You Did This To Me

You made me learn game. You made it very clear that being nice, chivalrous, and patient was not the way to have sex with you. You let me know that being your friend, listening to your problems, and supporting you through hard times would only result in me getting to hear you fuck other guys. You pushed me to approach a million women to improve my ability to get laid.

You made me a selfish asshole. You rewarded me with sex when I treated you poorly. Your pussy got wetter the less I respected you. You made me go against my kind nature by being more cocky and arrogant.

You made me emotionally cold. You punished me any time I told you my feelings. You lost interest in me whenever I showed you basic human affection before you gave me affection first. You showed me that the less I concerned myself with your well-being, the more you did what I wanted.

You made me go for shallow one-night stands. You wouldn’t return my call even though we had what you admitted was a great conversation. You would flake and disappear for no obvious reason, making me feel like a piece of shit. You made me view sex as a numbers game where I treat you as nothing more than a “prospect” towards my sexual needs, an entry in my cell phone that represented possible sex, not a human being I wanted to build something with. You gave me no choice but to speed up all interactions at caveman speed so I could at least get a nut.

You made me leave America. Your entitled attitude become unbearable and your appearance disgusting. You have lost what it means to be a woman and what it takes to make a man happy. You have so little value to give yet you still expect Prince Charming to one day sweep you off your feet. You are a corrupted and damaged female, and have tried your damnedest to bring me down to your level.

The more game I learned and the more women I approached, the more sex I got. The more I worried about my needs and the more I treated you like crap, the more you went out of your way to please me. The colder I was to you, the more likely you’d want to be with me. The faster I went for sex, the less you flaked on me. The more time I spent away from America, the happier I became.

You made me hate feminism. You made me forget about marriage. You made me a voice for men who have gone through the same struggles that I have. The interactions I have with a woman tomorrow is entirely due to your influence and how you’ve treated me the past fifteen years. Who I am stems from your responses to my attempts at fulfilling my biological urge of sleeping with you. You’ve shaped my game and views towards women every time you rejected me and every time you opened your legs. You made me who I am, and every day you create one thousand men who are just like me.

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Tampa
Tampa
9 years ago

The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth right here.

charon
charon
9 years ago

Three cheers for personal responsibility.

sardino
sardino
9 years ago

I see each statement here as a different level in your progression from beta to alpha. After reading some of these I thought of a specific moment when my mentality shifted, after an encounter with a specific girl.

The Glee Manifesto
The Glee Manifesto
9 years ago

Wait, is it Mother’s Day already?

Michel
Michel
9 years ago

I am Roosh’s broken yet beating heart.

Gmac
9 years ago

Ah, the depressing truth behind the reasons we learn game to bed women…

What a screwed up, twisted world we live in for this to be a necessity.

Thank you women of America.

Vicious
Vicious
9 years ago

Good article to link to for every female hater you come across.

Daryush Valizade ; Worthless
Daryush Valizade ; Worthless
4 years ago
Reply to  Vicious

idiot

Marmot
Marmot
9 years ago

Cue a million “man up” trolls…

odds
odds
9 years ago

Roosh is Jesus. Believe in him and you will be saved.

The Glee Manifesto
The Glee Manifesto
9 years ago

What have you got against Evolution?

Robert Weedall
Robert Weedall
9 years ago

Or it could be that you are the one who decided that getting yourself deep throated was more important to you than having a conversation with another human being?

It could in fact be that its you, not the rest of the world, not the global economy, not women, not your parents, not your penis just you are as lonely as you’ve made yourself, on your own without any help from anyone?

It could be that it IS your fault. And that wailing like an overgrown todler about how its anyone but you to blame is absolutely freakin’ pathetic.

And I wouldn’t ask you to man up, I would ask you to actually think about yourself and wonder if you are anything like the person you want to be, or even if you are having fun anymore.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
5 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

You haven’t even tried to understand him.
You have no empathy, sympathy or compassion.
For shame.

Facepalm
Facepalm
5 years ago
Reply to  Odile Lee

Like all the empathy he has for women, who are also people by the way)? Lol he’s just all mad because no one likes his personality. period. roosh = forever alone/ LOSER

marthaz
marthaz
4 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

Exactly. These types of men have no idea what women want because they’re not intellectually or emotionally developed yet, and therefore have a hard time connecting with those who are in any meaningful way. Not being self aware, they start to blame this on outside factors, stitching together unrelated encounters (with women) and developing a confirmation bias that tells them (falsely) that this is the way things are.

Pavlos Argyriadis
Pavlos Argyriadis
3 years ago
Reply to  marthaz

Ok. Tell us. What women want? Try to be half as articulate as Roosh on the matter.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
4 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

If you read a significant amount of articles on ROK, you would find a great deal of compassion for women, good women in general.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
4 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

You cannot redeem a broken, bitter heart – with that currency. Only kindness, and caring. And Love.

YaHabibtiColoosh
YaHabibtiColoosh
4 years ago
Reply to  Odile Lee

So you expect us to show unconditional love, caring and kindness towards men who blame us, lash out at us and are cruel, uncaring and unloving towards us?

YaHabibtiColoosh
YaHabibtiColoosh
4 years ago
Reply to  Odile Lee

Why should anyone have empathy, sympathy or compassion for a man who won’t own up to his own issues and shortcomings but simply wants to shift blame onto women?

Dougie Howser
Dougie Howser
5 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

A prime example of men cutting the legs out from another man being honest. This is what stupid men do have it all on a platter, fail to empathize with other men because, as a man, we are sooo tough not needing anything. Women lock arms to destroy us and half of our brothers play alpha male tough guy to destroy male unity.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
4 years ago
Reply to  Dougie Howser

Women have a advantage, hormonally from social bonding. Men need to know this, not guilt themselves from lacking a biological advantage. Among themselves only, privately- consider a solution that csn ovveride this lack. Freemasonry has done this, in a all male society. You can also. Kudos to you for recognizing this, and having courage to admit a male weakness( biologically.)

Pavlos Argyriadis
Pavlos Argyriadis
3 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

As a matter of fact human beings respond to positive an negative reinforcement. All he is talking about is that the reinforcement he gets from females reward him sexually by being an egopath,and reject him when he tries to be affectionate. He clearly states that he tried having meaningfull conversations with females he fancied .. only to find himself friendzoniesed. So your remarks (or should I say personal attacks?) seem to be quite off topic and irrelevant.

Dave R
Dave R
3 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

Did you miss the parts where he talked about being compassionate toward women and what happened after he had “wgat even she said was a good conversation”?

Like you, I kept thinking the problem was me. Until I woke up to the pattern and the fact that I WAS giving the women exactly what they CLAIMED to want and always ended up alone, while they’d run back to the assholes every time they called.

Then I realized, I’m getting friendzoned because women are actually describing what they want in a friend (“Why can’t guys be like us?”).

But that’s not what they want in a man. They want strength and courage and someone with a backbone that they have to work yo attract. That’s why when you become domesticated and all about her feelings, she loses interest and moves on.

Plus, you’re putting every woman on a pedastal. No girlfriend? It must be him!

Tell me, how many girls did you have “a real conversation” with and bang?

Oh wait; “Women are for more than sex!”

Yup. But they don’t want to do those things no more and the fact is, you’re not getting any and you’re defending them tossing you aside for doing exactly what they claim they want in a man, which according to them, is you. Yet there you sit with a tited right hand in masturbation central.

Yes, it can be their fault and no, “that special one who’s not like that” is not out there! Your momma chose to take the side of women and lied to you! And you could have been happy a long time ago, had you taken the red pill!

George
George
9 years ago

Fuck off Robert Weedall.

I wouldn’t say women made men into players. I would say that society, including parents and friends, tries to blindfold men from reality and feeds men garbage.

There is nothing inherently bad about looking after your own needs, not being a pussy, and going for what you want (including sex). The truth is beautiful and society does its best to keep it from you.

Sleeper
Sleeper
9 years ago

This should be posted on every feminist website or as a response to any feminist rant.

Period.

Facepalm
Facepalm
5 years ago
Reply to  Sleeper

All it is is a man whining about how he’s so great. Which guess what? Makes him not great. Poor sad lonely pathetic ugly hairy roosh

Anton Chigurh
Anton Chigurh
5 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

You can barely conceal your obvious desire and fury that you’re the type of girl–fat, plain, boring–that he would never in a million years pay attention to. It’s classic.

NRG357
NRG357
4 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

He does a lot better than you do. And if he can do it, he can talk about it if he wants to. Most here would listen.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
4 years ago
Reply to  Facepalm

Even if he was unnactractive, this has nothing to do with this post. Personal opinion devoud of fact does not advance arguement. It simply makes you look uneducated and incapable of serious debate. Not a good way to advance a arguement against Mr Roosh.

marthaz
marthaz
4 years ago
Reply to  Sleeper

What? It’s ridiculous and laughable. Guy can’t score so he becomes demeaning and selfish. Oh wow, that will really show them!

LegallySpeaking
LegallySpeaking
4 years ago
Reply to  marthaz

your father was demeaning and selfish.

right before he abandoned you….

*chuckles*

Ollie
Ollie
9 years ago

Weedall

I’m sensing a lot of anger here.
Did your boyfriend bail on you, cupcake?

Anonymous
Anonymous
9 years ago

Every woman who has ever complained about men or said “where have all the good men gone” needs to read this. Send it kay hymowitz

Robert Weedall
Robert Weedall
9 years ago

The truth may be many things but “beautiful” is not usually one of them. Harsh, disturbing, neccesary and good certainly but I’d never consider the truth especially pretty.

And there isn’t anything wrong with it, but questioning as to wether or not THIS is what you actually want is not a bad idea, especially for someone who values truth.

Ms. L. Lohan
Ms. L. Lohan
9 years ago

Maybe it’s time for you to MAN UP

Dougie Howser
Dougie Howser
5 years ago
Reply to  Ms. L. Lohan

Who should man up ? The pretend alpha male hating his brothers or the true man holding up his brothers.

Robert Weedall
Robert Weedall
9 years ago

Nahhh, but he is away in hawaii at the moment -weeps and throws hand over forehad- Oh I miss him so much, I fear I may have to throw myself into the sea etc etc.

I’m not angry, if I were angry I’d have sworn, I’m just sad that some people feel this way about half of the human race.

Guest
Guest
5 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

Must be nice to have not suffered what teaches people to become such.

Too bad not knowing can foster entitlement in those, who have not.

If you had any human kindness, you would feel for those who suffer. Not sad that ” that some people feel this way about half of the human race. ”
Because it came from someone being abused.

Because thats what it is. Abuse. Abuse is what takes a caring, thoughtful, kindly person and forces them to take measure to avoid more. Because the abused, gather more abuse. Abuse by women whose own selfishness, self-interests, and stupidity were more fascinating than connecting with a man, treating him like a object, and discarding him like rubbish.

Anyone with a heart, would never heap contempt on a brave outpouring of what he suffered. Anyone with a brain, would consider what Roosh has to say. Anyone with sense, would take heed.

Im a woman with very little education, other than what Ive taught myself, but even I know there is nothing as foolish as bloody minded ignorance.

Guest
Guest
5 years ago
Reply to  Robert Weedall

Must be nice to have not suffered what teaches people to become such.
Too bad not knowing can foster entitlement in those, who have not.

If you had any human kindness, you would feel for someone who suffered. Not sad that ” that some people feel this way about half of the human race. ”
Because it came from someone being abused.

Because thats what it is. Abuse. Abuse is what it takes for a caring, thoughtful, kindly person like Roosh, to force him to take measure to avoid more of the same. Because the abused, gather more abuse.
Women who should know better, whose selfishness, self-interests, and stupidity were more fascinating than connecting with a man. Leading to treating him like a object, and discarding him like rubbish.

You think it doesn’t take courage to tell this?
They broke his heart, and tried to break his manhood.

Anyone with a heart, would never heap contempt on this brave outpouring, of what he suffered.

Y
Y
9 years ago

I just had this knowledge hammered home for the umpteenth time recently.

I’m long past the point of being white-knight beta boy… but even treating someone with basic human decency and respect got thrown back into my face.

Another nail in the coffin of what was good and wholesome about me.

Robert Weedall
Robert Weedall
9 years ago

*forehead, lack of flippin’ spellcheck!

@Y: Maybe you should just, I dunno, consider ignoring crazy/terminally daft people? I have and its helped a great deal in ensuring my faith in humanity.

Pierce
Pierce
9 years ago

George is right.

Society is so FUCKED UP. America sucks so badly. Damn it is a mess.

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Feminization of Youth
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I dealt with suspensions and punishments all through grade school because I acted up. I am a male. Males do not sit down and sit still for 6-8 hours EVERY DAY. We are different from women.

Then High school, more PC bullshit. Letting the girls win tug of war, suspending guys for weed while slapping women on the wrist for the same offense. “Girls are Better than Boys,” “Real men are white knights.” “Get married and deal with it” “Be nice” “Jump, I said Jump.”

You are taught to be a follower rather than a damn leader. Everywhere you look. Buy this. Work here. Take this loan. Get a mortgage. OVER AND OVER AGAIN! WTF! What about having children? What about happiness? What about a real life!!!!

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Sports, NFL, NBA. Where all the hot chicks?
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From Age 16 to 20, I lived vicariously through sports. When not playing sports, I would smoke weed and play video games with my friends.

At my athletic prime, I still could not understand how crazy American girls were, why they cuss so much, get fat, yell and scream, and generally wreak havoc on everyone.

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America is a sex prison
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America is a sex prison country, and you ONLY KNOW THIS if you venture outside of it. The average man cannot even get a blowjob after a hard days work.

The hot girls are taken. The bar is full of men. Even the hookers online are “Busy.” This is joke and makes you believe women are scarce.

In nature, women are ABUNDANT. That’s right, ABUNDANT! Get on a place for goodness sake.

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USA is a FEMALE PLAYGROUND
*******

If you try to get a young girl, it’s jailbait.

If you try a regular girl, you jump through hoops.

If you want a married girl, you risk being shot or stabbed.

WHY DO YOU THINK SO MANY GUYS FIND ROOSH’S SITE VIA “BEST BARS” ARTICLES?

We are conditioned to get drunk, kill our braincells, and load up on estrogen JUST TO GET PUSSY! That is so stupid…….

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America is Toxic to the Capital T
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Who lead the mass product of animal meats? USA

Who is know for its racially segregated society? USA

Who is known for its poor excuse for women? USA

Who has men that go without sex for months, years, and even decades (RIP George Sordini)? USA

Who locks up men for wanting a family or refusing to become a child support paying slave for 18 years? USA

Who puts their meats with ammonia, chemicals, dyes and all this other crap? USA

*******
Man, Roosh is going easy on this one
*******

MAN ROOSH ONLY TOUCHED ON 1% of the problems here.

If you have been anywhere else but North America, you realize how fucking upside down this place is.

– pathetic health care
– unemployment problems
– shitty nasty food
– killing animals left and right
– destroying rainforest
– obesity
– racial tension
– police attacking CILIVIANS
– feminist shaming
– cancer and heart disease
– government bailouts
– illegal immigration
– masculine women
– mangina men
– anti-social society
– focus on money over people
– surface more than substance
– most segragated country in the world
– bankrupt US dollar since 70’s
– white vs black
– young vs old
– light vs dark
– nappy vs straight
– beta vs alpha
– rich vs poor
– prison for petty crimes
– cuckolding
– 33% false paternity tests
– higher taxes, lower income
– BS, BS, BS

I’m fucking sick and tired of all this PC bullshit.

AMERICA IS THE FATTEST, MOST DISGUSTING, BANKRUPT COUNTRY ON EARTH!

Men need game, money, trinkets, cars, clothes, dyed hair, WTF does this have to do with humanity?

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WE DID THIS TO OURSELVES!!!
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We are all sick clogs in this stupid machine.

My friends in UK and South America make fun of AMERICANS (both men and women) ALL THE TIME!

Please travel for months (not some BS tourist vacation) until you talk.

…………..

I’m 25 now and know a lot more than 99.9% of Americans. I’ve had near death experiences. Been almost robbed, killed, beaten, mugged, shot, everything. You cannot tell me SHIT!

It’s a blessing that I made it back alive. Then I have to hear this dumb crap about “It’s you.” Get the fuck outta here. People like Robert are the reason why “Occupy Wall Street” exists.

You are so FUCKING BLIND to the rest of the world. They might have less money, but America has NO SOUL. It’s bankrupt in everything EXCEPT GREED!

FUCK GREED! Life is too short. I watch this stuff from afar, and cry because I wasted 24 years of my life in this hellhole.

I’m a man of COLOR. I need to be around warm weather, friendly people, hot women, fresh food. I.E NATURE!

I’m stuck in this stupid anglo-saxon, cold hearted evil place, and it will wear on any HUMAN.

…………

God Bless Roosh for waking up. Life is about ups and downs. He will find his way, but it’s better to try and fail than STAY CHAINED LIKE A SLAVE IN THE USA AND NEVER TRY AT ALL.

I am done. I don’t care what anybody else says. You probably need an ounce of humanity to get this. Otherwise, you are just a kind of man with no heart, soul or compassion because your “heart” died a long time ago!

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
4 years ago
Reply to  Pierce

The evil drugging of young boys left behind by the increase of schooling catered to young girls, is the reason people with ADHD( often to the point of disabilty like myself) – cannot get medication to help them, at least partially, survive in normal society. This also contributed to a large proportion of young men, being incarcerated.
Any person with ADHD’s fight, should encorporate these aspects of men’s rights. Since I am female, any truly maternal woman, let alone with ADHD, should feel strongly for the plight of young boys, especially. Drugging them, teaching them they are possible rapists- is not the way to raise well adjusted, sane young men.

Harry Mulligan
Harry Mulligan
9 years ago

I like your blog, but i think that half of your readership is probably insane.

Odile Lee
Odile Lee
5 years ago
Reply to  Harry Mulligan

There is a difference between being insane- and being driven to it.
No, this gentleman and his followers are very sensible.

outlaw josey wales
outlaw josey wales
9 years ago

So say we all.

Bronan the Barbarian!
9 years ago

It’s the sad but simple truth – being a nice guy gets you nothing.

Peter
9 years ago

Roosh is the man! Feminism is irritating, but without it, getting 100+ lays in 5 years would be harder!