelcorpion April 6, 2015 at 10:30 am

    There is another way instead of faking it. I had more less stable parents and upbringing. I strive more or less to even advance spiritually.

    But ever since knowing Game I let go of my dark side, my anger more often. It is always controlled and I never do something stupid. Still – knowing that it even helps me with women makes me accept the Dark Side more readily. Most men have that – just go with it gents. It becomes somewhat liberating to embrace it frankly:

    1. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:54 am

      …that picture is meant to say you prefer orgies where the number of men is higher than the number of women (5 men x 3 women there)? I don’t get it lol.

  8. TRW April 6, 2015 at 10:46 am

    On a side note, here’s a good quote by Karl Denninger (market-ticker.org)

    “Resolution requires that we, as ordinary Americans, evict the
    “Social Justice” people from our lives and economic decisions. Being
    one of “those folks” is not a protected class and thus there is utterly nothing unlawful about shunning them in all respects.”

  9. rhasa1 April 6, 2015 at 10:47 am

    you da man.
    the sad state of affairs being what it is, and the government having become the surrogate husband/father, it is a time of sink or swim.

    hopeless betas will take the burden and some will go on a killing spree, taking out innocents with them.
    those in the know will enjoy the benefits.
    the only thing the alpha male cannot enjoy from this day on is a stable unified family life.

    then again, why would you want to be wed to a woman who won’t want to fuck you after a few years, anyway?

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:26 pm

      Are a lot of alphas sociopaths?

      1. Chris April 10, 2015 at 8:21 am

        Alpha is relative. What was alpha in 2008 actually is different than what is alpha now in 2015, just 7 years later.

        men are constantly falling in and out of being the most desirable to women.

      2. rhasa1 April 13, 2015 at 9:33 am

        alphas are not sociopaths.
        alphas (2015 versions, as the man said) have no need to go on a killing spree.
        it is the castrated betas who cannot find vaginas to bang that kill, out of frustration and feelings of belittlement

      3. Cedric Roggins April 13, 2015 at 5:38 pm

        Alpha and beta is evolutionary Darwin bullshit. If everyone had a Glock and was out to kick some ass in a shtf or teotwawki or apocalypse scenario swatting 500 lbs and banging 20 bar fly cheesy pussys in a year ain’t alpha- straight up killers would be alpha regardless of age, height, weight- a 60 year old Chinese man could be cock diesel in an environment like that arrogant clown and. Chill out with your Louis Farrakhan sounding labeling bull shit and Read a book- a sociopath is a liar or conman not a mass murdered.

        10 year old boys have the motor skills and intelligence to hose down crowds with an AK-47- nothing alpha about mass murdering unarmed civilians with battle rifles as that’d be sadistic terrorism at best.

      4. rhasa1 April 14, 2015 at 10:51 am

        Yes, it is not the alphas that murder, but the frustrated and marginalized betas.
        Read my f’king post before you pound your keyboard with drivel

      5. Cedric Roggins April 14, 2015 at 6:17 pm

        Bro science bs.’go play with some Chinese dudes and see about that bro science crap and its viability on the street.

      6. rhasa1 April 19, 2015 at 5:44 pm

        apparently you are the one with the experience in playing with dudes. spare me your insufferable “teaching”, you demagogue

      7. Cedric Roggins April 21, 2015 at 12:16 am

        You couldn’t write anything more intelligent than bogus homo innuendo?

        These comment sections are useless.

      8. rhasa1 April 21, 2015 at 5:10 pm

        no more useless than your rantings, which are full of conflict and devoid of a point

    2. GRock April 7, 2015 at 2:57 am

      A kid I graduated from high school with did exactly that, went on a killing spree. Took out his ex he had a kid with and her sister or mom, while the third was shot but didn’t die.

      The military trained him, he split for VA and the feds caught up to him in a cabin in the woods where he killed himself.

      1. rhasa1 April 13, 2015 at 9:36 am

        they should make PUA/Alpha Male training mandatory everytime they train a guy to kill, so he does not take out the frustration of his sexlessness on innocents

    3. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:58 am

      But don’t women aaalways want to fuck alphalfa men, even after years of marriage? Alpha males are only good for that anyways.

  10. Skoll April 6, 2015 at 11:26 am

    Being damaged is obviously not enough if you consider what happened to Elliott Rodger. The basic formula is: dark triad + clown game. I myself need to work A LOT more on my clown game. Girls say I’m too quiet and serious because I don’t go on blabbering like a moron.

    1. Conrad Stonebanks April 6, 2015 at 11:53 am

      I’m not too familiar with the Elliot Rodger case, but if I have to guess on some of the reasons he didn’t appear on girls’ radar:

      – Lack of indicators of pre-selection (goes about alone, is never seen with other women or with friends, no social circle)

      – His inability to reach their (contemporary girls) stimulus-response threshold as they have been conditioned to optimally -or even solely- respond to supernormal stimuli (think dark triad characteristics, acting like a clown, large amount of muscle mass, etc.). In other words: he couldn’t compete in the modern mating game.

      – He exhibited odd behavior, due to social inexperience, lack of understanding of social cues, of the unwritten rules of normal social interaction, or simply due to some mental disorder.

      1. Lee April 6, 2015 at 1:13 pm

        He just needed an occasional escort and a gym membership.

      2. Aaron April 6, 2015 at 2:47 pm

        Elliot Roger didn’t get girls because he was a bitch. He looked like a bitch and acted like a bitch. His “manifesto” is full of ramblings of him crying and being disappointed that women are not approaching him. He was a straight male with not enough manhood. As Roosh said, only Game and RedPill could have saved him, both which he adamantly rejected.

      3. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:24 pm

        He was short and Asian. Santa Barbara’s full of tall muscular all American white guys. Guys who make you think the whole country isn’t in decline (until you go into an inland Walmart then you say uh yeah it is in rapid decline). I could find a cast to a Beverly Hills 90210 type of show in 5-10 minutes walking around SB man- people look good there.

      4. Chris April 10, 2015 at 8:25 am

        Here’s the thing – game and success with game really only builds your testosterone a near negligible amount.

        He was feminized in his blood. It’s a societal problem that many guys have extremely low T.

        He would have benefited from a cycle of steroids just as much as he would from learning game. You can teach a man top-tier game but it won’t change the fact that his hormone profile can be barely described as a man.

        We can expect to see more cases like this in the future; the elites have killed off the testosterone of the millennial male.

      5. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:22 pm

        Eliot Rodger killed innocent people. He’s not a hero. Maybe horrific events like this are a sign America needs something for sexually frustrated men who feel they’ve failed at life.

        He was a kid in it of pain who never found solutions to his frustrations so he loaded up some guns and murdered innocent unarmed people. I don’t think prostitutions good at all but it would’ve been a better alternative than him going off on innocent people like that.

      6. Clark Kent April 6, 2015 at 9:11 pm

        VR Porn and talking Fleshlights.

      7. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 5:26 am

        Anyone can pay prostitutes, he could have easily payed one if he wanted. But he wanted willing women who would actually feel attracted to him and in the end also love him. he wanted a girlfriend. A hot blond super model… yeah.

        America needs to teach men they don’t have to be “sexually sucessful” to win at life, that their value isn’t based on that. That women are much more than their looks, that women aren’t blind and, if so, that it’s much easier if they would just stop with the bullshit about wanting a “hot” woman when you are a flabby/fat hairy dude with a fucked up face.

    2. Rafael April 6, 2015 at 7:50 pm

      Elliot Rodgers became damaged because he refused to learn game or accept the fact women didn’t like him despite him being a nice guy who put them on a pedestal. You’re exactly right about dark triad + clown game being what Western women are attracted too. Being a clown is my weakness too, I often get told I’m too quiet or serious but I have a natural emotional aloofness which serves me well.

      1. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 5:29 am

        He wasn’t nice at all, actually. He was a racist, a “victim”, weird, emotionally damaged. He was also not that attractive.

      2. Rafael April 27, 2015 at 6:18 am

        By nice I mean in his mind he believed how he treated girls was nice (before the rampage). He was definitely a weird emotionally damaged person.

      3. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 9:29 am

        Got you, I though you meant he was indeed nice and all that.

  11. Big Jim April 6, 2015 at 11:37 am

    Maybe those men aren’t the damaged ones; in fact if women instinctively prefer them that kind of implies that they are more fit from an evolutionary perspective. Maybe its al these weak betas desperate to learn game that have been damaged by their coddled upbringing and “civilized” lives.

    1. Gary April 6, 2015 at 11:42 pm

      exactly. the average guy is too pussy.

      my mom didnt love me so I had to look out for myself at a young age. i feel like an old man at 18.

    2. Cedric Roggins April 7, 2015 at 1:05 am

      The system needs compliant sheep to till the fields for the wolfs on Wall Street and on K Street. If you had a colonial era population full of bushcraft, high t rifle rotting barbarians like the revolutionary war you couldn’t have pinko commie fag international socialism. The masses are oppressed to serve the system and this beta behavior is a byproduct of that oppression. Conversely, if you’re a psycho alpha you might not have long longevity due to the high risks.
      Bottom line- big Jew finance socialism/corporatism is everyone’s chief oppressor. The tv brainwashing has damaged men and women equally as have the “schools”- it’s all served its purpose to enslave in a global fiat bank world order aka NWO.

      1. CSM-800 April 7, 2015 at 7:32 am

        But the higher-ups still breed, don’t they? How do they preserve the smarts and cunning necessary to keep the ship going (and not just the bloodlines) if present-day females actively shun the kinds of males that carry the characteristics necessary for preserving such a nomenklatura as potential sexual partners and mates? Arranged marriages? Partnerships of convenience? Some select ‘on the side’ action to keep the genes fresh? How is it done?

        The sheeple may be compliant and lazy, but (functional) people are still not that dumb generally speaking, and they begin to take rightful offense when the thought control mechanisms used to keep them in check begin approaching insultingly absurd levels of simplicity and gullibility. I mean, how blatant can you get? I believe the elite may have overshot this one, as judged by the latest reactions to the ‘he for she’ and ‘it’s on us’ campaigns, as only two examples amongst many of people finally speaking out against such cheap Agitprop being shoved down their throats.

        Or perhaps I am wrong and the mass of compliant drones really is large enough to drown out the voice of reason, even if this voice gets progressively larger and larger as we speak. And then people wonder how the various past crimes against humanity were ‘allowed’ to happen in the first place FFS.

      2. Cedric Roggins April 7, 2015 at 8:48 pm

        Some of those conspiracy theory blogs like rense.com think a military coup will happen that’s why Obama fired all those generals because the Goldman Sachs bastards Obama works for are scared of that very thing. Pitons another wildcard- if the Illuminati Jew money creeps keep using the American system to harass him he could go off man. Those whole thing is sick and it’s the Rothschilds (top Illuminati family and controllers of world finance) fault according to many.

    3. Coach June 17, 2015 at 11:17 am

      In true evolutionary times… yes… women would pick traits that are more fit from an evolutionary perspective. We don’t live in those times anymore. A woman is provided for by the state regardless of her choice in mate… so she can afford to be hedonistic in her choices vs. pragmatic. Evolutionary fitness and selection are based on pragmatism… innate hedonistic desires yes but they subconsciously stem from a pragmatic place. Today that measure has been removed… so women just sex whoever gets their vaj wet. We’ve removed the concept of evolution from sex. It’s all recreation anymore… never about procreation. At least for women….

  12. Scott April 6, 2015 at 11:42 am

    Roosh,

    I came to such realization years ago about women. That is why I have hobbies and personal goals outside of just chasing pussy. Once a man is past 45 like myself your sex drive drops and you want other things in life. Building a business, travel, learning languages, mad skills like aviation and scuba diving are more rewarding to me than a vagina. At least women in Russia and Brazil are still somewhat decent for dating and I’m glad that I’ve been learning thes languages.

    1. TJ April 6, 2015 at 12:31 pm

      Agreed. I also think that “game” shifts when you are in that age bracket. You have enough social clout that you don’t need to play clown game. If some PYT pulls some shit, you just give her an amused look like “that’s cute” and let her pout it out.

    2. Anon. April 6, 2015 at 2:00 pm

      I disagree completely with Brazil. Full-swing carousel nation.

      1. Bearded Bear April 6, 2015 at 5:21 pm

        As a Brazilian, I second that.

      2. Cedric Roggins April 13, 2015 at 5:49 pm

        Brazil’s really ghetto right? Like Crack heads and gangsters with AKs everywhere

      3. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 9:32 am

        Kinda lol. Many great cosmopolitan places, too.

      4. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:17 pm

        Brown ghetto booties and favelas full of M16s- that’s 5 star living right there.

    3. bucky April 6, 2015 at 9:43 pm

      learning russian and portuguese fulfilling in and of itself. if it helps with the ladies, all the better.

    4. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 7:26 am

      I hope you are right. I am 38 and still crave the (young) vagina, although I wish it was not so.

      1. Rudolf von Urban April 9, 2015 at 11:48 am

        It’s true, I’m nearly 45 and now I have a natural tendency to behave as if I have abundance. I’m in good health and very active so my physique is not typical of a 44 yo. I could get lots of young girls if I really wanted but the desire is not so strong any more.

        Don’t despair, the 40s are the golden years but it depending on the person they could also be the beginning of a sharp descend.

  13. Andrea April 6, 2015 at 11:54 am

    Roosh,
    What do you think about writing a piece about how the real Roosh would treat his woman if he lived in a world where women were attracted to men who were always themselves. It would be fascinating to hear about the man in love without game. I heard men invented romance. How would you show love to your ideal woman without fear of her leaving you?

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:13 pm

      You’re the girl in Germany with the older lover right?
      I’ll translate your post to what you really want to say-
      Roosh your blog makes me tingle. Please contact me. I look pretty good. Tell me in a new blog entry how you would fall in love with me and act if you had never been rejected, humiliated, or wronged by women in your lifespan.

      I’ll translate my post-
      Guy who lives in a boring place and should get back to work instead of wanting to play female translator aka saying what a woman really means as opposed to what she says on the surface.

      1. Andrea April 6, 2015 at 6:30 pm

        Actually your witty comment has the potential to make women tingle. Good for you. Now that you mention it, I would want Roosh to contact me regarding the possibility of me writing for his RoK blog. Although I find Roosh attractive, I would never hit on him because he doesn’t like older women.

      2. Anon. April 7, 2015 at 5:35 am

        Women don’t write on ROK.

        You think that by asslicking through comments an exception will be made for a complete stranger on the internet?

      3. Andrea April 7, 2015 at 8:09 am

        Thanks for the insight. Obviously I know he currently doesn’t have any women writers and also know that red pill men 1. Don’t care about what women have to say and 2. Don’t think women can write worth a damn. But I’ve been reading his blogs and I humbly think I might be a good addition to his intelligent, down to earth, and pragmatic readership. If not, I’m thinking about starting my own blog. Lastly, I hardly think that sharing my views here has been ass kissing. I honestly enjoy his work. He cracks me up, opens my eyes, and awakens my empathetic self with his words.

      4. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 7:24 am

        How old are you? You are aware that he considers women 26+ to be “old”? Which is hardly what the average man considers old.

      5. Andrea April 7, 2015 at 8:11 am

        Yes I know. Thus I’m almost a granny by his standards. I’m 34.

      6. Jannik Thorsen April 8, 2015 at 6:32 am

        I am 38, so I must be almost fossilized by his standards. Roosh himself should therefore be heading towards granny age quite soon.

      7. BlackKnight July 20, 2016 at 3:23 am

        The day your publish your first article will be the day I stop coming to this blog.

  14. Tom Dane April 6, 2015 at 12:06 pm

    it’s funny though. Here in Denmark you suddenly see so many of those 20-24 years old couples pushing a pram around, and the man is a typical beta provider. Often hipster with no muscletone at all. I’m starting to think that there is hope for Denmark after all. Social Security has been greatly reduced last couple of years perhaps that has something to do with it.

    1. Roosh_V April 6, 2015 at 12:29 pm

      “Here in Denmark you suddenly see so many of those 20-24 years old couples pushing a pram around”

      Are there statistics to support that observation? Even in New York City you can often see young mothers with kids, but the stats don’t show a resurgence in them reproducing.

      1. Tom Dane April 6, 2015 at 2:02 pm

        Well every couple needs at least 2-3 kids for the birthrate not to drop on the statistics. Having 3 kids is an enormous job here in Denmark if both man and woman work. So I think most are happy with having 1-2, except the Muslim population. But the couples are getting younger, from what I can see.

      2. Petar April 6, 2015 at 2:31 pm

        I wouldn’t get too happy and full of hope in your place. It’s more probable that the carousel is ending (thus, beginning too) at a younger age and much more realistic that the young couples you talk about will just evaporate within months. Don’t get too weirded out, you know that the neoliberal hypersexualization is getting out of hand (since at least a decade ago).

        You make it sound like a revolutionary utopia, 2013 they’re the biggest sluts on the continent, next year they are loving houseviwes.

        I live in Norway but am croatian, I feel like Hulk Hogan on a brony convention, so I guess I know what I’m talking about since I know several (ex) couples that seemed perfect and everlasting with their babies, dogs and newly acquired mortgages just to witness it all collapse like Building 7 within 2-4 years.

      3. Tom Dane April 6, 2015 at 3:36 pm

        Just saying what im observing.I cant go to all of these couples and ask them how it all works out or if the woman was a major carousel rider. In general I think that the new generation has more resistance, or perhaps indifference, to feminism. The “sex and the city” generation, and the generation after, is probably lost. But time will tell.

      4. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 7:20 am

        The reproductive rate is 2.1 child per female. And there is no tendency towards younger first births, its pushing towards 30 years in many Northwestern European countries.
        Your casual observations are hardly accurate.

      5. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 7:15 am

        And neither do the stats support your claim that Scandinavian girls are particularly fat. Anecdotal evidence based on casual observation should be taken with a grain of salt.

    2. As seen on screen April 6, 2015 at 1:33 pm

      Same in Holland.Most of girl I know have bought a house with a boyfriend by the age of 25,and are very conservative (no more thn 2-3 boyfriends in a lifetime) and tend to have kids by 27-30 max.I know only one dutch girl who falls under the description of above and she is a..feminist (duh) and…lives in New York lol.
      The rant is hardly applicable to most of north western european countries.Very applicable to the UK though.Also,Spain,strangely enough.

      1. As seen on screen April 6, 2015 at 5:25 pm

        Agree 100%.His views of women I know well suggest he is scoungering the lower end of the spectrum.

      1. Tom Dane April 7, 2015 at 6:10 am

        I know. Im not saying it suddenly dropped to 18, like Burkino Faso or something.

    3. Zelcorpion April 7, 2015 at 12:13 pm

      I severely doubt it. Immigrants have children younger – some of those immigrants are from EE. 50-100.000+ young Polish women have for example kids early in the UK – something which they would not have in Poland, because social security and child support is strong enough there in comparison to their homeland.
      Non EU-women will have an even greater incentive to get pregnant fast. I don’t see the young generation settling down faster anywhere in the West. But one thing is clear – lowering of state help & social security will make women settle down earlier. However – how long those bonds last is hard to tell. After divorce such women usually have more money than before.

  15. CanuckDuck April 6, 2015 at 12:09 pm

    This is brutally honest and true.

    I wish it wasn’t though, as I too once wanted a loving relationship with a young lady, only to have her run off with a Harley McBadboy. I just wish Roosh would have been around 20 years earlier.

    1. Clark Kent April 6, 2015 at 5:58 pm

      Thing is man, I was the Harley McBadboy in my relationships, and they still chase every tingle they feel.
      Doesn’t matter if you’re beta or alpha, as soon as their is a bump in the road, she is gone. Pretend to be a psycho all you want, eventually you will start to focus on more mature things, and that is when trouble starts.

      1. Conrad Stonebanks April 6, 2015 at 6:39 pm

        They are always on the lookout for the bigger, better deal. The novelty of unexplored cock. To boldly go where no girl like her has gone before (or so she thinks). A relational “bump in the road” is quickly spun into an opportunity to re-indulge herself on the sexual market place.

      2. CSM-800 April 6, 2015 at 9:54 pm

        Until they invariably overshoot and hit the wall. Happens so predictably now that it is not even painful to watch anymore.

      3. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 10:50 am

        “The novelty of unexplored cock.”
        I think I’m going to write a poem with this title.

      4. The12thUnknownMan April 6, 2015 at 11:06 pm

        The trouble starts with janitors.

        Once the broad sees the “Danger – Slippery When Wet” yellow and black device holding the door to the ladies’ room open, and steps inside anyway, she’ll never be the same.

        Door closes, bent over sink and stall, on knees, what have you.

        Sink and paper towels, no one will ever know, and thus a cock craving ho’ is made, not born.

        How do you think Mr. Clean became so beloved of horny housewives?

        https://anadaday.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/mrcleanprint1.jpg

    1. Windy Wilson September 28, 2016 at 8:37 pm

      Then why do so many mothers, even those who played the modern woman in their twenties seem to want their perfumed prince of a son to exhibit those very traits of agreeableness and humility, not to mention “treating women with respect and as individuals, not sex objects”?

  16. General Stalin April 6, 2015 at 1:15 pm

    Simply put: the last thing your modern young woman wants to do these days is “settle down.” Women have degrees to earn, careers to build, passports to stamp, and a laundry list of exciting and worldly shit to experience so they can look back and feel like they’ve “had it all” and are thoroughly cultured, well-traveled, experienced – and above all else – independent. Therefore, guys who show those kind of “safe” and long-term settle-down-y kind of traits are completely incongruent with what modern women want. Women these days want excitement, adventure, and some danger and drama to go along with it.

    If you want to get laid given the average pool of females – you have to adhere to their common desires. It’s a necessary evil I s’pose

    1. GRock April 7, 2015 at 3:02 am

      After viewing just a dozen Tinder profiles of fuckable women, your claims can be legitimized by simple reading their cues.

    2. Rafael April 7, 2015 at 3:24 am

      Last thing a women wants is a guy who doesn’t give her tingles that’s what it comes down too.

  17. Jonathan Roseland April 6, 2015 at 1:19 pm

    Who else was raised really religious? My parents were very religious but we actually talked about sex a lot. The message I consistently heard was that sex and a happy marriage was the reward a man got for being a virtuous person, working hard, serving his community and god. It was the biggest lie anyone ever told me…

    1. Aaron April 6, 2015 at 3:00 pm

      I was raised in a socially conservative religion. Parents should never teach their sons that sex and love are the same thing. This kept me a virgin throughout high school and the first years of college. I had girls interested in me, but I didn’t “love” them so I never fucked them.

      The biggest lie: thinking that unconditional romantic love exists and that women are capable of such love. I should have fucked those girls since they wanted to be fucked.

  18. Łajka Kosmiczny Pies April 6, 2015 at 1:46 pm

    Women think that their pussy magically heal any emotional wounds that damaged men have. lol

    isn’t it Tylor Swift who sings “I can make bad guys good for a weekend”?

    1. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:51 pm

      You can find plenty of men who think like that, actually. Go to any manosphere bullshit site… some men over there even believe men would kill themselves and commit crimes much less if women would just “be generous” and fuck them lol.

  19. Anon. April 6, 2015 at 1:50 pm

    It’s a classic beta misconception to think that Western women only fuck psychopathic criminals. Think of Scandinavian girls, who will bang pretty much any dude at the end of the night if they were looking for it, even a beta. Not many psychopathic criminals in Sweden either. Swedish men are the opposite of masculine and they still get laid, usually with the girls escalating on THEM.

    It’s also a mistake to think that it’s Western culture that creates attraction to dark triad traits. Alpha males are dark triad in the state of nature, that is biology. It’s actually Western socialization for men to want to treat women nicely, it’s not the natural state in the slightest. Many should think of how they treat their little sisters, there is no impulse to treat her “nice”, usually as kids your natural state is treat your little sister like shit and take the piss like crazy. A man who is truly comfortable with women and hasn’t been destroyed by feminine socialization should actually ENJOY taking the piss out of women, and generally being aloof. An alpha in the state of nature has a harem of girls, he has no DESIRE to be overly affectionate with a particular girl. Try masturbating before a date, you get that feeling many men get after sex of “get the fuck off of me”. THAT is the natural alpha state.

    You DON’T have to behave like an utter psychopath because that is actually counter-productive. You do need the alpha traits, every woman universally wants an alpha male who behaves as if he has abundance, but being alpha is just one component of game. There are some times when it pays to do something that wouldn’t be traditionally “alpha”, there is such a thing as being too alpha.

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:07 pm

      Americas toxins have caused emotional warping- it’s not rocket science.

    2. Anon2 April 6, 2015 at 11:13 pm

      Give this man an award! A+

    3. TyskKille April 7, 2015 at 2:56 am

      I cannot confirm this to be the case for Sweden. Which Scandinavian country are you referring to?

    4. Rudolf von Urban April 9, 2015 at 11:23 am

      Outstanding! A ++

    5. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:59 pm

      Alpha males are usually degenerates. Even in nature many times they get killed by their own groups. They treat females, males and the young ones like shit.
      You’re wrong. In general, it’s a rule for males in nature to try to please females and treat them nicely, even more when they want to copulate with them. Most males are just fine and know how to behave.
      Not all species live in groups nor most species that do will have an exclusive “alpha” who keeps a “harem”, why spreading so much bullshit? Females need many “ideal” males so they can copulate and have any oofspring from a different ideal male existent, for better genetical abundance.

      1. kn83 September 7, 2016 at 6:37 pm

        Keep telling yourself that. Every anon. said was biologically accurate, don’t believe him then explain why prisoners have twice the fertility rate of normal men. Explain why sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissist bang more girls than nice guys in ALL cultures. Explain why only 4% of the animal kingdom practice any form of monogamy with none being exclusive. Explain why males in all species with higher androgen levels score more women than males with lower levels (East Asian men being the prime example in humanity.)

  20. Tom Dane April 6, 2015 at 1:53 pm

    Very good stuff. Best of Roosh !

  21. Slobodan April 6, 2015 at 2:07 pm

    enough real to me. Have a good day gentlemens 🙂

  22. TyKo Steamboat April 6, 2015 at 3:11 pm

    Do you like Phil Collins?

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:06 pm

      If I need something full of cheesy synths and retro pop loops he’s my go to guy.

      He’s done well for a high school drop out.

      1. TyKo Steamboat April 6, 2015 at 6:25 pm

        I’ve been a big Genesis fan ever since the release of their 1980 album, Duke. Before that, I really didn’t understand any of their work. Too artsy, too intellectual. It was on Duke where Phil Collins’ presence became more apparent. I think Invisible Touch was the group’s undisputed masterpiece. It’s an epic meditation on intangibility. At the same time, it deepens and enriches the meaning of the preceding three albums. Listen to the brilliant ensemble playing of Banks, Collins and Rutherford. You can practically hear every nuance of every instrument. In terms of lyrical craftsmanship, the sheer songwriting, this album hits a new peak of professionalism. Sabrina, why don’t you, uh, dance a little. Take the lyrics to Land of Confusion. In this song, Phil Collins addresses the problems of abusive political authority. In Too Deep is the most moving pop song of the 1980s, about monogamy and commitment. The song is extremely uplifting. Their lyrics are as positive and affirmative as anything I’ve heard in rock. Phil Collins’ solo career seems to be more commercial and therefore more satisfying, in a narrower way. Especially songs like In the Air Tonight and Against All Odds.But I also think Phil Collins works best within the confines of the group, than as a solo artist, and I stress the word artist. Sussudio, a great, great song, a personal favorite.

      2. Boagrius April 6, 2015 at 6:26 pm

        HAHA.
        Christy, take of your robe.

      3. Chips In Salsa April 6, 2015 at 6:28 pm

        Sabrina, don’t just stare at it, eat it!!!!

      4. Mark Kimmel April 6, 2015 at 8:29 pm

        I have to return some videotapes.

      5. gizzard of oz April 8, 2015 at 9:23 pm

        AS is considered to be an outstanding critique of consumerism, yet it’s also post-modernism whose author is sexually ambiguous, to say the least. A cultural Marxist victory, or a red-pill forerunner?

  23. armenia4ever April 6, 2015 at 3:14 pm

    ” I want you to feel sorry for me that I have to pretend I’m not interested in a girl even if I actually am, that I must take my time responding to a girl’s text message when I’m eager to talk to her, and that I’m forbidden to compliment her during the most intimate moments we experience in bed. All of that goes against my natural instinct.”

    This is exactly where I am at and I hate it.

    1. Lone Wolf April 6, 2015 at 11:13 pm

      Stop chasing low value western women and your problem goes away.

      1. Anonymous age 72 April 8, 2015 at 10:09 am

        True! Nice guys are hot in rural Mexico. Even men of my age get hit on by women in their 20’s/

  24. Jordan April 6, 2015 at 3:35 pm

    This was a good one Roosh…..

  25. MrBiIIGoode . April 6, 2015 at 4:19 pm

    This is simiiar to what I’ve told people before. It seems like today if you weren’t raped by your parents or had some other physical or emotional trauma in your life then YOU are the oddball. LOL!

  26. GRock April 6, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    The question lies in; Is it easier to play asshole, or actually be one? It’s a tough act if you’re not. Or is it easier? I’ve always found it more difficult, with my job for instance, to half ass something rather than do it right the first time. Once you find out the “doing it right” with women just means being a apathetic doofus with a few witty moments, followed by aggressive wargasm sex, life gets a lot easier.

    Ironically, the most “natural” players I know are kind of dumb, don’t pay attention to detail of shit they do, half-ass many things throughout life, happy go luckily stumble along, and seem to have the world land in their lap. It really is a clown act.

    We should quit worrying about loving women right, it’s more about the ways disregard them, even hate them that counts in their dramatic minds.

  27. MajorStyles April 6, 2015 at 4:39 pm

    This story, from 1996, is an appropriate piggy back.

    Dorren Lioy, who married serial killer Richard Ramirez in prison. In her own words, “I saw something that captivated me.” Lioy stated the her reasons for loving Ramirez were “inexplicable, even to me.”

    And this is why the Manosphere exists – to explain basic human concepts to the educated elite, the tone deaf media, and to modern womyn who are ignorant about their own nature.

    http://articles.latimes.com/1996-10-03/news/ls-49781_1_richard-ramirez

  28. Eric Lauder April 6, 2015 at 4:54 pm

    I think that’s absolutely true. In an Italian forum (I’m Italian), talking about DV, I described the abusive behavior of my ex-lover, a richer and older woman: I cohabited with her when I lived in Sweden, in my 20s (now I’m 42 yo). Then I described the fact I really enjoy to live alone (even if I have two unserious relationships). Now, due that, a 23 yo girl is stalking me: she wants meet me. The girl is even beautiful, but it seems the kind who is ready to throw false accusations, also she lives 400 kms from me.
    Suggestions and thoughts, Roosh?

    1. Aaron April 6, 2015 at 7:39 pm

      Don’t stick your dick in crazy.

      1. Eric Lauder April 7, 2015 at 2:47 am

        Meaning? I should avoid the girl? Funny thing is: there are three messages by her exactly now, sent this night. I admit I’m confused: I have unserious relationships with a 36 yo postal clerk and a 47 yo dentist, both good look (especially the first) for their age, but that girl is quite another thing…last time I fucked a girl so (and even better) it was before my marriage and…well, also during first years of marriage (my ex-wife and some girls before her I mean – others were not so beautiful). On the other hand there’s a clear risk involved, and also the old player I was twenty years ago is screaming in my head: “800 kms just only to fuck a girl? Ludicrous! That would be really humiliating!” .

      2. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 7:02 am

        Make the girl come to you, not the other way around. If you travel 800 kms for a fuck, you are the one doing the chasing.

  29. John April 6, 2015 at 5:21 pm

    Come on, this is so bogus and over the top and reads like another set of convenient excuses for not being where you’d like to be with women. Obviously you need to come from abundance and not get overly invested too early, but having some abusive shtick is only going to be optimal on a subset of damaged women.

    1. Cedric Roggins April 6, 2015 at 6:05 pm

      Who’s out riding the carosel at cheesy bars and clubs- healthy balanced individuals?

      1. John April 6, 2015 at 6:28 pm

        Roosh is claiming you need to be that way to be “sexually successful.” Just because the “bad boys” happen to have some good qualities, like being non-needy and hard to pin down, it doesn’t at all follow that you should also take on the more extreme traits of a damaged pscyho, including abusiveness. Conversely, just because most nice guys are also needy bitches, it doesn’t at all follow that being nice in itself is a game killer.

      2. zphyer6 April 6, 2015 at 6:42 pm

        This^

        Roosh has been exceedingly over dramatic and bitter in his posts recently (probably because that’s what gets views from whiny manosphere guys). Do girls want a little excitement and dominance from their men these days? Of course they do, and they always have. Their just not forced to settle down anymore with a boring beta schlub. Instead of being the boring beta dork, why not work on improving yourself and becoming a dominant man. This doesn’t mean becoming a deadbeat criminal like Roosh is saying. It means becoming a cultivated man and not giving woman too much of your valuable attention.

      3. Clark Kent April 6, 2015 at 9:29 pm

        It’s possible I’m just in a weird scene.
        The deadbeat criminals that I know have a hot new girlfriend pretty much every month.
        Where I am the formula for getting girls seems to be the following.
        Social Dominance + Money + Drugs + Dark-Triad behaviours.
        If you are a criminal you can get all of those.
        I work as a barback in the nightclub scene and I see this every weekend. It’s possible that I need to change my environment, and that is what I’m working towards.
        But to say that women are not sexually excited by psychopathy in males contradicts my personal experience. Published scientific research supports this observation.

      4. CSM-800 April 6, 2015 at 10:15 pm

        Where you at? Around here they go more for the simpy yet still somehow professionally functional doofus, and carefully avoid any semblance or glimpse of natural wholesome masculinity like the plague. You can literally see the dysgenics in action. If it were not for make-work jobs and the welfare state in general, these people would simply not survive the next drop in ambient temperature beyond what the human body can normally tolerate.

      5. Clark Kent April 6, 2015 at 10:38 pm

        lol
        I’m in North York Toronto but I work downtown.
        It depends on the area you’re right… In the Annex area girls tend to gravitate towards skinny fat feminist betas who have drugs.
        In the clubbing area and sketchy parts of the city girls go for criminal drug dealer types. If you can DJ though that might work for you.
        And other than that it is a mix-up because of how multi-cultural the city is, but more or less first-gen immigrants stick within their clans. I do occasionally see Asians with white-guys though.
        I’ve stopped dating natives here and exclusively spend my time on international students and girls who just moved into the city. I prefer more down to Earth kinds of girls… or sporty intelligent girls…
        I’ve just had bad ROI with Toronto girls. If they’re friendly and datable there is always something fucked up about them that I’ll find out later.

      6. Jannik Thorsen April 7, 2015 at 6:59 am

        Drugs seem to be the common denominator. The girl will stick around if the guy has valuable resources.

      7. Clark Kent April 7, 2015 at 8:14 am

        Where women have everything they need and men are just clowns I’d say it comes down to things like that.

      8. John April 7, 2015 at 6:19 pm

        Get ouutta here. There aren’t hundreds of thousands of drug dealers in Toronto cool enough to bang all of the hot girls. And as far as the fat or successful dealers you can’t rule out it being an escort of some sort of financial arrangement. As a dealer you are inherently popular with a large social group so it’s a confounding variable to their success that you’re clearly not giving enough credit to. The finance or tech nerd who works with a bunch of men might make just as much but doesn’t have the same access and probably not enough time to get social status somewhere else.

        A lot of the cool down to earth single women in western cities can rely on social groups to meet quality men and don’t need to do the public singles scene. Once that happens it starts to devolve into a loser sausage fest as quality men also give up on it, making it even less appealing to quality women (has definitely happened to some degree in Montreal). From what I hear Toronto isn’t an exception.

      9. Clark Kent April 7, 2015 at 6:47 pm

        Your analysis is correct.
        Of course not every guy with a girl is a drug dealer. The social environment is as you describe it, you need to become part of a social clique.
        As I said somewhere on this thread, being a drug dealer gives you the appropriate mix of traits to be attractive to women. It is not only the appeal to getting high, but the kind of drama that orbits around that lifestyle.
        I knew a dealer who was murdered in TDot 3 years ago and his girlfriend moved onto his best friend a week later. No one questioned it. Everyone made a spectacle out of it, but is there any encouragement to live a healthier lifestyle? Are you joking? That is the highest quality drama there is.

      10. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 3:19 pm

        “As I said somewhere on this thread, being a drug dealer gives you the appropriate mix of traits to be attractive to women.”
        Most women aren’t criminals, and so they won’t be attracted to and won’t get close to criminals; a drug dealer won’t be necessarily handsome and socially smart; most women don’t do drugs, so their drugs are pointless.

        For real, guys aroung here must live in hell, be criminals themselves, or are just too stupid/emotionally retarded and see only what they want to see.

      11. GRock April 7, 2015 at 3:17 am

        Here’s my theory on the pro functional dufus. While I can’t easily imitate his retarded ways, I’ll usually out wit him, have a physique that’s competitive, and probably out fuck him in the bedroom… because well, he’s a dufus after all. A dumb bitch will obsess over a dumb guy, it’s a natural pair bond. But a smart guy with many of the dark-triad qualities the dufus has, and the ability to adjust them at will, unlike the dufus whose unequipped, has a competitive advantage. Exploit that until you increase your quality of women to your desire. One thing I most definitely don’t do, is fear the competition in any way. Rather, I chuckle now.

      12. CSM-800 April 7, 2015 at 7:02 am

        In theory you should be correct. In practice, however, the females here also avoid any guy who becomes a bit too smart or perceptive for his own good. It’s not just a matter of combining dark triad qualities with smarts and a decent physique. It actually boils down to (female) control, pure and simple.

        Whether a drug dealer or a successful professional, the ultimate litmus test seems to invariably involve checking off the final criterion of (reasonably) easy control and manipulation over the male mate. I could accept this and even appreciate it if the ‘game’ was played at a rather high level of seduction and sophistication, but nooooo. They demand nothing less than submission to literal canine-training levels of behavior modification. I mean, Pavlovian reflexes as the grounds for a ‘relationship’? Really?

        It would be greatly amusing if it were not simultaneously so insulting and down-putting to any minimally sophisticated and self-respecting guy. And the worst part of it all is that, if you ‘fail’ the so-called test, your punishment consists in complete banishment from the sexual marketplace. Female group think, preselection, and the herd mentality pretty much guarantee it. And that goes for average AND smart girls alike.

        I swear any culture that actively encourages and supports pair bonding amongst the (non-wimpy) smartest and brightest is going to replace this ‘civiliation’ within a generation by way of sheer wit, cunning, and productivity alone. Can’t keep the old guard in place forever once your brutish pack mule descendants become outflanked and outmaneuvered by the new Spartans.

        Can’t wait to see it happen.

      13. John April 7, 2015 at 6:04 pm

        In the words of triumph, you sound like a super bionic nerd, made up of parts from lesser nerds. You also don’t know what you’re talking about. Poor dumb couples massively outnumber the “witty” educated couples and they have far more children then successful professionals, so your theory about intelligent people taking over in numbers is comically misinformed.

      14. CSM-800 April 8, 2015 at 6:33 am

        My preliminary observations regarding pair bonding based largely on a male’s controllability by the female are quite correct as far as I can tell. You must be either wilfully blind, still young, or a closet mangina not to see it. I attach no value judgment to this phenomenon (outside some understandable frustration), as it simply is the way our species evolved.
        That said, you may be right in your assessment of “poor dumb couples massively outnumbering the “witty” educated couples” and outbreeding them overall. Depends on where you live and what you see around you. Here it is not so bad (yet), but the winds are definitely blowing in the steady direction of idiocracyville for the native population at least. The freshly minted immigrants from more robust and mature cultures: not so much. They will inherit the earth, with the leftist progressives taking on the eventual role of Morlocks (with lesser Morlocks bred to protect the new Eloi from serving as food this time around).

      15. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 3:14 pm

        Maybe these women are mostly all criminals and/or psychopathic as well? You know how psychopathic women use to act… they many time choose a man who will do most of the dirty work for them and just stay behind the curtains.

      16. Clark Kent April 27, 2015 at 8:52 pm

        I’d bet money that guys who sell drugs or are DJs have a higher notch count on average than normal hard working Joes.
        The women where I live are so coddled that the only men that stand out are dudes who have their own gangs and setups. Some of these guys do burn out rather quickly… but chicks where I live love getting high…
        You should go to small town Manitoba if you want to see some really grungy shit.

      17. SUPRA luca April 29, 2015 at 9:48 pm

        … I don’t think I should go there… but it sounds just horrible.

      18. Rafael April 6, 2015 at 11:14 pm

        There is a middle ground between being a boring beta schlub or being a deadbeat criminal or anti-social psycho but I guarantee the criminal or pyscho gets laid more than the the beta schclub. Plus the media, movies an even most women all brainwash men to believing the caring, nice beta is what women want, when in reality it isn’t. There’s always exceptions but that’s just what they are, exceptions.

      19. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 3:10 pm

        Nope, just like healthy balanced individuals aren’t the ones going after them, either.
        The things is, even if some really damaged women would actually feel drawn to men with abusive behavior, it still doesn’t excuse abusing them. You would think people would be better than just use and abuse someone who is already down, too broken and too confused to see past it all.

  30. John April 6, 2015 at 5:31 pm

    The upper echelon of men serial fucking all the hottest women with the betas on the sidelines isn’t a recent or western phenomenon. Also women being promiscuous isn’t new at all either. Female vaginas have been dumpsters of various men’s semen for hundreds of thousands of years. If all females paired off at a young age with like-value monogamous pairs we would all have little raisin testicles. Instead humans have enormous testicles and sperm evolved for intravaginal warfare.

    1. gizzard of oz April 8, 2015 at 9:34 pm

      Tell us more bed-time science stories!

  31. Clark Kent April 6, 2015 at 5:47 pm

    This article is as good as when I first read your article about all men being clowns.
    You come across as hyper-analytical Roosh, but it seems to me that deep down you are more the artist than the scientist.
    I pray the world doesn’t follow in these footsteps but we’ll just have to see.
    The way it looks, the future is the death of love. Hopefully there is another way.

    1. GRock April 7, 2015 at 3:25 am

      Funny you say “death of love.” The glimpses I see remain is after you’ve been with a girl a while, had to game her till the end, and finally leave her. You get to hear all their rantings about how they felt so deeply for you blah blah blah. Their egos are so emboldened as to not show this aforementioned love until you dump them.

      I often want to ask, but never bother:”How many potentially good mates are you going to justify as unworthy of your false excellence before no more good mates want you bitch?” It used to be entertaining watching all women in the west follow the collective movement of women, now it’s just sad and unfortunate.

      1. Clark Kent April 7, 2015 at 8:28 am

        Because the shit they follow is becoming more and more absurd.
        Seems like they would rather go to the grave having failed at life than have one honest conversation and just fix this mess.

      2. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 3:38 pm

        In most relationship women show their true feelings for their loved ones just fine. I see that everywhere around me, family, friends, etc. The men will also show their love back, of course.

        Men who attract/date damaged, cold and/or obnoxious women are: damaged, cold and/or obnoxious men themselves and/or men who are attracted to some of the other traits a woman like that will have.
        I’ve heard of and know plenty of these guys who are super nice, gentle and devoted, but that ends up going after/being attracted to the most unrestrained, hysterical and obviously twisted type of women. And they do it over and over again and in the end complain and cry that no woman will take them seriously and that they will finish last.
        Many of them will have a down to earth, smart girl interested in them from time to time, but they will just say “pass!” and keep going after the twisted girls… I wonder if many of these guys, deep down, aren’t just scared of commitment.

      3. GRock April 28, 2015 at 2:33 pm

        Did you know that people who say they can spot a liar are the worst ones at correctly guessing whose truthful? The fact is even if you’re a compulsive liar yourself, or trained at spotting a liar, it’s very hard to nail down a good liar and say for certain. So guys end up wasting time, out of scarcity, 1-3-6-12 months or more “learning” if the person is lying or not, rather than acting on behavioral clues and sound circumstantial evidence. It isn’t necessarily a damaged or crazy duality of attraction as you state.

        It’s called getting fuckin hoodwinked, fleeced, snookered. Just like women want macho alpha men, guys want sexy women who aren’t boring and super prude. Occasionally a guy finds a “down to earth, smart girl,” who by chance is a freak in bed, and it’s a win/win. And yes, sexual desire is very important. You know who the shadiest women I’ve met are? Religious (claiming, not in practice) Church Goers, career oriented, graduate degreed. That’s why guys fall for them. They seem to have everything in order, but often turn out to be the worst women available.

        “I wonder if many of these guys, deep down, aren’t just scared of commitment.” << Let's make a deal. We go in business, half of my shit is yours. For no justifiable reason, you can break our deal and take half my shit. Is it really hard to figure out it doesn't take an Einstein brain to prove men are practicing risk aversion here that can save their entire life and all their dreams?

        For what, A woman who dreams of Americanized tropical vacations, purses, shoes, or some hipster "save the planet" SJW cause. Men want balance. That's what life is supposed to be about for both genders. A majority aggregate of women have little balance to offer. There ya have it. Plus, the laws protect this thievery and immoral imbalance practiced by women. More men are starting to look at women as lose/lose.. well except for pussy. And women are looking at literally every man they see as win/win. Why wouldn't they, wtf do they have to lose

  32. Simon Towers April 6, 2015 at 6:51 pm

    Younger women these days prefer older lovers from sugar dating sites like tempted.com and hook up with successful men for mutually beneficial, fuck buddy relationships.

  33. Rafael April 6, 2015 at 7:44 pm

    This is the sad truth of how it is in The West with women. This is a great article by Roosh.

  34. BJ April 6, 2015 at 8:37 pm

    This is a seriously depressing article. Sadly, it is all true for 99% of women, who are only good for being worthless fucktoys. Thanks, feminism!

    1. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 3:40 pm

      Yeah, someone who talks about “99%” of any group of people are not hysterical, immature and in need of some intelect at all.
      I don’t think “99%” of women will even see you as a worthless fucktoy dildo that they could use for a while, so they are still one step ahead.

  35. Ryan Lewis April 6, 2015 at 9:46 pm

    Agree 100%. At the moment i really like a girl but i cant show im too needy because she will lose interest in me.. I send all my txts to her at lunchtime and at long night intervals just to show im ‘busy’

  36. Hamsta April 6, 2015 at 9:59 pm

    Brutal because its true.

  37. Frank Davidson April 7, 2015 at 1:13 am

    This is the best thing Roosh has ever written.

  38. IKC April 7, 2015 at 4:22 am

    Molested repeatedly at ages 6-7 by an older boy, parents divorced, african american/white mixed race with all white school, lots of half siblings, constant bullying and physical abuse in school. Assaulted an officer as a youth, got arrested a few times. Institutionalized 3 times now. Textbook definition of damaged. 0 natural lady skills, became game aware at ~20 and did my best to practice, but virgin until 24 when I met another super damaged individual in our grad math program. She had lived with her parents until age 33 (moved out shortly before we began banging) and had severe schizophrenia and would routinely start crying for no reason in the middle of classes. She hadn’t dated for 11 years prior, most likely a virgin when we met but I don’t know. Relationship lasted about a year, she eventually moved back with her parents ~30 minutes away at age 34 and left me shortly afterword as I was beginning a high paying job. It sucked. 2nd bang was 30 years old, recovering drug addict, and has 5 kids. I still have not had sex with a woman under 30 and my n count is 2 at age 26 now.

    I disagree with this article. Being damaged definitely did not help me one bit in this arena. Didn’t help our boy Elliot Rodger much either. This is actually kind of insensitive to the truly damaged. Maybe you just mean lightly damaged like dad liked to have a few brews every night and missed a few football games?

    plz respond.

    1. IKC April 7, 2015 at 4:32 am

      Also between 20-24 I made ~300 cold approaches, asked for phone number 60 times, got it 48 of those, and went on 8 first dates out of those, so yes I tried my ass off. The times I actually was successful in getting dick wet I did the opposite of what the game wisdom esposes; they were friends initially and it gradually evolved into something sexual.

      The vast majority of the women I asked out were white and American, however of the 8 first dates, 7 were not raised in America (6 east Asians, 1 Costa Rican), so Roosh’s advice on foreign vs American women was on point for me at least.

      1. Cedric Roggins April 13, 2015 at 5:44 pm

        300 approaches should be done in 6’months not 4’years

  39. Graft April 7, 2015 at 5:28 am

    Simply brilliant.

  40. Kizman April 7, 2015 at 5:51 am

    Another classic post from Roosh.

    +1 for this.

  41. Dean April 7, 2015 at 8:09 am

    You’ve got your psychology mixed up I think. Troubled childhood doesn’t automatically give you these “desirable” traits, personality is genetic most of all. Then it matters too what kind of environment you live in, growing up with more brothers as opposed to sisters, makes you more desirable as a rule. But not so much how much trouble and drama you had growing up.

  42. j April 7, 2015 at 8:54 am

    This article is too black and white. Real life has many shades of grey. You must mix bad boy and provider characteristics. Seeking that pure virgin to mate with is just as ridiculous as settling down with a prostitute. There are many girls that want to have a nuclear family. Not being a supplicating beta does not mean you have to be a sociopath. Having an outcome independent mindset is the strength that you need.

  43. just a human April 7, 2015 at 9:05 am

    Strange things happen .. i was thinking about exactly this topic for last couple days,and i wanted to write here in comments and say to some of my friends that, man who has good soul and experienced real love from his parents is not “prepared” to successfully communicate with modern women .. he will met a big frustration and can possibly damage his nerve system and eaven personality…Ideas is flying in the air.. and, it is really serious topic..

  44. My Chair Spins April 7, 2015 at 9:33 am

    While I don’t actually agree with you, I am surprisingly entertained by your posts. I like that you are clever, witty and brave enough to say what I am sure many men have thought but were too scared to ever express. P.S. – While I am not Asian, I do write poetry and aspire to participate in a poetry slam someday. Thanks to your insightful post, I have scheduled an appointment with my doctor to proactively get in front of the crazy that I’m obviously doomed for. =)

  45. Jack Carson April 7, 2015 at 11:00 am

    Bullshit. This only works if you are extroverted and aggressive. Otherwise, you won’t be noticed and often downright avoided. I check most of the boxes you mention, suffer from depression and rage much of the time and yet and highly introverted. I’ve never naturally drawn women.

  46. ExCanadian April 7, 2015 at 3:33 pm

    Y’all good folks fail to understand the main reason WHY North American females might be attracted to all kinds of damaged males.
    You should know that EVERY North American female sees herself as a Beauty Queen, Miss Universe and Miss Intellect in ONE package thus the need to constantly prove this to HERSELF resulting in search for those “damaged” males with NO self esteem, no desire to differ and stand up and be counted who’d never object anything coming from a female!!!
    Just imagine the situation when a North American female gets together with a sporty man with personality, who has OWN thoughts, opinions and visions, who ain’t politically correct, who says what he means, who leads by example and dares to stand up and be counted!! That kind of a male will overshadow the female at any given moment but North American females ain’t used to be in the shadow of a male since THEY ARE Princesses and Miss Intellect/Beauty/Wisdom etc! Thus this kind of a male will NEVER be attractive to them, he’ll be labeled dangerous, politically incorrect, enemy of the state, a loser and called all the possible “names” a female can invent so to say.
    North American women can’t stand competition from a male! They’ll go on and on about how males should get better, work on themselves in all aspects, but at the same time they’ll NEVER apply the same criteria to THEMSELVES!!!! They are flawless and can’t make no mistake thus should be treated as Queens and given everything on a silver platter!
    Males and males only are to blame for all this happening since it’s them who’ve lowered their standards and selection criteria and settled for the lowest of the low in order to get access to that elusive female pussy!!! Even if it’s a pussy of an ugly whale of a woman!
    Wanna change that? Dare to differ, to have an own opinion, to stand up and be counted and to lead by example!!!!
    Better yet: get sporty and educated, learn a trade and a foreign language, save some money and leave North America behind for good! You’ll never regret it or look back!

    1. Cedric Roggins April 13, 2015 at 5:41 pm

      Your comments always make sense man.

  47. Onder Hassan April 7, 2015 at 3:47 pm

    One of the biggest problems in the manosphere is that a lot of the guys who take part in it are coming into it from a place of hurt, insecurity and in the mindset of expecting something from nothing. In other words, you’re expecting success from your current state of being when clearly, the reality is that you must improve yourself in order to improve different aspects of your life.

    It is no different to a fat feminist expecting a rich, socially savvy and good looking man and then fucking the world and the people around her when things aren’t going how she wants.

    Its clear that the less traits you have that define attractive, the more asshole you need to present yourself as a retaliation to women and to make yourself believe that thats what it takes to compensate lack of good external attributes.

    Why not do the opposite and instead, accept the way things currently are and seek to become the best person you can be??

    I’ve noticed that the more i’ve improved myself, the less i’ve had to adopt the asshole attributes Roosh prescribes in his article. There’s really no need to put a girl down in order to make her attracted. Why would you? Would a high value man do that? more importantly, would a high value woman appreciate or respect it? Of course not!

    I would challenge anyone to forget about the goal of fucking women for a few days and instead, focus on spreading value and leaving a positive effect with the people you surround yourself with. Then stop and analyse your results.

    A true high value man doesn’t need to bring people down in order to get what he wants because it will assume that he doesn’t already have it.

    Roosh is correct to a certain level. Damaged men are attractive… To damaged women… Like attracts like… Something to think about.

    1. ExCanadian April 7, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      I tend to disagree somewhat with your thoughts. The general concept is correct but the problem is that ANY female in North America will have a horde of male followers ready and willing to comply with every order she’s giving them and to lower their standards below the threshold just to get that ever elusive access to that ever elusive pussy! And it doesn’t matter if it’s a pussy of an ugly morbidly obese whale of a woman who’ll treat this male like garbage while disrespecting any of his needs or wishes!
      North American society encourages and promotes such a behavioral pattern from a female part since a female can NEVER be at fault no matter what she does or what she says! She’s always right in a society overwhelmed by political correctness, quota hiring, affirmative action and feminism!
      I still say: “Males, get you shit together, man up, get sporty and educated, learn a trade and a foreign language and LEAVE North America FOR GOOD! You’ll never regret this decision!”

      1. Onder Hassan April 7, 2015 at 7:58 pm

        Man you guys must be doing something seriously wrong over there. I’ve yet to meet any seriously fucked up American girls over in London where I live. Maybe i’m just gullible or am naturally good at avoiding the bad ones, but surely it can’t be that bad.

      2. ExCanadian April 8, 2015 at 4:36 am

        Look, in order to get to London a North American female should travel first, and travel Transatlantic. It eliminates a lot of females who’ve never traveled outside of their province or state.
        London is a big city and it’s easy to get lost in it. What are the chances for you to meet a fucked up North American female when you are just walking the streets of London? Slim to none.
        One HAS TO LIVE in North America to fully understand the situation.
        P.S. North American women seem to be a bit more open and less fucked up when traveling abroad, so please take that into consideration as well. But again, one has to understand that North American women are absolutely the worst creatures in the world in their LOCAL surroundings and should be avoided by all means possible!

    2. John April 7, 2015 at 7:00 pm

      My thoughts exactly. It’s pretty lame when Roosh shamelessly panders to the angry low self esteem contingent by implying women are a bunch of worthless skanks who only sleep with the emotionally abusive. I can’t see any other reason to espouse a bitter and gross oversimplification of human psychology as the path to success.

      1. Onder Hassan April 7, 2015 at 7:26 pm

        Exactly. For every bad girl i’ve met, I’ve also met nice girls who didn’t need any game besides a simple ‘hello’. Some would say that maybe she was good to me but bad to others. But I refuse to see it that way for the simple reason that humans aren’t painted in black and white.

        But as much as the manosphere likes to think it knows all the answers. There’s perhaps a bigger picture that often doesn’t get mentioned. And it’s that certain attitudes and behaviours attracts certain people.

        If you think bitchy and bad women are in the majority, than thats exactly what you’ll bring into your reality by learning to act and behave in a certain way in order to attract them whilst naturally rejecting the good girls and not realising you’re doing it. There are loads of them around, just that you’re refusing to focus on them.

        The manosphere hasn’t done good up to now in indoctrinating men on this fact. Yes women are sexual and like sex. No, they aren’t all bad.

  48. SlickyBoy April 7, 2015 at 3:47 pm

    Spot on analysis.

  49. john April 7, 2015 at 7:04 pm

    You’re definitely not going to get invited to private parties where the exceptionally attractive/non-slutty girls hang out if your value amounts to some clownish american psycho gimmick. If you’re good at any relatively mainstream hobby/sport you’re way better off than having some flimsy gimmick, because even if it’s a manly sport you will at the very least get the respect of other quality men who are inevitably going to have quality women around them or at least a better idea how to talk to them than a jaded keyboard jockey.

    Would you be dying to date a woman that is only moderately attractive and a mediocre writer at a relatively unknown feminist blog. Roosh is kind of the male version of that as far as women are concerned. Still he acts entitled to beautiful/feminine/non-promiscuous 8+ women, but doesn’t really have what they value so he advocates gimmicks that are fatally flawed for long term success instead of facing the fact that he should probably develop some skills that women actually value beyond acting like a clown. You obviously can’t sustain the clown act for an entire relationship.

  50. Brent April 7, 2015 at 8:49 pm

    “I want you to now feel sympathy for me that my parents helped raise a man with low marks on the dark triad scale.”

    Well you’ve certainly ended up to be a man with HIGH marks on the dark triad scale. At least in terms of outlook and perspective. I do love your writing but you are the Malthus of Game.

    1. Cedric Roggins April 7, 2015 at 8:51 pm

      What is the dark triad scale? What 3 traits does it consist of?

  51. Cedric Roggins April 7, 2015 at 8:53 pm

    Roosh reminds me of Howard Stern- he’s witty,’interesting, and kind of entertaining yet many people hate him far and wide. He’s a lot like Howard Stern man- shock jock guy people live to hate but his diatribes against socialism and feminism are brilliant and needed to be written.

  52. Rob April 7, 2015 at 10:23 pm

    Roosh, another absolutely devastating expose’! You’ve been on quite the tear since “Women age worse than men”

  53. Mark Kimmel April 8, 2015 at 12:43 am

    It’s generally accepted that this is a bad time to be a man. On the other hand, it’s a great time to be a player. You can pretty much spin plates your entire life with no repercussions (except for the occasional std). You can get laid like a boss if you’re dark triad damaged goods. You can still get laid if you fake dark triad like Roosh does. The only limit is how far you’re willing to let your darkness take you. It’s a long ride down.

    Compare this with say 1940s in small town America. Women needed financial stability because there were few good paying jobs for them. They needed a man who could fix things because this was before durable mass produced consumer culture. They needed a man who was kind with a good reputation because anything less would bring shame to her family. They needed patience and sternness: traits of a good father because her child was her legacy and the #1 priority and she knew the father mattered in the child’s life.

    I suppose my point is that when women no longer need men (because feminism indoctrination, fiat money supply, debt culture, etc), men are free to run amok and no longer feel it necessary to cultivate good traits. Why bother? The pussy is still there even if the heart isn’t in it. Women still get their shoes without committing to a single dick. Men still get pussy without a ring or a single virtuous trait. Everyone wins, nobody loses, nobody needs each, nobody has to sacrifice and everyone is fucking happy.

    But in my soul I don’t believe that. In my soul I think this is how the world burns.

    1. Clark Kent May 27, 2015 at 11:17 am

      That’s something I’ve been thinking about lately from my observations of people this year. Are these people happy? The fact that they don’t even question what’s going on leads me to think that they must be… but maybe not everyone has the capacity to question… Perhaps they are in fact so insecure and anxious that questioning the state of affairs seems like trying to dismantle a time-bomb.

      1. Mark Kimmel May 27, 2015 at 10:20 pm

        I think it’s all they know so there’s nothing to compare it to. They know something is wrong, but the problem is so embedded in society and their worldview that it would take a 35 week red pill crash course just to begin de-programming.

        Parents of Millineals are usually just as lost in these matters and also victims of cultural marxism, feminism, consumerism so they can’t help their kids either. I’m a generational freak because I’m right between Gen X and Millineals, but my parents were much older when I was born and my extended family was even older. This means I had family members I knew well from the Silent Generation, probably the last solidly healthy generation before the Boomers began the decline. I’ve realized having known Silents has been a fucking gift and it’s my goal to cultivate and carry on their traits. It’s a hard thing to do in a world with Tinder but it’s better than the alternative.

  54. getthebigones April 8, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Having a big dick is the most important thing

    1. Trisha May 3, 2015 at 2:53 am

      No it isn’t, sorry

      1. getthebigones May 15, 2015 at 2:36 pm

        yeah right, tiny

  55. Matthew April 9, 2015 at 12:55 am

    Think like a rapist. Act like a gentlemen.

    Just find a girlfriend who enjoys the idea of a rape fantasy as much as she enjoys cuddling. Problem solved.

    Human beings are complicated creatures. We’re not as innocent as we think we are. We all have teeth for a reason, because we devour and conquer. Being nice is a delusion.

    https://agalltyr.wordpress.com/2015/02/09/rape-is-as-natural-as-murder-and-theft/

  56. Rudolf von Urban April 9, 2015 at 11:58 am

    What Roosh means by clown game is actually displaying high energy. What he means by aloof and dark-triad means a strong independent man. Nothing wrong with either. You can be all that and still be a gentleman. In fact it takes strength and energy to be one.

    Don’t blame the women, they simply play their role of genetic engineers. In fact, if you ask me, modern women have become quite complacent in their role. I see lots of girls with boys that should never ever get any pussy at all.

    Roosh here simply demonstrates his sense of entitlement instilled in him by his mother. But the problem is his father who overlooked his responsibilities. A father must not allow strong attachment between mother and son.

  57. Jim B April 9, 2015 at 3:22 pm

    I agree with Roosh that you need to be an inconsiderate guy to get laid these days. But that is not enough! You also have to be good looking. If you are not good looking and play the tough aloof guy, you’re just another creep in women’s eyes, and you won’t get laid. So you have to have good looks and in addition to that be able to switch between the clown and gangster personality that you make her stand on her toes.

  58. Grégoire April 9, 2015 at 5:27 pm

    Roosh, I used to follow you religiously, you’re telling the cold hard truths about women, sex and relationships and I have always liked you for that.
    But the more I read you, the more negativity I can sense.
    You’re wrong to tell decent guys to turn into bad boys just to get some pussy. They’ll be miserable in the end and even more depressed than before.
    You might think you’re fighting the system but you’re playing by his rules right now and you’re helping accelerate the fall.
    You talk about masculinity, but is a real man going to fake being someone else just to get some pussy?

    If you really want to do something positive in our degenerate society, right now you will be working on marrying a decent girl, having as many children as you can and raising them with good values and spreading this to the world.

    1. OrthodoxChristian April 10, 2015 at 2:37 am

      “If you really want to do something positive in our degenerate society,
      right now you will be working on marrying a decent girl, having as many
      children as you can and raising them with good values and spreading this
      to the world.”

      Exactly, or rather almost, I’d change “with good values” (which could be anything) with “in the Church.”

  59. chris April 10, 2015 at 8:11 am

    Roost, I was wondering when you would finally adopt the Bonecrkr mentality on women in your blogs. It is a depressing reality but it is reality.

    Realest post you’ve made, and that’s a big compliment on you because you make great posts always.

    1. Chris April 10, 2015 at 8:12 am

      roosh*. F iPhones….

  60. getthebigones April 10, 2015 at 7:56 pm

    Surprisingly some white knights who rush to their defense do well

  61. Rosie April 11, 2015 at 10:11 am

    “The problem with pretending to be the bad boy when you’re nice at heart
    is that it’s impossible to respect the girl as someone you could have a
    relationship with since you know she has spread her legs for so many
    guys before who play-acted just like you.”
    This is the well documented inevitable consequence of using game, Hating the women it works on.

    I still think your title is projecting though, I see this a lot, either a) the gaming women haters are assuming that women are just like them,or like they imagine they would be if they were a woman, which will lead to some success in finding a matching personality. or b) the incidence of self destructive immature behavior regarding sex and respect for ones self and others is increasing in both genders equally, and women and men are the same.

    I propose rather than living up to your feminazi expectations and saying its your own fault, there is a definite equality in terms of shag-tard behavior.

    Id like you to consider this a lesson in consequences. Since you’re a guy and I’m not, I’ll go with that example, but I believe the genders can be reversed in this following scenario with only a small modification in words or quotes by whichever party ( since I absolutely belive from personal experience,men most definitely make a beeline for the most damaged women, expecting easy success):

    If a guy goes out looking for easy sex, he will identify an easy woman. He will make certain assumptions about her and treat her accordingly, she will feel a need to assert herself in being not as low as she is perceived, but her confidence will be knocked a little. This is the basis of neg-ing and shit-tests and the feed for the idea that people want to prove they are worthy or trade up, it works well on slightly damaged people, and it leads to more damage.

    If a guy, or a number of guys increasingly treat the woman badly she will eventually become ‘damaged-goods’ and become undesirable.

    Now, think on this, when you have left the damaged woman behind and moved on to something more naive and nubile and done the same thing, you end up with a number of damaged ones left in your wake. The club seems more and more full of useless broken women, which supports your original idea that they were worthless in the first place.

    Other guys are also damaging women as they go, and as you point out here and provide much evidence of in the comments section from your fan base, the men getting the sex are also damaged and unhappy and cynical, and of course so are the NiceGuys who are not getting any.

    This progresses to a point where a club, or other hunting ground is chock full of damaged people nobody wants, and they drink and shag to forget how miserable the world is. It is ultimately self destructive for all because of course, not taking responsibility for the situation all the damaged victimy shaggers have caused for themselves, fuels further shag-tard behavior which spills out onto the streets of Ibiza at 5am, causes street fights in gutters all over the UK, US, AUS, etc which wastes police time and necessitates higher taxes and clean up costs…. I could go on, but its not my main point…

    Now you see the problem truly is when you want to be a nice grown up man rather than a NiceGuy, having gone through the stage of feeling damaged and damaging women, which the other guys have also done, when you want to find a nice girl, you essentially have a major issue in that you have a lack of decent women to choose from as they’ve all been broken and used up. Given that none of them are considered marriage ( or live-with-and-enjoy) material for any other guy to pick up, you also have way too many guys to compete with for these increasingly slim pickings and you become the aggressive competitive things one sees out these days, fighting over scraps.

    So all you have to do, is leave the women better than you found them for someone else to enjoy. I.m gonna leave a paragraph here to make this pop.

    Leave them better than you found them. There are 2 significant benefits to this:

    Your competitors will not think your leftovers are broken, and enjoy being with them, and also leave them behind undamaged and available for recycling. Having not damaged anyone, there will be no cause for men to be in bars complaining to each other that women are mental screaming harpies consoling each other on their scant options and their failure to find a good-one. Other competitors will pair-bond with some of them, stop going out on the pull, and cease to be competitors.

    This leaves you in the lovely situation of having many nice open minded and happy ladies to choose from, that you haven’t shagged yet, with an ever decreasing number of competitors, since your maturity as time goes on gives you a massive advantage over the supply of new young shag-tard lads.

    Benefit 2: Happy ladies means recommendations. Other women will notice that you are able to occupy the same space as your conquests without drama, that the ladies seem happy to talk to you. Your ex-shags will be able to simply state, with a recognizable smile on their face, that you were a good straightforward shag who was not full of shit, and they have no complaints, ‘try him, hes great’. You will not need game, the women will come to you. You will be able to tell the difference, the broken ones throw themselves at you, the good ones will walk across casually.
    [I have met such a man. He never bitched about women, he just enjoyed their company, frequently. Lets just say, he had a lot of practice, no-one had any complaints, and he didn’t have to work at it. I would highly recommend him. Best 6 months ever. Totally ruined me for other men, of course.]

    This is about consequences, not a ‘its your own fault’ attack, but a practical lesson in personal responsibility. It has analogies with the throw away culture we live in and a failure to recycle or look after the things we use in life.

    The solution leads slightly to the cheesy ‘be the change you want to see’ attitude and a sensible pragmatic approach to not destroying things just because one has no use for them. Someone else will find a use for your trash, if you leave it useable, the world stays nice and clean.

    I do understand that the initial premise of red-pill culture is about
    self improvement, I will accept the women hating is only a description
    about why self improvement and responsibility for your own future is
    required for your happiness. But Id like to see a bit more of the problem solving and improved manly behavior in your blogs please. Otherwise you will have mostly angry women insisting this red pill be taken in suppository form, and less angry women solving your problems for you because they just hate all the noise.

  62. cle April 11, 2015 at 1:44 pm

    For the world to become a better place we just need a few things which is very difficult to happen:

    1: Our job wages must be increased so we all could afford to have a good lifestyle or at least live a normal life.
    2: Most things like rent/buying a house, food, electricity & water bills has to get cheaper.
    3: All or at least most women have to stop working. As everyone know women of the past were a lot different then they are today like: more obedient, they were more family oriented and the men used to command everything. Since women had more equal rights the world has became bad to live in because they can command like men do & they don’t need men anymore.

    If those things happen women will have more respect for men, we would get more sex regardless if we are single, in a relationship (or open relationship), married or even FWB/fuck buddies & we could be happier.

    1. Trisha May 3, 2015 at 2:51 am

      Fantasy land is fun

  63. fuckyou April 13, 2015 at 6:36 am

    What a whiny post. This is shit along with the lame fitness, and lifestyle advice articles which have just been repeating themselves for a while, for clicks on their websites.

    Nice guys are scum because they think they can what they want by being polite and respectful.

    Real men know they have to deserve and earn everything in life. Stop moaning about having to be ‘bad’. You must be a pussy who still thinks its disrespectful to tease a girl, even though they infinitely prefer that to someone being a boring pathetic beta gentlemen.

    Now that you’ve realised what a pathetic waste of space you were, you should be proud of what you are now, someone who doesn’t take shit and only respects people who deserve it. Not secretly hating ‘the mask you have to put on’ and wishing you were a white knight. If you’re still putting on a mask, you’re still a beta pussy deep down.

  64. Guest April 13, 2015 at 6:16 pm

    And the answer to this is p4p if you’re an average, “normal” guy.

  65. R9 April 15, 2015 at 3:14 am

    Roosh i always read your articles but for this one I have to comment because it’s just SPOT ON! I have almost the same background as you do, except for that I live in The Netherlands (also Westernized just like the US) and I also come from Eastern Europe (Kosovo, former Yugoslavia).

    I too am a nice guy by heart and had a good treatment from my parents, friends and close relatives and was poisoned by the mainstream media movies and TV-shows where being a good guy and a gentleman will land you your girl but as I have seen in the past 3 years since i’ve started to develop game that that is bullshit.

    I still have people around me who don’t think like me and still act like a nice guy and don’t listen to me. Which I feel very sorry for them. I’m almost 27 and after a couple years of gaming these girls here I hope to find a wife material here or go to Latvia, Ukraine or my home country for a decent girl with traditional values and who hasn’t ride the cock carrousel so much. Thanks and keep it up!

  66. Hieronymus April 19, 2015 at 10:39 am

    Wrong to block me. It’s censorship. You’re a hypocrite.

  67. SoMeINTP April 21, 2015 at 6:52 am

    Like attracts like on attitude and goals.

  68. SUPRA luca April 27, 2015 at 2:23 am

    “(…) not because you were her first choice, but because those bad boys could not see her as anything more than a wet gash.”
    So women are doing almost the exact same thing men in this site do to women, and they still want to complain about women. Ah, American idiots will be idiots, I guess.
    Yes, many women do bang “slutty bad boys” for a while, they could care less about dating, even less marrying them, as bad men are not marriage material (and not exactly because these men didn’t want the women, women dump these men all the time, that Roosh believes women never use men sexually is laughable) and then after that phase they look for actual good men to marry. And the men who post here also bang “slutty women” for a while, not caring about dating or marrying them as well. But then after that phase… they are looking for virginal women to marry? What in the actual fuck lol.

    The difference is that women actually look for good men to marry, as the men they used before were “bad boys” (or so Roosh says), and bad men are indeed not marriage or husband/father material. But the women won’t be hypocritical pieces of shit who believe they now deserve “virgins” even though they were promiscuous themselves, they aren’t as ignorant (and sexist/misandrous). Now the guys here actually get to bang “slutty”, but not necessarily “bad” women (which makes them also promiscuous men, who probably got as much SDT’s as any promiscuous woman)… but they still believe promiscuous people aren’t good for marriage, just because of the sexual past. That makes no sense. They just see themselves as not good enough for marriage, but still want to marry – and marry virginal women at that, so they can “ruin”their lives with their past sluttiness. That’s bizarre.

    My brain kind fries reading that kind of bullshit “logic”. But that’s also hilarious seeing so many degenerates together talking shit, so that’s fine, go ahead lol.

    1. BJ April 27, 2015 at 7:39 pm

      Obviously written by a slut.. the truth hurts, huh?

      1. SUPRA luca April 29, 2015 at 10:13 pm

        Nope, not fierce at all lol.

  69. Der Mac April 28, 2015 at 7:02 am

    Many of the alphas you glorify are these damaged men.

  70. kelley May 5, 2015 at 1:30 pm

    wow……..well thought out and well presented……..i had great parents, but i’m still an asshole………works every fucking time

  71. ZzXx May 5, 2015 at 3:28 pm

    We should stop allowing women to select mates, for a greater society. No wars, no serial killers, no egotistical psychopaths, only smart, civilized and hard working men.

    1. Terrance Kenallen May 10, 2015 at 11:31 am

      Civilized and hard working men would have to retake power back for this to happen. This is the traditional culture that existed before the 1960s. Before the country fell victim to modern feminism and the leftist revolution of the 60s.

      1. ZzXx May 12, 2015 at 8:53 am

        Baby boomers ruined the west.

  72. Maldek May 6, 2015 at 1:52 pm

    It helps to be a natural born asshole.

    Not just with women. It helps in all aspects of life.

    The reason why women like “bad boys” and despise “nice guys” is quite simple.
    “Nice guys” are NOT the good guys. They are only good slaves.
    Slaves to their job. Slaves to their goverment. Slaves to their religion. Slaves to the bank. You name a few more.

    Now if you were a woman: Would you like your children to be born and raised as slaves? No, of course not.

    hey dont get wet for slaves.
    Thats all they need to know.

  73. Kevin Lauder May 25, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    I’m lucky. I too am glad my mother was a narcissist obsessed with herself. That prepared me for dating landscape. It also hindered me, because I actually sought out someone to give me the love that I felt I lacked. I sought treatment for my lack of connection. This was naive. Only by tapping into my shadow (as Jung would probably put it) was I able to become successful with women. The dark triad.

  74. Sheila Muir May 26, 2015 at 11:14 am

    Wow, that was a well written article. And from a female perspective, I can relate to much of what he is saying. I think it is a maternal instinct to nurture men who appear damaged. I am currently in a non-relationship with an emotionally unavailable man, and have experienced 2 rather massive emotional rollercoaster cycles in the short time I have known him. I can spend some time wondering why this person wont provide the kind of love I need, or I can realize this guy offers nothing, and leave. The only thing that seems to work is to discontinue having sex. Unfortunately, sex is different for women. It acts as a facilitator for falling in love. I have been successful at distancing myself from this man who has offered less than what I am willing to accept. Im ready to move on to a relationship with someone who is emotionally available.

  75. Illumination June 2, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    Everything sexual in modern society ultimately comes down to the twisted, artificial “game”. Because if you’re rich or “powerful” or successful, that doesn’t make a woman inherently sexually more attracted to you. It means you’re being “used”. Is Bill Gates the most attractive or “alpha” male, just because he managed to become one of the richest business owners on the planet? Will women inherently respect him and crave him and fantasize about him as a man because of this? Not in today’s culture. In today’s culture, sexual values have been artificially skewed by feminist/consumerist/media-driven culture to favor shallowness, falseness, and degeneracy. We live in an era of deception. “Values”, “truth”, “faith”, “passion”, “purpose”, will all become increasingly meaningless in time. The “alpha” competition of modern society is not the same “alpha” competition in prehistory – in prehistory it was foundational, the origins of classic “manhood”. Because while competitive inner selection was necessary to produce superior people for survival, those people also needed to have enough collaborative value to have collective strength. Collectivity has been humanity’s greatest survival asset. False “alphas” of the fake, manipulative, charismatic, psychopathic variety would have destroyed our species from the getgo. They are not “natural” selection. They are a post-evolutionary mutation, a traitorous parasite to our species. And they are hierarchical. The psychopathic powers at the top, owning the world, like to promote lesser psychopaths because they are more likely to compete amongst each other rather than rise up and cast off the top. A world of psychopathy becomes a world of illusion. Lies become truth. Natural and spiritual evolution loses its path. Religion is just an allegory for these inherent existential truths.

  76. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 12:54 am

    a utopia. Because that’s your way to satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR” trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon that only fits in the in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 ……….. Do something for this life, give some meaning to it, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER AND MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life.

  77. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 12:57 am

    Here is a 29
    years old opinion

    but none is bad enough to fuck the ugly chick… and yet we classify people as losers or winners, those who suffer of desire for the pretty girl and this beautiful
    chick ditto for the rich man as winners and those who stay in a lame job with
    high bills in a system of debt, in a capitalist society where accumulation of
    power is the non plus ultra… Thats why americans fill theyr identity with a
    lame posttraumatic disorder PTSD, that’s why you can’t live or die fighting for
    a utopia. Because that’s your way to satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR” trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon that only fits in the in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 ……….. Do something for this life, give some meaning to it, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER AND MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life.

  78. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 1:06 am

    Here is a 29
    years old opinion

    None is bad enough to fuck the ugly chick…
    and yet we classify people as losers or winners, those who suffer of desire for
    the pretty girl and this beautiful chick ditto for the rich man as winners and
    those who stay in a lame job with high bills in a system of debt, in a
    capitalist society where accumulation of power is the non plus ultra… That’s
    why Americans fill their identity with a lame posttraumatic disorder PTSD, that’s
    why you can’t live or die fighting for a utopia. Because that’s your way to
    satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that
    focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by: as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR”; trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon
    that only fit in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called
    “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take
    beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and
    stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 like this Richard La ruina, or james marshal, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking and do something for this life, give some meaning
    to it. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER IN A MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life.

  79. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 1:11 am

    Here is a 29
    years old opinion

    None is bad enough to fuck the ugly chick…
    and yet we classify people as losers or winners, those who suffer of desire for
    the pretty girl and this beautiful chick ditto for the rich man as winners and
    those who stay in a lame job with high bills in a system of debt, in a
    capitalist society where accumulation of power is the non plus ultra… That’s
    why Americans fill their identity with a lame posttraumatic disorder PTSD, that’s
    why you can’t live or die fighting for a utopia. Because that’s your way to
    satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that
    focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by: as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR”; trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon
    that only fit in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called
    “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take
    beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and
    stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 like this Richard La ruina, or james marshal, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking and do something for this life, give some meaning
    to it. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER IN A MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life than sending every girl to play at a pronhub video.

  80. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 1:13 am

    Here is a 29
    years old opinion

    None is bad enough to fuck the ugly chick…
    and yet we classify people as losers or winners, those who suffer of desire for
    the pretty girl and this beautiful chick ditto for the rich man as winners and
    those who stay in a lame job with high bills in a system of debt, in a
    capitalist society where accumulation of power is the non plus ultra… That’s
    why Americans fill their identity with a lame posttraumatic disorder PTSD, that’s
    why you can’t live or die fighting for a utopia. Because that’s your way to
    satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that
    focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by: as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR”; trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon that only fit in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 like this Richard La ruina, or james marshal, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking and do something for this life, give some meaning to it. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER IN A MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life about sending every girl to play at a pronhub video.

  81. yo mate June 13, 2015 at 1:22 am

    Here is a 29
    years old opinion

    but none is bad enough to fuck the ugly chick… and yet we classify people as losers or winners, those who suffer of desire for the pretty girl and this beautiful
    chick ditto for the rich man as winners and those who stay in a lame job with
    high bills in a system of debt, in a capitalist society where accumulation of
    power is the non plus ultra… Thats why americans fill theyr identity with a
    lame posttraumatic disorder PTSD, that’s why you can’t live or die fighting for
    a utopia. Because that’s your way to satisfy yourself, mimicking a lame traumatic attitude created by a society that focus on the “SUPERMAN” created by as Bob Dylan calls “MASTERS OF WAR” trying to sate your thirst with coke or cheap labor work from migrants. YOU CAN`T STAND DIVERSITY you want everything to have a canon that only fits in the in the endless hole of your lame capacity of appreciation called “desire” you need to ejaculate to prove yourself as a man, to take beauty away from innocence and to offer only the perpetuation of pain in this chaotic non ending life. Be stuck in there for 40 years or more as battery of a new codified market by the information created in the AI database of Google, like matrix with your penis stuck in the back of your head… Be truly original and stop following that macho man attitude that everyone in internets freak preachers “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” Matthew 7:15 ……….. Do something for this life, give some meaning to it, and stop crying like a faking child complaining from a trauma that you are just mimicking. YOU ARE NOT A MAN YOU ARE AN ANIMAL IN HOMUS SAPIENS BODY WITH A COMPUTER AND MEDIUM CLASS FROM AN EMPIRE (not a country, welcome to globalization, “I don´t care if you are american)… life is more than your narrow understanding of life.

  82. screwregistrationidiots June 24, 2015 at 9:31 am

    To the author: so are you married and happy? Or at least in a very long term committed relationship?

    If not, how is that Game working out for ya? Lots of pussy but no real ‘love’?

    The problem with people like you is that you tailored yourself to be appealing to Broken people. Sure it helps you get more women, but ultimately you pretend to be Broken and what you get is also… Broken.

    Are you sure that is the life you want?

  83. LunaticVillage415 June 24, 2015 at 4:57 pm

    As much as I don’t like Roosh, there is a huge amount to truth to articles like this. Women in their 20’s love the badboys. I see it all the time in all different types of demographics. Rich fratboys in college who treat women as nothing more than semen receptacles. Thugged out young Jay-Z wannabes who instead of going to school and holding down jobs instead choosing to hang out in the streets all day getting drunk, smoking weed and selling drugs having multiple women fucking them weekly. The irony of all of this is that most real badboys end up in dead, in jail or washed up. This is the sick reason why psycho killers like the Menedez brothers had dozens of female groupies wanting to marry them sending them fan mail everyday. Seriously, every convicted serial killer has obsessive female groupies. The average joe nice guy? Not so much. The good boy who goes through life playing by the book is never too popular with the ladies. If he is handsome, women might look his way, but they will refuse to fuck him because they don’t like his nice guy game of compliments, being treated to dinner, taken on dates and given up front amorous attention. No, you have to act like “bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks” and play into creepy sociopathic headgames and you’ll have a stable of hoes in no time. What’s ironic is that nice guys in their prime have older women in their 40’s throwing themselves at them all the time. But nobody wants an old washed up hag unless she is a grade A cougar who will shower you with money and clothes.

  84. Adela Muresan July 1, 2015 at 8:39 pm

    Yes this article is true to some extent but women live and learn as well.
    It is one thing to state a social problem and another to ask people to accept it.
    Disrespecting and secually objectifying women is not helping anybody.
    Get yourself a female friend and learn more about how to have healthy relationships with women, it will help you in the long run.

  85. Adela Muresan July 1, 2015 at 8:42 pm

    Being a nice guy is not enough to attract a woman, you have to be fun to be around, that doesn’t necessarily mean being a Bad boy.

  86. Jean John July 12, 2015 at 1:14 pm

    I often think about how great it would be to get a job, have some money in my pocket, or even rent my own apartment. Unfortunately I would never get laid if I stopped urinating on myself, chugging on this forty ounce of Milwaukee’s Best while pushing this grocery cart down the street and telling all these haters to “fu$k off!” Women love that shite. I stopped showering and now women actually approach me now. I think piss must be some kind of aphrodisiac. It also keeps the competition from interrupting my game.

  87. Guy7500 August 6, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    I don’t like to play games, so I got myself a nice asian woman.
    She is not perfect but I can be myself.

  88. Johanna August 7, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    This article makes me sad. There are a lot young women who want marriage, children, house and happily everafter. But young men tend to dream and long for the cool, mean girls. Ask the shy girls out instead! They may surprise you. They may turn out to be really both beautiful and sexy underneath all that shyness.

  89. weisefading August 18, 2015 at 8:06 pm

    I am all that. but it hasnt translated into succes with women.
    Maybe my suffering didnt translate correctly. How unlucky.

    Well at least i can start learning now.

  90. valentyne December 4, 2015 at 6:53 am

    Women prefer sex with Alphas because Alphas can protect them from advances of other men. I only recently learned this after having lost my (very sweet) Alpha to cancer. Now I’m having to protect myself from his Beta friends who try to take his place by being my “friend” and then hitting on me once they are in my house. Ick.

  91. CantBelieveImEvenReplyingToThi December 6, 2015 at 11:15 am

    I had sympathy for you and thought you were right until you became the typical misogynist who thinks he’s a nice guy while in reality he is far from that. No wonder women go for damaged guys they are at least attracted to, if guys like you are the alternative. It’s typical that you accuse bad boys for seeing women as sex objects when you use phrases such as “once a girl is done fucking a dozen or two bad boys in her prime, once her vagina is properly stretched out and primed to secrete” whatever. Are you for real?

  92. Wielebny January 18, 2016 at 12:45 pm

    You are too general when putting all of the “damaged man” into one box. I mean, a LOT of neckbeard losers are like that because of that reason. Which is fucked up childhood. Depression doesn’t make you attractive. Pretty much all of the symptoms of it are the definition of unattractive male. Nor does anxiety. If you are anxious, you are afraid to ask a girl out and behave like a total pussy. So not every abused man ends up as a psychopath

  93. Ryan February 5, 2016 at 11:00 pm

    I don’t like how you say ‘pretending’ ‘mask’ or ‘acting’. I like ‘learning to be’.
    Falling for a certified man eater and learning to be attractive was the greatest accomplishment in my social life – overshadowing even when I lost it. They say to replace bad habits with good and instead of stultifying my affection, I learned to give it to myself. Being conceited was something I kept really close to heart; it crossed over to my friendships and they were all the better for it. Even guys are like women in this regard
    With women it prudent to replace love with sexuality andm with with people in geberal, pride and vanity (the 2 most rewarding sins imo. envy can be a fun ball to hit with a racket of greed). It’s a game of who can care less

  94. really February 7, 2016 at 12:36 am

    the problem with the above is that it doesn’t realise that it is the same for women. If women don’t act unavailable, cold and uncaring (just like the men above) they also don’t get the man. This is a human relationship problem not a female or a male problem. It probably has a variety of sources that cause it, but I think that at least in part it comes down to the need for a person to feel they chose the other person. If you are too available and too pushy for attention the other person thinks they are the one who is accepting your advances instead of actively choosing you. Everybody wants to chase at least a bit. the better relationship is one that allows both persons to be the pursued and the pursuer at different times. Like a dance. One step forward, two back, two forward, one back. And yes, it is a lifetime commitment. You can’t be all over the other person like a rash crying when they don’t respond.

    Apart from that, a person: male or female is going to be a lot more fussy about who they choose to marry or have a long term relationship than they are over who they are just going to have a quick screw with. So if you are faster into a girls pants it might be because she only sees you as a slut for a fling but not marriageable material, just like you are suggesting men do to women. You may get the screw but would she marry you? Maybe, maybe not. But good chance that she has exactly the same thoughts about a man that is too easy to bed as the other way around.

  95. dennis13 August 20, 2016 at 12:50 pm

    …’the bad boy actor for over a decade, securing sex for as long as I can
    wear the mask. The problem with pretending to be the bad boy when
    you’re nice at heart is that it’s impossible to respect the girl as
    someone you could have a relationship with since you know she has spread
    her legs for so many guys before who play-acted just like you. You
    lament that she has lost her reproductive imperative and sees men as
    nothing more than sources of entertainment to improve her soulless
    existence’…” bahahaha… takes one to know one hey…? [except youre worse than anything you label this monoithic group ‘women’ as. you’re a hypocrite who can’t see himself as one.. shame. like most of the shit on this website

  96. MRKLjinjang . August 23, 2016 at 4:22 am

    Yes I have done this with lots of success but in the end we cannot deny who we really are, I became jaded and disillusioned with constantly having to hide behind this so called mask. If you persist, what will happen is you will turn into something you loathe and that isn’t something I want to live with.

    By the way as you know Rosh, it’s now time for counter propaganda so to call these women ” sexual commodities ” is a bad choice, it implies that they are somehow helpless victims in a sea of bad boy sharks, whereas this is totally the opposite ( even they don’t realise it), the women are using badboys, it is the they who are disposable human dildos, these guys are dehumanised into nothing more than being a pretty vibrator.

    Instead these women are COWARDS because they refuse to deal with their intimacy issues. Ultimately they need to confront their parents for bringing them up so badly, but the responsibility remains theirs !

  97. Johnny boy November 8, 2016 at 1:14 pm

    What a miserable way to live.
    Much better:
    Pound lots of pussy
    Break some hearts
    Make tons of money
    Prenup marriage with a high value woman of your choice
    Have some genetically superior children
    Create a dynasty.
    Let manosphere cry about no good girls

  98. Nemo December 11, 2016 at 1:55 am

    roosh, i wish all of your posts weren’t so passive-aggressive. the “you turned me into the monster that i am” trope runs throughout all of your autobiographical anecdotes. seems like the root of this game theorizing is that this one time you crushed HARD and you failed to truly attract a woman who was–and this is the key–WAY out of your league. you knew how that was probably going to end up, and u shouldn’t have gone there. you got rejected, your self-confidence was crushed, and then you curled up into a ball and started cursing her pussy power, and by illogical extent all women. and you’re STILL hung up on her! i think if you owned up to that truth then you could begin to *genuinely* connect (and think beyond pulling yourself up from your ‘default’ fitness to your ‘genetic ceiling’). It’s hard to talk about your vulnerabilities, and not ALL women are at the stage where they can handle your baggage, but i think it’s better to let someone know you have it before you get intimate. not all women will want to hear about it, but you can’t get upset at that and avoid it, because guess what: a woman who can handle that can handle a whole lot more –and that’s quality. become truly balanced, instead of this overcompensation that we all see right through. deep down you wish for a neat bollywood ending to your story with that girl. you really just have to stop projecting your self hatred onto everyone else. it’s all good though; us open souls are going places. you can come along with us or self-destruct.

  99. JED March 4, 2017 at 12:58 pm

    True, but aren’t these women mostly the women in big cities or is it everywhere now?

  100. Yale Minn April 19, 2017 at 11:20 am

    Sadly true…Great honest writinh.

  101. Sean Patrick July 20, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    First off, I completely agree with what you illustrate about modern day women. They are fickle, shallow, border line insane. Most of them value a relationship of turmoil and emotional shots in the dark and then whine and cry saying “where are the good guys?” while providing no value other than a vagina. This is true. The article makes sense…

    However, a man of TRUE character would not compromise his values and trade his heart for the insipid temporary thrill of cheap meaningless sex with women he truly cares nothing about and believes are damaged. Your abuse of them to fulfill your own sexual desires is the most selfish and vindictive thing you can do. Regardless of their worth to you, these are people with souls. If this is what you preach men must do all in the name of meaningless sex then you really cant call yourself any better than the damaged women you claim to be better than. Faking the bad boy act is only perpetuating the game cycle of heartbreak that insecure men and women play on one another for the illusion of power.

    THATS what masculinity is all about. Its not about pussy, money, and status. Its about living the truth and adhering to it because you know that as a man it is your sacred duty to uphold the truth and preserve it, live by it, be it… You as a man lead by example and dont give into a corrupt world. If you’ve given your morals away because you’re so desperate for sex then why would you even have morals at all? It only goes to show that you care more about yourself than any woman, so why should we take your advice??

    I dont pity the normal man. The normal man has true character. You compromised and sold out all for the pussy that never lasts just to validate yourself. You attach a meaningless sex life to success. I honestly pity YOU, not the normal man. No woman of any value would ever find your outlook attractive, ever. And the longer you put up the facade, the less chance you
    have of finding the one good one and the more you will completely lose hope of finding lasting love. Sorry I had to be the one to tell you.

  102. Andrew January 1, 2018 at 12:58 pm

    Stefan Molyneux introduced me to many of the problems with modern women and ROOSH, you have taken that many steps further.

    As someone who tries to be stoic, this information helps me accept what women have become and not get triggered when the world I thought existed when I was a child harshly juxtaposes with the masculine, abrasive, argumentative, and entitled women who I see every single day walking the streets and byways of this dying civilization.