Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love

I want you to think of your grandparents and the love they had. It’s true that maybe your grandmother felt “stuck” with gramps, but for better or worse their relationship endured for some time and there was a golden period of at least a decade where they were completely dedicated to each other. Unless one of your grandmothers was a flight attendant on the first commercial jets and saw daily affections from new men, she was absolutely not cheating on grandpa.

Fast forward to today. What comes to your mind when I ask you to think about the concept of love in America? Did you laugh? Shake your head? When was the last time you ever heard a woman say “I love him,” even referring to her husband? The ability for women to love is being murdered, and the assassin is the smartphone.

Philosophers and poets have given many wonderful definitions of love, but to keep it simple, there are only two main components:

1. Mutual attraction
2. Lack of other options

You can argue that being “in love” is different in that it involves some sort of passion or lust, but for many centuries love has come to mean being attracted to someone while simultaneously not having better options. A married woman in the 1900’s would be hit on maybe once a year by the butcher and that was it. The love she had for her husband was not disturbed unless he went off to war. Today? She could gain 30 pounds and be hit on ten times a day. There is no other tool that increases the amount of times a woman is hit on than a smartphone.

For women, the smartphone is a bridge to receive offers of penis twenty-four hours a day. With text messaging and use of apps that connect her to Facebook, dating sites, Instagram, and the like, your average girl is receiving subtle and not-so-subtle sexual offers every other hour. She even gets to hear a bell tone when a new penis is putting in his attempt. The smartphone is a perfectly designed machine for women to field dozens and dozens of penis offerings every month when in the previous generation your average woman wouldn’t receive that many in a lifetime.

This constant shower of penis makes it absolutely and hopelessly impossible for a girl to experience love. She can experience passion, and she can be in lust for a short period of time, but within a year of any relationship, the sheer amount of cock still coming through her iPhone will make her feel like she didn’t get the best man she could have, or feel that her life isn’t as exciting as it could be. She will be unable to settle with one man and be happy. The pitiful option left for men to cope with these times is to “game” their wife—after she took a vow to serve him till death do her part—so that he can rise above the cock offerings that won’t stop coming.

I know what my female readers are thinking: “Well guys have smartphones, too! They are incapable of love just like me!”

And you would be incorrect. For men, the smartphone is a tool to gain a sexual option. Asking a woman on a date or trying to win her favor via text messaging or Facebook makes her a mere prospect. A potential prospect who might be sexually interested in you, who might say yes, is not the same as having guys at the ready immediately come over if you just say the words. The psychological effect of being offered guaranteed dick is not the same as being able to offer some dick. One is passive while the other is a numbers game that takes fifty times more energy for absolutely no set reward.

The minute a man stops using his phone is the minute all potential prospects dry up. If I take a week off from the game, my phone doesn’t make a beep. I don’t even need to re-charge it once but every three days. But if a woman takes a “break” from the game, or changes her relationship status to engaged on Facebook, will the cock offerings dry up? Will she stop receiving “What are you doing this weekend?” text messages? Of course not. Even when a man receives a commitment from a woman, he must still compete with other men as if his girlfriend is eternally stuck in a sausage fest nightclub.

Peer into a woman’s smartphone and you’ll find Las Vegas, nonstop blinking lights and action. Peer into a man’s smartphone who isn’t working on his game and you’ll find something out of a country Western with tumbleweeds rolling through. The only text messages he may very well receive are service notices from his cell phone provider announcing the newest data plan special. Love is dead only for women, not for men. If anything, men are much more interested in love and serious relationships than women are, but they cannot fight the culture tsunami that is drowning them. They want to love a woman who has become incapable of it because of her unconditional adoption of a machine that is only good for one thing: playing the field.

On a Friday night in Croatia I took a beautiful girl out for drinks. I weaseled her back to my place and we had sex. After she left, I fantasized about having sex with her again. I was excited that I could take a break and focus on her instead of having to chase new girls. On Saturday night, by accident, I met another girl in the club. We talked and kissed for hours. Her body was slightly better than the first girl, but she was otherwise similar. When I woke up on Sunday and lay in bed, the girl on my mind was the one I met on Saturday night, not the one I had sex with. The girl from Friday almost felt like a distant memory, as if she got bumped out of view by the newer girl, though my penis was inside her less than 48 hours before.

For women who have smartphones, you’re the one getting “bumped.” You get bumped down the list as more cock offerings come into view and the memory of having a conversation or date with you travel farther away in her mind. The smartphone alone changes her behavior. It changes the way she dates and how she selects men for sex.

I’ve been to many countries and it’s no surprise that foreign women with smartphones are much more similar to their American counterparts than the ones without. Her attention becomes more fragmented, her attitude increases, and she’s less willing to put work into the interaction, symptoms that come from receiving an overload of male attention via a tool that seems to be perfectly designed for it. If a girl has a smartphone in hand, she is simply less able to commit to a man. She will experience constant malaise because of all the hot action she’d hate to “miss.” When she’s ready to cheat—and she will—she will have at least five guys who would jump at the prospect without her having to do much more than send a “How are you?” text message.

If the changes brought by the internet weren’t disruptive enough, men now have to compete with smartphone devices that simultaneously force them to compete with other men who in the past wouldn’t even fall under their girl’s radar. We’re arriving at the point where women don’t need to lift a finger to get with men because so many desperate, supplicative men inflate her ego, worsen her attitude, and make her lazy when it comes to any relationship. Why should she put in work when she doesn’t have to? Why should she commit when she’s so obviously desired? Did you not notice that the last self-shot photo she uploaded on Facebook got 40 likes? She doesn’t care if you get annoyed when she flakes. She doesn’t care if you don’t like her flip flops.

Soon every woman in the world will have a smartphone, and the idea of commitment and love will be a throwback, something that belongs in old movies. Until then, when I’m talking to a girl and she pulls out some piece of shit old Nokia phone, I can’t help but get a little excited. I know she will be warmer, I know she won’t flake, and I know that I’m about to have an experience with a woman that will give me an honest shot. But if she pulls out a smartphone, I know that she’ll just be adding me to her collection of penises. She’s the celebrity, and I’m nothing more than a fan.

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Frisky business
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So true.

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I met up with an Au Pair a week ago. Before the meet up, I had made fun of her and her orbiters.

“Look at this picture”

“Wow – so many likes. It’s probably because you’re on the beach.

The guys think – (creepy beta voice) Oh, you like the beach.

Let me tell you..”

She laughs (sometimes until tears come out).

Thank god she had a nokia.

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Solid post roosh.

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jesus dude…good observation. This is more reason to be playing the field instead of committing to the average women with a smart phone. Like Tomassi said, ‘men are the romantics and women are the realists.’

Men want love but lots of women are increasingly becoming incapable of it. It’s best to have a steady rotation and screen out the worst of the worst…however, most modern men can never accept this and will probably be destroyed by a woman.

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Fucking wow Roosh!

Ronfar
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So things will only get worse? Great.

Even the ugliest chicks will think they’re supermodels with enough attention. We’re seeing that happen…

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I see it already at work

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LMFAO! It’s so true!

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Great observation. I always judged LTR potential based on how e-connected a girl is. Facebook account, bad sign. Smartphone chiming every two seconds, bad sign. iPhone and/or iPad, horrible sign.

Unfortunately this isn’t going to go away, quite the contrary. So it’s either moving somewhere where relationship dynamics aren’t yet influenced by technology so much, meaning second world countries or some shitty province in almost-first-world countries, or adapt.

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haha You could write the next blink or tipping point on this topic.

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By now we know what a genius you are, but here you have outdone yourself. Today, a picture of you is going up on my wall!

Henry
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I can’t decide if you are absurdly reaching, or spot on.

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If you have any experience dealing with twentysomething American girls these days, you would know that he is spot on.

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Absolutely brilliant Roosh.

“For women, the smartphone is a bridge to receive offers of penis twenty-four hours a day.”

Haha too true. Girls have the opportunity to live out Paris Hilton-esque fantasies if they want.

Keep the great writing and insights coming.

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Good points on the personal interaction with the users phones.

However I find this article at the Chateau good for a more big picture context.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/22/social-media-and-female-self-esteem/

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Roosh – put the gun down and call the suicide help line wink

Word – here in Spain most chicas are too broke to afford a decent smart phone. The fees are too expensive as well, so I rarely see them use it. Result – more open minded, feminine, friendly women. I hope they raise the fees during the crisis – the more unaffordable this shit gets the better for us.

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“On a Friday night in Croatia I took a beautiful girl out for drinks. I weaseled her back to my place and we had sex”

Don’t lie Roosh, she was a fat bitch like all the other girls, when are you going to start posting some pics of these girls like your content suppliers?

You are nothing

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LOL YOU ARE NOTHING LOL THAT MADE MY DAY, even though I completely disagree with you the guy is spot on.

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Does anyone remember the HIMYM epsiode ‘Rabbit or Duck’? In it, Barney has a magic phone which is ringing non stop with hot booty calls. In the end, he ends up not banging a single one because he’s constantly worried the next girl calling might be hotter.

This post make it plain obvious why this wouldn’t be the least bit funny with the sexes reversed; it would be a documentary, not comedy.

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Yeah, this is true. In the Philippines, few girls have smartphones. Moreover, it’s a country with few stable, faithful men, so the girls are very warm and friendly towards stable, decent men.

Unfortunately for us men, the country is growing economically. God help us all when most of the world has smartphones. That’s the day when men will commit suicide in droves.

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Even women in my age group are the same. 40 ish women are the same if not worse. They are getting attention like they never did in their 20’s.

Glued to their phones getting tons of attention

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This trend of access to people and information will only continue and the pace will increase. Regardless, quality men and women will always be in demand and probably more appreciated the more options you have and the more people you know.

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This is an arms race of sorts. So what’s the countermeasure?

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So true. This MURDERED my last LTR.

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real talk

Aureo
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Exactly! What is the fucking countermeasure?

Isaac Jordan
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Spot on, Roosh.

I remember my college girlfriend freaking out one night when she lost her phone. It wasn’t that she was worried about the cost of replacing it, or that someone might steal her identity. No, she was worried about MISSING OUT.

What if her sorority sisters organized a girls’ night out and she was the only one not attending? What if all her friends had some amazing adventure and she wasn’t able to relive it during lunch discussions the next day? What if everyone develops some hilarious inside joke she’ll never get to be a part of?

The female need to be in touch with the herd is something most men will never understand. Being excluded from the group is a status-destroyer, and we all know how girls live and die by their status. Using a smartphone to stay connected to the herd is today’s equivalent of sitting at the cool kids’ table in the high school cafeteria.

Facebook makes this even worse, because people only post the fun, interesting things they do. When a girl logs on, she doesn’t see her friends doing their homework, or washing the dishes, or slogging through expense reports. She just sees FUN FUN FUN and OHMYGOD does she HAVE to be a part of it all.

Like the Barney hook-up phone example from one of the above posters, the idea that something better is going on somewhere else makes it impossible for her to enjoy whatever she has (whether it be a man, or an activity, or a job, etc.). It’s like hypergamy applied to social situations. You can’t enjoy a night at home watching movies with your boyfriend when you can SEE all the parties/boys/excitement going on elsewhere. Social media and women’s need to both stay connected and climb the status ladder makes it so that the grass is always greener somewhere else.

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I know a lot of people think that contemporary pop music is crap, but your post reminds me of the song “Halfway Gone” by Lifehouse. The lyrics are actually quite good at describing the dilemma that men face with a lot of women these days. Two lines from the second verse stand out: “You got one foot out the door / and choking on the other / always thinking something more / is just around the corner…” And part of the chorus really says it all: “‘Cause you’re halfway in / but don’t take too long / ’cause I’m halfway gone…”

Never be with a woman who wastes your time.

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better head to greece a n italy while there stil broke

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The worst is that they don’t have any attention span because of the phones….

I left 2 dates early because the bitches wouldn’t get off their phones…

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HEAR HERE!! More men MUST do this

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So very true… I don’t know why guys want more than to just enjoy the unending pu**y train… To be honest, I don’t want to have to deal with the day-to-day crap – I prefer to enjoy her when I want her, and not deal with the drama afterwards…

So it’s all good in my book…

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“I know that she’ll just be adding me to her collection of penises”

who gives a fuck? there’s a double standard here. For a player its standard practice to fuck a bitch then never call her again, and to have a steady rotation of bitches. You don’t think bitches are going to do the same thing? Sounds like typical Madonna/Whore thing going on here… remember, you are not a unique snowflake!

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this isn’t productive and bad form. If one wants to pua this way, one must make plausible excuses of why they can’t keep the relationship going, e.g. got a new job where i am out of town, have to take care of fam, etc. cold breakups are for jerks and ruins vibes for everyone.

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The right move when girls act like this is just going away,or say that if she prefers to stay with her friends you too have other things to do. Anyway, good post Roosh. I’m really losing faith and nearly giving up…it’s so difficult to find a “normal” girl our days!!! The only solution is to go where all of this has not happened yet I guess.

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Right on point. Best post along with the Logistics post.

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Great post Roosh.

This is indeed a very serious problem that will only get worse, as every corner of the third world is penetrated by discount phone providers and internet services.

There are some asking about countermeasures. These are the ones who have their heads in the right place.

As usual, the blame comes squarely back to men. This whole big mess of feminism and bitchy unfaithful women is all men’s fault. Men are the actors in this world. Men have agency. Men make the rules and say what does or doesn’t happen. If our women become spoiled, traitorous cunts, it is only because we allowed…nay encouraged…them to do so.

Every mangina asshole with a daughter out there is to blame. Every mealy-mouthed little weasel of a husband who puts up with his wife’s attitude is the problem. Every desperate sucker who thinks supplication will get him laid is the problem. And, as alphas this is our most important concern: every alpha male that continues to give any attention to women like this, and refuses to establish firm expectations of behavior, is a MAJOR part of the problem.

Guys that run around hitting on anything with a pussy because “it’s a numbers game” are leaving thousands of falsely inflated egos in their wake, fucking up the landscape for everyone else. Facebook orbiters and suck ups are conditioning girls to expect absurd amounts of attention. Don’t be one of them.

The countermeasures are simple.
1) Become a highly desirable alpha male (isn’t that what we’re all here to accomplish?)

2) Exercise a high degree of discrimination in the girls you will hit on or date or sleep with. Have high standards and never lower them.

3) Never play a part in the supplication and flattery game. Purposely avoid all complements except on very special occasions. You need to condition her back to the normal state where girls do not expect complements merely for breathing and showing up.

4) Refuse to deal with a woman who breaks your rules or is always distracted with orbiters and social media – NO MATTER HOW HOT SHE IS. This is your nuclear bomb guys. If a desirable alpha male is willing to walk away from the chance at sex with a 9 or a 10 because she spent too long twiddling on her iphone, it sends an incredibly powerful message, and begins to tip the scales back in our favor.

I expect all but a couple of you to dismiss all this and continue being beta orbiter pussy hounds running around complementing cunts all day because you think you are “sarging”. You are the fucking beta white knight trash that you love to criticize. It’s guys like you that are the problem – chasing pussy like a pathetic little dog looking for a bone – no self control or masculine agency.

In short, become a fucking PATRIARCH again and this silly bullshit from bitches will become a distant memory…and as a side bonus you might just help save western civilization.

The reason women didn’t cheat on their husbands back in grandpa’s day is because the men were alphas that didn’t let a bitch walk all over them. Today’s men are metrosexual little pussy boys. It disgusts me.

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Let’s not forget all the guys like ME (are there any?) who will not approach women without first being invited to do so, because we are afraid we are invading her space. That’s me. I have’t been with a woman in years.

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Or just convert to islam.

Dan
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No thanks; I only want to go back in time about 25 years, not 500 years.

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not working, it’s still in the feminist era

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turned down a 16yr old average looking fatty for sex recently. I was in two minds about it since hadn’t got any action for two weeks (primarily from being busy with work). took the boner test…..she failed that (Thank you Roosh)
With all the smartphone attention…likes…etc…she thought she could snag any high SMV guy purely coz she got pussy. Bubble bursted….I said…Welcome to the real world where you ain’t even worth pumping and dumping.

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Have I told you how fucking brilliant you are today? You need to make this a static web page and word of mouth needs to get out there to read this HOW TO BE A MAN AGAIN MANIFESTO LOVE THIS!!

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Nobody realizes that Hollywood and the Porn industry advertises ONLY black men to women? In America all you hear from white women is BBC. DO NOT LIE! Every Hollywood movie and tv sitcom has a Black Man/ White Women scenario. Never the other way around. White men are being rejected by the majority of girls. The media protrays white men as BETA and rapists/ weak, small d***, etc. While Black men are the sexiest thing on earth and every one of them has a big d***.

“Once you go black you never go Back” is what I hear from American Women.

One of my best friends is black and he loved this white girl Sarah. Sarah loved black men but when she turned 30 she broke up with my friend and left him like a piece of turd. Now she’s in Europe banging white boys trying to get married(or did get married). Her mother had the nerve to tell my friend He was the only one she ever “truly loved”

Its only when Women hit the age of 30 they start thinking about marriage and that’s when the white guys come in play.

Im not racist or anything but its weird when you have 80% of the population fantasizing about 12% of the population. This is social engineering.

Im from Europe living in America(late 20’s) I have never seen anything like this in my life. Only in America

In my local college I see certain girls walking around glued to their smartphones, not looking left or right. They literally look like walking zombies. They dont pay attention to nobody, dont greet nobody, dont smile, they just look at their smart phones. When they want to sit down they still keep looking at their smartphones.

I approached this filipino girl in my local college and she was totally caught off-guard by the Human interaction. I got her number but she never responded. She lives in a Virtual World where parties and FUN is going on.

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japan would be a good place to go there are so many singles there and guys not interested in sex

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/japan/8257400/Third-of-young-Japanese-men-not-interested-in-sex.html

itll be easy pickin

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Once your mind has been poisoned with the equalist religion, beta becomes ingrained in your DNA.

The first step, if you haven’t done this already, is to firmly convince yourself that women are in fact inferior to men, and are here to be led by us. The cannot be trusted to make good decisions or guide their own lives, and crave a man with a stronger frame to do those things for them. If you cannot accept that premise with 100% internal certainty, you’re not an alpha yet. If you are an alpha, a woman will cancel her iphone contract on your say so (after a few good dickings).

It’s the guys that have daughters that are the worst backsliders, no matter how alpha they once were. They want to tip the scales of the world in little cupcake’s favor because they are selfish douchebags.

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This is exactly why women start to take love and commitment more seriously as they age because their dwindling options start to put them on equal grounds with men who have to now work hard to gain someone’s attention.

But the difference is, even when women get to that stage in their life, rather than taking life by the horns with their dating life like us men and make something happen. They become bitter, jaded and entitled due to their past experience of being pursued by cock. In other words, they simply do not want to admit that they’re now on the losing end of the deal or feel like they have to rely on anything else besides their dwindling looks.

The hotter a girl is, the worse off it is for them in the long term since they don’t have to rely on anything else but their looks to attract a man which is temporary. Once it’s over, they have nothing else to rely on.

Its the reason why uglier girls have better personalities because it’s the only quality they have left to develop and probably a more attractive quality anyway.

If a woman relies on her sex appeal to attract men, and less on their character, then don’t expect a man to move on after he’s done and dusted.

What about after sex? That’s the question which the most attractive women seem to disregard in the long term.

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It’s like a drug.like putting them on heroin (attention..validation from age 15-25) for extended period of time and then reducing the dose until 30.
from age 30 onwards its cold hard withdrawal.

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“Peer into a woman’s smartphone and you’ll find Las Vegas, nonstop blinking lights and action. Peer into a man’s smartphone who isn’t working on his game and you’ll find something out of a country Western with tumbleweeds rolling through.”
I bow to your wisdom, Master Roosh.

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@32 Bogart

Some great insights, but you need to learn the difference between “complement” and “compliment.” Misusing it once is a typo; misusing it three times is a pattern.

Note: You should be using “compliment.”

http://www.dailywritingtips.com/compliment-vs-complement/

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@LMHX my bad, that’s a tricky one. good catch.

BTW if guys really wanted to do good for their daughters, they would be a good alpha role model, keep mom in loving submission by using the amused mastery demeanor, show her how to be a great wife and mother, and not fill her head with career aspirations. That would be encouraging her to find real world happiness, not the phony fool’s gold of equalist relationships and career competition.

There is a great companion piece to this post up at Roissy’s today.

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Girls that are used to 90 likes on their FB pictures are used to the attention.

The problem is with the average chicks that don’t turn heads in real life and resort to social networks like its a heroin addiction to feed their ego.

Its these 5’s to 8’s that want to feel like supermodels, because they want to feel like a 10.

I enjoyed the article on how to ruin the cockblocks night and have been putting it to use.

To me it is a mental battle between “STFU and avoid confrontational talk to get the notch” mindset vs “STFU you retarded 7” outburst.

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I also think you’re grossly overestimating how much attention the average woman gets. Yes, the hottest girls receive a ton of attention and competition, and require vigilance, but I think that’s always been the case for the top 10% (although not to the degree that it is now). Average women might receive a little more attention and options than before, but the situation isn’t quite as dire as you make it out to be.

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“As usual, the blame comes squarely back to men.

Every desperate sucker who thinks supplication will get him laid is the problem.

Bogart knows!

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Spot on.

I like the way Roosh calls out the married “gamers” on their bullshit. There are too many jesus freaks and married nerds masquerading as playas.

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anyone thinking they have 800 possible good options (usually an illusion) won’t fully appreciate a REAL good possibility right at her fingertips

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Countermeasures you ask? Well how about a portable cell jammer?

http://www.thesignaljammer.com/categories/Portable/

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I see lots of good points being made here. in particular, I like what Onder said about women craving love and commitment as they age. the thing is, smartphones are still a relatively new device. once they’ve been around longer, I think what we will see is a lot more slightly older single women; ie late 20’s, early 30’s. they will still be single because they all had smartphones when they were younger, and as they age they will have to compete against a younger, sexier generation of girls with smartphones.

I’m probably going to get some flack for saying this on here, but it may actually turn out to be a good thing for us later on. any woman in her 30’s who is still single and hot will be a lot more desperate to find a man than she was ten years ago, and if there is competition between the various age groups of girls, that should put us back on top.

if there is a table with like a 12-set of 20 somethings that are all there for validation and attention-seeking, and another table over there is a nice 2 or 3-set of late 20’s/early 30’s women who are desperate to find a man and are there specifically for that purpose, then what do you guys think will happen? does anyone else think this might be a realistic possibility in the future?

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i said this about the invention of the internet fucken briliant roosh

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“Philosophers and poets have given many wonderful definitions of love, but to keep it simple, there are only two main components:

1. Mutual attraction
2. Lack of other options”

3. Respect

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LMAO Roosh you are too funny I love your writing. a device to field penis offerings hahaha.

Ok I’m done laughing now cuz the shit is true

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Been seeing more and more of this lately – guy and girl have a great first date, no lay, never hears from her again.

Wonder how much of it has to do with the “mainstreamization” of online dating in recent years?

Any girl with a POF/OKC profile she has a stready stream of suitors knocking at her door. Rest assured there are hundreds of better looking thirsty dudes with more status hitting her up. These guys won’t commit but they’ll hit it and quit it.

Men are as faithful as their options. Women are as choosy as their options. With online dating, an attractive woman’s options are seemingly infinite. In keeping with her hypergamous instincts, she’s always on the lookout for the bigger, better deal.

In the past a woman would stick with a guy after a good date because she had no other solid prospects lined up. Now she’s more likely to stray.

Online dating is a boon for guys who fit the media-promulgated aesthetic ideal (tall, muscular, white).

Guys who don’t measure up physically have tough road to ho. No matter how tight his verbal game, a short Asian guy will always be hard-up when Mr. Tom Brady lookalike is hollering at her from her POF app.

Online dating is courtship distilled to its essence sans the filter of approach anxiety.

A 1000 rejections in the real world would cripple a man.
A 1000 rejections in the virtual world mean nothing.

Thousands of thirsty dudes without approach anxiety + hypergamous women with infinite options is a recipe for dating disaster. Unhappy girls who can’t get a top guy to commit, and unhappy guys who can’t get a date.

This phenomenon is unprecedented in human history.

And if online dating loses its stigma and becomes mainstream, it could put the average guy’s prospects in serious jeopardy.

What % of single girls 20-29 today have online dating profiles?

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“A married woman in the 1900′s would be hit on maybe once a year by the butcher and that was it. The love she had for her husband was not disturbed unless he went off to war. Today? She could gain 30 pounds and be hit on ten times a day. There is no other tool that increases the amount of times a woman is hit on than a smartphone.”

=> Wait though… Can’t we hold accountable the game culture (of which this blog is an archetypal example) that teaches men to be aggressive in pursuing women for this?

“If anything, men are much more interested in love and serious relationships than women are, but they cannot fight the culture tsunami that is drowning them. They want to love a woman who has become incapable of it because of her unconditional adoption of a machine that is only good for one thing: playing the field.”

This does not sound very honest, coming from a guy who has made a career out of banging chicks.

[Roosh: Shutup, feminist.]