Your Game Situation Is Not Special

I receive many messages from men asking me if they can still use game in spite of their very serious flaws or very impossible logistical situations, when in fact they are an exceedingly typical case that game was developed for.

Roosh, I have autism, will game still work for me? Roosh, I’m 55 years old. Roosh, I live with my parents. Roosh, I live in small town. Roosh, I’m only 5’5″… I have an abnormally large nose… I have a big pimple on my back… I have a high-pitched voice… I have a crooked benis.

I’ve read dozens of excuses from men around the world, and they all boil down to the following: “I’m an imperfect human being like anyone else. Will game still work?”

Game is a tool that will raise your existing station if you implement a program that improves your value and increases your access to women. While some men get more mileage than others, game brings you closer to whatever sexual or relationship goals you have. This outcome of improvement is as dependent on the mental and physical effort you put into it as your existing value. Men who ask if game can work are falling short in understanding game as a tool, and usually have not even attempted more than a handful of approaches. There is no way you confirm that game will help you until you dive in.

No man asks if going to the gym will work, because there is a direct relationship between gym effort and an increase in muscle size. You can even feel the soreness a day after you work out—proof that it’s working. Game is different in that the favorable result you seek comes randomly and often after a long delay of implementation. I first started using game as a socially awkward 21-year-old with zero dating experience. It took me about ten months to get my first bang. I had many intermediary successes during those ten months, but if I gave up beforehand, I would have concluded that game doesn’t work and thrown away one of the most useful tools available to a man today.

It’s also important to understand that game was originally developed by nerdy men who had trouble meeting women through the more traditional means of social circle, often due to their personality and social flaws that often stemmed from a lack of confidence. In other words, game teachings already assume you have flaws and compensates for them by increasing your value in other ways.

In the end, there’s no man who is not helped or enlightened by game, even if that game means getting on an airplane to Thailand and renting a nice apartment in the center of a city. The doors it has opened for me, in terms of pursuing fitness, receiving physical pleasure, experiencing modern simulations of love, and understanding the truth of hedonism, women, and society has made it the most important discovery of my life, and now in today’s extremely difficult dating environment, it has become more of a necessity than a mere curious hobby.

I released my final game book, Game, in September 2018. It helps men implement game in the most healthy way possible. Click here to learn more.

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All the points above are good but one still should remember the old saying “you can’t buy champagne on a beer budget”. Get a champagne budget, live like a champagne drinker, and getting champagne will be so much easier.

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It is much easier to drink from the high-end champagne vat if a man is blessed with a crooked “benis” – truth.

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Game/courtship/in fashion term for the generation, is initially a superficial process that allows you access to sluts, which eventually becomes real and assists you to weed those cumpsters out.

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Money is the ultimate game, especially with girls from Russia and the ex USSR bloc. Recently took a trip to India and the western state of Goa, where Russians descend in droves each year between the months of November and April (try your luck there between these months even if you wanna see for yourself and find the “easiest” and abundant Russian poosy paradise, and you’ll believe me.)

And I saw nubile, young and beautiful Russkayas in their late teens and early 20s hooking up with the ugliest and smelliest local dudes there, because they were simply offering to buy them food and drink during their 20 day vacation. I noticed while banging foreign guys, Russian girls often gravitate to local men first when they travel abroad, followed by tourist men of other countries.

But luckily since most locals there are smelly, they’re willing to experiment with other nationalities. Most of these girls were from middle to lower middle class (many spoke conversational English), though there were some upper middle class too. If you’d probably meet them in Russia, they’d probably come across as reserved and traditional. Mostly from suburban areas, others from cities, some from villages (their lack of English). But that didn’t affect their insane level of vacation slootery there.

And these girls are slim yet curvy 7s and 8s and above (yoga/Pilates/booty queens) but the beauty is only plastic after you get the bang. The local dudes often treat them like disposable cum dumpsters and their level of spinning Russian plates is INSANE. Even the local fishermen and cabbies there got some! Anal was their most preferred mode of intercourse, probably because they didn’t want to get pregnant and wanted to fulfill their own interracial porn fantasies. And have acquired synonymity and notoriety for it, so much that the local dudes and even cabbies there casually mention it when talking about Russian female tourists, to other tourists. You won’t have cabbies talking about that back home.

The girls travel there for foreign and interracial cock fever, apart from cheap food and sun during their cheap 20 day vacation, that’s even what my Russian friends told me. It’s their equivalent of the western woman’s Carribean, they go the rum, sun, sea food and foreign pipe. Had to see it myself though.

Their mudsharking (with the smelly locals) just destroyed my illusions about the so called “traditionalism” of these women from the supposed “last great white country” (lol) in the world, what some ignorant dudes in the manosphere gloat about. I had also seen this in the Middle East about them. Atleast the sloots we have back home display more choosiness and screening skills.

In fact, Russian women are often the biggest mudsharks and interracial cumdumpsters while abroad, but reservedly put on their mask of traditionalism for western white men. Won’t ever fall for that ruse ever, as I saw there. As you said, water takes the shape of the container you put it in.

I realised that actually, the Russian water itself was polluted even it tried to appear as traditional, conservative and feminine. They try to show it to Western men so that they are thought of as some queens, but they act like two cent broads with other men. I am not hating on these men, good for them, but the fact is AWALT, and none deserve a “pedestal” for the mask they put on. You just gotta look deeper. Meh. In contrast, I saw western girls there being more picky.

Money (provider game) is king there, and you don’t even have to outright pay for sex. You don’t also need special game there or act like a clown. Just learn basic Russian, grow a shaggy beard, rent a bike, explore with her, buy her food and drink during her mini holiday, make friends with the locals. Some even smoked weed, though I didn’t. It’s so easy yet disconcerting, because you realize this very girl may not even look at your way if she was back in her country or somewhere abroad in her conservative princess mode, cootchie cooing with her Russian man, after her cheap bum love holiday there abroad. Go there and experience it yourself.

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dont go where women vactaion as they are sausage fest. go where the men have fun

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I strongly disagree

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In the US at least a lot of men have money but with Western women being just mild-baller isn’t near enough to compensate for the bad game that usually comes along with it. A lot of men tipdrill a lot of money into women’s purses. A lot of men pay for sex and delude themselves as to what they’re doing. Paying for it isn’t game.

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“They try to show it to so that they are thought of as some queens, but they act like two cent broads with .” yeah, well, the sun also rises. AWALT

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That’s a great story that you created. False, of course, but nonetheless a great story.

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I don’t exactly agree, however, I will acknowledge that having financial resources is wrongly pooh-poohed in the PUA community.
Having been poor, affluent, poor again, and affluent again in my life has illustrated to me that $$$ can even be a genuine panty-dampener for some subset of women.

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Farmlegend – Given your situation of being affluent, then poor, then affluent again I find interesting. Does it put life in perspective, and what comes to mind is a line from that Kipling poem “If” – and the line goes something like: “If you can meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same”.

Many are hell bent on being rich rich rich but if they lost everything they would not hesitate putting a pistol to their mouths and terminating their lives. Yet there are others that take both good fortune and bad fortune as it comes and are not affected by either.

Is there any wisdom takeaway that you got from the various changes in your financial statuses?

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pussy carousel?

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“…going to the gym will work, because there is a direct relationship between gym effort and an increase in muscle size. You can even feel the soreness a day after you work out—proof that it’s working.”

Not entirely true. To build muscle you need to get training, diet and recovery right. It’s not complicated but you need to have certain factors working in unison. If they don’t, you can work your ass off in the gym and still make barely any or no progress at all. Soreness itself is not an indicator of muscle growth.

Likewise with game, a fat nerd with no style who is a basement dwelling video game addict can speak to tons of girls online and offline but they will unlikely to be attracted (except maybe girls who are just as unattractive as him). Once he works on dropping bad habits and getting in shape and style, things will gradually change.

Game Success = Looks + lifestyle + social skills + social status +playing the numbers game (aka collecting rejections)

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I disagree. Game is about creating attraction in females. Females cannot and do not control who or what they are attracted to. A fat nerd with no style can fuck any woman he wants so long as his game is sufficient to overcome him being physically unattractive. There are endless examples of near 10 women fucking near gargoyle looking men. The truth is, women don’t fall for men’s looks. If that was the case, being a good looking male would be enough to get into poosy paradise. As a good looking male, I can tell you this isn’t the case. Why do you think I’m here? I had women approaching me, but I couldn’t close the deal because I had zero game, didn’t know what to say/do, etc. a beautiful woman doesn’t have to do shit to close the deal.

A fat woman with no style is without recourse except to lose weight.

The only thing that really Trump’s game to SOME women is fame because it ties into attention and many women just want attention.

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As an ugly male I can tell you my experiences are the exact opposite of what you write in your comments. From what I see, hot girls want handsome “Chads” and only handsome Chads. Where are you seeing these hot girls with ugly guys?

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As to unattractive nerds, or gargoyle men getting together with attractive women – sure, I read about it on the internet. In real life? I never, ever see it.

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The quagmire of overthinking is a game-killer that needs to be addressed early on. stop THINKING so much! Stop worrying so much if your eDate thot is going to think your nose is weird or thinks it’s creepy you still live with your parents at 30 or if she’s going to have to be your girlfriend even tho she’s not that hot and start thinking where and how you’re going to get her somewhere you can bang that very night in case she doesn’t give a shit about any of that stuff (she often doesn’t, and there’s almost always a way even if you’re homeless.)

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Vag smells like cheese The expensive stanky kind.. Cheese and wet garbage makes the cooter-funk smell like soul death. Proximity to the feminine aye-noose even more deadly. Men, watch out for the cootchie death trap; pussy stench makes a man cry every day in this world bar none.

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Dear Roosh,

THANK YOU!

This article was what I needed to hear at this point of time in my life!

The reason why such people are struggling, is because they are still operating in the Feminist frame, doubting if they themselves will ever satisfy Female Hypergamy.

Thing is, Female Hypergamy can not be satisfied, ever. Game is about discarding the restrictions Feminism put on Male sexual strategies, unlocking your self-oppressed Masculinity, increasing your SMV to your upmost capacity, and following your own reproductive agenda without giving a shit about Hypergamy.

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Is that you, old pal?

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You mean just like you, not special?

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I think the average manosphere reader has a higher IQ than the average successful night-gamer. I just got back from 5 days at mardi gras. The dudes pulling the most bitches spoke at a kindergarten grade level, and would probably fail a marshmallow test at age 10, but they did well because they approached and grinded on anyone and everyone. They weren’t thinking about the consequences (as they probably don’t in any other aspect of their life.) So game at night is really just being a stupider version of yourself and not giving a fuck what anyone says or thinks. It’s a sad realization that women are not attracted to intelligent men or conversation, because when they want to get fucked or have fun, they’re using one of the oldest parts of their brain. In that case, being talkative and at the right place at the right time can carry 90% of the load.

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”I think the average manosphere reader has a higher IQ than the average successful night-gamer”

That’s nothing new. Women never much liked intellectuals, they liked the most animalistic men. The latters never had a high IQ, quite the contrary. Weird, isn’t it? Yeah. You are absolutely right, women are not attracted to intelligent men. Look at the ones who married serial killers and mobsters in prison. Which also pretty much explains why so many women get ‘abused’ in the West. It’s because they LIKE assholes. I mean, look at these women. They get abused by whom? Their BOYFRIENDS or HUSBANDS, rarely by strangers. And women in the west don’t marry because of arranged marriages, as happen in other messed countries, where the women HAVE very good reasons for complaining about abuse. But most women in the West? They don’t! Because it was THEIR choice to pair up with the assholes they are crazy about, in the first place. I mean, what does everybody else do when they realize someone is abusive or a psycho? They run the other way! But not many Western women.

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“The dudes pulling the most bitches spoke at a kindergarten grade level, and would probably fail a marshmallow test at age 10, but they did well because they approached and grinded on anyone and everyone. ”

Absolutely agree.
Hot girls love idiots.

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saw the interview with that guy Jesse, I think he was too stupid for you. He asked stupid, small and dumbass questions, and said stupid shit about parents, as if everyone grew up in a ghetto. He said nothing interesting whatsoever, instead you were the no. 1 expert on the subject

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The point is even if you started as an awkward 21-year old, you were ahead of many men, who aren’t as handsome like you. Some men maybe take an excuses and they don’t use their full potential, but some men don’t have as much potential as others. Sometimes I read/hear someone who say “you’re taking excuses”, but this person is usually attractive.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYhrwkE6Gaw

the muslims here have it right on how to be the gay agenda watch closely

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Not Nerds but omegas, omega-culture. Game is anti-masculinity.
Mating is about status, nerd or not, muscular or not, etc.

The omega has no options, no choice. Seducing represents an attempt to give himself a choice through manipulation, and the only way possible for him is through stimulation, but stimulating is a feminine characteristic, women’s bodies are adapted for that like men’s are not. Omegas often seek to grow muscles as an attempt to use them as sexual organs to seduce women. This is feminization. Game leads without a doubt to emasculation.

The seducer is an imitator of masculinity, a fraud, he seeks validation through women’s emotions as whores do through a man’s sexuality. He is concerned about his image like women are, he adapts to women’s selfish interests instead of having better women adapting to him and his life choices.
The omega normalized prostitution as it represented an easy option but it also allows omegas to normalize emasculation through indoctrination of ideas like courtship, seduction, that they conveniently refer to as “masculinity”, it normalized whores as being “victims”, it normalized the state controlling men’s sexuality and resources, it normalized theft.
In this sense, “female-choice” myth was adopted by omegas as it allows them to validate themselves through prostitution itself. And similarly, female orgasm myth was adopted by omega males as proof of “virility”, “masculinity” or even love, in the sense that the male is supposed to inhibit his own sexuality, his own orgasm, a self-castration. Sex roles inverted.

Game, “courtship”, seduction, inevitably promotes omega-culture, as it is attractive to those who are less attractive, it validates prostitution, it empowers the state, it is compatible with communism, liberalism, opportunism, it is “equality”(“your game situation is not special”)

You tried to teach omegas how to seduce prostitutes as if that were some kind of validation or success, but by doing so you supported the very system you criticize.

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Game is technology, a mental toolkit. An alpha studied in game can wantonly power blast his seed right and left and literally change the demography of a village.

As a toolkit, consider a tribe in the wilderness without the tech to use the raw materials to civilize and form infrastructure versus the same genestock tribe without tech and wiped clean of a number system, language and alphabet. The forebrain alone may not deliver civilized organization for generations and the risk of female hypergamy turning the tribe into baby eating animals with low surviving reproductivity would be an everpresent threat.

Game must be passed on as custom from father to son under a firm system of patriarchy. It is a toolset, a system of mental hacks which can be internalized and should be governed by red pill morals by men with a dominant frame. A dominant frame can be faked of course, but to internalize dominance, you might say it is tapping into personality traits that were there all along but were supressed. And as we all know there’s a lot of supression and shaming of anything masculine or dominant. Elite clubs are pretty smug about keeping the outside populace ignorant and submissive, men and women alike. Add to this the depopulation agenda. The ‘gay’ agenda which promotes non procreative lifestyles is clearly nothing more than a depop agenda.

So to be in touch with your natural instinct to survive, to proliferate and procreate, the ‘gay’ agenda is naturally resisted and discarded.

The problem is with the ‘catch and release’ aspect that some game pundits promote. Alphas who batter down walls of resistance with their women will exchange notes and that is gamespeak the same. Even simple uneducated alphas have a few words of game, though perhaps not intelligible to intellectuals, their tips and advice is a correct fit to the mind of a barely literate jungle alpha. He’s the monkey that gets the gold ring in other words.

So what can WE westerners with our protruding forebrains learn from the swinging dicks in the jungle out there with their proliferant wrecking balls hanging from their high notch count ballsacks you ask?

Well, simple. There is something we can learn from everyone if we just observe, and there’s an awful lot of resources being poured into keeping westerners ignorant of our demographic demise.

Simply put – we need patriarchy, hard core patriarchy and our sons need game passed down from father to son. We westerners need to regain dominion over our wild shebeasts who run rogue, working independently and squandering their prime reproductive years flushing the future of the west down the toilets in spent condoms or in the festering hell of the douche pail.

Yes western man needs to learn to suin/ it wild like a JUNGLE BEAST. He needs some good ol’ vitamin NIGGA! That would do the trick alright. It’s almost like what killed the shakers was concentrated, bottled and spiked in the drinking water all across the civilized west. Damn gimmee some vitamin NIGGA!!

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“Game must be passed on as custom from father to son under a firm system of patriarchy.”

All things of value and importance should be passed from father to son.
– Work ethic
– Fitness regimen
– Self defense skills
– Investment strategies
– Ability to manage property
– How to attract/attain females (if you want to call, that “game”, so be it)

Guys who have fathers like the above are extremely lucky.
This type of parenting can eliminate just about any type of inadequacy.

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Hello Slim! Alienation from your father versus being raised with mentorship from your father is like the difference between night and day. The difference is as stark as comparing R breeding to K breeding. Any child regardless of his number of siblings who is sufficiently mentored by his blood father is K bred without a doubt. You might even say that paternal patriarchal mentorship defines K breeding.

In larger society many parents who selectively mated can still fall into the trap of handing their kids over to the state to educate and infuse corrupted morality. Kids thrown into the propaganda mind meat grinder system become effectively R bred and dissociate from their blood parents. They’ve been wiped and mature to become nothing more than resources to exploit or at worst they get shelved like actual MEAT!!

So even well to do kids who get thrown away by their parents into institutionalized rearing will become as rootless and disjointed as any other nondescript organism in a petri dish. And you are an R bred glob in a toxic petri dish society without patriarchal mentorship. It is possible to overcome parental abandonment to the toxic brainwashing program, media and boob tube included, but it’s a hundred times more complex without the guiding hand of a wise patriarchal father who competently harnesses and controls his shebeast motherwoman.

It behooves me how so many Westerners can’t see this as they pursue their skilled careers while blindly throwing their kids away to outside authority and nurturing. In fact I once knew a family where both parents were professionals and all their kids grew up with no life skills to take care of themselves. The parents both made bank but the mother never taught the girls to sew or cook even a simple egg and the sons couldn’t budget and burned through everything they had. Half of them ended up in psych or dope treatment and the girls, pretty they were all ended up as genetic dead ends. I look at their parents now, the dad especially like “BONK – What the hell were you thinking . . . not mentoring your sons and letting toxic culture waste your daughters?” I believe the mother working outside the home was the real core root of their demise.

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Hello MCGoo!
Hope things are going great for you!

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“The difference is as stark as comparing R breeding to K breeding.”

That is pseudo-science.

“In larger society many parents who selectively mated can still fall into the trap…”

There is no trap here.

“Kids thrown into the propaganda mind meat grinder system”

Commonly referred to as the Alt Right and manosphere.

“but it’s a hundred times more complex without the guiding hand of a wise patriarchal father who competently harnesses and controls his shebeast motherwoman.”

You are projecting here.

“It behooves me how so many Westerners can’t see this as they pursue their skilled careers…”

Actually, Americans and Europeans see quite clearly.

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“An alpha studied in game can wantonly power blast his seed right and left and literally change the demography of a village.”

Do you think you live in the world of Marvel superheroes?

“female hypergamy”

Fake News.

“Game must be passed on as custom from father to son under a firm system of patriarchy.”

Patriarchy ain’t coming back.

“Well, simple. There is something we can learn from everyone if we just observe, and there’s an awful lot of resources being poured into keeping westerners ignorant of our demographic demise.”

First, Americans and Europeans for the most part do not call themselves “westerners”. Second, IF “westerners” are ignorant, then you are saying they have been easily fooled or misled despite their alleged high IQ. Third, there isn’t this “demographic demise”.

“Simply put – we need patriarchy, hard core patriarchy and our sons need game passed down from father to son.”

You live in a fantasy world.

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Having “game” seems a very appealing thing for men who intend on pursuing many relationships particularly one-night stands.

How does that fit into your political views ? Did being an anti-feminist (provided your accept this label) make you better at being a womanizer ?

You clearly lean on the conservative side of the political spectrum which means you’re kinda pro-family. Do you intend to become a father one day ?

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Last weekend I watched a tiny, ugly old Asian guy who might have weighed 90 pounds take 3 women from their dates at the bar outside for alone time.  They were letting him feel them up and rub himself all over them and they were obviously enjoying it.  If a minature Mr. Miyagi can get pussy left and right then, I have no excuse for not getting laid.

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Cool fake story, bro.

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What’s up with men nowadays wanting to discourage other men to run game?
I though it would woman that would hold me back to learn it but no, men is my enemy.
What the hell is going on?

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It’s sad that still, I have friends who don’t want to use the game or they are not sure if it’s working. Most of these men I found they are going through massive cold streaks and bet on beta bux scheme.

Money can “buy” a woman but not an average salary from my experience, throwing a massive amount of money can work for an only few bangs( I did that to bang a model looking western white girl, I’m white too ). so you can do that just for fun or being stupid and obsessed with a particular girl, which I did too due to the lust.

The problem with our society nowadays is that game is a must-have tool in a man’s toolbox because is the reality of our time, it’s funny that I even disagree with that idea. I think is healthier a man should be his natural self and not the “self” that women want, actually demand to be for.

Every man nowadays should and must have some type of game due to the excessive amount of greedy women by taking advantage of the idea of “Declaration of the Rights of Man and of the Citizen” by accepting that logic should dominate war between men and giving the women suffrage.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declaration_of_the_Rights_of_Man_and_of_the_Citizen

Have a nice day and I wish you to find a type of game that works with your personality.